One reason why Red Pill status is easy to maintain

[GregB0Participant]

It is hard enough to remember my opinions, without also remembering my reasons for them!
– Frederick Nietzsche

Women assume that men will forget past betrayals and transgressions, but they don’t realize that these incidents and actions ensure that we form negative opinions about and against them. As the incidents continue to occur over one’s life, these negative opinions only become stronger and stronger.

This is why Red Pill status is so very hard for them to dislodge. It goes way beyond, “Once Bitten Twice Shy”, and resides at “Never let someone with the significance of a speed bump become a roadblock in your life.”

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 0]

Yes and men tend to forgive and forget a LOT. We’ve evolved to be loyal to our women. For us to start developing a slowly increasing grudge, often many many years of emotional abuse is required. And then we still doubt ourselves, place the blame on ourselves, often being gaslighted by our spouses. It takes a lot of emotional harm before a man wants out of a relationship.

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

I think Most Men want to be Blue Pill. It’s all they know.

It only takes One Women and her deeds/lies/betrayals etc. for a Man to experience the Red Pill.

The Red Pill has to be Learned, Experienced, Embraced and Assimilated.

Once this happens, it’s all over for any lil cupcake !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 18]

Awakened wrote:

The Red Pill has to be Learned, Experienced, Embraced and Assimilated.

ding ding!

[Anonymous 0]

@awakened: Yes. The weaker men are slaves to their hormones and insecurities. My self respect comes first.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

GregB0 wrote:

“Never let someone with the significance of a speed bump become a roadblock in your life.”

Exactly, in the end people come and go and most of them are unimportant in my life. Roll right over them.

[GregB0Participant]

Awakened wrote:

Once this happens, it’s all over for any lil cupcake !!

GregB0 wrote:

remembering my reasons for them!

Exactly Awakened, we experience and remember. It may have started with our reaction to the heat of fire, the teeth of a cave bear or the acidic taste of Holly berries, but we do remember those things that cause us pain and after a fashion even death.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 43]

I hate taking the red pill every morning. I hate the bitter aftertaste, I hate the smell, the texture. I can’t wash it down with enough water, it stays with me all day and into the night. I would love nothing better than to find a nice girlfriend to have dinner with, and cuddle up with a movie. that just sounds so normal and wonderful and just perfect. I want to feel the love hormones shimmering through my body, colorful sparkles and a high like no other. I miss the feeling of being wanted, to feel the presence of someone I care about next to me. I miss touching and being touched. I miss being vulnerable and trusting someone will listen and not beat me down.

with the red pill, I can’t have that anymore. I can’t trust anyone to be with me any more. I expect that if I trust someone, I will be betrayed, crushed and left for dead again. I can’t do it. this is my red pill rage. I can’t let a woman close to me again. I have to find solace in other things, but these things don’t love me back. and maybe what a woman gives isn’t love. it might be behavior that makes her acceptable to me for the time I am with her, an act.

but the investment in finding such a person is huge. ‘does anyone really think there is one person out there just for you? God created a woman just for you, just waiting for you two to meet? how does that work exactly? No what happens is you see a beautiful woman and you talk to her, she thinks you have the resources and the physical ability to take care of her. now you can have a relationship. You can show 100 women a bank account with $100,000 or more in it and presto you have 100 girlfriends.

nothing magical about that. then, when the money is used up, she will move on. Being nice will not save a relationship. Doing more kind things will not save a relationsht, and a sudden gush of interest and love will not save a relations~~~…only an increase of new and better resources will save it, until the next decline in resources.

she is not your girlfriend for life, it’s just your turn.

there is a reason why men are introduced to her family. it is for the collective wisdom of the family to assess the worth of a man. there is a reason why men ask women’s fathers for permission to marry…for that father to assess the resources of the man.

I sorely regret not asking the c~~~’s father for permission to marry. he would have said no, and I think I would have broken up with her then and saved myself 20 years of aggravation and pain.

it is the fear of betrayal and the subsequent collapse that keeps me away from women. I cant be wrecked again. I cant fall down like I did before. I can’t survive another run through the s~~~ vortex. i will surely drown next time.

I used to be afraid of being alone. getting married soothed that away, but opened me up to a whole realm of unseen liabilities and consequences. now I fear being with a woman and having it all go sideways only worse this time.

[GregB0Participant]

Anonymous wrote:

I would love nothing better than to find a nice girlfriend to have dinner with, and cuddle up with a movie. that just sounds so normal and wonderful and just perfect.

Anonymous wrote:

I used to be afraid of being alone. getting married soothed that away, but opened me up to a whole realm of unseen liabilities and consequences. now I fear being with a woman and having it all go sideways only worse this time.

May 7th, Thank you for sharing and this is solid MGTOW gold. I am sure that many other members would quickly second your message and acknowledge that they also will not allow themselves to be hurt by a woman again.

As you described, a woman has her family/tribe/pack while we have only ourselves and those brothers who have been scarred by falsehoods, betrayals and persecution.

May you continue to heal and prosper.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 43]

gregbo…ok fine ill get hurt to some degree again, but it could be so much worse now that I am older. Today’s younger women are not put together the same any more, not emotionally strong enough to deal with my issues. women my age may have diseases, more debts, adult children and possibly grandchildren, headed for menopause and that s~~~ vortex of changing hormones. chances are I would take up with some divorcee who put her ex-husband through the same meatgrinder I went through. F~~~ that. Why would I want that for myself??

there is always the one phone call to contend with…even dating a girl in one of my classes would seem creepy, my own daughter is this age, or younger.

I can’t do it. Without the damned red pill I would be destroyed again, and not understand why.

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Ignorance is not bliss, and no one wants to go through that hell again. Even if you try to be blue pill, it will haunt you in every moment of your life, as to what dark and sadistic planning will be made to destroy you, when she considers you used up. Once you know, you cannot forget.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Perhaps belief in God (not necessarily a particular common religion), would help ease the pain? It’s someone to be vulnerable to and doesn’t talk back.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[AttonParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Yes and men tend to forgive and forget a LOT. We’ve evolved to be loyal to our women. For us to start developing a slowly increasing grudge, often many many years of emotional abuse is required. And then we still doubt ourselves, place the blame on ourselves, often being gaslighted by our spouses. It takes a lot of emotional harm before a man wants out of a relationship.

It all becomes very easy when the big head does the thinking.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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