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The only women I have contacting me is overweight women. I’ve must have reached out to well north of 120 + women over the last three months and tried multiple Q & A with questions about their profile or pics, no luck. Then some openers I’ve found online that supposedly had a good track record on response, no luck. Getting a bit discouraged here. I think I have decent pics. All recent, I’m muscular and in shape. I must be missing something. In Feb., I had 5 – 8 different women conversing with me at a time. Not sure what happened. Trying to see if OLD is pathetic or if it’s just me.
Nope not just you. WOmen aren’t on those sites to really meet anyone they’re just on there to get attention. The half way decent ones get a crap ton of messages a day if you really want to get a response you need to stand out. Someone on here recommended initiating contact with something like “oh my god you’re so ” and just leave it at that. Theory being you’ll trigger all kinds of things off in her brain not completing such a sentence.
And then in your profile don’t give them a dossier , give a minimal amount of information and nothing more . You don’t want them to have no questions left to ask when they finish reading your profile, in fact if you want her to respond back she should have MORE questions than she started with by the time she finishes reading your profile.
Good luck brother.
Trying to see if OLD is pathetic or if it’s just me.
Try posting pics of you’re wallet. Just remember that size is everything…
Anonymous6You may luck up and find a few old chicks that stayed in shaped. But don’t test your luck
Anonymous18Online dating will get you depressed.
It is meant to serve as a cog in the wheel to meet feminine imperative. It serves as an avenue for undesirable women to find/secure a beta.
As KM states its online emailing. Dating happens in real life.
Being a man your approval stamp goes ‘stamp stamp stamp’ for any women 6+. Women online choose photos that make them 30 lbs lighter and overall are not a representation of their real selves. Not accounting for personality/character that could explain a woman in her mid-30s to 50s resorting to the internet for a man’s attention.
WOmen aren’t on those sites to really meet anyone they’re just on there to get attention.
+1.
In Feb., I had 5 – 8 different women conversing with me at a time. Not sure what happened. Trying to see if OLD is pathetic or if it’s just me.
Right before Valentine’s Day, wasn’t it?
I would highly suggest terminating any online services you employ to get pussy.
Most women I have encountered online already have a c~~~ filling her cravings. You are actually what she is online looking for: a wallet.
Is that the role you want to play?
If you are depressed about it – create a fake profile – no pictures needed – make it sound like you come from money.
See the wheels turn.
But why waste your time.
The conditioning is a hard thing to break. But you must in order to free yourself.
It ain’t easy brother, but its doable.
If you truly want success with online dating, or at least to receive some interest you have to come to grips with the fact that YOU don’t f~~~ing matter. Who you are, what you have been through, what you need, your hopes and dreams, what a good person you are… all irrelevant.
Change your profile up. Your photos should contain you with various high priced material items. Have a photo of you getting into a Ferrari or a vette, maybe on a Harley, you by your yacht etc- who cares that none of it is actually yours and you are on a test drive, or only standing on a pier next to someone else’s boat.
Scratch everything about yourself that you have written and just talk about the fun and expensive things you want to do, and share with the right woman… The trips, those nice restaurants, the money just burning a hole in your pocket that you won’t be happy until you find a woman to share it with…
Personally I would just get off the dating site, but to each his own.
Anonymous13Oh man, seriously?
You’re going there again?
Even if you found one that isn’t overweight and seems like a genuine snowflake,
You KNOW it’s a lie, right?
It’s all a hiding to nowhere,
If she’s the right one, etc, she’s gonna want a relationship and eventual marriage AGAIN.
GUESS WHAT?
You’re going to lose even more life force tending to HER needs for ANOTHER EVENTUAL BREAKUP OR DIVORCE RAPE.
Seriously, this s~~~ is over.
Women are over.
A nice one has a SEA OF C~~~S messaging her EVERY DAY.
YOU CANNOT WIN AT THIS RIDICULOUS GAME.
THERE IS NO LOVE.
Anonymous13I’ll say again, the what you call decent ones are bathing in a SEA of c~~~s, and all it does is rain c~~~.
Man, you need to protect your sanity.
A hiding to nowhere.
Online dating is first for attention, then for f~~~ing, and nothing more. If you’re going to do it all, ask yourself what would Chad do? Chad wouldn’t spend time crafting personal messages. He would just say “Hello” and nothing more. When Chad gets a response, he wouldn’t ask a question for at least another day. He’s already drowning in pussy. This bitch doesn’t matter. When Chad does get around to asking a question, he gets right down to it: what are you looking for? The chick will say something like “friends,” which is code for f~~~ buddies. Chad: me too. Then ghost. Ask for a number 24-48 hours later. If she doesn’t oblige, screw that, too much effort, next. If she does, immediately set up a place to meet. Go see her. Escalate. Bring her home. F~~~ her. And never see her again because there’s more bitches wondering “why isn’t this douche responding to me?” and getting wet at the same time.
She wants attention and when she doesn’t get it, she’s insecure. When she’s insecure, she hamsters. When she hamsters, she wants external validation. Everyone gives it to her except for Chad. So he’s on her brain all the time. And when she figures out the only way to get validation from Chad is sex, she f~~~s him. Chad leaves, never to be seen again. But that’s ok, there are more fish in the sea. Wait, who’s this other guy that won’t talk to me?
It’s sick, but if you want a warm hole to jack off in, that’s the game.
MAGA
I’ll say again, the what you call decent ones are bathing in a SEA of c~~~s, and all it does is rain c~~~.
Maybe you should re-arrange your profile….
A suggestion:
Hobbies: Protecting baby seal foundation member
Crochet’ (hey, it isn’t just for women anymore)
watching re-runs of “Bridges of Madison co” , “Thelma & Louise”, and “The View”Likes: Walking out in the rain
Making love during a Thunderstorm
The Beach
OK,…. pretty much anything to do with water.Dislikes: Dirt, work, having NO MONEY, Men that say “NO!”
Goals: Peace on Earth through an effective communication of multi-cultural,generational,religious platforms designed
to instill permanent harmony for lasting edifice.THEN, POST a picture of your D*** wrapped in a $100 Bill, with 2 $50 bills taped to your nuts.
Your server will contact you saying that you need more storage space in your mailbox.
Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)
Autolite, I am sure you have been patiently waiting for the proper thread to post that picture on.
Maybe you should re-arrange your profile….
A suggestion:
Hobbies: Protecting baby seal foundation member
Crochet’ (hey, it isn’t just for women anymore)
watching re-runs of “Bridges of Madison co” , “Thelma & Louise”, and “The View”Likes: Walking out in the rain
Making love during a Thunderstorm
The Beach
OK,…. pretty much anything to do with water.Dislikes: Dirt, work, having NO MONEY, Men that say “NO!”
Goals: Peace on Earth through an effective communication of multi-cultural,generational,religious platforms designed
to instill permanent harmony for lasting edifice.THEN, POST a picture of your D*** wrapped in a $100 Bill, with 2 $50 bills taped to your nuts.
Your server will contact you saying that you need more storage space in your mailbox.
Very funny and also entirely likely to succeed
"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.
I must be missing something.
Yes, you are missing something.
Your user name is “ForeverDone” and you’re trying on-line dating. What you’re missing is self awareness.
Anyway, as Kevin explains, women use those sites more for personal validation than actually dating. If you had bothered to research the issue at places like the OKCupid blog, Redonkulas, or ROK, you would have learned that even marginally attractive women find their in-boxes quickly flooded to capacity, that women deign to message only the top 20% of so of men, and that average men get far fewer messages than even low SMV women.
Online dating is an exercise in futility. Even apps like Tinder have “reverted to mean”. If for some pathetic reason you still feel the need to date or require female companionship, let me suggest services like meetup DOT com.
Meetup is a website which lets individuals interested in certain activities find groups in their area for those activities. It also allows groups to “advertise” themselves and their recent activities. I used it to find hiking groups but the range of activities represented is enormous and more ages are covered than just 18-25.
I was part of a theater group for a while, watching not acting, but after attending a few plays left because the women in the group were more interested in me than the performance. Something like that may be what you’re looking for.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
What I have found is the decent looking 40-50 year old women now believe they are MILFs and Cougars and f~~~ younger men. The younger men f~~~ them because they are easy and the women usually already have kids and are not likely to get pregnant. I used to get 0 responses from that age group before I stopped looking.
I’m fairly well to do and not terrible looking, so I can still get 30 somethings, which I dated for over 30 years. Now they are half my age, and the ones that will date/f~~~ me are strictly gold diggers.
Over 50 they are old ladies, no thanks.
(For those women reading this, If one of you had been loyal,honest, reasonable and had stayed, I would have kept you for my old lady. I won’t take you now that you are old. Funny how no one else will either.)
Being old sucks for dating, but I had a great run and I don’t want one anymore, they have nothing but sex to offer at too high a price.
Nope not just you. WOmen aren’t on those sites to really meet anyone they’re just on there to get attention. The half way decent ones get a crap ton of messages a day if you really want to get a response you need to stand out. Someone on here recommended initiating contact with something like “oh my god you’re so ” and just leave it at that. Theory being you’ll trigger all kinds of things off in her brain not completing such a sentence.
And then in your profile don’t give them a dossier , give a minimal amount of information and nothing more . You don’t want them to have no questions left to ask when they finish reading your profile, in fact if you want her to respond back she should have MORE questions than she started with by the time she finishes reading your profile.
Good luck brother.
Yea, I read that somewhere. Women just go there to get attention with actually no intension of interacting unless you’re Jake Gyllenhaal or something. Profile is pretty short and sweet. I took mine down on OkCupid as only ugly (I mean crack the mirror ugly) or huge girls (not exaggerating either) contacted me. Tried Match, out of 92 messages, 21 one of them viewed me, 4 responded, 2 dropped off, one is a woman from Russia who moved here 6 years ago (grad and working, just suspicious). The last one gave me her number, I called her, it just ring ring ring. I messaged her on Match saying your number doesn’t work, no VM. She replied, yea very busy (she’s a librarian, how busy can she be?), said I should reach out on Saturday. Thinking something’s up, as no one these days doesn’t have a VM. Again, very different from the old days.
It’s pathetic. I swear, I feel like a f~~~ing tool.
Trying to see if OLD is pathetic or if it’s just me.
Try posting pics of you’re wallet. Just remember that size is everything…
Never had any complaints on size or girth. :’p
This is going to sound naive, but are they all that vein? I always talked down my successes to pick out gold diggers…
You may luck up and find a few old chicks that stayed in shaped. But don’t test your luck
Not going over 41, but some are still amazingly doable.
Online dating will get you depressed.
It is meant to serve as a cog in the wheel to meet feminine imperative. It serves as an avenue for undesirable women to find/secure a beta.
As KM states its online emailing. Dating happens in real life.
Being a man your approval stamp goes ‘stamp stamp stamp’ for any women 6+. Women online choose photos that make them 30 lbs lighter and overall are not a representation of their real selves. Not accounting for personality/character that could explain a woman in her mid-30s to 50s resorting to the internet for a man’s attention.
WOmen aren’t on those sites to really meet anyone they’re just on there to get attention.
+1.
In Feb., I had 5 – 8 different women conversing with me at a time. Not sure what happened. Trying to see if OLD is pathetic or if it’s just me.
Right before Valentine’s Day, wasn’t it?
I would highly suggest terminating any online services you employ to get pussy.
Most women I have encountered online already have a c~~~ filling her cravings. You are actually what she is online looking for: a wallet.
Is that the role you want to play?
If you are depressed about it – create a fake profile – no pictures needed – make it sound like you come from money.
See the wheels turn.
But why waste your time.
The conditioning is a hard thing to break. But you must in order to free yourself.
It ain’t easy brother, but its doable.
Yea, it was around VD to be honest. I had shut it off and was away for awhile. I had like 20+ messages, some very hot ones. Then, I messaged them back, no response. Granted, it was like 2 months later. I’ve experienced the fake photos. Two women (hog beasts) I saw, one a few weeks ago and one 10 + years ago, looked nothing like their pics. I should had walked out, but we split the bill, never heard from them again.
I guess maybe I should just go to a Jewelry store and take a pic with me wearing one of those Rolexes. LOL.
If you truly want success with online dating, or at least to receive some interest you have to come to grips with the fact that YOU don’t f~~~ing matter. Who you are, what you have been through, what you need, your hopes and dreams, what a good person you are… all irrelevant.
Change your profile up. Your photos should contain you with various high priced material items. Have a photo of you getting into a Ferrari or a vette, maybe on a Harley, you by your yacht etc- who cares that none of it is actually yours and you are on a test drive, or only standing on a pier next to someone else’s boat.
Scratch everything about yourself that you have written and just talk about the fun and expensive things you want to do, and share with the right woman… The trips, those nice restaurants, the money just burning a hole in your pocket that you won’t be happy until you find a woman to share it with…
Personally I would just get off the dating site, but to each his own.
They changed all that s~~~ on Match. Now it’s just q & a’s specific questions.
Oh man, seriously?
You’re going there again?
Even if you found one that isn’t overweight and seems like a genuine snowflake,
You KNOW it’s a lie, right?
It’s all a hiding to nowhere,
If she’s the right one, etc, she’s gonna want a relationship and eventual marriage AGAIN.
GUESS WHAT?
You’re going to lose even more life force tending to HER needs for ANOTHER EVENTUAL BREAKUP OR DIVORCE RAPE.
Seriously, this s~~~ is over.
Women are over.
A nice one has a SEA OF C~~~S messaging her EVERY DAY.
YOU CANNOT WIN AT THIS RIDICULOUS GAME.
THERE IS NO LOVE.
No marriage or long relationships. She has a use, and then done. Love.. LOL. Not sure if that ever existed in the first place.
Online dating is first for attention, then for f~~~ing, and nothing more. If you’re going to do it all, ask yourself what would Chad do? Chad wouldn’t spend time crafting personal messages. He would just say “Hello” and nothing more. When Chad gets a response, he wouldn’t ask a question for at least another day. He’s already drowning in pussy. This bitch doesn’t matter. When Chad does get around to asking a question, he gets right down to it: what are you looking for? The chick will say something like “friends,” which is code for f~~~ buddies. Chad: me too. Then ghost. Ask for a number 24-48 hours later. If she doesn’t oblige, screw that, too much effort, next. If she does, immediately set up a place to meet. Go see her. Escalate. Bring her home. F~~~ her. And never see her again because there’s more bitches wondering “why isn’t this douche responding to me?” and getting wet at the same time.
She wants attention and when she doesn’t get it, she’s insecure. When she’s insecure, she hamsters. When she hamsters, she wants external validation. Everyone gives it to her except for Chad. So he’s on her brain all the time. And when she figures out the only way to get validation from Chad is sex, she f~~~s him. Chad leaves, never to be seen again. But that’s ok, there are more fish in the sea. Wait, who’s this other guy that won’t talk to me?
It’s sick, but if you want a warm hole to jack off in, that’s the game.
Crazy how these women think. Interesting experiment to try. Doubtful it’ll work in NYC Metro area. This is the land where 5’s think they are 10’s.
Maybe you should re-arrange your profile….
A suggestion:
Hobbies: Protecting baby seal foundation member
Crochet’ (hey, it isn’t just for women anymore)
watching re-runs of “Bridges of Madison co” , “Thelma & Louise”, and “The View”Likes: Walking out in the rain
Making love during a Thunderstorm
The Beach
OK,…. pretty much anything to do with water.Dislikes: Dirt, work, having NO MONEY, Men that say “NO!”
Goals: Peace on Earth through an effective communication of multi-cultural,generational,religious platforms designed
to instill permanent harmony for lasting edifice.THEN, POST a picture of your D*** wrapped in a $100 Bill, with 2 $50 bills taped to your nuts.
Your server will contact you saying that you need more storage space in your mailbox.
Rather shoot myself and stay celibate. Celibacy is a bit like marriage… No?
I must be missing something.
Yes, you are missing something.
Your user name is “ForeverDone” and you’re trying on-line dating. What you’re missing is self awareness.
Anyway, as Kevin explains, women use those sites more for personal validation than actually dating. If you had bothered to research the issue at places like the OKCupid blog, Redonkulas, or ROK, you would have learned that even marginally attractive women find their in-boxes quickly flooded to capacity, that women deign to message only the top 20% of so of men, and that average men get far fewer messages than even low SMV women.
Online dating is an exercise in futility. Even apps like Tinder have “reverted to mean”. If for some pathetic reason you still feel the need to date or require female companionship, let me suggest services like meetup DOT com.
Meetup is a website which lets individuals interested in certain activities find groups in their area for those activities. It also allows groups to “advertise” themselves and their recent activities. I used it to find hiking groups but the range of activities represented is enormous and more ages are covered than just 18-25.
I was part of a theater group for a while, watching not acting, but after attending a few plays left because the women in the group were more interested in me than the performance. Something like that may be what you’re looking for.
Forever done is for marriage and LTRs. Tried meetup.com before. May try it again. Last time I was there, I hooked up with a nut job, but the sex was pretty good. Then, she started making demands and I kicked her to the curb. Seems meetup has a lot of questionable people in them…
What I have found is the decent looking 40-50 year old women now believe they are MILFs and Cougars and f~~~ younger men. The younger men f~~~ them because they are easy and the women usually already have kids and are not likely to get pregnant. I used to get 0 responses from that age group before I stopped looking.
I’m fairly well to do and not terrible looking, so I can still get 30 somethings, which I dated for over 30 years. Now they are half my age, and the ones that will date/f~~~ me are strictly gold diggers.
Over 50 they are old ladies, no thanks.
(For those women reading this, If one of you had been loyal,honest, reasonable and had stayed, I would have kept you for my old lady. I won’t take you now that you are old. Funny how no one else will either.)
Being old sucks for dating, but I had a great run and I don’t want one anymore, they have nothing but sex to offer at too high a price.
Only 40, but even the 40 year olds are very picky and stuck-up. Pussy was much easier when I was in the city. Since I am out of the city and in the “country”, it makes things, very difficult in terms of dating.. Err… sex.
Seems meetup has a lot of questionable people in them…
True, but you can meet and interact with them in a non-dating situation first.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
Online dating will get you depressed.
This.
Same with Fakebook. Or pretty much any social media of the same ilk.
I’ll admit I’ve partaken for my own research purposes of late, hopefully I’ll get around to updating my intro as to why exactly.
I know the feeling of needing to reach out, and the struggle to break away from our biological programming. But these f~~~ing sites will only lead you down darker paths. In your own mind, and don’t be letting any of these witches around their cauldrons be living in your head rent free.
'You can achieve more and be happy avoiding the wrong women than you ever could searching for the right woman.' - KM
One of the last women I almost f~~~ed was 30 years old and probably an 8, but lots of tattoos, which was a huge turn off when she took her clothes off. That is where the almost f~~~ed came in, seeing all those random tattoos I just couldn’t.
She responded to my profile, I got 3 responses, two were dogs.
She said the last profile she had she got over 700 responses. Other attractive women have said the same thing, they get hundreds of responses. Those are your odds. Not good.
If I was dating I would not even bother with online. Get out and do something you like. Then ignore the women around you, they will be like bees to honey.
Anonymous1You should talk to CPig, he is an expert on online dating websites. He had some cool threads, where he had lots of bitches on the hook. It was interesting as hell seeing his social experiment. I remember he created a profile called Chad. Let me see if I can find a link to the thread…
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