Newbie saying hello

[DocParticipant]

Hello everyone,
I’m new to the site so this is my first post.
I joined the other day. The same day I ditched my girlfriend of 8 months deciding I just can’t be bothered with women anymore.
My wife and I divorced last year after two years of seperation. We only married in 2011 and barely made it to our third anniversary. She demanded everything once we married. We have two children 15 months apart. We went to live with her mother so we could save for a house. Her mum got jealous because her husband had recently left her and she hated seeing me and her daughter happy. So she worked to split us. My wife couldn’t see what her mum was doing. She was that good at convering her tracks.
In the end my wife turned on me despite my pleading that we leave her mum and just work through the toughness of raising two infants. She wouldn’t do it. She threw me out. My mother in law gloated.

I now rent a house near my ex and kids. Her mother thought I would just drift away. She thinks us men are useless. She underestimated me. I have my kids half the time. My exes mother hates me more because she can’t complain to her friends and colleagues about me. What’s their to complain about? I’m working full time and provide everything for my kids who are now 4 and 5.

I still love my ex wife despite what has happened but I wish I didn’t. I have dated 3 people since we split and I ended each one because they all wanted to dictate the relationship. Just like my wife did.

So f~~~ it. Enough is enough.

What’s that quote?

‘Women- can’t live with them, can’t live with them’.

Yes, you read that right.

Best wishes to all you single men like me who quit in despair.

Dan

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Welcome brother. What a valuable lesson: acceptance from the hive is always more important than the love of a good man.

Order the good wine

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

Doc wrote:

‘Women- can’t live with them, can’t live with them’.

Welcome aboard, we’re glad to have you. I would like to point out, however, that you misquoted that line.

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[MACHOParticipant]

Doc wrote:

So f~~~ it. Enough is enough.
What’s that quote?
‘Women- can’t live with them, can’t live with them’.
Yes, you read that right.
Best wishes to all you single men like me who quit in despair.
Dan

Welcome DocDJ, enjoy the forums. The longer you stay away from them the happier your life gets! (⬆You guys are welcome to use this one as a forum signature)

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[DocParticipant]

Lol indeed I did Kolaxis, indeed I did.
Thanks for the welcome brothers.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[AttonParticipant]

At least in the end you learned.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 3]

Welcome! After my divorce all I could think about & do was work to get another woman in my life. That led me to more personal disaster.
As time passes, and has all ready been said, the longer I was abl

[Anonymous 3]

To keep to myself the better things got for me.
Glad you are near your children & can have them with you
Stick with the winners
Stick with MGTOW

[DocParticipant]

Thanks Johnny Zero – sound advice right there.
I will definitely be sticking with you guys.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[DocParticipant]

True Atton – I got there in the end.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 18]

Welcome.

Doc wrote:

Best wishes to all you single men like me who quit in despair.

There is no quitting my friend. As MGTOW – the real game begins. You get privy to the rules, as they are.

[Anonymous 43]

what a f~~~ed up deal, married 3 years and you have 2 kids…f~~~ing f~~~!

I tried to stay close to my kids. Good luck pal, my ex was bats~~~ insane, and I left the state.

I think the mother in law did you a favor…like mother like daughter. Your wife would have turned on you eventually. They all do. Nothing you could have done to prevent this.

What a piece of f~~~ing work these bitches are…you were good enough to f~~~ and make babies with, but not good enough to have you around…you were the sperm depositor, now move on. These two jackals just wanted a baybeeee.

Im sorry you got swindled. hell we all got taken for a ride by the women in our lives.

Stay strong, Amigo, tough days are coming, and eventually they get better.

Welcome to MGTOW.

[Anonymous 11]

Doc wrote:

they all wanted to dictate the relationship. Just like my wife did.

Welcome!!!

I’ve noticed that dictate the relationship thing myself too. Then, they act like toddlers whenever they don’t get their way 110%.

They are toddlers. I treat them as such now.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

The mother in law is the worst creature. Just remember that the woman you married/was married to is just a carbon copy younger version.
Usually a complete biatch.
Welcome homie.

[GregB0Participant]

Welcome Dr DJ,

Doc wrote:

I’m working full time and provide everything for my kids who are now 4 and 5.

Ensure that you make the time to read the post on MGTOW and ask questions of it’s members, there is a wealth of knowledge and experience available for you.

Doc wrote:

What’s that quote?

An Army quote is “Embrace the Suck”. Eventually the Suck will turn and become something much more enjoyable. It does take time, effort and persistence on your part but is well worth the journey.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

As you go this journey, you will leave that feeling of despair, and soon find peace and enjoyment in your life. Women will want that and bother the hell out of you, so learn to ignore them. Women are parasites, and only want you when they see they can get something from you. Welcome to the Jungle.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Welcome Doc.

It is often said here that you need to look at the mother to see what the woman will be like in the future. Your former mother-in-law sounds like a nightmare. Glad you’re near your kids.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[DocParticipant]

I can’t thank you all indivially for the warm words of welcome and some great words of wisdom too.
But I read each of your posts and really appreciate your advice and guidance.

You all make me feel right at home and where I belong.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Doc wrote:

The same day I ditched my girlfriend of 8 months deciding I just can’t be bothered with women anymore.

Your first win right there. Welcome Dan!

[DocParticipant]

Lol thanks Market~~~cher,
Yes – I didn’t realise that. It was a big win.
Me taking back control.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Author]

Posts