Not Worried About The "Girlfriend"

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I would like to have a girlfriend, but right now: it feels liberating not to have one and struggle to get one. Whenever I would date women, I would often hope that I could call her my girlfriend in a few weeks. It would be great to tell my friends I have a girlfriend—I’d feel like I had some social clout.

The flip side of that coin is: it takes a lot of effort and money to keep a woman entertained. If I’m dating a woman, and she’s bored, she’ll just run off with Chad or Tyrone. Then I’ll feel worse than the time before I met her.

For now, I don’t have to worry. If I decide to move to another city or state, I won’t have a crying girlfriend telling me to remain in this stupid city. I won’t feel jealous seeing her talking to other guys. I won’t be accused of being too clingy if I call too much or too flaky if I don’t call enough. I won’t have to worry about saying something or doing something that will upset her and ruin my chances to get laid. I don’t have to worry about spending hundreds of dollars on movie/concert tickets, dinner dates, etc. I don’t have to worry about her being too busy to go on a date with me. I don’t have to listen to her talk about her evil ex-boyfriends. I don’t have to have awkward conversations with her parents. I don’t have to hear her criticize my life goals. I don’t have to listen to her complain about the way I dress, my cheap apartment, and my simple lifestyle. I don’t have time for that nonsense.

When I go on dates with women, they should understand that I’m with them for the good times and nothing else. They should keep everything else to themselves. If my demands make it impossible for me to have another girlfriend in the future, so be it. I may end up being a sugar daddy for a sexy party girl. Let’s not have any of that girlfriend drama, dear. Here’s what I want you to say. Here’s how I want you to act. Here’s the money. Done deal.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Dude – you haven’t been beat up enough. Put down blue pill and think about it. Wishing you the best of luck in going your own way…

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

I would like to have a girlfriend, but right now

You feeling ok man?

FunInTheSun wrote:

I’d feel like I had some social clout.

Why worry about what others think about you. It is out of your control anyway.

Go you own way brother.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Think about it objectively (as men can). What value does a woman bring to your life? Odds are, with the modern crop of women, they are actually a liability. They spend your money, they eat your food, they f~~~ with your friends and family when bored (sometimes literally).

For what? Maybe 30 minutes of sex a couple times a week. On average. And there will be weeks and months where it’s more or less.

Do what makes you happy. If by some stroke of cosmic irony a woman comes along and actually isn’t an active liability, but also provides value to you, then you can maybe think about keeping her around–as long as you’re not sufficiently afraid of the coming Phone Call.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

MarketWatcher wrote:

You feeling ok man?

Thanks for your concern. I’m not fooling myself, if that’s what worries you. I haven’t dated in several years and I miss the fun aspects of it—not the drama. I can wait longer when the time is right. If I could have a relationship with a woman, she’d have to understand that I just want good times—no marriage, no kids, no lifetime promises. If I can’t find a woman like that, it’s not going to be a major problem because there are other aspects of my life that important.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

FunInTheSun wrote:

If I could have a relationship with a woman, she’d have to understand that I just want good times—no marriage, no kids, no lifetime promises.

There’s no unicorns bro…

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[MACHOParticipant]

JB Books wrote:

Dude – you haven’t been beat up enough.

Totally agree here, when one got so beaten up, almost ended up dead or living on the streets one has a refreshing reality check about the joy of Not getting involved with a snowflake!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[hmskl’dParticipant 6405]

My girl friend might be Mother Nature. Nothing else. No awalt in traditional sense .. however, always be wary and cautious dealing with her, she can bite.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

FunInTheSun wrote:

The flip side of that coin is: it takes a lot of effort and money to keep a woman entertained. If I’m dating a woman, and she’s bored, she’ll just run off with Chad or Tyrone. Then I’ll feel worse than the time before I met her.

This is what I realised with my last girlfriend. They are simply incapable of entertaining themselves, so that because your job on your dime. Don’t fall for it. I get where you are at because I haven’t had a GF in 8 years and I miss the fun stuff too… but remember it doesn’t stay fun for long.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Zarathustra wrote:

I get where you are at because I haven’t had a GF in 8 years and I miss the fun stuff too… but remember it doesn’t stay fun for long

It’s a combination of conditioning and hormones. You get over it. I didn’t bother looking for a girlfriend until I was almost 25, and then I was married and divorced before 30.

I had all the hobbies, she tagged along. I rode the motorcycle, she rode bitch and made me sweat more. I also did all the reading and everything else.

I miss my bike more than the bitch. The bike never judged or asked for anything. All I had to do was refuel it, check the oil and tires, and grease the chain after it rained and Suzy was always there for me.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22503]

Arcturis wrote:

FunInTheSun wrote:

If I could have a relationship with a woman, she’d have to understand that I just want good times—no marriage, no kids, no lifetime promises.

There’s no unicorns bro…

If that isnt a definition of a unicorn, nothing is.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[HermitParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

If I could have a relationship with a woman, she’d have to understand that I just want good times—no marriage, no kids, no lifetime promises.

I’ve lived on this planet for over half a century and in all that time with all the women I’ve been with, I’ve only found maybe 3 that were like that, 4 at the most and only one of those women was single.

About the only way I’ve found to be able to have fun with a woman and not have all the bulls~~~ is to be a Chad. You get the fun girl while her husband gets the miserable c~~~.

I’m not saying it’s right, but the most fun I’ve had with women was mostly with married women. They wanted me to treat them like the sluts they were and we could have a good time and then off they’d go back to the poor cucks they were married to.

We would even hang out like she was my “girlfriend” and we’d have happy times every time. Someone has to be the emotional dumpster in a woman’s life and that will always be the cuck husband or boyfriend while Chad gets to enjoy the happy girl.

These days the best girlfriend you’re gonna’ find is someone else’s wife. Again, I’m not saying it’s right. I’m saying that’s the way it is.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 38]

Thinking it takes a lot of money and effort to keep a woman entertained is still a blue pill mindset. You shouldn’t be in a relationship with any woman that is anything but a joy to be around and addition to your life. This means it won’t work out with 99% of women. But you might find one who is easy going and good in the sack and kitchen.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

The blue pill is like cyanide; it tastes sweet but it will kill you.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Anonymous wrote:

Thinking it takes a lot of money and effort to keep a woman entertained is still a blue pill mindset. You shouldn’t be in a relationship with any woman that is anything but a joy to be around and addition to your life. This means it won’t work out with 99% of women. But you might find one who is easy going and good in the sack and kitchen.

Yeah…. and if you go out to some barren plot of land with a shovel and start digging you might just come across a diamond. But is it actually worth the effort given the likelihood of finding one?

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Get a dog.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[HermitParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

Get a dog.

……..one that knows how to make a good sandwich……

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 12]

I’ve thought about how I would go on a date now. I don’t think it would go well. I would sit there waiting for her to impress me in some way, to inspire me and I know that the modern woman just can’t do that. They really don’t know how to communicate and interact with a man. Hence why they show their t~~~ and spread their legs. It is all they have.

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