Paid online dating sites DECLINING!

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

http://www.datingsitesreviews.com/article.php?story=are-paid-online-dating-sites-in-decline

Im still trying to figure out if, male online dating participation is declining?

I have seen articles written by men claiming their leaving them.

I dont think men outnumber women on dating sites anymore.

C~~~s only have two ways of attention whoring left:

1. Social Media (which causes depression).
2. Online Dating (which could be on the way of decline).

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

The average guys have no chance, so why pay for rejection.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Some time ago, over the course of a decade, I think I tried every single paid dating site. I found my response rate higher on the paid than the unpaid ones, but found the quality of women to be the same contemporary mix of psychotic and cute that I was finding on free sites. eHarmony did seem to produce better matches than other sites in terms of values and outlook . . . but very few of them, and the women were all still basically bonkers. In fact, the single most psychotic relationship I had was from eHarmony, a delightful nuthatch who broke up with me by simply stopping contact after moving to LA. With no actual breaking up. Since she had a *slight* drug problem (hahahahahahahahaha), calling the local constabulary seemed like a poor idea. So, one remarkably expensive private detective later . . . oh, f~~~ it, I can’t even finish this story.

No, they’re bat s~~~ on all the sites, so why pay for it. As far as I can tell, women are looking for Chad or a beta provider on any site, whatever the Hell they say on their questionnaires.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Supposedly 80% of singles won’t go on one date next year.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/80-singles-go-one-date-2017-paul-carrick-brunson?trk=pulse_spock-articles&utm_content=bufferbdc59&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=buffer

I’m totally fine if the big dating sites go bankrupt. I’m buying stock in cat food companies.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

good riddance!

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Of course. More and more men are exposed to the true nature of women. Once they realize the truth, why would they even want to have a relationship with women once they realize all women are repellent, vile human beings? Makes sense.

As for women, they sure aren’t dropping out. They crave the attention from social media and dating sites. If anything, I’ve realized women crave more attention from social media. Instead of 10 guys liking their slutty picture, now they get depressed if they get anything short of 50 likes or whatever.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

What about Christian dating sites are the girls there just the same as anywhere else?

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

In my bluer-pill days I tried “online dating”. I say that because the meeting happened online but the dating happens in meatspace so it’s not really online dating.

Anyhow, I put profiles on OKCupid, POF and Match.com and got about a dozen potential matches out of the deal over the course of about six months, which was far more than I was expecting. I posted a recent photo and was honest about myself and my interests. I’m not a great looking guy but I look pretty good on paper… to a certain kind of woman.

What I got was mostly single mothers and women in their late 20s and early 30s who had ridden the carousel and were looking for someone to treat them like a human being. Fine. But they all also came with a lot of emotional baggage about ex-husbands and boyfriends who did not treat them very well (duh!) and so found it a challenge to avoid letting them get on a roll about it.

Trivial activities (darts, pool, bowling) and drinking were pretty effective for that and my usual date was take them to a mid-price sushi place, then out for a few c~~~tails and then move to close if the opportunity presented itself. In all I closed six of the twelve opportunities, none of which lasted for more than three months end to end.

I’m snipped so no baby danger, of coure, but also no STDs which is good, and no real drama except for this one roller derby jammer who was clearly not into me but kept trying to make out with me and this other professional chef who was butthurt that I knew how to cook.

All in all I wouldn’t call it a waste of time because it confirmed some suspicions I’d had for a while… as I treated it like a science project… and pretty much was my “last hurrah” with regard to trying to pair up before deciding to let go and get on about my own business.

That’s been a few years… even then I know there were women in my local area who were also on multiple meeting sites who were still on them when I closed my accounts. I can only assume that they’re still out there looking for the right combination Alpha/Beta to get their bits tingling while also keeping their bills paid. Good luck with that, ladies.

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

From a scene in the movie Ac~~~alypse Now,

As Kilgore is walking on the beach:

‘Did you hear that, son? Did you hear that? Nothing in the world sounds like that. . . . . . . . . . I love the sound of sluts hitting the wall in the morning. It sound like, victory.’

[bladeParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

The average guys have no chance, so why pay for rejection.

Those woman won’t go after the average guy on the net because they have many pussy beggers to choose from on the dating site’s. But in real life down at a local pub they will f~~~ even the under average guy . Self validation , the feeling of power and gold digging . Yep save ya money

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 11]

I believe it. The falsehoods I had to put in Chad V2.0’s profile were mind boggling. I did find the non-whale online dating event horizon though.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

Even the free ones carry a cost: Time that could be spent doing more productive things.

I’m more suprised that men haven’t abandoned online dating sooner. It’s a lot of effort with little reward unless you’re one of the top 20% Chads who get all of the pussy. Online dating has really exposed the ugly side of dating to men and i doubt that genie will be put back in the bottle any time soon.

[Anonymous 11]

@monkeymind: Online dating even sucks for Chads as if a Chad would even need to use it.

I’d pay up to $5 a year for the extended data they generally give paying members. It would improve my MGTOW research efforts in this area. The women are not worth any sum of money.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

After being on OKcupid for 3 months these were the results:

Month 1 –

Girl #1 – Not really trying too hard, recovering from injury. Chat up a girl on OKc, seems cool but when we finally talk on the phone she sounds like she huffed helium (horrid). We meet up for a burger, of course she is 20 pounds heavier than her creative photo angles suggest. During lunch, he drops the bomb on me that she has Cystic Fibrosis but is one of the lucky few who manage it with medication…wouldn’t a normal person tell you on the phone that they have a chronic illness which is potentially fatal? So I roll with it and a week later she is in the hospital. For the next month it was a game of “tag” because she wasn’t always available when I was available. When we did talk, she now wanted the conversation around her. I realized after a while that even though she routinely blew me off when we were supposed to talk, if I wasn’t available she would get p~~~ed and not return my texts for 24 hours. So at right about the month mark, because our second date never happened, I just semi-ghosted her which worked because she never tried to contact me again. Lied about: weight, current health, potential future health. Three lies…AWALT.

Another installment coming soon…

Sovereignty above all else.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

bigboy83 wrote:

C~~~s only have two ways of attention whoring left:

1. Social Media (which causes depression).
2. Online Dating (which could be on the way of decline).

This is exactly why if you return 3 years later it’s same 40 woman on there bitching that there are no good men left.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

My question is why? The most psychotic women find their dates online. These are the post wall women, single mothers, or BPD bitches who will never be good company. All these sites should shut down. If it weren’t for men they wouldn’t exist. Even the free ones. If no advertisers are getting clicks then they pull their ads. Women sit and wait men search. All of it is a waste of time.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

In my experience most of the women on online dating sites like the idea of having a relationship, but while they are waiting for it to happen are secretly total sluts. This means they are f~~~ing any Chads that message them, have a couple of Friends with benefits in the background who they hook up with when there are no chads about and probably go to the odd sex party as well.

They almost think they can have their cake and eat it, nice stable wallet for a relationship but keep f~~~ing chads in the background for the excitement and ‘gina tingles.

This is why online dating never works, they will never give up the c~~~ carousel life as they believe there is always someone better looking, richer and more exciting around the corner.

Last woman I was messaging it eventually turned out she had been to a torture garden party a month earlier and had ended up f~~~ing three guys, wanked off two others and licked another woman. I am sure any man would love to be lucky enough to have a relationship with a woman with such high morals.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

After being on OKcupid for 3 months these were the results:

Month 1 –

Girl #1 – Not really trying too hard, recovering from injury. Chat up a girl on OKc, seems cool but when we finally talk on the phone she sounds like she huffed helium (horrid). We meet up for a burger, of course she is 20 pounds heavier than her creative photo angles suggest. During lunch, he drops the bomb on me that she has Cystic Fibrosis but is one of the lucky few who manage it with medication…wouldn’t a normal person tell you on the phone that they have a chronic illness which is potentially fatal? So I roll with it and a week later she is in the hospital. For the next month it was a game of “tag” because she wasn’t always available when I was available. When we did talk, she now wanted the conversation around her. I realized after a while that even though she routinely blew me off when we were supposed to talk, if I wasn’t available she would get p~~~ed and not return my texts for 24 hours. So at right about the month mark, because our second date never happened, I just semi-ghosted her which worked because she never tried to contact me again. Lied about: weight, current health, potential future health. Three lies…AWALT.

Another installment coming soon…

ill or not that type of crap always happens and one of the many reasons why I will never date again. F~~~ the drama and bulls~~~

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