I make the presumption that women today have so much sex over the 18-32, 14 year period of being ho’s will be similar to that of a sex worker who has learned to treat sex as a transaction, not as an expression of “love (whatever that hormonal condition is)”.

Conclusion: Once women have more than a handful of partners they can no longer have a normal sex life with a man. It is about “what’s in it for her”. And sex with a long term lover is “hard work”, even for an ex hooker that had probably 10 a day for 15 years.

About four months into our relationship, like many couples, our sex life began to change. Sure, we’d still have the occasional quick f~~~ on the kitchen table right after we’d ordered dinner but before the delivery person arrived. More often, there were a lot of long baths together, couples massages and staring meaningfully into each other’s eyes. “Getting in the mood” was never something I’d required when I had sex for money or on a whim. At first, I was ambivalent about having sex for free when I didn’t necessarily desire it. But a healthy sex life, I’m learning, requires effort. Though I’d never considered myself a selfish lover, I had to confront my “what’s in it for me” attitude that came from having previously been compensated for my company.

Sex workers learn strategies of distancing, disengagement, dissociation and disembodiment to allow for the separation of their work from their self. This is according to researchers like Wendy Chapkis and Teela Sanders and interpreted by the sex worker’s rights movement as a defense that sex work is non-affecting. Problem is, you can’t turn embodiment on and off like a switch. You can only shut down. When you habitually disengage and disassociate, you narrow your range of emotional experiences. Working in the sex industry, I shut down. I went numb. I lost my ability to empathize. Returning and remaining present in my body, nearly a decade later, remains a daily practice.

When I stopped having sex for money I suffered from the fallacy that sex for free should never feel like work. What I learned: It sometimes does. It can also feel different. It can feel like love.

http://www.salon.com/2015/05/17/intimacy_after_the_call_girl_years_how_sex_work_changed_the_way_i_have_sex/

However, if I find out that a girl has cheated on a guy, I label it as a red flag and accept that she is only ever going to amount to a booty call. For some reason, I have met many girls that admitted to cheating on their previous boyfriends, of course it was followed immediately with the innocent bystander excuse. Since going Mgtow I don’t even want many women around because I am enjoying the solitude, and time with the bros is just way more fun!

Before we talk about who is marriageable, lets consider….what’s in it for me? Marriage is a no go in this society, whore or virgin makes no difference.

Marriage isn’t a contract between you and a woman. It’s a contract between you and the state for the benefit of women. And the state can change the terms on you at a whim. And the state is not on your side. And the state is not your friend. A 50% divorce rate is too chancy a gamble, especially when the house always wins.

However, women sometimes have the capacity to emotionally & psychological hold on to the first guy that ever f~~~ed them.

Years ago, a slut that I dated a decade prior tracked me down on Facebook.

She was married, but in the first few phone conversations, I realized she had maintained an idealized version of me the entire time we were apart. I had taken her virginity prior.

I didn’t know how much of an affect that had on a woman until weeks on the phone and having not seen her in 11 years, she started crying and said she wanted to leave her husband.

That was during my blue pill days. She wanted out of her marriage, but was using me as a reason.

She left her house on a Tuesday night at 1am and I texted her my address and she came over for what turned into a year long f~~~ fest.

She eventually cheated on me, and I cut my losses.

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I make the presumption that women today have so much sex over the 18-32, 14 year period of being ho’s will be similar to that of a sex worker who has learned to treat sex as a transaction, not as an expression of “love (whatever that hormonal condition is)”. 

I got this chick living down the hall from me that moved in maybe 3 months ago.  She’s probably somewhere between 25-30 if I had to guess…insanely hot.  Cute face, killer body…but…in the 3 months she’s lived here I think she’s on her third boyfriend.  I never really talked to her much more than a hello in passing in the hall or stupid meaningless s~~~ like the weather if I bump into her outside, I try not to get to friendly with most the neighbors…just keep it casual to avoid drama, so I don’t know for a fact, but when you see some dude stumbling out of there early in the morning a few times you kinda assume he spent the night and didn’t just show up early to have pop tarts for breakfast with her before work.

Its s~~~ like this that just makes me want to have nothing to do with whores.  For all I know she was married for the last 10 years to her first partner and just got divorced and had a few flings so her count isn’t really super high, but on the other hand if this is average behavior for her and she’s had a new dick every month or two for the last 10 years holy f~~~ing god that is a lot of dicks and I’ve already decided even if she threw herself at me I’d turn it down.

More or less with a girl like this…she obviously knows she can get guys to do s~~~ for her, and how easy it is to hop on the next dick whenever she feels like it…if you think you’d be the last dick she’d ever hop on you are an idiot.  The longest you could hope to keep her faithful is maybe a couple years if she wanted kids and you had a good job…she’d keep you around long enough to pop the kids out and make sure she had enough time vested in you to totally destroy you in divorce court, then she’d be on the next dick.

Anywho; the jist of it was this: http://s3.amazonaws.com/thf_media/2003/pdf/Bookofcharts.pdf

Enjoy!

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If women had an ounce of logic and self discipline; wouldn’t it make sense to want to be a virgin rather than sleeping around all the time?
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On the other hand, maybe their goals are really just to find those meal tickets… and to f~~~ the relationship.