I came to MGTOW rather late in life. When I was young there was no Internet, but there were a few books on body language and things like that for PUA.
I got married for the first time: 2 days before I turned 40. Right after I got married I became aware of the Marriage Strike…but I thought: NWALT.
I also was dead sure that I did the right thing: I married an Asian Woman instead of an American or European Woman; and I did this based off of my Father’s and Cousin’s experiences.
What I did learn in hindsight: was that Asian Women (born and raised in Asia) were no different than American or European Women.
I experienced the inevitable divorce and I got off very lightly by timing and applying some leverage on my soon to be Ex, and allowing her to save face by allowing her to be the petitioner, although it was me who told her I wanted a divorce, and by constantly keeping her calm and reminding her that if it went to Court: that $200 dollar coffee table would become a $2000 dollar coffee table due to lawyer fees; and the more we paid in attorney fees the less money she would have…so we kept everything out of court and went our ways, and I managed to get out of Alimony although I took a big hit by keeping the house and going underwater for a while.
After my divorce I started to date a lot more than I ever had…and I slowly read Red Pill (MGTOW) articles…and then started to test that knowledge with the women I went out with as well as remembering my past experiences.
And what I discovered was that the Red Pill knowledge (all of it) that I insisted on testing and observing: turned out to be 100% true. It took me a very long time to get where I am today. But I managed; and I managed not to get married again (although I had some close calls) and I did have a live in girlfriend AFTER my divorce (and the red pill knowledge proved to be true with her)…
The very harsh message is this:
A woman will never give a f~~~ about you as a person. She won’t give a f~~~ing damn about your feelings; about what she is about to do is wrong or unethical. For a woman it is always the bottom line:
how she can profit from you in some manner; and if you are sick or get laid off the clock will start ticking and she will try to ditch your ass pretty damn fast in order to maximize her gain at your expense.
If you are a Chad/Alpha male she will have all kinds of wild sex with you when she can still conceive; once she conceives she will ditch your broke ass and chase a Beta Wallet and try to con him into raising another man’s child. And if she manages to do this: she will end up scaling back the sex for the Beta Wallet and increase her disrespect towards him and then start to cheat on him with a Chad.
When she hits 40 if she hasn’t ejected: she will; and she will then spend the money she got from the divorce on plastic surgery, clothing, a new car, a dietitian and gym coach…and she will chase after the younger guys and try to entrap them into a long term relationship leading to marriage but after having been pumped and dumped for a while she will wise up and chase after men her own age group who have more money but essentially find no takers.
As for Game and being a PUA if you are a Beta male you can only pull off the Alpha act for only so long before you screw up and she finds out…and she will, and then the game is over.
And if you are a Chad: you will eventually be dumped for a guy who can provide (a beta wallet) because she either has to support the kids or she has to be able to have a chance at retiring and not fighting the cat over cat food: because on Social Security that is what she will be eating in old age.
Red Pill is a very harsh and very ugly truth and facing it can and will make you very depressed and even suicidal at times; but if you can get through it and just accept it; for what it is; you will eventually be in a much better place.
You will die alone. Even guys who have been married for decades most of them find themselves abandoned in hospitals or nursing homes by their wives when they have a terminal illness.
In a woman’s eyes you are disposable. You are a meal ticket: a means to an end; you are a slave to be used and discarded; and nothing more.
Accept it and move on.
When a woman starts chatting you up and asks you what you do for a living or where you live (she doesn’t give a f~~~ about what you do for a living; the only thing she gives a f~~~ about is getting an idea of how much money you are making and what kinds of assets you have). And that little unicorn you are planning on marrying because she is so f~~~ing special: odds are: she is already planning out the divorce before you even say “I Do”
Hypergammy and Briffault’s law are real and the law does not account for female behavior but instead awards the lower earning spouse; and that invariably means the woman; at you expense.
Never marry, never co-habitate.
And get a vasectomy.
SH3LLZ 1 year, 2 months ago.
