Part Of The Financial Fallout Of Going Through A Divorce Process

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

So it’s official, government accepted, a Legal Impediment has been recognised. This basically means that I want to sell the damned property and the ex does NOT want to sell the place. It’s a bloody stalemate because she’s living there with the children. So it’s now with the lawyers. Only God knows how long she can avoid having that part of the law applied, the part that says there must be a division and distribution of the patrimonial assets. Once again the system gives a nice big middle finger to the man that wants to try and move on with his life, pocket what few bucks are left over from the proceeds of the sale, and not have the damned process drag on for an indefinite amount of time.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Have any of you had a similar frustrating experience?

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Welcome to the Machine https://youtu.be/lt-udg9zQSE

The only way you don’t experience this is if your children are grown or you don’t have children otherwise you are going to have to endure the meat grinder for a little bit.

once you get out you never have to go back

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

TattooDave wrote:

Welcome to the Machine https://youtu.be/lt-udg9zQSE

The only way you don’t experience this is if your children are grown or you don’t have children otherwise you are going to have to endure the meat grinder for a little bit.

once you get out you never have to go back

Another brick in the wall; another red pill downed.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Pink Floyd goes all the way back to the very early sixties. Most people don’t get them to credit for the depth and weight of their music. For instance Dark Side of the Moon came out in 1968 at Wembley

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[joetechParticipant]

Burn the place to the ground and collect the insurance. Bad idea, but it’s only a thought.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I will never forget the experience I had sitting in the movie theatre with my friends watching this:

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

joetech wrote:

Burn the place to the ground and collect the insurance. Bad idea, but it’s only a thought.

I have enough of Family Court, I’ll do without the visits to the criminal court for arson.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

We have come really far when you realize that most men prefer to partner with bank when building house, than with woman. With bank you at least know the deal and can manage risks. And even if house is yours before you meet the snowflake you can probably get royaly f~~~ed.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[Anonymous 43]

ya might rethink the arson thing…

logic and reason have no place in the divorce court, however in the criminal court, extenuating circumstances and a sympathetic jury may work out in the defendant’s favor.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Anonymous wrote:

ya might rethink the arson thing…

logic and reason have no place in the divorce court, however in the criminal court, extenuating circumstances and a sympathetic jury may work out in the defendant’s favor.

Perhaps, assuming nobody died of smoke inhalation in the condo building.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[joetechParticipant]

Pray for a lightning strike, and leave the rest to God. If only the human race weren’t so bent on destroying itself. I can’t think about situations like yours without getting very angry. When I was younger(back in the early 70’s) things were just as bad, but I thought decades of change would bring sanity to the family courts. Sometimes I just want to burn it all down, but what would be the point? God destroyed Sodom and Gomorra, made it rain for forty days and nights(and backed up the sewers I’ll bet) and 2000 years later we have this. It sucks big time, and I think only a worldwide pandemic of biblical proportions can clean out the filth. My sympathies for your plight, brother.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 1]

criminal court you get a lawyer if you can’t afford one. You can get a jury trial.

Family court is there to punish and enslave you. You can end up paying for her lawyer and “friends” of the court.

Don’t play walk away and focus on yourself. Learn new hobbies. Cook great meals for yourself at home.
Get a dog if you want companionship.

Dutch oven over a fire pit and playing guitar sounds like a better alternative.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Well, the law will allow for me to apply to the court to obtain proceeds of monetary value related to the property, not sure when though. It’s a divorce after all. You can’t finalise a divorce without an agreement as to the distribution of eligible assets.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

You are approaching the end point, and the point of no return lies ahead. Patience brother. How about spinning “have a cigar” from wish you were here?

It’s just a house.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Point Of No Return wrote:

Have any of you had a similar frustrating experience?

Buddy of mine is going through something similar. After his divorce the ex had a window of time to refinance the house and get his name off the mortgage. He wasn’t even getting half the equity or anything…just his name off the mortgage. Naturally…the window of time elapsed and she still hasn’t done it. Every time he pushes the issue she complains she can’t afford it(which is obviously a crock of s~~~ because rates were at all time lows the last few years) and she’d have to sell it and move first, but he doesn’t want her to because the town the house is in has a great school system and he doesn’t want to pull his kids out when they only have a few years left.

Meanwhile he wants to buy himself a condo because he recognizes renting is p~~~ing money away when he could own something…but he can’t get a mortgage because he’s already on one and his debt to income ratio is awful after factoring in child support, alimony, and being on a mortgage for a house he doesn’t live in, nobody wants to sign him up for another mortgage. Sad thing is his condo fees + mortgage would be cheaper than rent and he still can’t get his own mortgage.

[HitmanParticipant]

ah yes, the wonders of the divorce..
i’m going through it too..
stalling and waiting and the clock keeps ticking .
i have become more patient than i ever imagined.
it’s a process that can take years.
you have to live today,
and trust that you will figure out what to do later.
..you are not alone .
that’s for sure!

[joetechParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

it’s a process that can take years.

I read somewhere that Burt Reynolds only settled his final debt to Loni Anderson in 2015.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[TaxGuyParticipant]

The final part of my divorce is for my ex to pull her half out of my 401K. She was required to do it over year ago, still hasn’t got it done because she can’t afford the $600 for the documents to be written up. I just gave her the money.

Even when you make it easy for them they don’t understand that a contract is a contract. She had obligations to fulfill and has neglected her obligations. I’d be tempted to hire an attorney and see if I can make the case that she has abandoned her rights to the money, but I’m 100% sure that the family court wouldn’t see it that way.

0% accountability, 0% adult responsibility. It must really suck to be so oppressed.

Order the good wine

[rironParticipant 45]

I know I’m late, and it’s not directly related to your question, but there’s a whole bunch of cases similar to this:

http://www.newsmax.com/US/deadbeat-dads/2008/12/22/id/327264/

Just be careful to flee to the correct country…

Write "What is MGTOW?" on paper money and spend it. Spreading MGTOW with complete deniability. (ノಠ益ಠ)ノ彡┻━┻

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