Once women f~~~ around they are unmarrigable

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25019]

If we were going to do an experiment that looks at what having many sexual partners does we couldn’t do it on regular women because everybody lies about how many lovers they have had. Except for sex workers.

I make the presumption that women today have so much sex over the 18-32, 14 year period of being ho’s will be similar to that of a sex worker who has learned to treat sex as a transaction, not as an expression of “love (whatever that hormonal condition is)”.

Conclusion: Once women have more than a handful of partners they can no longer have a normal sex life with a man. It is about “what’s in it for her”. And sex with a long term lover is “hard work”, even for an ex hooker that had probably 10 a day for 15 years.

About four months into our relationship, like many couples, our sex life began to change. Sure, we’d still have the occasional quick f~~~ on the kitchen table right after we’d ordered dinner but before the delivery person arrived. More often, there were a lot of long baths together, couples massages and staring meaningfully into each other’s eyes. “Getting in the mood” was never something I’d required when I had sex for money or on a whim. At first, I was ambivalent about having sex for free when I didn’t necessarily desire it. But a healthy sex life, I’m learning, requires effort. Though I’d never considered myself a selfish lover, I had to confront my “what’s in it for me” attitude that came from having previously been compensated for my company.

Sex workers learn strategies of distancing, disengagement, dissociation and disembodiment to allow for the separation of their work from their self. This is according to researchers like Wendy Chapkis and Teela Sanders and interpreted by the sex worker’s rights movement as a defense that sex work is non-affecting. Problem is, you can’t turn embodiment on and off like a switch. You can only shut down. When you habitually disengage and disassociate, you narrow your range of emotional experiences. Working in the sex industry, I shut down. I went numb. I lost my ability to empathize. Returning and remaining present in my body, nearly a decade later, remains a daily practice.

When I stopped having sex for money I suffered from the fallacy that sex for free should never feel like work. What I learned: It sometimes does. It can also feel different. It can feel like love.

http://www.salon.com/2015/05/17/intimacy_after_the_call_girl_years_how_sex_work_changed_the_way_i_have_sex/

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[DilbertParticipant 281]

Nowadays they don’t even need that to be unmarriageable… lol

It is for very good reasons the Devil chose to tempt Eve not Adam...

[griffinParticipant 189]

I honestly don’t think it matters either way….my ex wife was a virgin when I met her.  That didn’t stop her from ultimately finding some other guy to f~~~ after about 7 years of marriage and then leave me for…

[BDParticipant 1146]

I don’t even take the time to ask a woman how many different partners that she has had, reason, she will most likely lie about it anyway. I never answer how many partners that I have had because it actually is none of their business, not because it is such a high number but because I can’t remember and do not care to even try to count. It’s none of their business if I have had threesomes, sex parties or if I were a virgin, it’s none of their business what I have done before I met them. It’s just another s~~~ test and every answer is a fail, there’s a bullet in every chamber.

However, if I find out that a girl has cheated on a guy, I label it as a red flag and accept that she is only ever going to amount to a booty call. For some reason, I have met many girls that admitted to cheating on their previous boyfriends, of course it was followed immediately with the innocent bystander excuse. Since going Mgtow I don’t even want many women around because I am enjoying the solitude, and time with the bros is just way more fun!

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[AFTParticipant 2726]

I think now that feminism has set in ALL women are unmarriageable. Really think about it, in order to get married I’d need guarantees of fidelity, loyalty, virtue, and performance. Then an iron clad agreement that I’d be protected if either of us didn’t live up to our end of that bargain, she could take what she came in with and so could I. Custody and financial support of children should be negotiated from a starting point of 50/50 equal share and responsibility.
We all know that’s a dream in today’s gynocracy, I’d get as much custody as she allows, with all the financial responsibility on my shoulders, including the legal leeches.
The other possibility is to find a woman, with as much as I have, that works and contributes equally………it was so hard writing that last sentence while I was falling off my chair from laughter……..Only UNICORNS are marriageable…..that’s why we are all here, lamenting the fact that there are no such things.

Before we talk about who is marriageable, lets consider….what’s in it for me? Marriage is a no go in this society, whore or virgin makes no difference.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

Never mind the women themselves. Never might what they’ve done or who they’ve slept with. Whether she’s a virginal saint or a wind broke whore won’t change the fact that divorce laws and family courts make marriage an unacceptable risk for any man. The women are irrelevant.

Marriage isn’t a contract between you and a woman. It’s a contract between you and the state for the benefit of women. And the state can change the terms on you at a whim. And the state is not on your side. And the state is not your friend. A 50% divorce rate is too chancy a gamble, especially when the house always wins.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Corrected version: *women are umarrigable.
And even if they were “marriable”, marriage is still the legal equivalent of bending over after giving the state and the wifey a 15 inch strap-on and some lube.
Go mgtow or expect to wake up with a sore butthole once the wifey is bored of you

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Sky-OParticipant 18966]

I agree 100% with HR P.

However, women sometimes have the capacity to emotionally & psychological hold on to the first guy that ever f~~~ed them.

Years ago, a slut that I dated a decade prior tracked me down on Facebook.

She was married, but in the first few phone conversations, I realized she had maintained an idealized version of me the entire time we were apart. I had taken her virginity prior.

I didn’t know how much of an affect that had on a woman until weeks on the phone and having not seen her in 11 years, she started crying and said she wanted to leave her husband.

That was during my blue pill days. She wanted out of her marriage, but was using me as a reason.

She left her house on a Tuesday night at 1am and I texted her my address and she came over for what turned into a year long f~~~ fest.

She eventually cheated on me, and I cut my losses.

 

But B

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

I make the presumption that women today have so much sex over the 18-32, 14 year period of being ho’s will be similar to that of a sex worker who has learned to treat sex as a transaction, not as an expression of “love (whatever that hormonal condition is)”. 

I got this chick living down the hall from me that moved in maybe 3 months ago.  She’s probably somewhere between 25-30 if I had to guess…insanely hot.  Cute face, killer body…but…in the 3 months she’s lived here I think she’s on her third boyfriend.  I never really talked to her much more than a hello in passing in the hall or stupid meaningless s~~~ like the weather if I bump into her outside, I try not to get to friendly with most the neighbors…just keep it casual to avoid drama, so I don’t know for a fact, but when you see some dude stumbling out of there early in the morning a few times you kinda assume he spent the night and didn’t just show up early to have pop tarts for breakfast with her before work.

Its s~~~ like this that just makes me want to have nothing to do with whores.  For all I know she was married for the last 10 years to her first partner and just got divorced and had a few flings so her count isn’t really super high, but on the other hand if this is average behavior for her and she’s had a new dick every month or two for the last 10 years holy f~~~ing god that is a lot of dicks and I’ve already decided even if she threw herself at me I’d turn it down.

More or less with a girl like this…she obviously knows she can get guys to do s~~~ for her, and how easy it is to hop on the next dick whenever she feels like it…if you think you’d be the last dick she’d ever hop on you are an idiot.  The longest you could hope to keep her faithful is maybe a couple years if she wanted kids and you had a good job…she’d keep you around long enough to pop the kids out and make sure she had enough time vested in you to totally destroy you in divorce court, then she’d be on the next dick.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

Darn, meh post disappeared :S

Anywho; the jist of it was this: http://s3.amazonaws.com/thf_media/2003/pdf/Bookofcharts.pdf

Enjoy!

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If women had an ounce of logic and self discipline; wouldn’t it make sense to want to be a virgin rather than sleeping around all the time?
😛
On the other hand, maybe their goals are really just to find those meal tickets… and to f~~~ the relationship.

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Those charts are pretty interesting.  One of the things I noticed was the charts for females starting to have sex early and having more partners are the exact opposite of the marriage stability chart.  Its what men on this forum have been saying all along…if you want to spend 10-15 years on the c~~~ carousel don’t expect a decent guy to marry you when you when you decide its time to stop being a slut and settle down.  Once you get to that point all the decent guys have already found someone not so slutty, have realized they can pick up younger chicks who may be as slutty but have had less use just because they have had less time on the carousel, or have realized marriage is a scam and simply don’t want anything to do with marriage.

[xgreenlanternoxParticipant 253]

Beer wrote:

Those charts are pretty interesting. One of the things I noticed was the charts for females starting to have sex early and having more partners are the exact opposite of the marriage stability chart. Its what men on this forum have been saying all along…if you want to spend 10-15 years on the c~~~ carousel don’t expect a decent guy to marry you when you when you decide its time to stop being a slut and settle down. Once you get to that point all the decent guys have already found someone not so slutty, have realized they can pick up younger chicks who may be as slutty but have had less use just because they have had less time on the carousel, or have realized marriage is a scam and simply don’t want anything to do with marriage.

PREACH! Love it. They’ll always have their cats at least!

 

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

oh, pooy. did i link to the wrong article? :S

anywho; main thing i wanted to point out was the # of sexual partners & divorce rates.

If you actually marry a virgin, got a 20% chance of divorce
If she’s had sex with someone other than yourself, 40-50% chance of divorce
10+ partners = 80% chance of divorce.

Those are based on stats from 1995; it’s much worse now.

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[jack reacherParticipant 751]

HotNoob – exactly. The more partners she has had, the more she considers men disposable. As the posts have said, sex for those sloors is a transaction, so when they don’t get what they think they want, they move on. the bitch is constantly asking “what is in it for me?” F~~~ing love, does anyone still believe that s~~~ these days? Marriage is one of the largest and riskiest transactions most men will ever enter into.

I think the top post with the sex worker article would be great information for blue pill guys that are actually considering marrying. If these guys see enough information like that, they will hopefully catch on. Funny though – all c~~~ carousel broads are just like sex workers!

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25019]

@ Beer

I always wondered how much sex single women 25-35 actually had. So, I played it very cool and nonjudgemental and learned that almost all the women I asked told me that they had around 6 sex partners per year when they were not in a serious relationship and she defines that, when she’s manogamous, not you.

So from 18 of first sex to 32 ready to marry we have 14 x 6 or 84 sexual parners on average. My N is about 15 I’d say.

And that’s at 32. Wait until 40, then it’s 22 x 6 or 132 partners.

Then they wonder why older guys go for younger let we say more taught then their older competition, loosey goosey.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

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