New to the forum but not MGTOW

[MaverickParticipant 811]

I was MGTOW long before I knew what it was. I was a late bloomer and wasn’t really all that interested in women in high school (nor were too many interested in me lol as I was skinny and quiet). I focused on school, work, and hobbies/interests.

I went to college but did not go to a typical 4 year campus with dorms and the like. I went to a commuter campus while working and was 100% focused on my career and studies. I went on some dates but nothing long term and was so busy that women were barely even on the radar. I have noticed that the busier I am, the less I desire women, and vice versa.

After college, I started working out more and started getting more and more female attention (mostly at work which is definitely a bad idea). I chose to live outside of a big city which meant there were not too many 25+ single women without baggage in the area. Tried the online dating thing on and off for quite awhile, looking for that “needle in a haystack”. Obviously there was no luck there. I didn’t do the typical college->move to big city thing that so many people do these days.

I discovered MGTOW over 10 years or so ago after running into someone on the askmen.com forum. That lead me to The Nice Guy forum and then dontmarry.com had a forum. I later ended up on Nacho’s MGTOW forum. Now I browse this place and a few other MGTOW forums. I mostly lurk but thought I’d create an account here as this is one of the more active forums.

Now I’m well into my 30s, doing the MGTOW thing, and admit that I still sometimes desire that needle in the haystack….but really need to come to grips with the fact that if it hasn’t happened by now that it won’t happen and that it’s time to focus on more important things. I have wasted too much time on dating sites.
Perhaps spending more time and interacting with the people here will help me focus on what’s important.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome brother, even those gentlemen who find “the needle in the haystack” would tell you to stop looking it wasn’t worth it in their private moments. But I do understand and sympathize with your point.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[ghostParticipant]

Maverick wrote:

I still sometimes desire that needle in the haystack….but really need to come to grips with the fact that if it hasn’t happened by now that it won’t happen and that it’s time to focus on more important things. I have wasted too much time on dating sites.

It won’t happen, believe me. Dating is degrading to a man of your stature. There are much better things to do in life than waste time, money and energy on a base level creature.

Welcome to the website, Maverick.

[DocParticipant]

Welcome Maverick.
Stop looking. There is now needle.
No haystack either.

Look the other way and find your freedom brother.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 3]

Here the women are so F’d up on the 2nd date they drive up to your door in a U-Haul ready to move in.
Your still young & I don’t think anyone can blame you for holding on to the dream of finding the ONE.
I didn’t wake up until I was about 40 & today I realized I swallowed enough Red Pills to turn me into a crazy old coot which is why I chose that icon.
Thank you for posting & welcome.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Welcome Maverick,

we share so many common points.

The more active I am, the more the sheer presence of a c~~~ annoys me.

Having a woman is like driving with the parking brake on.

We could have had many, but their baggage scared us away.

Any successful man has to focus on whatever he does and has no time to care for snowflake’s problems.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[UntamedParticipant]

Thank you for the intro, Mav.
One more Man in here is one less poor bugger getting manipulated and jailed.
Every new manber is a victory dance for me!

Maverick wrote:

but really need to come to grips with the fact that if it hasn’t happened by now that it won’t happen and that it’s time to focus on more important things.

Dangerous thinking right there ^^
Youn DON’T want it to happen, believe me you don’t!
If you go around wishing and hoping for that Unicorn while telling yourself if it hasn’t happened by now… you’re bound to meet one woeman who APPEARS to fulfill what you’re hoping for and next thing you know you, too, will be posting nonsense about f~~~ing Unicorns!
UnC~~~ and never go back. No regrets or wishes. By going MGTOW you should realize that you’re doing YOURSELF a huge favor, not sob on your lot of not finding a Unicorn who’ll tear you a new one just as soon as her horn falls off.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Gargamel wrote:

We could have had many, but their baggage scared us away.

Any successful man has to focus on whatever he does and has no time to care for snowflake’s problems.

Yes so many of them have baggage! There was a time that I thought maybe I wasn’t good enough, but now it’s the other way around, they’re not good enough for me!

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Untamed wrote:

UnC~~~ and never go back. No regrets or wishes. By going MGTOW you should realize that you’re doing YOURSELF a huge favor, not sob on your lot of not finding a Unicorn who’ll tear you a new one just as soon as her horn falls off.

That is what I need to do….make that decision and not look back.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Thanks everyone, glad to be here and enjoy reading your posts!

[mystoryParticipant 370]

Aw yeah. Finally someone with “Maverick” as a handle. My favorite adjective. Delighted to have you among us

I don't need a legacy.. I don't need a monument.

[ghostParticipant]

Maverick wrote:

That is what I need to do….make that decision and not look back.

SWALLOW THIS! NOW!

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome Maverick, nice intro! It sounds like you’re on the right path.. yep women are what they are.. full of baggage, flaky and can at best slow you down. That’s if you’re lucky but today you’re most likely to get your life shred to pieces and end up financially and mentally bankrupt if you keep on playing with fire 🔥.

Maverick wrote:

Now I’m well into my 30s, doing the MGTOW thing, and admit that I still sometimes desire that needle in the haystack….but really need to come to grips with the fact that if it hasn’t happened by now that it won’t happen and that it’s time to focus on more important things.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Tim941Participant 68]

Welcome, Maverick. Your intro has already inspired some interesting points of view.

Seems you’re not even interested in jacking off to porn, or if you are, you’re so far unwilling to talk about it? My interest in the question could be common or maybe I’m an outlier.

[Anonymous 6]

Yep… @gambit just told another man to “swallow”…..

Welcome brother. You’ll fit in around here just fine. Read everything, and you’ll no doubt find some useful information here. Beer is in the fridge, @Macho is paying for food and apparently, @gambit is using the gloryhole. Make yourself at home!!

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

A man could use a magnet (money) to find the needle in the haystack quite easily…. only to find the point degraded, the shaft rusty and the eye clogged with dirt by the time he has spent looking for it (wallinate). MGTOW would allow the needle to stay there (afinogyny). Welcome, great post and keep out of Carnage’s way.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Old BuckParticipant 3596]

Good to meet you, lots of wisdom and support here.

Beer is in the fridge! Grab a Red Pilsner.

Don't chase tail. Turn yours around, walk away, and live free!

[Red KnightParticipant 720]

Maverick wrote:

Now I’m well into my 30s, doing the MGTOW thing, and admit that I still sometimes desire that needle in the haystack….but really need to come to grips with the fact that if it hasn’t happened by now that it won’t happen and that it’s time to focus on more important things. I have wasted too much time on dating sites.
Perhaps spending more time and interacting with the people here will help me focus on what’s important.

Welcome to the forums, Maverick!

When the red pill has fully run its course, women will become powerless over you. You will no longer search for that needle or even desire that needle.

Society will attempt to shame you, by calling you “gay”, or “loser”, or “man-child”. And you will laugh at their stupidity.

You will never stoop to any great length to search for a woman or attempt to impress one again.

And that’s when you know that you are truly free.

Best of luck to you, brother.

Formerly MoneyOverBitches

[AttonParticipant]

You can learn a hell of a lot here nice to meet you.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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