It’s more like an internal conflict of the red pill knowledge within me. I just don’t fully trust women even this one who genuinely seems nice and is in great physical shape. She’s very intelligent with no kids due to infertility and has her s~~~ together. I know women can flip on a dime and have unknown orbiters so I’m leery.

My inclination is just to take it as it goes each day and not care either way. I’m just in virgin territory now and have no reference to guide me.

I found most women were cool with it and even relaxed as it seems when a man pays for everything many of them feel obliged or that they will be pressured for sex at the end of it. From my own side I didn’t feel resentful that here I was footing the bill and getting nothing.

I think as long as you stay aware you shouldn’t have a problem.

She and I met a month ago and had a rapport so obvious that others in our group were commenting to me on

I dont think you should deny yourself the pleasure of someones company whom you enjoy. I recognize that society in general, and women in general are skewed against men, but if you enjoy her company then I would do just that: enjoy it until she gives you a reason not to.

Sex is also something we all enjoy and if you enjoy it more with a non pro, then theres nothing wrong with opening up that door. Im not some eunuch MGTOW who will never have any interactions with women. Quite the contrary I simply believe I have a cheat sheet on how to deal with women. Im at a place right now where Im not actively looking to meet women, but this is for personal reasons because Im dealing with other things; but if one came along that I enjoyed having a drink with and possibly being physical with, Id be open to it.

My point of view is this: men enjoy women, we just dont like what they have become in todays society. I love their bodies, I just detest if they have had a hundred c~~~s in their orifaces in todays slut era. I enjoy their childish charm, I just detest if they use it for manipulative, deceitfully-selfish gain.

I would enjoy it for what you can and know that your going into it with wide eyes open. The only part that would bother me is if she is tight with my inner circle of friends. Wouldnt want a he said she said drama down the road.

My 2 cents.

I will never have a relationship with a woman unless she can be a good mother to my and our future children. Never could understand relationships for companionship without kids. Kids is the only thing that makes a relationship worth the hassle
If you never had kids – you would never know

Logic level 100. Good job man, and well put. I wish I had your brain (not in a weird way).

I wish you the best. I would advise not let your guard down though. Enjoy this relationship as much as you can, but always leave a room to bail just in case things don’t go as plan. And for the love of God don’t sign any contracts!

Good luck man, and congrats! 😀

My last GF seemed like a great girl, not wanting me to pay for her, has her own job and was fun talking to accepting all my sometimes extreme opinions. But hey! Nothing is as good as it seems. Slowly she started to complain about my way of life and telling me how i should handle my kids and my ex.

Eventually her true side got out in the open, she really liked the c~~~ carousel, she didnt stop riding it even though she was getting seroius with me.
Dont trust this woman you are dating, odds are she is trying to only show you her best sides.