Paradox of Choice…..Fuel for the Hamster Wheel

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    This explains some of it. At least a little. As much as I care to understand, anyway…..

    https://mic.com/articles/107210/is-too-much-choice-ruining-dating-science-might-have-the-answer#.ntLaQSUgX

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    Notice how the focus was on people in NY city? Actually they miss the point. Men make choices very easily because we are rational—we can weigh costs/benefits, and analyze the merits of choice. Notice the one guy in the article states he may find someone better/hotter–so clearly he has a criteria and performs a cost/benefit analysis.

    Since women are illogical and irrational they cannot perform this kind of analysis–hence their inability to make “good” choices, and be overwhelmed by too many choices. This process is also driven by their innate sense of insecurity—they question every choice AFTER it is made.

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    Hey, the rest of the country has FarmersOnly.com, right?

    It’s called “Option Paralysis”… but in this case, we can call it Hypergamy Lock. When your natural instinct to trade up is stymied by having too many options and not being able to determine effectively which man is a better catch than all the others.

    It’s heavily related to FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) wherein a woman getting long dicked by Chad is suddenly seized by the abject terror of the thought that she might be missing out on getting longer dicked by Other Chad… or that some s~~~bird friend of hers is getting even longer dicked by Other Other Chad, has posted it to Snapchat and is getting likes while she’s just lying there, wasting her precious social media opportunity.

    C~~~s.

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