To all you young guys out there I have a story for you right before the internet and porn was readily available of what this one female tried to do to get me to interact with her sexually and even today they are still trying to manipulate you into becoming a beta provider.
Had a female friend who I have known for years tell me her boyfriend said to her that she doesn’t know how to give blow jobs and all he wanted to do was have sex without oral (said no man ever or so I thought). She went on and on about how he never took the time to teach her and she thought that there was something wrong with her for not knowing how to do it. It was the first time she ever tried so she said and that may be true since she was 17 at the time of the conversation we were still in high school at the time but I had my doubts.
Now I knew what her end goal was she wanted to have sex with me and this was her way of opening up about sex and having me teach her how to properly give a blow job. Of course the thought of her boyfriend was far away during this discussion in her mind. I was dating her best friend at the time and we know all how women love to talk about their sex lives with their friends so she was eager to have me on her trophy case. It was so tempting for me to go through with her request but I decided against it as I had a good thing going with my current relationship. Turns out I should have done it anyway as we all know how relationships usually end.
Fast forward a few years later and I told a male friend this story and he actually told me he doesn’t allow his girlfriend to give him blowjobs because he has to kiss her afterwards and he doesn’t want to marry someone who has had his c~~~ in her mouth and “taste” it. I told him do what I always do and have her clean out and brush her teeth if you have to kiss her afterwards if it is such a big deal.
So the point of this post is if you are her second choice beta the woman will not bring up her deepest sexual desires with you but with someone who she really wants to screw. Ever been denied anal or a blow job? She does want to try and do that stuff just not with you. Recently I had a girl ask me out on a date after months of me stone walling her. So I asked her straight up would sex be involved and she said yes. So to see if she was genuine with me I said past girlfriends did anal so she would have to too if we were to be together. She said no way she was not that type of girl and yet for two months she tried to persuade me to go out and have sex with her without anal.
I told her nope my way or the highway and she stopped finally asking me because she couldn’t pin me down and try to change my way of thinking. So if you are ever in a situation where the woman you are with is giving you one excuse after another as to why they don’t want to do a specific sexual act chances are you are her second, third or fourth choice in bed and she is trying to pin you down as a beta provider. Even simp men are manipulated into this thinking as you read above with the guy I knew so try not to fall into this trap if you do have to have sex, and remember always use protection. But the best advice is just don’t have sex with them in the first place and you will never find yourself in this situation but if you are young and still have the urge look for this s~~~ test.
, 2 years, 9 months ago.
