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[AbsumoParticipant 51]

If I wanted to raise kids that were not my own(I don’t), I would far sooner adopt children and avoid women altogether then ever involve myself with a single mother. I don’t date single childless women even now. Like others have said before me, I do not what anything to do with another man’s problem.

As a side note, I apologize if this has been asked to death already, but what even compels men(blue pilled or otherwise) to date or even get involved at all with a single mom? Is it the man lowering their standards? Perhaps some men think to themselves the single mom is more likely to have sex with them? Or, is it perhaps it is some sort of hero’s complex(not sure if this is even an actual term) in which they feel good about themselves for doing something they perceive is “noble”(ergo, likely just wanting to be cucks).

In the end, it does not really matter. All women, especially single moms, are not worth it. I suppose at times I tend to get a little carried away when it comes to observational curiosity.

[Anonymous 6]

Absumo wrote:

As a side note, I apologize if this has been asked to death already, but what even compels men(blue pilled or otherwise) to date or even get involved at all with a single mom? Is it the man lowering their standards? Perhaps some men think to themselves the single mom is more likely to have sex with them? Or, is it perhaps it is some sort of hero’s complex(not sure if this is even an actual term) in which they feel good about themselves for doing something they perceive is “noble”(ergo, likely just wanting to be cucks).

There are as many answers as there are people. General themes include these: they’re doing what they misguidedly think is the right thing to do, they are very lonely, have low self esteem, were raised by sing mothers, and/or had a weak father figure.

I’m sure some of the other members here will chime in with other answers. By the way don’t be afraid to ask any questions here, we’re here to answer them. I’m not kidding.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Absumo wrote:

If I wanted to raise kids that were not my own(I don’t), I would far sooner adopt children and avoid women altogether then ever involve myself with a single mother. I don’t date single childless women even now. Like others have said before me, I do not what anything to do with another man’s problem.

As a side note, I apologize if this has been asked to death already, but what even compels men(blue pilled or otherwise) to date or even get involved at all with a single mom? Is it the man lowering their standards? Perhaps some men think to themselves the single mom is more likely to have sex with them? Or, is it perhaps it is some sort of hero’s complex(not sure if this is even an actual term) in which they feel good about themselves for doing something they perceive is “noble”(ergo, likely just wanting to be cucks).

In the end, it does not really matter. All women, especially single moms, are not worth it. I suppose at times I tend to get a little carried away when it comes to observational curiosity.

Some single mothers are still physically attractive. Having a kid lowers their SMV because most men won’t get involved. Some blue pill guys see them and think they can score out of their league. All they have to do is help take care of the kid. I’ve seen it several times. The average nice guy gets involved with and married a single mother.

Oh, and it’s not like they are grateful for this guy. Several cases I’ve known of the woman still cheats on her white knight.

[JVBParticipant]

1- f~~~ed in the head
2- always broke.

Peace is > piece.

[AbsumoParticipant 51]

Anonymous wrote:

There are as many answers as there are people. General themes include these: they’re doing what they misguidedly think is the right thing to do, they are very lonely, have low self esteem, were raised by sing mothers, and/or had a weak father figure.

I’m sure some of the other members here will chime in with other answers. By the way don’t be afraid to ask any questions here, we’re here to answer them. I’m not kidding.

Jack Harper wrote:

Some single mothers are still physically attractive. Having a kid lowers their SMV because most men won’t get involved. Some blue pill guys see them and think they can score out of their league. All they have to do is help take care of the kid. I’ve seen it several times. The average nice guy gets involved with and married a single mother.

Oh, and it’s not like they are grateful for this guy. Several cases I’ve known of the woman still cheats on her white knight.

I see. Thank you both Travis 3000 and Jack Harper for your replies. I have gained some further insight on the matter. While I wouldn’t say I’m necessarily afraid to ask questions, I do unfortunately tend to ask questions a lot; especially on topics I do not have a great deal of knowledge on yet. Not to mention, I also wish to avoid asking redundant questions that may have been answered multiple times by others before.

[Anonymous 43]

so why date a woman who disposed of a man she thought was good enough to make kids with? Good enough to f~~~, and then later not good enough to live with? where do you think you land on her list of priorities? somewhere down between houseplants and above c~~~ roach.

Why would toy jump into a s~~~ vortex that another man just rolled out of?

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

I don’t know, never dated a single mother.
Nor even the two women who have my unofficial offspring are single mothers: one is married ( 😀 ), the other one is an old friend and she’s “homoflexible” in a same-sex LTR (let’s call it a “sperm donation”, when I take risks then I take real HUGE risks 😀 ).
It’s always good to know that your offspring have two parents, isn’it? 😀

reg22 wrote:

Kramer recommended that more emphasis and pressure should be placed on fathers and their ability to pay child support and spousal maintenance; raising the minimum wage to a living wage; and providing similar benefits and rewards for part-time work as the ones full-time workers get.

French fries to accompany?

That’s rich.

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[Remove me!Participant]

I know so many men/boys that already have a child with a woman and get a single mother pregnant. They are already paying out the ass for child support, now double it.
I never understood why some males do this, until I realized that I am without a doubt, smarter, more mature, and all around better than these chodes. Is busting a nut worth at least over $100k over an 18 year installment?

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

100K over 18 years is about 400.00 a month.

I would have been assessed at 2K a month.

That’s $500,000.00 over 18 years.

But I got 50/50 so only had to pay out 600.00 per month until she remarried and didn’t want me looking into her finances so discontinued the child support.

I lived with a single mom of a new born for three years when I was 29. It was fine. She was playing everyone and bragged to me about it.

The baby daddy was a hispanic guy she had a one night stand with while on a break from her boyfriend (or so she says, I say she was cheating).

She got together with bio dad one more time to question him about family illnesses, she told me.

Then she told her boyfriend that he was the dad and so he bought the kid stuff, paid child support and did a s~~~ ton of baby sitting so she and I could go out and party. We partied a lot.

I lived with her and supported her and her baby and watched the kid when she went out.

She eventually cheated on my and that was that.

The worst thing about the whole mess was that I fell in love with that little girl. I was her dad as far as she knew.

Her mom didn’t even let us say goodbye. I never saw her again. I still think of her.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Ever5Participant 1008]

Yeah dating single mothers is fairly dangerous.

Why do men do it? Well from my experience, the best sex I’ve ever had was from single mothers. They really put an effort. So being young and immature, I fell for that.

The problem is, there’s a reason that they are divorced, or a single mother. And being women mature at like 16-20, well that’s pretty much set in stone. Those fundamental problems that exist within her are not going away without some form of extreme transformation, if even possible.

There are plenty of dangers. One being, she’s always going to love her kids more than you. You can ask her this and she’ll confirm it. I’ve never had a single mother lie about that, and I can’t say that is wrong. However, being the big illusion on men, it’s not the sex men are after but the love/affection. Well right there, instead of being 2nd place, being she loves herself more than anything. Now you’ll be 3rd, 4th or 5th in priority.

The other danger is, if the child does not like you, the child will lie about you. So the man is going to really have to submit himself, not only to the woman, but also the children, and still be at a significant disadvantage/risk.

Why do men fall for it? Same reason they fall for all the other ones. Dating the fat and insecure chick and helping her with her self esteem to then be left behind. Dating the poor chick, helping her until she finds a better suitor. Dating the emotionally f~~~ed up chick, to get burned in the end. it’s all rooted in this desire for love/affection which isn’t real. But the man keeps believing it is, so he keeps trying new tactics. Well that didn’t work, let me try this. Maybe if I date a woman who has kids, that no man will want, maybe then she’ll want me and appreciate me.

Sorry, it’s not going to work, because it’s impossible. When men are looking for in these situations is not real, it never was and it never will be.

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

[StealthParticipant 5327]

I needed to read this today.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

When I was on those dating apps like Tinder and Bumble, I would regularly see woman in late 20’s to early 30’s, with a kid in their main profile pic.

In their bio, often it would have ‘I have had my fun, now looking to settle down’. Along with ‘no hookups’.

So let’s review… these c*nts get knocked up by some deadbeat Tyrone, and now requires some chump to pay her bills. Meanwhile, she will continue to get pumped by Tyrone, Chad, Antoine, and Guillermo.

No thanks. So glad I left all that crap behind.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Stealth wrote:

I needed to read this today.

EVERY man needs to read PuffinStuff’s story too (above)
Really hits home.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 6]

Keymaster wrote:

Stealth wrote:

I needed to read this today.

EVERY man needs to read PuffinStuff’s story too (above)
Really hits home.

Mr. Puffinstuff’s post would be good as a sticky of some sort in the quotes section or some other type of brominate display. HE LIVED IT IN A REAL SENSE!!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I banged a gold-digging single mother summer of last year several times. Could have afforded to lose a few pounds, but she had huge fricking t~~~. I mean wrecking b~~~~ that would swing back and forth doing it doggie.

As things went on, I realized I couldn’t picture myself with her long term, nor taking on her litter, so I said stuff that basically made her not want to stay, without making her angry at me. (gotta avoid THAT phone call)

Basically I said stuff that convinced her it would be harder to squeeze money out of me that blood out of a rock.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[narwhalParticipant]

I’m going to disagree, because we’re talking about dating, it’s not a relationship.

Anonymous wrote:

1. Single mothers are worse for children.

What does that have to do with dating? You aren’t dating her children. Unless you are going to assume character flaws because she has a kid, what does it matter? Personally, I think the character flaws you can assume in a single mother are pretty much the same as what you assume with any woman.

Anonymous wrote:

2. Single mothers are more likely to be in poverty.

Again, why does that matter? You’re dating, not funding her lifestyle. It only matters in the sense that if you like to do expensive things, then she probably can’t afford to do them with you.

Anonymous wrote:

3. Being around the kid opens you up to false abuse accusations.

There is no reason to be around the kids. Kids don’t belong on dates, and if she can’t get a baby sitter or insists that they come along, then there is no date.

Dating is dangerous period. Whether has a woman has a child or not, the dangers are always there. Precautions should be taken in all cases, and what you need to do to protect yourself, mitigate risk, really aren’t all that different.

Now, if you’re going to argue of the typical quality of the a single mom vs non-mom, that’s a different question. Even then though, I just see it as one of many factors to consider in who chose to date, if at all.

Ok. Then do it.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Date A Single Mother is the same as going full retard .

NEVER do either one .

WHY?

Go look into the MRA stuff about dating single mothers.

Even Mrs Piggy/Elam would tell you its a bad idea .

Dont be Captain Save A Ho .

Allow women to learn from their own and their sisters mistakes .

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Absumo wrote:

As a side note, I apologize if this has been asked to death already, but what even compels men(blue pilled or otherwise) to date or even get involved at all with a single mom?

Easy sex. Single mothers are desperate to trap another wallet, so they put out immediately. It’s how most of them become single mothers. So a certain kind of man goes for that, not knowing behind her eyes she’s charging out an invoice with every blowjob.

No single mothers. No exceptions.

[SimpleParticipant 49]

My new policy!! I ended a relationship with a single mom who had a 10 year old daughter.. they both tried to sh-t test me! Too much drama…

[SimpleParticipant 49]

Never go full retard…

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