Nothing can erase this pain I feel

[DarkThunder30Participant 201]

Even though I have a few friends and my brother who get me I feel alone in this world since they are busy with their jobs and everything is leaving me behind. people around me are able to find joy but it feels like happiness has been taken from me. No matter what I do to improve my life feels pointless and it’s just the same routine day after day. Life and the future seem dark and can’t find the answers I wonder if anyone else has felt this way.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

DarkThunder30 wrote:

it’s just the same routine day after day.

there are many days where i feel the same way as this^^^

stay positive pal….there’s a lot in this world to explore

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

DarkThunder30 wrote:

Even though I have a few friends and my brother who get me I feel alone in this world since they are busy with their jobs and everything is leaving me behind. people around me are able to find joy but it feels like happiness has been taken from me. No matter what I do to improve my life feels pointless and it’s just the same routine day after day. Life and the future seem dark and can’t find the answers I wonder if anyone else has felt this way.

Life is pointless if you have no point in your life. No direction. The solution can be as simple as an enjoyable hobby.

Just something to occupy your time, which give you a sense of fulfillment.

DarkThunder. As a MGTOW, you are in no rush to do anything. As such joy yourself with the simple things in life.

The reason I have not checked out is I want to see how this situation, we call civilization, wrecks itself.

To quote Hunter S Thompson, from Fear and Loathing: “We’d be fools not to ride this strange torpedo all the way out to the end.”

Try some hobbies out. You do not know. You may find something that is rewarding to you. If not. At least you know you tried.

[HitmanParticipant]

i have felt it.
pain , with no relief in sight.
i wake in the night with it sometimes,
less and less as time passes.
every human being either has felt it or probably will in their lifetime.
you are here , that’s a good start.
i’m not sure why your’e hurting so badly ,
but your’e not alone.
we DO NOT KNOW THE FUTURE.
that is good..
i will ask you to consider..only consider,
that the future may be incredible for you.
there are homeless men eating from trash pails tonight
children with no food, no parents,
so please try and count your blessings,
you may have more than you think if you start to look closer.
don’t give up hope.
sometimes it’s all a man has is hope.
don’t give up.

[EchoesParticipant 92]

I can understand where you are coming from, really. I may have one or two friends at the max, and my relationship with my brothers my mother is quite superficial. The only way to get out of that routine your stuck in is to break the mould. Identifying the problem is half of the solution. Think about life and how incredibly and astronomically impossible it is that we are capable of even existing. All the marvels that man has constructed to elongate and live more fruitful lives like air conditioning, water filtration systems to drink clean water, underground electricity, the internet to globally communicate, and the free-market. Your reality is perception, and your perception is reality. Life only has how much meaning you give to it. You may not feel like it right now but you, we, are capable of great things once you stop caring about what other people think.

Take it easy brother.

[WhackerGuy2030Participant 999]

Time for a personal audit.

#1. Count the blessings you have. Are you broke or in poor health? IF the answer to both of those is no, you’ve got the world at your feet.
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#2. Go out and get yourself some perspective. This will help you see how fortunate you are to be where you are. Go spend some time with your blue pill friends. Go to their house. Watch as their wife either bitches at or belittles them as a man. Watch as he dutifully moves about the home as she dictates. Go volunteer at a food giveaway for the poor. Visit some elderly people in your family. Go to Wal Mart. You won’t have to go far to realize you’re in a great position.
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#3. Think back to when you were a kid. What were you most interested in? Was it trucks and tractors, the outdoors, science, far away places? It’s hard to find out what you want when you’re in a rut, and we’ve all been there. When you get thru #1 and #2, #3 should be easier. There’s a group out there for everything now. Find out what your everything is and go do it.
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My hobbies range from hunting, habitat improvement, fishing, personal finance, guns, welding (of which I don’t know s~~~ about, but I will…), construction, bullion, brewing beer, gardening, soil biology, animal husbandry, farming, poker, traveling, wild eating, cooking, canning, health and fitness, mechanics, and more. On any given day, I can dive into any one of those things and read, do, go see, discuss with other enthusiasts, etc.
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Take a deep breathe and get to work on getting reacquainted with the gift that is your freedom. You’ve just got to figure out how to be free. None of us have been indoctrinated with the knowledge of how to live happy and free. We’ve only been told how to offer ourselves up in servitude.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

See a psychologist. or get a dog/ cat.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[RennieParticipant]

I get what you’re saying. The years following high school have slowly ushered in a dark age for me.

The girls lost their looks, the last of my older relatives died off, the unicorn dream was destroyed never to return, people I knew for years like my friends and cousins got weird and faded into the background. Working life consumes the time of those who still remained. Siblings get married to people in distant lands and are out of the picture.

I would be lying if I said I didn’t sometimes feel like Rocky in Creed when he explains that his best years are behind him.

College was a dark time. I knew the unicorn dream was a lost cause, but hadn’t yet located MGTOW. It was a lonely and gloomy place and I had little in common with people, since I didn’t partake in their foolishness and thirst for alcohol and drugs.

Eventually I realized I was eventually going to end up alone. That idea used to terrify me, I even had recurring dreams of being in a surreal world, alone, where no one cared. I take it as a vision of the future to come. So…

Now I have embraced it. I realized I was going to have to get busy living, or get busy dying. The old way of life has passed into history.

You just have to keep going. Never give up. Do things for yourself. Go new places, try new things, pursue your dreams, get hobbies. Look out for and do what’s right for you.

The lighthouse in my avatar is the result of the pursuit of such a dream. Something I didn’t once believe I could ever do.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Been right there and know this pain …. like an old sports injury that stays for life.

I needed a reset.

One Xmas I volunteered at a Salvation Army food kitchen.

Every Xmas I still do this. 3 days of reset and I’m good for another year.

Go volunteer for the needy and poor. Get involved with war vets.

It really is a good medicine for the soul.

You won’t believe how lucky you feel afterwards.

Give of yourself to brothers less fortunate and they will repay you with healing.

It’s a wonderful thing.

[Anonymous 54]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Been right there and know this pain …. like an old sports injury that stays for life.

I needed a reset.

One Xmas I volunteered at a Salvation Army food kitchen.

Every Xmas I still do this. 3 days of reset and I’m good for another year.

Go volunteer for the needy and poor. Get involved with war vets.

It really is a good medicine for the soul.

You won’t believe how lucky you feel afterwards.

Give of yourself to brothers less fortunate and they will repay you with healing.

It’s a wonderful thing.

yes. Helping people less fortunate than you can help with depression. Get out side and observe nature. Walk.Breath fresh air.

[DarkThunder30Participant 201]

Thanks for all the support brothers life has not gone the way I hoped and the world looks to be getting more insane. Even though the pain will still remain all we can do is help each other and go are own way we really live in uncertain times.

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