Poor Sarah smashed into The Wall at 800mph and cried.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

BrainPilot wrote:

Experienced, That feeling of being selfish is one of my biggest red pill challenges these days. I have more than enough money to make my life comfortable along with at least one other person. I keep it all to myself. It isn’t because I’m selfish, although I know it sure looks that way. It’s because if I get close enough to a woman to start to do that, they see it as a sign of weakness and start dreaming about HALF! It seems they aren’t happy having their own life improved. They don’t feel they’ve accomplished the finish line until mine is simultaneously wrecked. Women outnumber men in colleges and professional schools, and are about to elect a woman president, but still think I owe them half of what I’ve earned. It frustrates me that there doesn’t seem to be any reasonable middle ground. It’s either mgtow and watching them crumple into the wall, or its blue pill marriage and financial rape.

I don’t see that as being selfish.  I’ve watched a lot of my peers over the years spend all their money on vacations, bars, nice cars, and other random things that have no return on investment.  Meanwhile I went without a lot of fun stuff and put my money towards education and real estate.  If I were to get with someone…why would it be selfish for me to want to spend my money on myself, was that not what some chick with student loans, credit card debt, and a car payment has been doing all along?  I never had anyone offer to pay for me to go on vacation when I was paying my way through college…why should I feel selfish for not offering to pay for someone else to go on vacation or something now?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“Selfish” is one of those trigger words that give women away. Let’s examine where that s~~~ comes from.

Anyone who thinks you’re “SELFISH” (for taking care yourself and looking out for your own best interests) is already expecting generosity. Every man who functions on his own, has his life together and is self-sufficient is doing extremely well. Taking care of others and making them a priority is a GIFT. When it’s no longer a gift…. that person who used the word “selfish” is a selfish c~~~.

BOOM!

Just using the word “selfish” implies they think you should not make YOU a priority.

F~~~ that.

When not making yourself a priority (and your generosity is EXPECTED) you will never get proper recognition for what you give, or do. A few years, ago I was working on a project restoring a car on weekends. A 35 year old classic. My girlfriend at the time kept telling me I should sell it. “what do you need that thing for?” . Every weekend it was “you don’t really need that”. But if I sold it and threw away the money on a useless diamond necklace for her, would she f~~~ing talk me out of it????

So who’s “selfish” now?

Her repeat badgering got her ass tossed to the curb after just a couple of months.
When a woman calls you “selfish”.. SHE is being selfish, and is only thinking about herself.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Yup.  If they had no desire for you to spend your money on them instead of yourself, they wouldn’t give a s~~~ about what you spent your money on.  I’ve noticed the same thing about people who like to call me cheap.  Every person that has ever accused me of being cheap has been someone living paycheck to paycheck.  Apparently living a little below your means so you can save for retirement makes you cheap, where as maxing out credit cards on dumb s~~~ and constantly stressing trying to hide from debt collectors while living paycheck to paycheck makes you normal.

[Anonymous 25]

Cry me a river.

Hilarious. Her story is the equivalent of a toddler rolling around on the floor yelling “waaahh it’s not fair”.

Therein lies the problem, most women never made it past the terrible twos. This is why ignoring them and going our own way works wonders. The mgtow equivalent of Super Nanny and the naughty step.

loving some of the replies. funny stuff.

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