Online dating is the worst place to ever meet

[Anonymous 16]

I am sure i am not the only one who as been turned down, told that he is ugly, insulted and so on by way below average women.

I live close to Montreal Canada, i was only for around a year, i am older now 44y old i keep fit, i train everyday and i think i don’t look half as bad.

I don’t want to get into the awful experience i went true online but i want to tell people not to sweat this at all. From what i have read really good looking men only get about 6% reply back.

In my age bracket i used to message women from 33 to 47, almost all of them with 2 kids full time, dead end jobs and nothing to offer, worst is that most of them where average to below average, some chubby and more. That was before i decided to MGTOW and stop looking for something i might never find.

Not sure if its frustration or else but these ugly women will rejected you i met one that look like a cave women with furry forearms wide load butt no boobs she looked dirty not clean 35 2 kids no job she told me she wanted to date a hot guy that was hilarious she said that at 42 i looked older then her ex boyfriend who was 45…. i started laughing and left, then saw on facebook she is dating this inflated fat fool even funnier. That was the last straw.

Online dating at least for me was not the place to ever meet women and i am never going back, emails, waste of time, you start something, then she stop replying…. Wow so much energy spent for nothing.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Once I learned females true nature I deleted all my dating account and have relaxed.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 16]

Quit amazing reading there profile because i actually read there profile, no drama, want something serious, or very active to find out it was all crap.

I still have active profile its very funny i never logon to receive emails like once every few months of a women wanting to meet me….. i just have nothing positive to say about that LOL.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Welcome home & yeah, never dated anyone from online dating, but I am convinced I didn’t miss anything, other than alot of s~~~.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I have quite a bit of experience with this especially in 2008 when I turned to “online dating” like a MACHINE for several months. ( I had just moved to a new city and was making efforts to build a social circle ).

Anonymous wrote:

I don’t want to get into the awful experience i went true online but i want to tell people not to sweat this at all. From what i have read really good looking men only get about 6% reply back.

Anonymous wrote:

insulted

It’s only a matter of time, but eventually you’ll learn this is not a problem — and it’s got nothing to do with you. Remember how women “choose”. They don’t actually “choose”, they are only able to accept from those who show interest.

MEN LOOK TO QUALIFY WOMEN.
WOMEN LOOK TO DIS-QUALIFY MEN.

It’s how they operate.

When a man is looking to buy a mobile smartphone, he compares and contrasts the POSITIVE features, and makes a purchase decision based on that. A woman will do the equivalent of smashing every phone (man) on the ground, and whichever one puts up with her abuse/insults/s~~~-tests, that’s when she starts convincing herself “he’s the one”. She uses a completely different approach than you.

I call it the “American Idol” method of choosing a man.
It’s not actually the BEST singer who wins.
It’s only –>> the last of the eliminated.

When you realize this, a woman’s disqualification means absolutely NOTHING.
Her disapproval is now as worthless as her approval.

Anonymous wrote:

Online dating at least for me was not the place to ever meet women

Correct. You never need to go online to “meet a woman”.

51% to 54% of the population is women (in the western world) . That means even if you DON’T want to meet a woman today, you are more likely to meet a woman. They are everywhere. Like trash cans, and parking meters.

Anonymous wrote:

…. and i am never going back, emails, waste of time, you start something, then she stop replying…. Wow so much energy spent for nothing.

It’s a mistake to call it “online dating” in the first place. They call it that for women. Because it allows them to romanticize it in their heads, and when they log in , they think they are “dating”. She thinks she’s “feeling for chemistry”. She thinks she can “feel a connection”. But it’s just online e-mailing. The entire purpose is to get her OFFLINE and into the real world as quickly as possible, and any woman who doesn’t grab her purse with enthusiasm is not worth a MINUTE of your time or attention.

Phantom wrote:

I am convinced I didn’t miss anything, other than alot of s~~~.

You got that right.

The biggest problem with women online is their entire approach and attitude. She has a completely skewed and backwards idea of how it’s supposed to work. They actually create a profile and start ordering a man like they order a pizza. They sign up as if they have some say or control on whether or not Mr Right will waltz into her life. “OK I typed out everything I want. Where is he?”

It’s bulls~~~.

Grab your purse and lets meet for a drink right now, or get lost.

Anonymous wrote:

you start something, then she stop replying…

It’s easy to get a woman to reply. Just send her half a sentence.
“you’re so” and don’t finish it.

You can even say “hey who’s that cute girl in the photo standing next to you? Is she single?”
Don’t worry. She’ll reply. Sometimes she’ll immediately drop what she’s doing and send you several hateful paragraphs, which tells you everything about her. She wouldn’t respond in such great length if you said something nice about her.

And that’s all you need to know about her.
Including why you shouldn’t bother meeting her at all.

Acting like I am some extreme asshole who *treated her badly*, JUST because I expressed interest in someone else. But if I said “I like your pics, what’s your name?” you could bet a house no reply would follow.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 16]

Thanks for your points, women are everywhere like trash cans hahah good one, well at my age at 44 i don’t really go out a lot, yes younger it was easy because everyone was going out and we where all in the same age range now its a lot harder, honest i am not trying at all, shy not really. But i don’t make any moves either.

Online dating is a lot of energy spent with deceptions, at some point you get discourage and start thinking you are ugly add a few people that put you down and tell you that women you message are out of your league and its a recipe for disaster. I remember taking this to heart and be very frustrated at some point.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

It was the BS i got on POF that led me to MGTOW. The red pill explains the motives of the women who hunt on on-line dating sites. Its all demands on the quality of men they desire but nothing on what they offer in return. Single mothers looking for wallets to drain while f~~~ing Chad on the side. Older women, (my generation) who want someone to wine and dine then pay for weekends away and holidays in the sun on my dime, and for what? used up pussy and acceptance from society that a woman validates me. I re-wrote my profile many times to make myself appealing to all commers. Then after discovering MGTOW, I started to put less info on myself and let them contact me to find out more. My last re-write stated that I was in control of my life and had no debts or ties and wanted to meet the same for “Intimacy”. The result was a string of Gold diggers asking what fancy resturants I frequented and what exotic holiday destinations I travelled to.

I still have an active account but I don’t message. I just brouse the local advertisers and laugh at how their descriptions betray them for the gold diggers they are.

Actually, I’ve found recently that its no longer fun to read these womens profiles and laugh at their vapid stupidity. I find now that I actually feel physically sick and degraded by even logging onto that site.

It sickens me their stupid Hypergamy. I can’t even laugh at them anymore. They sicken me.

It's Time to get Wise

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

i only use online dating before i go to a country, usually thailand. i’ll find some girls to f~~~ when i’m there. a lot of whores advertise online. occasionally i’ll get a “non-whore” girl. i start my search a week or 2 before i go.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

I remember taking this to heart and be very frustrated at some point.

Thats’ only natural because of her approach. She wants to keep men at arms length e-chatting for two weeks while she tries to “see if there’s a connection”. I once told a woman like that to stop being silly. If we met in a grocery store, she wouldn’t be able to say “I’M SORRY I CAN”T SPEAK TO YOU IN PERSON!!! WE SHOULD EMAIL EACH OTHER FOR TWO WEEKS AND SEE IF THERE’S A CONNECTION FIRST!!!”. Its ridiculous. She had no idea what to say to that.

Most women are not there to meet a man.
They are there for their silly validation and no other reason.

Eventually I got it down to a science.

• “So you’re a model. Whassamatter, couldn’t you get a real job?”.
• “Why do you look like a chihuahua in one of your photos? Bad hair day?”.
• Backhanded compliments: “You know, you could be a 7 if you really wanted to be.”.
(twice as hilarious if she is a 9)

A friend of mine messaged a bunch of women and said “There are 3 kinds of women on this website. Attention Whores. Real Whores. And women who like to have fun. Which one are you?”. He said that’s all he needed to say and it filtered out the worst of them.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I beg to differ. If you want to meet an ignorant, narcissistic, greedy, self centered cnt ….

Then online dating is definitely the way forward.

[JVBParticipant]

Online dating is an absolutely waste of time. The profiles that are actually real and/or active are in the vast minority. The small amount left over are in it for an ego boost. As long as that badge icon keeps ticking over they feel like they matter. Cut to the point an ask the bitch out for a coffee…….static. If you do actually get a date, oh my word. She looks f~~~ all like her profile.

Peace is > piece.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Some time ago one of the brothers posted that finding a decent woman on a on line dating site was the same as dumpster diving and expecting to find a gourmet meal.

Dating of any kind is a waste of your time, effort and energy. At 44 you should be thankful that you haven’t been saddled with an exploitative bitch bleeding you dry emotionally and financially will riding the c~~~ carousel. You’ve dodged the bullet be grateful brother.

[Anonymous 16]

PistolPete wrote:

Some time ago one of the brothers posted that finding a decent woman on a on line dating site was the same as dumpster diving and expecting to find a gourmet meal.

Dating of any kind is a waste of your time, effort and energy. At 44 you should be thankful that you haven’t been saddled with an exploitative bitch bleeding you dry emotionally and financially will riding the c~~~ carousel. You’ve dodged the bullet be grateful brother.

Amen to that

[Anonymous 16]

JVB wrote:

Online dating is an absolutely waste of time. The profiles that are actually real and/or active are in the vast minority. The small amount left over are in it for an ego boost. As long as that badge icon keeps ticking over they feel like they matter. Cut to the point an ask the bitch out for a coffee…….static. If you do actually get a date, oh my word. She looks f~~~ all like her profile.

They look like s~~~ and they reject you go figure hahahahah

[KeymasterKeymaster]

PistolPete wrote:

Dating of any kind is a waste of your time, effort and energy.

Agreed. By 2010, I decided it was “official”. Possibly sooner, but that was the point at which I thought there is no f~~~ing way men and women can bond in any meaningful way anymore. It’s gone. General social attitudes were entirely “broken”.

That’s the time I noticed “male/female interactions” became nothing but “transactions”.

Dating officially became like a “job interview” and that’s exactly how they approach it…. without mentioning any salary, vacation time or benefits.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 16]

Keymaster wrote:

yannick44 wrote:

I remember taking this to heart and be very frustrated at some point.

Thats’ only natural because of her approach. She wants to keep men at arms length e-chatting for two weeks while she tries to “see if there’s a connection”. I once told a woman like that to stop being silly. If we met in a grocery store, she wouldn’t be able to say “I’M SORRY I CAN”T SPEAK TO YOU IN PERSON!!! WE SHOULD EMAIL EACH OTHER FOR TWO WEEKS AND SEE IF THERE’S A CONNECTION FIRST!!!”. Its ridiculous. She had no idea what to say to that.

Most women are not there to meet a man.
They are there for their silly validation and no other reason.

Eventually I got it down to a science.

• “So you’re a model. Whassamatter, couldn’t you get a real job?”.
• “Why do you look like a chihuahua in one of your photos? Bad hair day?”.
• Backhanded compliments: “You know, you could be a 7 if you really wanted to be.”.
(twice as hilarious if she is a 9)

A friend of mine messaged a bunch of women and said “There are 3 kinds of women on this website. Attention Whores. Real Whores. And women who like to have fun. Which one are you?”. He said that’s all he needed to say and it filtered out the worst of them.

Gold love this.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

I am sure i am not the only one who as been turned down, told that he is ugly, insulted and so on by way below average women.

These women are bottom of the barrel and to be insulted by them is just proof of how they got there. So vile no one wants them and they think because they have a vagina all men should worship their disgusting personalities.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Keymaster wrote:

any woman who doesn’t grab her purse with enthusiasm is not worth a MINUTE of your time or attention.

Total agreement with KM. I dabbled with OKCupid and Tinder for a month or two but gave them up because of this very thing. I’d “match” a woman based on some superficial criteria and my first move would be “Let’s meet for a couple of c~~~tails and see what happens.”

If I got anything other than “I’m off at 6, meet me at Local Bar at 6:30.” I was out.

I gave up on catalogue shopping for women pretty quickly but I brought the strategy with me back into real life. I’ll learn everything I need to know about a woman over two drinks, particularly when I tell her the first round is on her. If she shows up and gets to the end of round two without confessing some horror story about her s~~~ life, we’re good.

Saves me a lot of time, effort and money.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Online dating = giant waste of time. I dabbled in it for a while. Found quite a few girls that would chat for a week or two then start ignoring you. After that happened a few times I realized its not me, they’re just on there for attention and to play games, they never had any intention of meeting me. Had a few I met and they were all heavier than their photos would have had you think. Dated one for 6 months and she was a whore and a liar.

I’ll browse anonymously occasionally for a laugh…its comical how I still recognize some girls on there as people I emailed years ago who just ignored me…yet there they are…older and hitting the wall but still obviously playing the same games. I mean seriously…if attractive girls on there get even just a couple emails from new guys a day, and they’ve been on their for 4+ years…are they really that bad at picking dates or that much of a c~~~ that not 1 guy in the thousands that have emailed them were good enough to get them off that site? I also get a chuckle when I occasionally recognize someone from high school or college…especially when it was one of the hot ones who had a s~~~ attitude who looks like f~~~ing garbage now.

I’d never take it seriously again. I think I’d only use it like uchibenkei because doing some traveling is something I plan on doing more of in the coming years and I’d like to hit some foreign pussy.

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Keymaster wrote:

I have quite a bit of experience with this especially in 2008 when I turned to “online dating” like a MACHINE for several months.

DAM !!! Keymaster this is some great advice you are like HELL- OF- WOKE

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