To blue pill hell and back the story of Jedi 45

[No CountryParticipant 759]

First of all I would like to say hello and introduce myself to my fellow MGTOW brothers. I learned about this great community and like minded individuals just a few months ago but didn’t now that the life style I was living had a actual title. Its a great feeling to know that there are forums with support from people who have been or who have not been through the struggles of relationships with women.

I am 25 years old and up until this point have had two serious relationships. I have had many girlfriends through my young life but only 2 that at the time I would have done anything for and I gave everything for. I grew up a blue pill child drinking the koolaid of modern society. I come from a mother and father that has had their ups and downs and know the struggles of what a lasting relationship entails. To this day they are still married. But after this last girlfriend, I decided to take the red pill. That was a f~~~ing tuff pill to swallow.

When I was 20 years old I was with a girl who was at the time my best friend. She was a year younger and was enrolled in the local community college..I was not, I went to work straight out of high school. I knew that she was going places and was most likely going to be the bread winner of the relationship and I was OK with that and supported her on her endeavors, she was also very supportive of mine. I ended up getting kicked out of my house and we got an apartment together at 21 and she ended up going a 4 year college while living with me in town. We were well off with me working full time and her working part time and never struggled financially. The few flaws this girl had was that were that we didn’t see eye to eye politically and she never hung out with me with my friends and also didn’t care for my parents, hell she didn’t even like hers so I couldn’t judge.

After being together for almost about 2 years with our ups and downs just like any relationships we got into a simple disagreements and she said she wanted to end the relationship. I was in disbelief at first and by the next morning she got her things and was gone. This was about 1 month before she got her Bachelors degree. I was crushed on the inside. I had supported her financially though part of college and was the one who cleaned the apartment on my days of while she did nothing. I furnished the whole house, lucky I got to keep it all. During the moving out process she did not help at all clean or help pack. I actually moved her stuff to her parents house like what I thought a gentleman would do. Should have just put it on the sidewalk with a free sign instead. To top it all off we had a joint savings account and there was 2000 plus inside that was mine. I had to fight to get it back for about a month after it ended. Still to this day I don’t have contact with her.

Almost a year goes by of living my life and wondering where I went wrong. I dated quite a few woman and had a blast being immature and irresponsible living the life I didn’t have before because I didn’t do any of this at the prime age of 21 due to my past relationship. I ended up going a coed softball team where I met this woman. I end up falling for what I thought was a good woman. She was 31 and I was 23 at time. She had no kids and had never been married. She was also a school teacher. I thought I hit the jackpot finding this gem, but oh was I wrong. Lets just say she had daddy issues and was what women like to call independent.

Things were moving so fast and I believed I was going to marry this woman and had my heart set. We both wanted to get married and have kids. She bought a house about 5 months into our relationship and asked me if I wanted to move in and start our life together. I gladly excepted the offer and was so stoked about the idea that I forgot what happened in my previous relationship and what I went through. I never got to move in but only did a lot of labor from removing old tile through out of the house, scrapping the pop corn sealing, and painting a few walls. I busted my ass and gave it my all. Little did I know that I was just a pawn in the game of her buying her house. I ended up ending the relationship because she didn’t want me to do anymore work on aka our house due to disagreements in opinions on material and contractors that were going to be doing the work, well it sounds dumb but I was shelling out money for this so I needed a say. She quickly started cutting me off from her life and then there was no contact. About 2 months later I found out via facebook that she was on to a new relationship and the new guy was living in the house that I did so much work in. My life had been turned upside down twice in such a short time. I was done with women for good!

Now I am a little over a year being single and I honestly could be happier. I took the red pill and try not to look back at all the the bone head moves I made when I was young for women, just to get the shaft at the end. I live my life to the fullest for myself and no one else. I own my own condo and drive a modest honda civic. Its a pretty stress free life with no kids and no wife. No one to answer to. I wish I would have listened to all the old timers say don’t ever get married back then or stay single as long as you can. I have seen the destruction of what woman can do to men through divorce or child support though other men. Here is some advise for the younger MGTOWS, think with the head on you shoulders and not the one between your legs. Vagina is not worth it. Im glad I got out. I lived and I learned. Thank you for reading. Im glad to be apart of the this way of life have support and from you guys.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I am happy for you that you have found freedom and happiness.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 5]

Hi Jedi, thanks for the great read and welcome to the forums.
I’m a bit jealous that you’ve wised up so quickly. I had a few experiences like yours but still felt the social pressure to live a traditional lifestyle, despite enjoying my single life.
We didn’t have the net then, with the fly-on-the-wall insight into female mindset that social media educates us on.
These women really don’t get it that men read their thoughts everyday.

No Country wrote:

next morning she got her things and was gone. This was about 1 month before she got her Bachelors degree. I was crushed on the inside. I had supported her financially though part of college and was the one who cleaned the apartment on my days of while she did nothing

You learnt Briffault’s Law the hard way. We all do.. You got off cheaply.

No Country wrote:

Almost a year goes by of living my life and wondering where I went wrong

You didn’t know Briffault’s law, that’s where you went wrong.

No Country wrote:

a lot of labor from removing old tile through out of the house, scrapping the pop corn sealing, and painting a few walls. I busted my ass and gave it my all. Little did I know that I was just a pawn in the game of her buying her house.

The last sentence is the best, you’re independantly realizing Briffault’s law.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

It certainly is infuriating at first, but you got renovation experience and discovered the secret of women at 25 without being stuck in the marriage trap and having to pay child support.

I’d say that’s a big f~~~ing win Jedi.

The force is strong in you.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

You got off easy, Jedi45. It could have been far worse. Focus your energies on yourself. ’cause nobody else will.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[UntamedParticipant]

Welcome, Jedi45. Glad you found your way here!
Thanks for the intro. What a read! Reminds me of my blue-pill days. Consider yourself lucky neither of those relations~~~s produced a slave contract and childpay. You dodged two bullets… shoulda called you Neo.
Cheers!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome!

RedDawn wrote:

It certainly is infuriating at first, but you got renovation experience and discovered the secret of women at 25 without being stuck in the marriage trap and having to pay child support.

I’d say that’s a big f~~~ing win Jedi.

The force is strong in you.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Hey Jedi, pull up a chair while i throw another log on the campfire. Plenty of good food on the grill & good discussion to go ’round.

As others here have mentioned, you learned some great lessons at a relatively young age, and at a relatively “cheap” price (i know – it still sucks, but far better to learn it when you did, versus @55 years old + 3 kids, joint mortgage etc.). Alimony for life is a very real & very terrifying thing.

You’ve got a big head start on a great life with owning your own place, well done!

[Anonymous 18]

No Country wrote:

Lets just say she had daddy issues was crazy

Woman-speak for psychosis. Don’t believe in daddy issue lies. No evidence exists to support this; unless daddy sexually assaulted her in which case its natural for her to compare other men to her daddy.

No Country wrote:

I was shelling out money for this so I need a say. She quickly completely started cutting me off from her life and then there was no contact. About 2 months later I found out via facebook that she was on to a new relationship and the new guy was living in the house that I did so much work in

Despite the spike of 10 points in my blood pressure, I appreciate the bitter reality. Believing in MGTOW sweetness makes the red pill taste relatively bitter. But most of us need them time to time.

Thank you for sharing your story brother and welcome.

We all live in the woods and some of us have been bitten by snakes. It is smart thing to compare notes and build a chronological speciation database to prevent casualties.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You lucky lucky boy …. phew … so close …. TWICE ……

Just think about that kid ….. custody …. mind games …. attorney …

Yes indeed ….. lucky is the word.

However, here comes the fun now ?

[No CountryParticipant 759]

Wow I would like to thank you all for you support on my introduction. Your comments were all encouraging and uplifting. Everything we go through are trials and tribulations. All woman are the same. I have no intentions of going to the darkside ever again, and count my blessings everyday. I am young but I can promise you I’m here for the long haul, so help me God! I will not be another statistic. Excited to be with here brothers and here to support you as well.

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