"Porn almost destroyed my marriage" ??? ..or did marriage destroy his porn? :))

[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

I was reading on reddit (r/noFap). I would’ve believed these quotes a year ago, because it sounds reasonable.
But now I know better.

“I’m 32 married and have almost lost my wife. Why is porn bad?…My wife is hot, but because of my porn addiction she was never enough. I neglected her and would rather fap then have sex, crazy but true. Porn is s~~~, gives you anxiety with repeated use and low self-esteem.”

Can’t sex do that too?
Sure, I guess no/Fap is right for him(being married, he’s already gone). But should we all eliminate porn & get addicted to real women?

“Wanna feel like a man, have sex with a women”

So much wrong here. What do you think?

“I could never appreciate women, Or myself, because fapping … I couldn’t see that I, and my gorgeous partners were enough.”

“Partners”? are enough???

“I’m 30 no wife 🙁 But no fap for me too.”

He’s sad he doesn’t have a wife. Maybe he could use a fap.

“porn is so bad”

It CAN be bad if you get addicted; but it can be good as an outlet or substitute. There’s a reason porn is popular. I’ve been ‘using’ porn etc my whole adult life, and never married, and am happy. On rare occasions I get depressed (right now), and maybe porn was a part of that. But not the sole cause. I am cutting back on porn. But sadness here & there is better than a life f~~~ed up by marriage and relationships. (and I know that thanks to MGTOW)

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[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22526]

I believe I smell possible tuna. The poster being a Hillary supporter, from posts on other threads, raises alarm bells. And the poster creating this thread about porn which is meant to be a veiled insult towards men raises even more alarm bells.

[Anonymous 0]

I agree, Faust
Something doesn’t sound right.
Like conflicting/confusing statements and tone.
Seems to be men-bad-fapping. Women-good-gorgeous
My ex used to masturbate and then say she was too tired.
Would you like to explain, Carbo Raider?

[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

Anonymous wrote:

conflicting/confusing statements

Really? Ya know, those quotes arent me.

How’d you get ‘man-bad’? I’m pro fapping; even pro-porn until recently.

As for the other commenters… WOW. As I have to keep saying on the net: I HAVE NEVER SAID ANYTHING SUPPORTIVE OF HILLARY. I DID said Trump was right about election fraud. You guys are over the edge with pre-judging. If I wasn’t a ‘tuna’, you’d call me a cuck and move on. If this movement is going to get respect, it needs to mature.

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[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

Although, I did think this post would stir people up … about the complex issues, not about my identity. Seems what happened (I thought it would) is 1st poster saw my post on the political forum and got suspicious. BTW, I posted this before I went to the political forum and saw the BS there. (I just think many Trump ppl make themselves look bad(like Trump. He could’ve had a clear win if he was upstanding. He shouldn’t need to lie etc)

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[HitmanParticipant]

hey carbo raider,

Carbo Raider wrote:

. If this movement is going to get respect, it needs to mature.

it’s not a “movement”
it’s a philosophy.
we have had a lot of crazy tuna posts lately..
so when you have 14 stars and post an article like that,
it looks fishy..
but i think your okay and liked your comments on those quotes that weren’t yours.
let it roll off man…

[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

Anonymous wrote:

Seems to be men-bad-fapping.
My ex used to masturbate and then say she was too tired.

From my research: Women like fapping. Seems it’s better being in the drivers-seat of your arousal.
Just today & yesterday, I was watching amateur women on a live site fapping (some like pro’s). They keep touching themselves even without any tips.

Tinder: Old women looking for security-betas. Men looking for ... the same old thing (and it's getting older all the time). No sex, no people, no problems

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I’m with Faust on this, we could be wrong and I don’t care about the political thing BUT Carbo seems a little too attached to women without recognizing how toxic and destructive they are. If we’re wrong well forgive forget…on the other hand we are being infiltrated continually now, it seems like a daily thing so you can understand; its not that we are quick on the draw rather we are hesitant.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh

The marriage was probably failing anyhow.
Porn is just a convenient scapegoat instead of taking your share, and her taking her share of the blame for the failure.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Porn is leaving women running circles like dumbass cartoon characters on what to do to keep men in line.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

acted like a typical bratty princess.
Video link please.

You WON. You can stop lying now.

This is where you defended Hillary ^

The thread is by JJ titled “Woman President” in the political corner

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Carbo Raider wrote:

Can’t sex do that too?

Yes ED from porn is well documented

Carbo Raider wrote:

From my research: Women like fapping. Seems it’s better being in the drivers-seat of your arousal.

You don’t have to research. Walk into any adult store and start counting dildo styles, and compare that to the 5 toys they offer men.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Porn is a stop gap to the lack of pussy you expect from your wife/girlfriend but don’t get. They can’t stand that they can’t keep up and, of course, are jealous.

[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

Grumpy wrote:

The marriage was probably failing anyhow.
Porn is just a convenient scapegoat

Yeah. People think to simplistic; goes hand in hand with pre-judging people.

I feel I’m being judged to simply.

“This is where you defended Hillary”

Samsquanch wrote:

acted like a typical bratty princess.
You WON.

She conceded once the votes were counted… then left the spotlight.
Also, you said “supporter”. True I don’t like Trump, but Hillary doesn’t interest me. I want change, but I liked Ron Paul in 2012.

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[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

I just read a medical article on Male Sex Drive: “Is Testosterone Alone Responsible For Libido?”

It started out with info about hormones and the genders, but then came a section on … Porn.

No surprise, it was negative:

“From the Italians, we learn that porn is having a negative effect on the sex drives of young healthy men — say researchers. …more men have ‘sexual anorexia’… unable to get erections because of Internet porn use that started in their mid-teens.
… started an “excessive consumption” of porn sites as early as 14. After daily use in their early to mid-20s, they become accustom to ‘even the most violent’ images.”

(wait …what?)

“…developing their sexuality largely divorced from real-life relationships are gradual and devastating.”

(wait, I thought this was about Testosterone levels?)

“It starts with lower reactions to porn sites, then there is a general drop in libido …becomes impossible to get an erection,” Carlo Foresta, head of the Italian Society of Andrology and Sexual Medicine (SIAMS), told reporters.”

(That’s news to me. I’m 48. Porn is up. Libido is up. erections are out of sight. I never had morning wood when young, but I do now)

“Was it simply the compartmentalization of libido…If so, sex may feed on the messy complications of relationship with a real, not digitized, partner.”

I do agree porn CAN interfere with a relationship. But I’m against real sex anyway.

PS – this male-oriented article was written by a woman, “a reporter for Medical Daily…Her stories, poems, and reviews have been published in The Christian Science Monitor…”

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[The HogParticipant 253]

Porn shows what wives and girlfriends are holding out on.
Porn is good and should be used as a yardstick to measure the wife’s performance!

Had a woman loudly declare female superiority because they can multi-task and men can't! Told her to "shut up and fuck off" and she couldn't do either!

[Anonymous 3]

Porn passes the cost/benefit analysis.

Women do not.

[BrujahParticipant 579]

Being addicted to porn for most of teens to 20’s and now going through a burnout actually turned out useful as it very likely saved me a ton of cash that would have gone into indulging my sexual needs.

If the only way to make your partner more desirable is to cut off pornography, maybe there is something fundamentally wrong with the physical attraction part of your relationship to begin with.

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Last broad I was banging I used to think I was better off masturbating. We were on a casual basis, and not compatible. All we had in common was liking a drink and a shag.

For the younger bros who are thinking “I’d hit that”, @ 40 years of age, sex drive really isn’t as big a deal.

Putting aside a night each week to play sleepovers for 5 mins of fun and basically binge drink the night away gets pretty old pretty quick unless you enjoy hanging out as much as the sex.

Juice < Squeeze.

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