New to MGTOW and need a little explaining!

[singledad984Participant 201]

Just wondering if someone could explain to me the whole idea of the Red pill vs. the Blue pill idea? I came across MGTOW by accident and the little bit I know about it I really agreed with and related to! A little about myself im a 29 year old single dad to a little girl! Im recently divorced. Marriage ended because my ex wife was never home because as soon as I got home from work she would leave and stay out partying all night while I stayed at home and took care of 3 kids! 2 of the kids she had from a previous relationship. Eventually found out she was cheating on me with a convicted felon who lived right down the street from us! So I then filed for divorce. During my time since my divorce Ive really studied females and their ways and it just seems like they are very manipulative so I’ve decided to just stay single. I have an amazing job and make over 6 figures a year and receive child support from my ex wife! So needless to say I have a lot more money now that my used to be wife who never had a job during our marriage is gone! I look at married men or just men who are in relationships in general and think that used to be me! Just a shell of my former self with no hope and no joy to my life! God has definitely blessed me with getting custody of my daughter bc I know a lot of men don’t! Hoping to get to learn more about MGTOW bc it seems like it’s right up my alley!!

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

singledad984 wrote:

Just wondering if someone could explain to me the whole idea of the Red pill vs. the Blue pill idea? I came across MGTOW by accident and the little bit I know about it I really agreed with and related to! A little about myself im a 29 year old single dad to a little girl! Im recently divorced. Marriage ended because my ex wife was never home because as soon as I got home from work she would leave and stay out partying all night while I stayed at home and took care of 3 kids! 2 of the kids she had from a previous relationship. Eventually found out she was cheating on me with a convicted felon who lived right down the street from us! So I then filed for divorce. During my time since my divorce Ive really studied females and their ways and it just seems like they are very manipulative so I’ve decided to just stay single. I have an amazing job and make over 6 figures a year and receive child support from my ex wife! So needless to say I have a lot more money now that my used to be wife who never had a job during our marriage is gone! I look at married men or just men who are in relationships in general and think that used to be me! Just a shell of my former self with no hope and no joy to my life! God has definitely blessed me with getting custody of my daughter bc I know a lot of men don’t! Hoping to get to learn more about MGTOW bc it seems like it’s right up my alley!!

You and I both are very lucky getting our little girls. She’s now 19 & I’m 55.

I hope your girl will grow up l8ke mine has. Seeing with her own eyes what is going on. If that happens she will be protected from all the madness.

As for the pill, it’s a state of mind if you will. Taking back the testosterone that’s been drained from you. Not taking s~~~ or bending to anothers will.

The beauty of it is that you decide what your own way is.

Do you still want to f~~~ them or not? Socialise with them or not? Pay for meals or not? You choose but it must be based on YOU. Your needs come first. Your word is the law. You come first (and daughter).

Anyone not liking that can foxtrot oscar 🙂

[Smacktalk73Participant 296]

Wow, singledad, what an incredibly rare situation you have.   Good luck.  Honestly, if the legal system resulted in the justice you have gotten, for more men, MGTOW would be less important.

Your wife had to be a total mess in order for you to have gotten the deal you’ve had.  I’m a successful professional, and my unemployed, college-dropout exwife wiped the floor with me in my divorce.   She had this thread of sanity to her, and that was all she needed to hang on and keep the kids, the house, and get tons of child support.   Whenever I think of what would have happened if I had been the one unemployed and dropped out of college and SHE had been a successful professional, the idea that I could have ever gotten primary custody and a big cash payout is laughable.  But it happens all the time for women.

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

you’re doing well sir, stay uncommitted to a female my friend…

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[Q_ElementParticipant 19]

singledad984 wrote:

Just wondering if someone could explain to me the whole idea of the Red pill vs. the Blue pill idea? I came across MGTOW by accident and the little bit I know about it I really agreed with and related to! A little about myself im a 29 year old single dad to a little girl! Im recently divorced. Marriage ended because my ex wife was never home because as soon as I got home from work she would leave and stay out partying all night while I stayed at home and took care of 3 kids! 2 of the kids she had from a previous relationship. Eventually found out she was cheating on me with a convicted felon who lived right down the street from us! So I then filed for divorce. During my time since my divorce Ive really studied females and their ways and it just seems like they are very manipulative so I’ve decided to just stay single. I have an amazing job and make over 6 figures a year and receive child support from my ex wife! So needless to say I have a lot more money now that my used to be wife who never had a job during our marriage is gone! I look at married men or just men who are in relationships in general and think that used to be me! Just a shell of my former self with no hope and no joy to my life! God has definitely blessed me with getting custody of my daughter bc I know a lot of men don’t! Hoping to get to learn more about MGTOW bc it seems like it’s right up my alley!!

 

RED PILL – You have taken the pill that enables you to know the Truth, have wisdom, and make your own decsions independently. You aren’t swayed by anyone else trying to steer you in the disastrous course.

BLUE PILL – Easily swayed, gullible, kool-aid drinker. Try to stay off the blue pills.

[Anonymous 42]

Red pill= life’s red flags, never ignore a red flag, avoid it at all cost, it’s warning that your intellect is smelling bulls~~~.

Blue Pill= brainwashed, brain-battered, ignorant, woman serving fool. A guy that helps women because he was conditioned that way, he’s an orbiter, a simp, a kiss-ass, a boot-licking pee-on, commonly known as mangina…..

[experiencedParticipant]

Congratulations on MGTOW and custody of your child!     You may as well start a word document now, regarding thoughts and info to help your child. I just checked, and mine is nineteen pages long. I originally thought it’d be 2-3 pages. It contains quotes from everywhere, but mostly this site, and much from Brainpilot as my kid wants to be a surgeon. This way, as you come across things to help them, you can immediately file it so as not to lose it.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[singledad984Participant 201]

Thanks for the replys! A few more questions that I’ve thought of concerning mgtow that I was hoping someone could enlighten me on!

1. Does MGTOW mean you don’t date at all and abstain from females all together? I like to date and occasionally find a girl to romp if im in the mood but im not wanting a relationship and defintelly not marriage! I already have one child to take care of I don’t need another!

2. Also how do you go about drawing the line between not worshiping women and being a ass hole? What I mean is I was raised if someone is in legitimate need you should help and I believe that. But I don’t want to appear to be the “white knight” either! As in other words im offering my assistance because I believe its the Christian thing to do and not because I want to get in ur pants or hook up with her!

[Anonymous 42]

Being MGHOW is a way of thinking, placing yourself on top, not underneath.

I will not allow women to use me, as they often will try.

Save someones life in an emergency? Absolutely!

Save a woman from her own atrocities, not f~~~ing ever!

You don’t have to be mean, just stern and unwavering in your own serenity and solidarity.

Some people, both men and mostly women, feel they’re entitled to your assets and abilities, they’re narcissistic and devious, they’ll try any form of manipulation to get their way. I prefer to slam them into the wall of reality. REAL F~~~ING HARD!

[perrrobParticipant 4]

Only you decide the level of involvement you want to have with women, you can hook up with them if you wish (take precautions obviously) but the main point is to NEVER EVER let them move in with you where they can be in a position to ruin your life. Keep them at arm’s length at all times.

The Red Pill/Blue Pill concept is from the movie The Matrix … if you take the Red Pill we’ll show you how the world really is and if you take the blue one you can continue living in ignorance and pretend you control your own destiny.

MGTOW is not a movement … it’s a philosophy of life.

Never let any labels (including MGTOW) dictate your way of life, just live YOUR life according to your own ideals.

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