One year of marital hell

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

To any men out there contemplating marriage – think again. I’m 14 months in and the stress from her and her 11 year old kid have contributed to health issues, physical and mental, severe financial strain and I have lost my domestic sanctuary. Now this is after 14 months – think of yourself 14 years into this tar pit. I never know what the f~~~ awaits me when I walk in the door after a 12 hour work day and what s~~~ is going on when I walk out. And this is with a relatively “good” one. Imagine life with a true marquee c~~~. Nope troops, we men were not meant to shackle ourselves to anything other than our goals. Not some hormonally charged hypergamous leech

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Brother,

I had a similar experience between 1994 and 2009. Thank God I never married her! No longer together and no regrets. Don’t be down on yourself. Most fellas make the same mistake at some point in life. If it doesn’t work out, smarten up, and never do it again. Good luck.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I am sorry for you, but thank you for sharing your experiences. I will learn from you.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 18]

Man you got yourself in a pickle. No point sugar coating it. 14-month is still relatively ‘she’s giving occasional BJs, regular sex to prevent the sour deal buyer’s remorse’ time period. Few more years, you have a used up single mother and a teenager.

Best wishes man.

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Imagine life with a true marquee c~~~

[BudtaoParticipant 293]

I was lucky that I didn’t get married, but having lived with a girl for a number of months I understand what you mean.
I worked delivering fast food for a year to support myself and The Harlot(read my introduction to know who I am refering to.) One night while I was out delivering and I get a text from her that, “She has a knife and is considering using it.” Of course I freak out and drive like a maniac(in winter in Missoula, Montana.) When I get there she is just sitting on the couch watching TV as if nothing is happening.

I would bet that half the crap that you come home to isn’t even necessary, its probably just her s~~~testing you for her own sick enjoyment.

Nirvanna is never having to worry about a woman ever again.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Sorry to hear your situation. Try to keep your sanity and devise a plan to get out. I was married for almost 10 years and you are right, it doesn’t get any better. Stay strong.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Don’t make the worse mistake of thinking you can’t leave. Before you know it, you’ll have a kid with her (whether you want it or not) and you will realize you could have left relatively cleanly. Now with a kid, you can’t.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Try to keep your sanity and devise a plan to get out.

uchibenkei wrote:

Before you know it, you’ll have a kid with her (whether you want it or not) and you will realize you could have left relatively cleanly.

It’s time to go. It’s not going to get better; it’s only going to get way, way worse from here on out. In five years, this will seem like “the good times” – except you’ll be even more on the hook for child support and whatnot.

Time to go, brother.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

I agree with Elric.I went through a 5 year marriage with an abusive narcissistic c~~~ that severely damaged my mental health.
And very important : don’t let her know that you have had enough. Don’t give her any advanced warning. Good see an attorney and find out where you stand legally. Don’t let her get access to your sperm!!!Do what ever you legally have to do to get rid of her and chalk it up to a learning experience. Good luck.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

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