Red pill analysis: my cousin (NO NAME CALLING!)

[Viva Pinochet!Participant 29]

As I stated in my intro (link bellow), my journey towards MGTOW has very little to do with personal experience and a lot to do with observation of the world around me. The more I see certain…things…the more I realize marriage is a terrible deal for men.

Anyway, I’d like to share with you guys some bits about my (female) cousin’s history. She is a lot older than me, to the point that her SON is roughly my age. I like her a lot, so PLEASE no name calling, just share your insights on the story.

When I was a kid my parents were pretty poor compared to her and her husband. I remember feeling a little jealous about my 2nd cousin’s videogames and whatnot. They had an upper middle class lifestyle, nice apartment, 2 nice cars etc.

Fast forward a couple of years and she divorced her husband (who is also the father of her only child). Reason? F~~~ all. “I’m not haaapppyyyy”. And she was taking amphetamines to lose weight for whatever reason. P. sure she was going full C~~~ on her husband.

Her husband basically just rolled over and got divorce raped via “agreement”. She got the apartment and one of the cars while he got a car and had to move back to Rio to live with his PARENTS. At the age of 40 something.

Fast forward a couple more years and guess f~~~ing what? She got fired from her job at the hospital (she is a nurse) because she sued the place (unpaid overtime or smt). My father (her uncle) strongly advised her NOT to file a lawsuit if she still needed the job, but HEY, she is a stronk single mother, what could possibly go wrong!?

Jobless and with a kid, she had an amazing idea: taking a job opportunity in a “community” Hospital in f~~~ing Rio. Because what’s the next LOGICAL step after you divorce rape a guy and things don’t work out the way you expected? Well, you try to get back with him, of course.

Unbeknownst to her, her ex-husband had gotten back on his feet, had a new family, a new home and couldn’t care less about her. She got stuck living in poverty (well, not REAL poverty, but WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY worse than what she was used to) and being a post wall single mother working a s~~~ty job at some slum hospital.

So…yeah. People in my family always like to show sympathy for her because “omg, she is living in a s~~~ty house with a s~~~ty car and a kid, poor girl how life’s unfair!” but I just can’t join the sympathy wagon. I really feel like she made her own bed.

Oh, and there is a cherry on top: she keeps regular contact with her former father-in-law. She even got a MONEY off the old man because “he just wants to help his grandchild!”. Yeah…right.

It’s just like that: she NEVER gave up on orbiting her ex-husband. In her mind she probably still thinks that man is “rightfully” hers or something. I’m not sure how he puts up with this crap, since I have little to no contact with him. But I do feel sorry for the guy.

Well…that’s most of the story. My cousin is a perfect example of why giving “rights” to women is like entrusting a chimpanzee with a machinegun. If instead of a divorce a judge would’ve looked at her and said “bitch, STFU. Drop these meds and go back to your husband before I smack ya” she would be much, MUCH happier today.

Yeah…

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[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

As Old Bill likes to say, “You can’t unscramble the eggs.” She can only blame herself.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 6]

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

It doesn’t surprise me that she hit up the grandparents for money. The c~~~s know what they are doing and they won’t hesitate to use their children as weapons or tools against anyone. Most of the time they won’t have to but the fact that they can often allows them to manipulate the family members of the husband. I had a friend who was married and he had a son and his wife was such a bitch that he’d often go to his parents house to visit (hide) when he needed some downtime. It didn’t take long for her to catch on and she’d show up there unannounced and act like the biggest c~~~ towards him and his parents. She literally acted like she owned their house and that they were her servants. I was good friends with his parents as well and I asked why they kept putting up with her s~~~ and they said that they were afraid that she’d take the grandson away and keep them from seeing their grandson. They all would walk on egg shells when she was around and would practically leap frog over each other to kiss her ass.
When the grandson went into the military, the c~~~ divorced my friend. He had worn out his usefulness.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

Love it. A story with a happy ending. I know a chick in South America in a similar situation, but def not the same chick. She wasn’t a nurse.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

That “KARMA” Thing has a way of Bitch Slappin pretty F~~~in hard !!

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