perseverance

[Anonymous 43]

damn I love this word. perseverance

Steadfastness in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success.

This the operating system for men. This is the reason why you go to work for 10 or 20 days every month, you don’t get paid every day…you work on account. You hope you get paid for your labor.

Ok that was short term, how about long term? Many of you went to college, military or trade school for 2, 4 or 6 years…you were going to be rewarded for your work at the end of the term.

Ok, that’s nice, how about longer term, lifetime. Perseverance was supposed to get you through your relationship with a woman. You would go to work, provide resources until such time when you saved and invested enough to stop working and spend time with the most amazing woman you ever saw. All she had to was take care of the kids, support your dreams, and be there for you. All she had to do was persevere, like you, day after day, delaying gratification, saving up for something better later.

But the woman just couldn’t wait. Surprise! She has a different operating system than you: impatient, petulant, impulsive, solipsistic, hypergamous. When you married her, she agreed to a set of conditions, and broke them all. oh yeah, no sense of justice or duty. I forgot that. That is the betrayal. That is your red pill moment when you realize the world and your woman does not operate the way you thought. A very costly moment.

Well, we all learned something in that one moment. Experience is the hand in hand partner of perseverance. Perseverance got us out of the s~~~ vortex, experience keeps us from falling in to the next s~~~ vortex.

Have a good day guys. Be safe.

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Chad has the same operating system. Impatient, can’t stay with one woman, petulant and aggressive, can’t focus on one thing, thinks the world revolves around him, uses resources with no plans to replenish them… etc…

This is perhaps why women are so attracted to Chad, they have a lot in common.

Of course, this is just from my personal experience of late. Chad doesn’t have to be a good provider, doesn’t have to provide at all. He just has to frighten and excite her, take her down dark roads she hasn’t been on before… and abandon her there.

These mental children cannot survive without our intellect, our skills, our commitment… or as Ayn Rand put it, our motive power. Remove the motive power.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[Anonymous 54]

You cant stop me.

Its a decision made before hand.

A promise to ones self.

An anger.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Anonymous wrote:

Perseverance got us out of the s~~~ vortex, experience keeps us from falling in to the next s~~~ vortex.

Experience and Red Pills will keep us out of the Next S~~~ Vortex.

I always find it Amazing just how quickly “experienced” Divorced Men will rush to find another Women/Relationship/Marriage.

Becoming FREE is the goal, Staying FREE is the Life Plan……

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

I would appreciate more of these substantive and thoughtful definition May 7, this was a good one. I posted a while back about women and time and this relates to this. They have no idea how to impose their will in an organised and purposeful way over time to achieve their goals. This concept is entirely alien to them but they have a dim understanding that we can marshal our own efforts in such a disciplined way, so they find a man and leach off him.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

But the woman just couldn’t wait. Surprise! She has a different operating system than you: impatient, petulant, impulsive, solipsistic, hypergamous.

She also has her looks and a vagina, which gets her out of multiple bad situations that she creates. It’s the ultimate “Get out of jail free” card. She can make bad decision after bad decision, but as long as she has her looks and her vagina she’ll get another chance.

Right up until her looks go away. That’s the point she realizes that men have moved on to the younger, prettier version, and that EVERY woman has a vagina.

But that’s HER problem. YOUR problem is expecting them to act differently. So don’t expect it. Then you’ll never be disappointed.

Great post May.

Order the good wine

[BoBParticipant 823]

Operating System is an interesting analogy!

[BubParticipant 1405]

Great thoughts 7.

Just rolling down the road

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

I’ve spent most of the last week in bed with the flu. Had a lot of time to think about the s~~~ vortex my STBXW has been creating for the last year. This thought process took me all the way back to childhood and the tough times I had then. Also to the first marriage and the wife who had a series of affairs the last two years of our marriage.

This gave me a sense of peace as I knew I have just what you described, perseverance. May have been a little out of my head due to the fever, but the image I had of myself was one of a large rock in the ocean. The water swirls and crashes over me but I am steadfast and immovable. The s~~~ vortex is powerless to move or change me. Can’t get the image to post but you guys get the idea.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

They cant stop you but they can divorce you.

Perseverance in thisminstance doesnt matter because they leave and take half your stuff, whether you have decided to persevere or not.

In older times they would not leave but probably pray for you to die or maybe poison your food. Better not to have them around if they want to leave. They have far less moral restraint today than in times past.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

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