No Need To Explain YOUR LIFE CHOICES…Just Saying..

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

It seems like there’s a common theme that continues to come up in many postings.

It appears that Many Men think/act/behave in such a way as they have to explain themselves to others, and/or be concerned about what others namely women and blue pills think.

For example, for the MGTOW men that have a surplus of CASH and are concerned about the attention from a female bank teller, real estate agent, investment councilor, family friend or WHOMEVER may have an idea about their finances, and are concerned that they may go out of their way to try and get you interested in them…YOU KNOW THE GAME….Why can’t ya just find it entertaining, and even play along if you wish then just WALK AWAY??

Just because they may be trying to separate you from your cash doesn’t mean that you have to give into it….Personally, I would play/flirt back, and then take MYSELF out to a wonderful dinner and chuckle all the way home.

Why do so many ADULT Men think that they have to EXPLAIN THEIR CHOICES to remain single to ANYONE??? Why can’t you just tell them politely that you prefer to live alone and NOT date anyone? Is there really any need to go any further or get into details?

If they keep badgering you, you might be best off to just repeat the above a couple few times and just ignore all the other inquiries.

I’m NOT trying to tell anyone how to go about THEIR BUSINESS. To each their own, I’m just suggesting that the SIMPLER that you keep it; the Better Off that YOU MIGHT BE.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Awakened wrote:

Why do so many ADULT Men think that they have to EXPLAIN THEIR CHOICES to remain single to ANYONE???

They don’t want to seem nasty, so they apologise, when in fact they should be saying ‘because’ and then shutting it down.

[InTheCountryParticipant 199]

I hear you. The motive to explain was to put into words as clearly as possible a rationale and a vivid description. I like to see what other men can understand my ways of describing the journey of understanding. Who else gets the way I describe it? Did you also see what I saw? sort of thing.

It took me about 9 years to fully internalize the meaning that accompanies the red pill experience. There are a whole series of chapters, some of them that involve returning to relationships to put all the pieces together. My final experience ended last year.

I eventually came to realize that every time a woman talks to me to give me the interview, she is trying to triangulate whether or not I am a believer that can be brought into playing a role in her world, whether it be chump boyfriend, husband, or beta orbiter.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I spoke pretty bluntly about single moms to a new male friend of mine. He is actually dating one right now which didnt dawn on me in time, while I was busy bad mouthing the gashes. I apologized to him, luckily he has thick skin. He’s sort of an Alpha type guy who women target for his Money (worth quite a bit, he’s blessed).

It can be pretty tough to hang out around Tradcon type peoples and not reveal your thoughts, or to stick to your guns about Red Pills if talking with the guys about women. The Tradcon mindset is NAWALT and you have to respect that because no amount of arguing will change their mind.

And when it comes to Blue Pill type peoples, I just stay stonewall silent about anything remotely Red Pill because even a tiny slip is like Hiroshima to their snowflakes. Ill be apologizing till the cows come home, lest I be blacklisted or some crap.

Sorry all that was sort of off topic.

Anyway, my new friend. Sounds like he has been thru it all before with an LTR, some gold digging bitch who tried to rape him for everything. He ought to know better, maybe thats why he is going low profile dating a single mom and keeping her in the dark hopefully about money.

These guys love playing with fire, and they know it too.

[BubParticipant 1406]

Awakened wrote:

Why do so many ADULT Men think that they have to EXPLAIN THEIR CHOICES to remain single to ANYONE???

@awakened. I thought the same thing on the bank teller thread the other day.

Boys, YOU are the prize. They can do nothing without you. You control the game. Just walk away, Go Your Own Way.

I’d like to believe that you can’t be bought by a bank teller with a big rack.

Back in the day, awakened, myself, many others fell for this s h I t. The game has changed gents, you are the prize.

Just rolling down the road

[bstoffParticipant 4865]

It’s still a dangerous game to play even if you’re low-key about it because of the information they have on you.

Women try to exploit you any way they can.
I agree with all posters here, though.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Bub wrote:

The game has changed gents, you are the prize.

You ALWAYS WERE THE PRIZE.

It’s the White Knight, hole-on-a-pedestal thing that’s new.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Monk wrote:

Bub wrote:

The game has changed gents, you are the prize.

You ALWAYS WERE THE PRIZE.

YES, but NOW WE KNOW IT !!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[BubParticipant 1406]

Awakened wrote:

Monk wrote:

Bub wrote:

The game has changed gents, you are the prize.

You ALWAYS WERE THE PRIZE.

YES, but NOW WE KNOW IT !!!

If I knew then what I know now……

Just rolling down the road

[EGParticipant 1858]

This post is sort-of along the same lines as what I meant when I made THIS post. Slightly different circumstances but same core question.

When my gut tells me a regular conversation has turned into an interview, I start to keep count of how many answers I’ve given and then I set a limit, usually three, on how many more questions I’ll entertain. Once I reach the limit I start asking questions of my own. Thus, I regain control of the conversation because let’s face it, the person asking the questions is seeking control. Questions beget answers, and answers are what you’re expected to provide lest you seem impolite. Once it dawned on me that question-asking is not always a benign activity for the forementioned reason, I realized I better be on guard for it.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

EG wrote:

Once I reach the limit I start asking questions of my own. Thus, I regain control of the conversation because let’s face it, the person asking the questions is seeking control. Questions beget answers, and answers are what you’re expected to provide lest you seem impolite.

Take control of the situation and ask THEM a question. I bet their first answer is a L I E
I was into the Internet dating thing many yrs ago. I always asked what a woman did for a living since they ask me that very question.(Many times the first question).
So many of them told me they worked with the handicapped. After the 4th time,I began to get inquisitive.
“Where do you work ?”
ME I work for so-and-so
oh…
Me Where do you work?
I work with the handicapped,….
Me “oh, …… what department?”
Dead quiet. (the smart ones change the subject quickly).

Turns out A WOMAN’s MAGAZINE had an article about how to keep a man interested. Article told women that men liked women that worked with children and the handi-capped. (shows compassion)

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

I cashed out some crypto and promptly reinvested it into this:

The cucks heads almost exploded. They could never get that with a wife..

They confide in me.. Keep doing what you’re doing man, stay single.

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Bub wrote:

If I knew then what I know now……

Yeah, the story of my life as well….REGRETS is my Middle Name.

Life’s a learning process.

The only problem is that by the time I LEARNED (aka Awakened/Red Pill) MY LIFE was already Permanently F-CKED…..

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3766]

That’s pretty badass, The Batman.

I’m thinking that answering all their questions honestly is just a result of the decades-long Matrix brainwashing. But now, we’re awake.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

First rule:
YOU DON’T OWE EXPLANATIONS ABOUT YOUR LIFE CHOICES.
DO NOT EXPLAIN.

Second rule:
If you’re forced to explain, then just shout nonsenses.

“I need the money to buy a ton of icelandic coffee alloy to help poor penguins. Who disagree is a penguins’ hating misantrope”

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[JakeParticipant 908]

its like taking karate lessons same thing what next, the thing is now you can defend yourself now your pimp hand is strong.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Awakened wrote:

Why do so many ADULT Men think that they have to EXPLAIN THEIR CHOICES to remain single to ANYONE???

How is it even a choice?

Sure, I suppose I also “choose” not to poke out my own eyes with a blunt stick, but that hardly needs justification.

They only try to flip the conversation and get you to justify being single because they know they can’t justify marriage or relationships.

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