I f~~~ing cared about that bitch.  I f~~~ing would have given her EVERYTHING.

I’m hurting so bad right now I can’t even explain it. FFFFUUUUCCCCCCCKKKKKk!!!!

Look at when you feel like you do. Tell me and us what it is you feel needs to happen in order for you to deal better with this.

What ever your feeling right now is ….. understandable ….. but not ….. balanced and without that … there is no way to think or make a clear plan.

Take a deep breath and break this down step by step for us.

Others will come and I’ll be back on the ground in 2 hours.

Sray with us ok ….. you must promise this please.

Ok?

You have come to the right place. Just last week I made a post about how depressed I am because I don’t have a woman in my life. Someone who loves me and cares about me. I got like 50 responses right away. People here help!

I think that the thing that you, me, and pretty much all men have to come to terms with is………women are not worth it. They are not worth caring about or spening a lot of time and money on. More importantly they are not worth investing your love and your heart on. They simply are not worth it. There is not much in it for the man in any relationship.

Women’s worth in a relationship is so f~~~ing low. Sex and that’s really about it. Love? Meh, I don’t think women are capable of loving anyone other than themselves.

Guys like you and me probably have had a habit in the past of putting women on a pedestal. Big mistake. They will let you down time and time again.

In about 2 weeks you will come back to this post and reread all the answers and realize that women are simply not worth it. It will be hard for you to see it right this moment but you will. Give it a couple of weeks (maybe even less than that).

Love? Meh, I don’t think women are capable of loving anyone other than themselves. Guys like you and me probably have had a habit in the past of putting women on a pedestal. Big mistake. They will let you down time and time again. In about 2 weeks you will come back to this post and reread all the answers and realize that women are simply not worth it. It will be hard for you to see it right this moment but you will. Give it a couple of weeks (maybe even less than that).

Took the words right off my keyboard.  I’ve met women that I pedestalized and when the take themselves down from that pedestal, they rip your heart from your chest as they go.

Time is the best medicine for what you’re going though.  What she has done/is doing to you now may always be a sore subject but the acute pain you’re suffering at this moment will dull and fade away.  Keep posting what’s happening and what’s on your mind.  You WILL receive help from this forum.

Been there. Cared about a woman more than anything who casually decided to sleep with random men. It’s supposed to hurt. It’s supposed to be an extremely painful experience.

Please bear with the pain with all your strength. For me it was continual denial and I don’t remember how many hours sitting at the edge of bed wondering what the f~~~. How can she.

Nothing you tell yourself about how she should or would have behaved would make sense. That’s a male rationale. Don’t expect a woman to feel same or have anything romotely moral to the same extent you possess.

I can vouch it will go away. May take time. It’s a dark cloud that WILL lift itself. None of what happened on her part could have been prevented. Don’t go that route.

I f~~~ing would have given her EVERYTHING.

I remember that feeling well.  It is a wicked feeling.

On one hand YOU know you would have given everything, and on the other she is OBLIVIOUS to it and is treating you like TRASH.

You need to understand that there is no solution here.  You cannot give anything more. You cannot let yourself think “if only she knew how much I love her”, or let yourself think that there is any action or decision you can make that will fix things. You cannot think about the past and place blame on yourself for not being able to prevent this somehow.  All these things just add to the burden and will not help.

You need to take this weight that has been on your shoulders and _slowly_ put it down.  Its a heavy weight and as soon as you allow yourself  to let go, it will fall.  In time you can stand and stretch. She no longer deserves anything, let alone everything, you have to offer.

Don’t reach out to her in an effort to reduce the pain. It will give her the power to hurt you more and if personal experience is anything to go by, she will.

She should be the last person to know how much you hurt.