Oil Change Dating #3

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

The latest girl only lasted three weeks before all the crazy came out. This hole only made it 25% of the way!

She was like the typical woman I date, college educated and established etc. She went rushing into things from day one, and even began “love bombing” with gifts after only one week. Two weeks in when we f~~~ed for the first time, she reveals she battled bipolar depression for decades but it was now stable (red flag!). For the next three days she is falling for me even more, and inferred several times that she was planning on telling me she “loves” me. Well her dog gets the s~~~s and needs an IV, well holy f~~~ she reacted like someone stabbed him to death in front of her…another childless woman who literally thinks the dog is a human kid, she went into some weird multi day episode. For the next week her communication style changed completely, it was like a split personality was texting me. We were supposed to get together Saturday night, but first thing that morning she sends me some half coherent text about the usual “not sure if I am ready for a relationship” spiel. She wants “a few days to think about things”. When I ask her for a clearer explanation, she goes radio silent. Two days later she dumps me, blaming me for not being “welcoming” of her need to get her head together. What a dumb crazy c~~~, I’m a villain for asking for an explanation instead of rolling over like a beta bitch and just saying “ok” and sitting there waiting like a fool.

Confirmed stereotypes:
Artsy Job = chemically imbalanced
Manic Depressive + female instability = the crazy always comes back
Childless Female = crazy, immature, selfish
Dog + female + childless = creepy “fur baby” obsession with the pet

I put in minimal effort in general, she actually spent twice as much on me as i did on her. She didn’t have sex for 6 years prior “by her own choice”, so it was the tightest pussy I’ve seen in over 20 years. The sex was actually good, she was incredibly horny after all that time. She was neither pretty nor fit, but I would give the overall ROI a solid 3/5 stars.

After plowing 3 women in 5 months, the oil change rule has not failed.
Subject #1: 8 weeks until the crazy came out.
Subject #2: 4 weeks until the bitchiness came.
Subject #3: 3 weeks until the crazy comes out.

NEXT!

Sovereignty above all else.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

What a dumb crazy c~~~, I’m a villain for asking for an explanation instead of rolling over like a beta bitch and just saying “ok” and sitting there waiting like a fool.

That or you were supposed to fight for her and declare your undying love. Either way you passed the s~~~ test. Not in her mind, but for you. Congratulations.

Order the good wine

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

Two days later she dumps me, blaming me for not being “welcoming” of her need to get her head together.

This is a good thing!!
Blaming you for not meeting her needs means she goes away without setting your car on fire..
If she was blaming you for some offence that required retaliation (in her mind), like you dumped her or cheated on her, you would find out what real bat-s~~~ crazy is.

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

After plowing 3 women in 5 months, the oil change rule has not failed.
Subject #1: 8 weeks until the crazy came out.
Subject #2: 4 weeks until the bitchiness came.
Subject #3: 3 weeks until the crazy comes out.

Quit while your ahead.
If you keep this up we should have a deadpool.
I’m betting on square #5 to say the baby is yours..

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[53ClicksUpParticipant 1345]

I encourage you to wield your mighty broadsword Sir Knight! Lop off the heads of the bipolar, narcissistic, and or crazy bitches. You shouldn’t be throwing them back into the general population, where they are sure to wreak more havoc on men.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Might I suggest that the crazy isn’t coming out sooner, but rather that you’re picking up on it more quickly?

Or perhaps a combination of the two… your growing natural inclination to respond powerfully to bulls~~~ is compressing their natural ability to hide their bulls~~~ the way a telephoto lens flattens the field and makes things appear closer together.

Pretty soon you’ll be sniffing out the bulls~~~ within minutes and then it will be up to you to decide if you can manage to derive any pleasure at all from a woman before kicking her to the curb just for being what she is. That’s the point where being a MGTOW gets interesting.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

It is all about maintaining frame, and keeping the head straight. The irony is, if she had given me a better explanation my reaction would have been what she wanted and I would have acked off for 2-3 days. The c~~~ did it by text to, instead of a brief call she acted like a cowardly child. Women over 40 who haven’t had kids are all f~~~ed in the head, even the “Career women” tend to be neurotic and incredibly annoying.

I’ve grown very intolerant of any level of bulls~~~, or even simply excessive annoying behavior. Within a dozen or so texts, I can now suss out the crazy or stupidity quickly. The crazy spotting techniques I now have, were sharpened with the knowledge I got here. It’s amazing how indifferent I can become to them within 24 hours after I break up with them, it’s become such a powerful ability that at 48yo it almost scares me because it was only developed over the last year.

I enjoy the chase too much to stop, I like the conquest. It’s become like a video game where I see how little money and effort I can put into it, and how quickly I can get them to beg for my dick. I had a vasectomy 16 years ago, so I can laugh at any BS pregnancy stuff. Sure the STD thing is always a specter, but that’s no different than any other inherent risk associated with an edgy activity. Who knows how long this will hold my interest, because I checked off three types from my list. The skill I still have to master is not getting sucked into the sex fog mind control effect, I had to battle it with girl #1 and #3 because the sex was really good.

The bottom line is always the same. If you want to play this game, play it as a game. And in the end the only way to win it is to lie-lie-lie.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Stargazer wrote:

Might I suggest that the crazy isn’t coming out sooner, but rather that you’re picking up on it more quickly?

Or perhaps a combination of the two… your growing natural inclination to respond powerfully to bulls~~~ is compressing their natural ability to hide their bulls~~~ the way a telephoto lens flattens the field and makes things appear closer together.

Pretty soon you’ll be sniffing out the bulls~~~ within minutes and then it will be up to you to decide if you can manage to derive any pleasure at all from a woman before kicking her to the curb just for being what she is. That’s the point where being a MGTOW gets interesting.

Yes, a perfect analysis of what is going on with me. It has been an evolution over the last 20 months, which kicked in for real over the last 8 months. I quickly took control of the game, and bedded more women in 5 months than I could have in 5 years when I was younger. The cold indifference and blunt judgement is a foreign feeling for me, and is such a contrast to the past I keep wondering if I’ve become psychopathic…but I realize it is the emotional vacuum now that I am free of their erratic gravity and control my own orbit. I do wonder whether I will continue to enjoy the chase, or simply grow tired like when one masters a poorly designed video game.

Sovereignty above all else.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

Had a “date” cancelled for this Sat night so I’m going to have a far better time going Hans Solo drinking real ale at a micropub literally yards from where I live and playing videogames I’ve neglected for months. Did a recent DTB and feel a sense of peace from no longer having to deal with drama and bs. Pussy in many ways becomes a juice that ain’t worth the squeeze…

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[HammerheadParticipant 362]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

She went rushing into things from day one, and even began “love bombing” with gifts after only one week. T

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

She didn’t have sex for 6 years prior “by her own choice”, so it was the tightest pussy I’ve seen in over 20 years. The sex was actually good,

DAMN, am I dating her sister??? The one that I’m dating one right now (I’m nearly 60, she’s early 40’s but looks much younger), who pulled that “love bombing” crap right away. Everything about ME was something that she was “always” interested in doing/trying/experiencing, admires, etc.

She also has a very strange family history that lends itself to instability – – bad relationship with both (divorced) parents, and with siblings, etc. Plus, she’s middle-aged and has only saved pennies for retirement. So many red flags!

She claimed not to have had sex for about three years before me…was it true? Who knows. From the third date on, she was drowning me with sex…encouraging me to video her sucking me off, lots of different positions, etc. Now it’s been over six months, so she’s starting the sex rationing crap, turning the spigot on and off for no discernible reason to screw with my brain. I’m going to a**-fu** her soon, before the spigot gets too stingy. Then, she’s in for a surprise when I get tired of the push/pull mind game and dump her ass the next time she tries to end a date while leaving me unsatisfied.

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