No fault divorce

[Anonymous 4]

Family Law Courts Australia 30th July 1992.

Your Honour ladies and gentlemen of the court and my friend. It is with sadness mixed with anger that I address this court and say what I have prepared to say but I am so pursuaded that I must voice my objections even at this eleventh hour foreknowing that even by doing so it will neither hinder nor alter the inexorable outcome. I must make it known and be assured that my objections be recorded for posterity and for my conscience sake.
This is ultimately an indictment against a valueless and moral laxness of a justice system that instead of underpinning an strenghthening the fabric of society undermines it by tailoring laws that suit conveniance and preference rather that what is true and just,
Secondly it is a rebuke to my wife who has repudiated the marriage vows that we exchanged and by so doing asks for licence under the guise of freedom for this dissolution.
I stand astonished and bewildered at how readily it is to effectuate a divorce, for although their may be complications as to how the spoils of the marriage should be divided it does not make divorce a difficult undertaking but rather it is seen only as an inconvenience and embarrasment for which as far as the law is concerned in any case can be quickly and clinically dealt with mere technicalities for which their are readily available solutions.
There is however a small oversight namely as I understand the law is there to protect the people that it seeks to serve.
I am amazed that in this case the individuals rights are exalted far in excess of the corporate good.
If I have not made my point clearly I will state plainly I do not want this divorce but there are no avenues open to me and I am given no means in order to challenge this dissolution instead I am made a spectator, reduced merely to passivity akin to being raped not able to do anything to change the outcome.
I find myself in this predicament because the laws governing divorce have so been formulated that while the law and indeed common sense deems it necessary that there should be no less than two consenting adults to enter into marriage the law on ther other hand deems it necessary that only one of the parties concerned has the right and is so empowered to file for divorce this is both an affront to common sense and an anomaly that is most suited for convenience.
For although this court has the power to order both my wife and I to be counselled professionally before these proceeding are adjourned my wife will not be compelled to make a determined effort to reconcile and change her mind instead she will only role-play securing finally a divorce in the long term.
I will not lend myself to the playing of such games instead I plea with this court that instead of facilitating divorce by pandering to societies irresponsabilitites it should formulate laws as such to enable those that see marriage as somehting that is binding unto death to be able to carry out those vows.
As to my wife I remind her and inform this court that before witnesses we exchanged marriage vows part of which I quote ” for better or worse for richer for poorer in sickness and in health till death do you part” end quote.
This well known portion of the marriage vow is all encompassing leaving no provisions for dissolution other than death itself to end it. This vow tries to secure an oath an undertaking from the parties concerned that nothing on this earth will end this agreement save death.
I ask is this merely rhetoric just nice things to say which hasn’t any bearing on our behaviour? My wifes answer is self evindent a resounding no however I meant to keep those vows until the day of my death.
And although this vow cannot be enforced by this court I find that I cannot ask for anything least of all justice I am in total agreement with the saying that “The law is an ass” for it has failed me, I am left instead with paper and technicalities.
I would like to conclude with an account that best sums up my arguement
One day President Abraham Lincoln was riding in a coach with a colonel from Kentucky. The colonel took a bottle of whiskey out of his pocket. He offered Mr Lincoln a drink Mr Lincoln said “No thank you, Colonel I never drink whiskey”. In a little while, the colonel took some cigars out of his pocket and offered one to Mr Lincoln. Again Mr Lincoln said ” No thank you,Colonel”. Then Mr Lincoln said ” I want to tell you a story,One day, when I was about Nine years old my mother called me to her bed. She was very sick. She said ” Abe, the doctor tells me that I am not going to get well. I want you to be a good boy. I want you to promise me before I go that you will never use whiskey or tobacco as long as you live”. I promised my mother that I never would and up to this very hour, I have kept the promise! Would you advise me to break that promise?” The colonel put his hand on Mr Lincoln’s shoulder and said “Mr Lincoln, I would not have break that promise for the world! It is one of the best promises you ever made. I would give a thousand dollars today if I had made my mother a promise like that and kept it like you have done. I would be a much better man than I am.
I have but one question to ask, how much more binding are the marriage vows that they should so easily be cast aside?
There is no excuse, justice has not been served, convenience has triumphed and there is only defeat for all those concerned.
God help us all for we shall reap the fruits of the seeds we have sown.

Fast forward Norway July 2013

Only daughter visiting asks her father,
“Why did mum leave you?”
I answer
“I dont know she never told me”

Much happened in the years between these two events however the painfull
truth was and is still evident today. There was no reason that it should have been so.
In the end at one point I became obsessed in finding the cause and the resultant effect to see how I could have avoided the results.
There is no cause, the ex wife no longer wanted to be married, she had the power to end the marriage, and she used it.
In a no fault divorce ” irreconcilable differences ” do not require justification and so simply by filing for the divorce you are guaranteed to succeed.
When I was studying the Indonesian language whenever someone asked a question as to why it was so the teacher was always responding ” In english you chop a tree down then you chop it up that does not make sense! In language there is no why it just is!”
I have stopped asking why as I’m not expecting to find any answers there is simply no reason.
For all the things that I can give to anyone reading this is quite simply do not get married!
You are responsible for your actions and the consequences thereof that does not apply to ex wives she took everything from me and left with no justification required! And just like that your world collapses.
I hope to contribute more here in the forums, there are saluatory lessons that need to be passed on and shared so that it is not lost.

[Anonymous 3]

Thank you so much for your post. You presented your predicament in a very logical & reasonable way, unfortunately it had no bearing on the outcome, as you well know & that is to the shame & perversity of the so-called laws.
Here in the states, you do not need any reason for a divorce except that you want one. I can call up in my memory a number of men I know whose wife’s just walked out of their marriage.
I truly empathize with your distress. It seems men hold their vows dearer than women. I don’t have statistics to back that up,its just based on my own observation & experience.
Thanks again,you seem like a reasonable guy.
Welcome to the forums.
Better a crust of bread in the corner of a house top than the fatted ox with strife & contention

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Legal Phrase: No fault divorce.
Real Meaning: Always man’s fault.

Marriage and divorce are f~~~ing jokes. Never marry.

Never again. I have two boys and one girl. The older boy (19) is quite red-pilled. If either gets married, he will be disinherited and told so.

What I build post-divorce, is not going to end up with some c~~~ after a divorce. In the unlikely event BOTH of them got married, everything will get willed to charity. Either that or I will have everything liquidated and the money burned in a big bonfire.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 42]

Ranger One wrote:

Never again. I have two boys and one girl. The older boy (19) is quite red-pilled. If either gets married, he will be disinherited and told so.

How much wealth has been forked over to monkeybranching wives since 1971 when men made fabulous wages from the productivity of men working together without female distraction. Now productivity is devoured in the enormous cathedrals of Justice constructed over the decades with the prisons built especially for men. Modern Slavery.

Ranger One wrote:

What I build post-divorce, is not going to end up with some c~~~ after a divorce. In the unlikely event BOTH of them got married, everything will get willed to charity.

It’s only right. I don’t blame you, it’s time women stop thinking we owe them everything and it’s theirs for the taking any time she wants to split!

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[Anonymous 8]

Anonymous wrote:

For all the things that I can give to anyone reading this is quite simply do not get married!
You are responsible for your actions and the consequences thereof that does not apply to ex wives she took everything from me and left with no justification required! And just like that your world collapses.
I hope to contribute more here in the forums, there are saluatory lessons that need to be passed on and shared so that it is not lost.

Welcome to MGTOW svmc.

Thank you for sharing your story.

Marriage is indentured servitude, by choice, no thank you.

One last note, please employ paragraph breaks in the future, walls of text are hard on the eyes.

[Anonymous 4]

Thanks for the welcome,I will make
an effort to put a better spacing between the paragraphs.

[HitmanParticipant]

you sir are in the right place.
great intro.
i can relate 100 % .
same thing happened to me.
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in time i found it was the BEST thing that she left.
the financial beating i took left me almost bankrupt,
but FREE from her insanity.
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i’m glad you made it here.
time to start the focus on yourself,
and recovering from the crazy ordeal.
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welcome !!!

[Anonymous 43]

hitman…cutting loose 200 pounds of hypergamous hair and fat was worth every penny.

In my case she filed irreconcilable differences, but yet I agreed with whatever she wanted, anytime she wanted it. oh except for being within a red c~~~ hair of buying that scrapbook store without telling me. yeah, I drew the line at that s~~~.

[Anonymous 0]

Reading through all your intro, I can feel your pain man!
Welcome and never make the same mistake twice.

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