Raised By Asian American Parents

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I don’t know what it’s like to have Asian American parents, but I notice that 99% of their kids don’t have serious social problems like: teenage pregnancy, dropping out of high school, joining gangs, drug addiction, violent crimes, etc. Yes, there are news stories of Asian Americans who go to prison. But how many?

I’ve heard arguments that the Scholastic Aptitude Test is culturally biased, but the children of Asian immigrants (who often speak with horrible English grammar) are getting high scores. So…what’s up with that? Their kids get accepted into the top universities while millions of home-grown American kids (white, black, Hispanic) can barely read a Dick and Jane book. I don’t see Asian Americans complaining that the government and a racist society is holding them back from social progress and economic success.

Also: I have never, in all my years of life, seen a pregnant teenage Asian American girl. If you can spot one, please tell me. Asian girls may have sex during high school, but they somehow avoid getting pregnant before getting their high school diplomas. You’ll never see them on an episode of “16 and Pregnant.” I have a feeling that their parents would literally kill them if they did.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 43]

They believe in honor, integrity and self worth based on hard work, delayed gratification and humility.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

IQ and strong cultural roots. The future belongs to Asia. Even in my field Asians are taking over.

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[Anonymous 3]

Excellent post. Point well taken
Comments also.
Thank you

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

Anonymous wrote:

They believe in honor, integrity and self worth based on hard work, delayed gratification and humility

Which is usually taught by a two parent household with a strong father leading it.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Delayed gratification is an important concept for success. Example is the classic “marshmellow” experiment where a kid is offered a choice of one marshmellow now, or getting two marshmellows later if he doesn’t take the one.

I suspect that the highest rates of turning down one immediate marshmellow would be Asians, Jews, whites, Hispanic, and blacks, in that order.

I suspect if you tried that experiment now, they’d take the one marshmellow, then bitch about how they deserve a second one. Then probably try to stab you with something to get the other marshmellows.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

FunInTheSun wrote:

So…what’s up with that? Their kids get accepted into the top universities while millions of home-grown American kids (white, black, Hispanic) can barely read a Dick and Jane book. I don’t see Asian Americans complaining that the government and a racist society is holding them back from social progress and economic success.

It’s simply about taking personal responsibility for your own actions and outcome. It’s not about White Privilege, Black lives matter, television, internet, social media or any other social construct. At the end of the day, it’s about taking care of your own s~~~. So many people blame their surrounding environment and refuse to turn the mirror on themselves.
It would seem that people fail to understand that it is more likely for something negative to occur within a given course of action, as opposed to the chance of something good happening because of applied effort. To put it another way, people bitch about not having things go their way when they’ve made no attempt to rise above their current situation.

A good example of this would be hedging a bet against another Carnival Cruise line ship running aground, or another BP oil spill. When these things first happened, the ignorant cried and stamped their feet and demanded ‘reform’. The wise however waited for the stock to plummet, cast their bid, then waited for people to forget. The stock went back up and the wise made a profit.
Or another example is ‘back on the block’. Troubled youth have enough money to go buy a glock-40, and then go rob some poor bastard of their sneakers that cost less than the damned weapon. What kind of logical sense does that make?
At times I really want to educate people on their choices, but then, in part, I’d only be creating more competition for myself. Either that, or they simply don’t care to f~~~ing hear it. Unlike the wise few here.. so I just keep it pushing so to speak…

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[The DealParticipant 236]

One of my best friends is Asian American. His parents are divorced. Most of his siblings are unhappy. The women in his family are nuts. They all made good grades, got accepted to top universities, and have above average careers.

[The DealParticipant 236]

Forgot the most important part about my Asian American friend. His wife is the closest to a nawalt I’ve ever met. Last time we got together he said: sometimes I think her purpose in this world is to annoy me to death.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

The Deal wrote:

One of my best friends is Asian American. His parents are divorced.

There’s a good AWALT/NAWALT lesson there.

A woman who seems to be the very model of a NAWALT can come over from Asia, get affected by the American culture and change into just another AWALT.

It is how like Prions change normal proteins into more Prions, to cause Mad Cow disease and Kuru.

Speaking of which, feminism in America has resulted in a plethora of mad cows running loose.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[survivorParticipant 610]

There’s a big emphasis on “face” among Asians. Pregnant daughters don’t bring face. They’d make her get an abortion quickly and quietly. Even if they had to go out of state or out of country. Bad grades also don’t bring face to parents. Neither does excellence in sports because the odds of doing well in sports is so low you may as well forget it. It’s much more possible to become a programmer who went Rice or MIT and make 6-figures per year

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Herbivore men in Japan…
Selft respect and honor rigth there.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Binary Logic wrote:

It’s simply about taking personal responsibility for your own actions and outcome. It’s not about White Privilege, Black lives matter, television, internet, social media or any other social construct. At the end of the day, it’s about taking care of your own s~~~. So many people blame their surrounding environment and refuse to turn the mirror on themselves.

Amen. When people avoid personal responsibility, the outcome is never good. During my life journey, I contemplate the bad decisions I’ve made and vow to make better choices.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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