Parents splitting up

[The LudophileParticipant 187]

My twin sister and I are 26 years old. My parents revealed this weekend that they are getting a divorce. I’m not sure how to feel about this event.

I am tempted to introduce my father to MGTOW. I’m quite certain that the motives behind the divorce are driven by my mother. She has been obviously unhappy for quite  some time.

Although this will affect me to some degree, I am trying to keep a level head here. This is between them and I don’t really have a hand in it. The decision is appropriately timed, but I’m uncertain what the divorce is intended to solve.

Thoughts on all that?

"There is no bad weather; only wrong clothes." ~ Scandinavian saying "I'm happy to see that the U.S. is abandoning the savagery and lies of religion more and more each year. I'm sad to see that politics and feelings are taking religions' place." ~ Me "Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. And, above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty." ~ OldBill

[RoyDalParticipant]

The Ludophile wrote:

I am tempted to introduce my father to MGTOW.

Good plan. Just don’t get into disputes with him about it. “Hey, this works for me. … Maybe it will work for you.”
Maybe he should hear it from someone else, such as one of your friends. It has been my personal experience that my dad discounts my advice to below zero.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

So it would appear that the threat of divorce is always there, no matter how long a man has been married for.  In many ways, it is better to get the divorce out of the way early as it gives you enough time to rebuild your finances.

Do you have any idea what the reasons behind the divorce are?  I understand a lot of women in their 60s are getting divorced as they really don’t like the idea of having to look after their husbands as they get older.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[experiencedParticipant]

Whose idea was it?   Who was the first to say, “maybe we should get divorced” [in response to WHat prior statement], or perhaps we should consider divorce.  Just trying to ascertain here that it doesn’t turn out that one was the driving jerk and the other went along for martyrdom’s sake and gets screwed by silence. It takes two to make a marriage and most of the time two to unmake a marriage, but sometimes it’s 90 to 10% wise. EG she puts on fifty f~~~ing pounds and tries to make up for it by being a pushy witch, and he gets blamed for not sitting in a bathtube full of Cialis, chewing on Viagra. If he found fat arousing, he never would have………..   They should have something like “fault divorce” or just ‘divorce’ for short to determine these things.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

@Won’tGetFooledAgain,[you are spot on correct!]           That’s right, work that horse to death, then send him to the glue factory for some quick cash. What THE F~~~ part of this fits in the “you don’t want to get old and die alone” sales tactic.  If this is the case, let them get divorced, then shun her. Better, “you pull this s~~~ on pops and we are through with you. How dare you kick him to the curb you selfish…..  .”

 I understand a lot of women in their 60s are getting divorced as they really don’t like the idea of having to look after their husbands as they get older.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[The LudophileParticipant 187]

I’m gonna blow some MGTOW minds here:

The decision to split up (supposedly) was initiated by my father. Though, I feel, the usual case of “60% of divorces may be *filed* by the woman, 90% of them are *caused* by the woman” probably applies here….

As a corollary: My mother has admitted that she had been keeping secrets from my father, had been jealous, vindictive, and had generally taken him for granted.

I feel like I’m in quite the pickle. I am not directly effected by this decision, but I will feel the consequences. I want to support them both (I love my parents, both of them have been incredibly supportive), but I can’t help but recognize the AWALT attributes of my mother beginning to surface. However, I am afraid my father will over-react and provoke the beast that is the family courts, potentially putting himself into debt to my mom just because he is stubborn.

"There is no bad weather; only wrong clothes." ~ Scandinavian saying "I'm happy to see that the U.S. is abandoning the savagery and lies of religion more and more each year. I'm sad to see that politics and feelings are taking religions' place." ~ Me "Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. And, above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty." ~ OldBill

[KeymasterKeymaster]

The Ludophile wrote:

I’m gonna blow some MGTOW minds here:

The decision to split up (supposedly) was initiated by my father. Though, I feel, the usual case of “60% of divorces may be *filed* by the woman, 90% of them are *caused* by the woman” probably applies here….

Not mind-blowing at all. It’s widely known. Officially , 72% of divorce and domestic disputes are solely initiated by women if you ask any divorce attorney. But far more than that are initiated by women because she will STILL “initiate” it while making it look like HIS idea. Don’t kid yourself the number is higher than 90%.

Check this bitch out – she represents and entire population of women who are “happily married and dreaming of divorce” – brought to you from the last place you would ever expect: OPRAH f~~~ing magazine.

Now she (and millions of resentful, hateful, ungrateful bitches like her) didn’t “initiated a divorce”.

She (and they) will make his life a miserable f~~~ing hell for QUOTE: “a period of high irritation lasting one or two decades” . And why? Because he still greets her miserable , fat, aging ass with a SMILE in the morning – and just because she would rather behave like a complete bitch before 10AM. Those are her words.

90% is far too generous. And it’s not just my “personal opinion”.
Google “happily married” and THAT is the 18th result of 13,600,000.

It’s closer to 100%.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MantelarParticipant 77]

‘been keeping secrets’ is code for ‘been cheating on him.’  sorry man, i know its your mom.  my mother uses the same euphemisms for her bulls~~~.  at this point in their life, though, and because you care about them, the more bloodless and speedy the precedings, the less legal fees they’ll pay and the more money they’ll have in the end.  i’d just make sure your dad is protecting himself and gets his share.  after things are settled, show him what you know.

[SargeslideParticipant 82]

My Ex sounds exactly like your Mom, and I initiated the divorce, best thing that I ever did for myself and my sanity. Remember, it is not about you, and I know you know that, but you will feel a pull to one side or the other. My daughter was 25 when I left her Mom, and I explained what the situation was and she understood, but she still felt as thought she has some part of the responsibility for it. For awhile she felt I was the bad guy, but in the end she had a better relationship with me than her mother, and she saw what really was going on.

My ex for some reason thought I would never survive without her overbearing bulls~~~, and it hurt her more to find out how wrong she was, than the actual proceedings. I know it is not “MGTOW” but as soon as women found out I was available, I was living the high life. It was good for my ego and my soul. I hope everything works out for the better.

[xgreenlanternoxParticipant 253]

I never really openly discuss this, but my mother cheated on my step father and he kept her. I knew it was happening for a fact. She would go “shopping” for 7 hours and come back with 1 ShopRite bag. I figured it out for a fact when she came home reeking of booze after a Saturday night of “shopping”. I quickly figured out who it was too because she had all the sudden been talking very highly of this one guy in almost every conversation we would ever have. I cornered her one day and flat out asked her and she did the typical woman thing and lied about it. He did find out eventually and while I still hold my step father in very high regard in many ways, I lost a lot of respect for him in that aspect when he stayed. I mean comeon – if you are that deadset on sticking it out, get some ass on the side yourself and even the playing field (s~~~, call a hooker if you have to)…

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