Opinion and MGTOW reminder

[MusclecarGolferParticipant 636]

As many of you have clearly identified, the MGTOW epiphany allows the man to cut away the unnecessary and toxic feministic and social cancers that are (more) prevalent (than ever) in today’s culture. These cancers, once gaining a foothold in the man, will wreak serious (and sometimes permanent) damage. However, once severing those cancerous umbilical cords, the man will begin to rise from their ashes, to a plateau seldom thought of nowadays, and rarely obtained. This plateau rewards the man with (though not limited to) levels of, contentment, satisfaction, happiness, self-actualization, maturity, and clarity, rarely thought attainable in today’s excremental culture.

I continue to appreciate (and take to heart) the many posts that highlight others’ valuable warning-laiden relationship horrors, brilliantly-devised inventions/upgrades, picturesque travel recounts, insightful philosophical summations, and day-to-day MGTOW-based perspectives. There is a ubiquitous simplistic-genius to these posts that continues to maintain its enduring “freshness.”

I had a(nother) post-initial MGTOW “moment” this evening. However, this “moment” was not a “Oh, I never thought of that.” Rather, it was a, “Geez, why so many others have a problem with this?”

Self-sufficiency is a one of the priceless core-tenets to being a MGTOW. Within that tenet, lies this major artery…DISCIPLINE. This popped into my head as I went mid-sit-up on my incline bench. I had my music in the background and was just grinding away, when I paused and thought, “Nobody’s forcing me to do these. They’re hard work. I’m grunting, and sweating, and uncomfortable. Why am I forcing myself to do these?”

ANSWER: Because I know that nothing ever comes easy. Because if I want something of quality, I have to put the time in when I’m uncomfortable; I have to put the effort in when I’m tired; I have to put the thought in when I’m uninterested.

Although I’ve been disciplined for decades (always can look back and see room for improvement though – but can also look forward to implement those improvements), it hits me every so often when I’m ripping away at something of my own undertaking; this evening was another reminder. Discipline.

Being MGTOW is being self-sufficient; being self-sufficient is being disciplined; being disciplined is being free; being free is being MGTOW.

[bladeParticipant]

I would lean on not been codependent for pussy that is f~~~ing deadly . Yep vag is deadly in many different ways and disguises its self as a pleasure . God should of put a f~~~ing warning label on that f~~~ed up smelly thing . WARNING ENTER AT OWN RISK with a skull and cross bones

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MusclecarGolfer wrote:

I know that nothing ever comes easy. Because if I want something of quality, I have to put the time in when I’m uncomfortable; I have to put the effort in when I’m tired; I have to put the thought in when I’m uninterested.

Had this conversation tonight over dinner with a friend – specifically the bolded part. I was telling him how sick I am of people shaking hands, having a conversation, meeting, exchanging names and then forgetting that person’s name seconds later. He actually defended it “well I’m complete s~~~ at remembering names too”.

Unacceptable. (as far as I am concerned. What’s the point of meeting and speaking with them at all?)

I asked him “do you LIKE that about yourself?”

“Not especially”, he said.

Then FIX IT. I don’t understand how someone can admit and identify a weakness/flaw in themselves and write it off like “I’m so bad at that”, like they can’t discipline themselves to make a TINY effort to flip it around.

It’s petty, I know, but just one example. His BUISINESS is schmoozing and licking people’s butts. At least know their f~~~ing names if you’re going to press your lips against their buttocks. He saw my point.
( Good post! )

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

There should be a damned warning on every declaration of marriage document too!
SIGN AT YOUR OWN RISK AND PERIL. Then right after this warning should come a list of things that could, and most likely will, happen to make you wish you had never laid eyes on the ‘love of your life’.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Keymaster wrote:

MusclecarGolfer wrote:

I know that nothing ever comes easy. Because if I want something of quality, I have to put the time in when I’m uncomfortable; I have to put the effort in when I’m tired; I have to put the thought in when I’m uninterested.

Had this conversation tonight over dinner with a friend – specifically the bolded part. I was telling him how sick I am of people shaking hands, having a conversation, meeting, exchanging names and then forgetting that person’s name seconds later. He actually defended it “well I’m complete s~~~ at remembering names too”.

Unacceptable. (as far as I am concerned. What’s the point of meeting and speaking with them at all?)

I asked him “do you LIKE that about yourself?”

“Not especially”, he said.

Then FIX IT. I don’t understand how someone can admit and identify a weakness/flaw in themselves and write it off like “I’m so bad at that”, like they can’t discipline themselves to make a TINY effort to flip it around.

It’s petty, I know, but just one example. His BUISINESS is schmoozing and licking people’s butts. At least know their f~~~ing names if you’re going to press your lips against their buttocks. He saw my point.
( Good post! )

I thought about people who say they have trouble remembering other People’s names yesterday, I have no idea why. I don’t think its petty, actually , I think its important to consider why they have trouble with remembering something as basic as another persons name.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Execration wrote:

I thought about people who say they have trouble remembering other People’s names yesterday

It’s lazy. Plain and simple. Because so many people don’t give a s~~~, you can actually BLOW SOMEONE’S MIND and make a strong impression if you greet them by name the next time you see them. They probably won’t remember yours, but that’s their own problem. It makes you look awesome, it’s very easy, and it requires NOTHING but the will. They just don’t have the will. Sad.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Execration wrote:

I thought about people who say they have trouble remembering other People’s names yesterday, I have no idea why. I don’t think its petty, actually , I think its important to consider why they have trouble with remembering something as basic as another persons name.

IMHO
Failure to remember a name is indicative of the importance placed on the other person, and the impression they made.
Personally I remember every “important” name. Sometimes it may take a bit to unf~~~ my mental filing system, but I’ll remember your name. If I dont, well that just means you were irrelevant to me.
-EDIT-
Having said that, I endeavour never to be ignorant about failing to remember a name unless they are a complete asshole about it.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Keymaster wrote:

Execration wrote:

I thought about people who say they have trouble remembering other People’s names yesterday

It’s lazy. Plain and simple. Because so many people don’t give a s~~~, you can actually BLOW SOMEONE’S MIND and make a strong impression if you greet them by name the next time you see them. They probably won’t remember yours, but that’s their own problem. It makes you look awesome, it’s very easy, and it requires NOTHING but the will. They just don’t have the will. Sad.

Very lazy.Back in the day it was a Mr or Miss followed by a last name and it was Common behavior.Being on a first name basis implied something.

To think that this generation can be impressed or challenged by something so Common in our previous culture and generations, It is sad and pathetic.Sure, some people were more uniquely remembered in my life time but I dont remember forgetting someones name if they introduced themselves .To me it sounds so alien.

[Anonymous 54]

NEVER GET MARRIED

HEED MY WARNING.

Had to do it.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

MusclecarGolfer wrote:

Being MGTOW is being self-sufficient; being self-sufficient is being disciplined; being disciplined is being free; being free is being MGTOW.

Discipline is always good thread for MGTOW. It is a root skill for self-actualization. Both mental and physical discipline. It’s like maxing out Intelligence in a Fallout game. Everything you do thereafter gives you more points, and you get more value from every action you perform.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[narwhalParticipant]

Grumpy wrote:

Failure to remember a name is indicative of the importance placed on the other person, and the impression they made.

I would agree with that to an extent, but there is also another reason, at least for me. I am also likely to be considering about everything else going on during an introduction besides the name. My mind is making sure I’m smiling, giving a firm handshake, and so on. I’m also reading what they are thinking about me during the exchange by their mannerisms. Besides that, I am likely there for a reason other than meeting that person, so my mid is occupied on that as well. In many ways there is a rush of information occurring during a meeting an remembering the person’s name is often low on the list.

It is something I’d like to improve on, however it is difficult to change as I rarely know when I’m going to meet someone. Thus practice and preparation are difficult. My line of work, personality, and lifestyle don’t lend it self to frequent introductions.

And to be perfectly honest, it’s not uncommon for me to forget a name of someone or something I reference frequently. There is something though to the idea that your level of remembrance is tied to your level of fondness or relevance to you. I can barely remember my neighbor’s name is Clint, but never forget his dog Macy.

Ok. Then do it.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

MusclecarGolfer wrote:

I know that nothing ever comes easy. Because if I want something of quality, I have to put the time in when I’m uncomfortable; I have to put the effort in when I’m tired; I have to put the thought in when I’m uninterested.

Had this conversation tonight over dinner with a friend – specifically the bolded part. I was telling him how sick I am of people shaking hands, having a conversation, meeting, exchanging names and then forgetting that person’s name seconds later. He actually defended it “well I’m complete s~~~ at remembering names too”.

Unacceptable. (as far as I am concerned. What’s the point of meeting and speaking with them at all?)

I asked him “do you LIKE that about yourself?”

“Not especially”, he said.

Then FIX IT. I don’t understand how someone can admit and identify a weakness/flaw in themselves and write it off like “I’m so bad at that”, like they can’t discipline themselves to make a TINY effort to flip it around.

It’s petty, I know, but just one example. His BUISINESS is schmoozing and licking people’s butts. At least know their f~~~ing names if you’re going to press your lips against their buttocks. He saw my point.
( Good post! )

All businesses are smooshing and kissing but that is the only way you get any sales.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[AutoliteParticipant]

Point Of No Return wrote:

There should be a damned warning on every declaration of marriage document too!
SIGN AT YOUR OWN RISK AND PERIL. Then right after this warning should come a list of things that could, and most likely will, happen to make you wish you had never laid eyes on the ‘love of your life’.

I dunno. I would have thought that just the fact that you are required to sign a legal document should indicate that there’s a possibility of some sort of legal liability…

[Author]

Posts