Once you have had the hottest

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

I was not sure what to title this thread, but I believe I may have been with the most attractive woman I may ever meet in my life. I’m not ruling out the possibility that if I desire to continue to be with women that I may find one more attractive. I also know that it is probably not good to give one woman that much credit. At the same time though, I feel like since I was with her it takes away the allure of other women. I feel like I have accomplished something far greater. I don’t miss her or long to be with her anymore, I had my fun with her and as far a relationship she was insane. I am just wondering do any other guys have the same experience? Do you know what I mean? I’ll be honest, I went on a long sex spree for a while. I wanted to take away the power of sex by giving in to it. Maybe that is backwards but it seems to have worked somewhat. I got pretty disgusted. So maybe I am on two discussions now.

1. have you been with a girl you would consider the most attractive and how does that effect your future outlook on women?

2. have you ever went on a spree as a defense or to counteract the allure of women?

So, in a sense, my thought process was: I’m going to have sex with a lot of women to stop any one single woman having that much power over me.

Don't care

[StealthParticipant 5326]

I’m guessing this post will inspire criticism, but I sort of get what you’re saying.
I had a borderline personality sex addict who was a hard act to follow. Nothing was as exciting or contorted afterwards, and I lost interest in dating, I needed tons of red pills on my exit from it but once I realized in retrospect what I was dealing with, I began the process of “unc~~~ing”. In retrospect I am glad for the experience, but would not do it again.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

I don’t care if it gets criticism. I am just being honest. The one thing women have is sex. I am talking about destroying the appeal of it by overindulgence. Of course it is a dangerous game to play and I don’t suggest it. Also just wondering if everyone has that one girl in their life that they would put above the others and compare them to. If a woman was to truly interest me now, it wouldn’t be through physical attraction or sex. I’ve been there done that. She better have what I am looking for, which is ironically enough, values. lol Seriously I am a MGTOW because going online for years and seeing liberal single moms on there too much. I am not interested in people like that.

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[Anonymous 18]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

I don’t miss her or long to be with her anymore, I had my fun with her

That’s correct. She wasn’t your girl, it was just your turn. Like the guy banging her now.

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

I wanted to take away the power of sex by giving in to it.

That is backwards. You are giving in to the allure of sex. You take away power by not doing what your natural instincts tell you to do.

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

1. have you been with a girl you would consider the most attractive and how does that effect your future outlook on women?

AWALT. The illusion of attractive woman being different or superior in other aspects than a ugly woman needs to be shattered once. And then you wake up.

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

2. have you ever went on a spree as a defense or to counteract the allure of women?

Yes, and it only made the problem worse. More you submit to your sexual urges, the more you are relinquishing your power and autonomy.

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

So, in a sense, my thought process was: I’m going to have sex with a lot of women to stop any one single woman having that much power over me.

That didn’t work, did it?

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Anonymous wrote:

That didn’t work, did it?

I went without sex for 3 years. I messed up months ago and was with 2 different women but since then have turned down offers like last night.

The reality and fear of kids and stds grew and grew. I know that I have dodged some bullets and been lucky thus far. I don’t like pushing my luck like that much anymore.

Look, I know people here will say it is best not to be with women at all and I will agree. I am saying that is not the way it went for me and I am asking if anyone else on here has shared my experience.

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[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

There was this lil story told by someone who was traveling with Gene Simmons years ago. Gene is well known for his exploits with Women over the years.

Anyways, this individual sees Gene one night with a smoking 9 as they go off to his hotel room. The next evening he saw him with a 4 – 5 as they too went off to his hotel room.

The following day he asks Gene, “What’s Up how can you be with a 9 one night and then with a 4 the next ??”

Gene replied with something to the effect that, “You can’t have Filet Mignon every night, and there’s nothing wrong with a baloney sandwich either”

Gene, if you’re around, please correct as needed. LOL

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Gene Simmons is a sick f~~~. Makes me think of George Carlin, “I’ve never been with a 10 but I’ve f~~~ed 5 2’s.” Gene is sick because of the amount of women he has been with, it is insane. Does that man have any stds?

So sleeping with tons of women didn’t kill the appeal for Gene but I don’t think he gives a s~~~ about kids or stds, probably doesn’t care about much.

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[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Even though Monk is most prevalent paradigm on this forum (and I respect that) not everyone here is a Monk. Some of us prefer to navigate the treacherous waters with awareness and knowledge of the risks.

To many, hottest is looks. To me it’s performance and attitude. The hottest girl(s) I know can suck start a Harley and are generous doing it. She pays for her own meals. Has her own home and never wants to live with me. She’s got her own money, her own life and is intelligent enough to talk STEM, philosophy and sociology equally. A unicorn, an AWALT? It makes no difference because I have rules and I make them very clear up front. If she doesn’t like the rules she knows I will show her the door. I don’t miss them when they leave. They know and accept I see who I want, when I want, how I want. I don’t play them, I am not a player. When they are not with me, I am focused on me and I don’t care what they do. Obviously I am not a monk, and sit at the other end of MGTOW. Keenly aware of the risks, I know the redpill, watch for redflags and prefer to manage woman rather than avoid them. That’s My Way.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

I am looking for quite the opposite. I want a woman who doesn’t have a job and isn’t in college because if we have kids, she is homeschooling. She will be a wife at home. Talk about hard to find. Thus MGTOW

Of course, the ideal personality trumps physical attraction any day.

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[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

I am looking for quite the opposite. I want a woman who doesn’t have a job and isn’t in college because if we have kids, she is homeschooling. She will be a wife at home. Talk about hard to find. Thus MGTOW

Be VERY careful what you “wish” for, IT may come True……..

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Dude come on, you are sounding like a SIMP. Bro pussy is pussy no matter how attractive the girl. Dude you are giving this 1 women way too much power. AWALT bro, AWALT!

Women have used sex to control men for centuries. Just using the bible as reference, David and Samson were manipulated by the “fairer” sex.

By indulging in their one strength over men, can you truly say you have autonomy?

Can you truly say you are using this destructive behavior to bring about a suitable result?

The answer is no. It takes discipline to abstain from hedonism. By playing this game, you are playing with fire. Autonomy is being able to use your rational brain to override the lizard brain. Stop thinking with your dick…

Look I’m 25, and I pump and dump women too. However, I realized that putting one specific women on a pedestal is not only futile, but it is downright dangerous. It only takes one chance for a women to destroy a man’s sovereignty.

I’ve learned to accept the game as it is. Women will only have power over you if you allow them to do so. Just pump and dump and invest no emotion what so ever.

There are no unicorns, so stop deluding yourself. I’ve been there, and in the end you are only playing yourself.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

Bro pussy is pussy no matter how attractive the girl. Dude you are giving this 1 women way too much power. AWALT bro, AWALT!

Onetruemisfit may have a lingering case of oneitis.

I’ve been there, more then once, it really sucks, but it’s completely curable !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

What the hell are you talking about? Obviously some women are more attractive than others. It is a personal preference, but I am saying to me personally this girl is more attractive than probably any other girl I have met or will meet. Sure I could be more critical of her, but she doesn’t have power over me. I had her. I don’t care what other guys have had her, I don’t know them and I never will.

I’m saying she is a defense against all other women. They reject me, f~~~ them, they fail in comparison to her.

I guess I am saying that I need that validation from a woman. But then again it is also from within. I mean is it all about this one girl or is the fact that I was with her? Did I need to be with her? No. But once you enter that territory and you lose your virginity. Don’t you always compare?

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[Anonymous 54]

Ive known some beautiful chicks.

After a while they become invisable.Interesting flaws, and uniquness becomes more appealing.
I got it all out of my system.

Now I mostly see brains. And whats going on in there.Nothing good, nothing for youre best interest.

[Anonymous 0]

I sympathize with the appeal of the possibility that one could marry a horny housewife, and she would homeschool the kids, and make hot breakfast every morning.

I tried it 25 years ago and it didn’t work out that way. Modern women can punch out of a marriage with a golden parachute made of your money anytime they want. The risk is just too high in my opinion. I learned the hard way.

As far as tomcatting / pumping-dumping, it’s a good sport as long as you don’t act on temptation to take one in and co-habitate. That’s when legal liability starts.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

I’m saying she is a defense against all other women. They reject me, f~~~ them, they fail in comparison to her.

Bro, you are trying to claim she is a NAWALT, but she has your ass right in the palms of her hands.

Sounds pretty damn blue pill to me. Renew your prescription on red pills ASAP!

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

Bro, you are trying to claim she is a NAWALT, but she has your ass right in the palms of her hands.

Sounds pretty damn blue pill to me. Renew your prescription on red pills ASAP!

I’m saying she is not like most women in the looks department only.

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[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

To quote Mouse, in “The Matrix”: (regarding the woman in the red dress)

“To deny our own impulses is to deny the very thing that makes us human.”

Just as long as you understand that and don’t attach any higher meaning to the feel goods of climaxing with your pecker pulsing inside a vagina. That’s all it is. F~~~ all that “oxytocin” hormone emotional BS. F~~~ soulmates and that BS.

Its all BS. Peck away at that meat hole like a woodpecker, but be reasonable about it in avoiding disease, pregnancy and potential false accusations.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

I’m saying she is not like most women in the looks department only.

Bro she is a dime a dozen. I’ve been several 8-9, and once you know their true nature they are all the same. You need to wake up.

Once you let her in, she has all the power. Just know you are playing with fire, and eventually you WILL get burned.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

Did I need to be with her? No. But once you enter that territory and you lose your virginity. Don’t you always compare?

I have an actual Excel spreadsheet with all the women listed on it, and 8 main categories and 34 sub-criteria that I evaluate women on. I then come up with 8 main category ratings (e.g. sex, personality, looks, social life, etc) from the 34 sub-criteria and an overall rating.

Gets pretty detailed, like sex has like 7 criteria. I don’t remember them all, but “wetness”, “tightness”, “intensity of orgasms”, “overall how good the during is — e.g. is she a fish”, “how hard is it for her to cum”, etc.

Earlier this year, I had two girlfriends, and I rated them side by side on the spreadsheet to determine which one to break up with.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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