O joy a match…..

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I just got a notice from match.com. someone like my photo.

So if I pay, I’ll find out who she is. Assuming she just isn’t giving me a compliment, she is a real person, her profile hasn’t been deleted by the time I pay, and she is a paying member so she can email me back.

If she is real and interested,
She could be fat, ugly, a single mother, the wrong ethnic group, 10 years too old…

Or I could save the money.

Match.com fooled me once, never again.

Post red pill, I just don’t care…

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

No. All these profiles that pop up in your email when your trial membership is over -all of therm are fake

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Yep. I fell for match.com crap 5 years ago.

Now I have no F~~~s left.

Considering men are the product and suffer more from dating our membership should be free. Until then I just laugh.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Fake fake fake fake fake. They employ CSRs (customer service reps) to do that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Where do I start? I waded in the cesspool of online dating for over 10 years. If I saved all the money spent on membership fees, dates with entitled t~~~s, single mothers, women who lied about age, weight, height, marital status, kids etc.,,I could have paid off my mortgage and bought a freakin Mercedes. And what did I mostly get to show for my personal and financial expenditure? A couple of shags and more than too many times from the semi-hot ones “you’re a nice guy- but I just don’t feel it” (after they sucked me dry for dinner and a show). F~~~ online dating and the princess c~~~s that go with it. All men take a pledge NEVER to give these cyber whores the time of day. Let them all go f~~~ each other ( they’re probably doing that already) and the few sucker Chads who will dump them after a lay.

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t know whether it’s fake or not. I would think Match would have more class then that, though I know many of the smaller players certainly would do that.

That said, I believe Easter weekend was one of those free communication weekends where you don’t have to be a paying member to send messages. So even if it’s a real member, there’s a strong chance that said person isn’t able to communicate anymore.

I got something from eHarmony over the weekend too. I haven’t had a paying account with them in at least 2 years.

Ok. Then do it.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

I wonder what would happen if you created a dating profile that said something like

“I’m only interested in escorts. Market rate. Must be 5’2″ or shorter, <115lbs, <25 years old & love wearing heels. Asian & Latina women a plus.”

Do you think it’d get “liked” or “banned” first?

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Russky wrote:

No. All these profiles that pop up in your email when your trial membership is over -all of therm are fake

Can confirm. I get these emails from eharmoney, match and the rest of cesspool sites. Once you click on the link to view the message, you immediately see the subscription payment page. At that stage I close the browser window and delete the email.

I even emailed eharmoney once, complaining that I had to pay to see the photos. I told them I wanted to do my Catfish tests (Image search, reverse phone number lookup, etc), but they insisted that all their profiles are real and I can trust their site.

I responded to their “customer service” email that they can respectfully shove their assurances up their digital arsehole and until I can see the photos for free, I was NOT going to pay them a single cent for their so call “services”.

I’ve already been scammed by dating services, with “It’s Just Lunch”, which should be “It’s Just A Scam” burning me for $2800, in the following weeks of my wife’s passing in 2015, when I was emotionally compromised. NEVER F~~~ING AGAIN!

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I’ve dabbled on okcupid like 4-5 years back and kept getting email notifications someone liked me! It sent you 3 matches every day and you could rate them 1-5 stars or some crap like that, and if someone liked you like 4 or 5 it would let you know, but it wouldn’t say who unless you also rated them the same. With the couple mutual matches I did have during that time, it would generally put the person as a much within a day or two of them liking you.

So after a short while on the site, I got sick of it, because you know, it was online dating, and I decided to erase it, but before I did I wanted to find out who liked me…I apparently had like 17 women or something that had rated me high. I 5 starred about 300 women…I’m pretty sure I had about every woman in a 25+ mile radius…and not a single one came back as a match. Clearly it was just a bulls~~~ scam to get you to think “ooh…womenz like me, I better go find out who!”

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Fyi

https://www.consumeraffairs.com/dating_services/match.html

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Jan, I followed the link and checked the ratings for all of them – turns out that POF has the best satisfaction rating of 3 stars. The rest of them – one or one and a half. Wow. Who would have guessed?
Edit: The rating is bulls~~~ – based only on 10 reviews, and those who gave five stars still poo-pooing it – rating doesn’t make sense

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 11]

Lurch wrote:

“It’s Just Lunch”, which should be “It’s Just A Scam” burning me for $2800

Damn Lurch. That’s pure evil to do that to someone.

I have a special hatred for Match too. I got taken in and gave this person my email address and phone number. I started getting suspicious because things were going too well for online. I checked the email header information and the IP address traced back to Nigeria. I had to change my mobile number. STOOPID ME!!!

The funny thing about it was that I was sitting at my desk with my head on it feeling like whale dung. My landline phone rings and 30 minutes later I was having crazy sex with the borderline that put me on the red pill path.

I did spend $50 for my POF membership so I could obtain the information like did she bother reading my message for my current MGTOW research project. I feel I’m getting my money’s worth in this context, because I am gaming it.

Chad v2.0 will be the final experiment in the series that will convert CPig’s hypothesis into the Second Dating Law of CPig:

Online dating sucks and is useless.

The First Dating Law of CPig is:

Coincidences never happen

[Anonymous 12]

I once had a 93% match with a woman on OkCupid, the only problem is she was a hardcore Muslim woman complete with hijab who only wanted to date other Muslims.

Makes you wonder how they do these things.

Another site I was on, I never got many messages at all until the last day of my membership then I received about a dozen all wanting to chat with me, of course the next day my membership expires and so if I want to keep chatting with them I have to pay again.

They all use the scams these sites.

[OldBillParticipant]

After the Ashley Madison hack revealed that over 99% of the female profiles on that site were phonies specifically created by the site’s operators to encourage men to join, I wonder why anyone trusts any dating website. (Of course, AM was allegedly for extramarital affairs.)

I occasionally trawl OKCupid and PoF for laughs. Not very nice of me, but we all have our weaknesses. Most of the time I’m flabbergasted by the complete lack of self-awareness exhibited by many of the women there. Sure, as the statistics continually prove, even the most disgusting are getting some attention but is it the attention they want or need?

I’d argue it’s neither.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

@lurch

I’ve already been scammed by dating services, with “It’s Just Lunch”, which should be “It’s Just A Scam” burning me for $2800, in the following weeks of my wife’s passing in 2015, when I was emotionally compromised. NEVER F~~~ING AGAIN!

I have an annoying ditz I work with who tried to talk “It’s Just Lunch” up to me last month. What exactly is it ? Getting a clear answer out of her is like drawing water from a rock.

Frank V.

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