Question for the young guys

[TaxGuyParticipant]

This question stems from a conversation I was having yesterday with a friend. The topic of college and dating came up, and I went into a little bit about how 60% of college students are now female, that if both the man and woman are drunk she has the ability to say it was rape the next day but he didn’t, etc.

Then I said, I wonder how many guys don’t want to get too involved with women now because they saw their mom and dad get divorced, and they saw the mom get to keep the house and kids and the dad being relegated to an apartment and every other week parenting? This is really the first generation of kids that grew up with no fault divorce parents where the laws were tilted so far in women’s favor. I would think would give a young man pause to consider what he was really getting himself into.

My friend thought that was an interesting theory and that it could have something to do with it. So I thought I’d throw it out to you guys. Does that have a big influence on you? Did you see it firsthand, or maybe your best friend’s parents? We all know it’s one thing to read that the stove is hot, it’s another to see your old man get his fingers burned off.

Order the good wine

[SmeeParticipant 228]

I’d need to ask my boys and their mates ?

Maybe I should do s straw poll

Smee Again

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

My mother and father never actually got divorced but i can say that avoiding college women is probably a thing i will have to do. I am not in college yet and the chicks in my school and the church i go to are already bitches but once they go to college and get their 1 in 4 statistic brainwashing they evolve from being bitches to c~~~s.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Anonymous 1]

I Personally think, and through experience that a man seeing his parents get divorced, has very little impact on his decision to avoid the same pitfalls. Being MGTOW almost always comes from personal experiences with women.

There are of course exceptions to this rule. Some on here are living proof, but I dont see it as the majority.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Well, for the first time in many decades, marriage is at an all-time (93-year) low and now 70% of American men under 35 are UN-married. And in colleges, these ridiculous “consent” and “equality” classes instead of geography classes is enough to put any man off.

TaxGuy wrote:

the first generation of kids that grew up with no fault divorce parents

“Parents”? Their “parents” are Miley Cyrus and Justina Beaver.

“Parents” cannot compete with that kind of constant cultural bombardment.
Add, too, the majority of kids are also “raised” by single mothers now.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Ronin De NiroParticipant 200]

Anonymous wrote:

I Personally think, and through experience that a man seeing his parents get divorced, has very little impact on his decision to avoid the same pitfulls. Being MGTOW almost always comes from personal experiences with women.

There are of course exceptions to this rule. Some on here are living proof, but I dont see it as the majority.

I’m 36(not young, I know), parents divorced when I was 6. Didn’t have any impact in my decisions about woman at all(although some bitches here and there try to gaslighting me into otherwise). It was simply what I saw: kid in poor are gets old enough to get his father’s car and suddenly all woman are jumping in his lap.

[Anonymous 42]

Hey TaxGuy, family destruction is nothing new, anyone under 60 has seen it all their lives. The Only difference is the carousel machinery is getting dangerous, rusty, and old.
The sexual revolution is no longer shiny bright and new, it has become an abandoned old amusement park where the riders always die, they no longer get out alive.

Some women complain saying they hate what feminism has done to men, but what have they done against the tyranny of feminism? NOTHING! They’re also enjoying the free ride, because men are disposable and women have special granted rights!

Will Hellery Clinton (the angry old hag) issue me an official government WPC? (Woman’s Privilege Card). Or will slave master government hand us the task to clean up her mess?

They call us childish because we won’t “man up” and march back to the plantation, you know, that meat farm where men are slaughtered and eaten alive.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2730]

Keymaster wrote:

And in colleges, these ridiculous “consent” and “equality” classes instead of geography classes is enough to put any man off.

Minus eight privilege points for you.

ekwality!

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Anonymous 1]

my dad left my mom when I was 1 or 2 years old, he kept in contact with me until I was 21 or 22, until I told him to f~~~ off, he never congratulate me on any birthday, never …

In short, he tried to regain contact with me these last years, but I realized that he never raised me or anything like that, and when I was 5 or 6, he took the decision to have another family, and 2 other kids, so Why should I care now??.

what i’m trying to say is, that maybe because of my experience, I never had any real interest in women in general, maybe the lack of someone (a father) pushing you to get a girlfriend (i’m 25 and i’ve never had a girlfriend) or to get married is what brought me here.

But don’t get me wrong, I said it before and I say it again:

WE don’t need to see a guy burning his hand to know that the stove is hot

You can trust me on that.

[narwhalParticipant]

I think KM is right. Media has a greater influence that witnessing your parents. I’m an older guy, but my parents had a horrible marriage, and I thought I understood why. I thought my marriage would be different. It was different…yet so very much the same. I think many in the younger generation think the same way I did.

And that’s why it’s important to me to teach my kids to think and face reality, rather then embracing the fantasy. I do think that in general, the younger generation is better prepared to go there own way then mine. Most of the people I knew when I was young were on autopilot as far as there plan for life.

Ok. Then do it.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

TaxGuy wrote:

Does that have a big influence on you? Did you see it firsthand, or maybe your best friend’s parents?

Well in every “couple” i see it’s basically the man getting f~~~ed over and over while his “beloved partner” is standing there orgasming and laughing at his suffering.

I didn’t go mgtow because some men are really good at convincing or laying out facts.
I went mgtow because i looked around and observed.

On the other question,
worry not people like me are about 0,0000000000001% of the men out there.
You’ll have plenty of blue-pill slaves to keep the machine running.

[guiParticipant 825]

Well, my parents didn’t divorce but I avoid college women for a lot of other reasons. To list a few:
– Most of them were indocrinated by feminism so they expect to be worshipped and they are entitled as hell. Also they are more likely to acuse me of rape.
– They are very promiscuous and orgies are common among students so it’s very easy to catch a disease from them.
– It’s impossible to have interesting conversations with SJWs. They are far too deep in their imaginary worlds.
– Women are greatly influenced by the pack. So when they get to colleges full of feminists they tend to accept those ideals to make friends.
All of the retarded SJW stuff that appears in USA gets imported to Brazil soon or later so I have plenty of reasons to stay from those women.

Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

My parent’s are not divorced…but for the last 10 years or so since my brother and I have moved out of the house my mom has been threatening my dad with divorce nonstop. I bet at this point he wishes he just told her f~~~ off 10 years ago when he had more time to rebuild before retirement. I’d hate to ever be in his situation where you have some wretched c~~~ going out of her way just to make you miserable and the only way to unload her is to give up half your life savings.

I’ve also witnessed plenty of divorces over the years between family, friends, and coworkers and I can’t think of a single case where if given the choice to take what the woman walked away with, or what the man walked away with, that I’ve had taken what the man walked away with. Every single woman walked away with >50% of the joint assets, most of them some limited alimony, and in cases where kids were involved the kids and child support. To make matters worse, more than a handful of these failed marriages only ever even happened because of a “whoops” baby and a man trying to do the right thing after making a mistake…unfortunately they just ended up compounding their mistakes.

Between witnessing firsthand men getting f~~~ed(and not in a good way) with in a marriage as women know they have the advantage, and men getting f~~~ed over in divorce, marriage to me has simply become the equivalent of watching 10 guys get kicked in the nuts and crumple to the ground in pain…then some sweet looking little woman says to you, “Hi, can I kick you in the nuts, it feels good!” You’d have to be a f~~~ing idiot to agree.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Thanks guys. It sounds like it wasn’t as big of a deal as I thought it might be, but I certainly appreciate all the input!

Order the good wine

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

My parents aren’t divorced, and honestly I have no idea how that’s possible.

My dad is currently jobless and my mother has been forced to work almost daily, and it’s been two months.

It’s convinced me that my mom is literally a NAWALT.

Brother, we need to stick together.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I’m 23. When I was in high school, two of my close friends’ parents divorced. The first one’s mom left the husband for an old boyfriend. The other’s mom decided her husband wasn’t good enough anymore and used her religion as an excuse to rationalize it. My parents never got divorced, so I grew up watching dad get kicked out of the house for not being good enough at least a couple of times. He would answer her with a “Yes ma’am” and she never runs out of things for him to do. My father has also been called her “other child” in front of the other wives at their church. Most of the other married men seemed depressed to me. My never married uncle seems happy. My best friend’s father who wasn’t deemed good enough seems pretty happy now that he lives alone and doesn’t have to worry about custody issue since his sons are old enough and can visit him whichever.

In other words: Yes, this has been a major influence in my decision to not pursue women.

Is your friend a blue pill guy? All the blue killers I know are too dumbstruck to comment when they see me not worship pussy. Its like they cant comprehend that a man my age would treat an attractive women like she was just another human being.

[B4TOWParticipant 209]

My opinion.

Yes a big influence. A child of the 70s. Early in the decade I lived on a street with bout 10 houses in a row along the road. All families in the houses. Moms home in everyone of them. Summer time. Always a mom home. By 1980 all of the houses were single mother houses.. All the dad’s got booted. Divorce went up 300% that decade. Both of my parents re-married and were both divorced by 1990. So i saw it 3 times with my own parents and all of the neighbor kids by the age of 25.
I think what ultimatly saved me was paying close attention to female behavior while pondering signing a life long contract with one of em.. That is a tall order. They never got past let’s move in together.
I attract the crazy one’s
Asked my dad once, “Dad, are all women crazy”? He leaned up into the steering wheel holding it at 11 and 1 as if doing a horizontal pull-up.. “No Son, not all of em………but I don’t know any.” 🙂

[coolthingy450Participant 1223]

For me I saw it with my parents first hand, and I saw how the long term effects are afterwards with people outside of the family.

Most of the married men at work know they are in a trap, and have made amends for it. Some of them still have the illusion still. Well that’s baby boomers for you.

Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.

[FaxmodemParticipant 1415]

Anonymous wrote:

I Personally think, and through experience that a man seeing his parents get divorced, has very little impact on his decision to avoid the same pitfalls. Being MGTOW almost always comes from personal experiences with women.

I don’t know on that one, I watched my parents go to near divorce for three years of my life and it really f~~~ed me up. They got back together and worked things out. But it sill haunts me to this day. That was when I was 19 and I am now 36. Sometimes I still have nightmares from it, even flash backs to it, when I hear couples yelling and fighting. I told my self I will never get married. Even I have had girlfriends in the past.

Us men didn't start the battle of the sexes, but we're clearly going to win it via the simple tactic of just leaving the battlefield in contempt."

[WhackerGuy2030Participant 999]

Long before MGTOW, this is the very thing that made me want to never repeat the errors of my uncles. I watched great men build businesses from scratch into tremendous successes. I also watched their first wives bring them to near suicide when they tried blowing it all up in divorce court.
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It’s a testament to their willingness to live that they even survived it. I also watched how other women, who are still in the family today, treated their husbands. They got landwhale fat after a couple kids, and once they had kids and got fat, they got mean. I’m talking all out marine drill sergeant mean.
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I had plenty of men go before me and show me what not to do. These same experiences convinced me that I didn’t want to repeat everyone’s debt mistakes as well. No way in hell will I hand over my fate, work, and happiness to some fat bitch itching to cash me in.

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