“Need” to get married

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Marriage shaming from women. It goes from subtle to downright insulting. I heard this one today from a woman in my life, older family member.

“You need to get married.”

I don’t “need” s~~~ from marriage. Women act like it’s some biological necessity like food or sleep, and without marriage I will die or something. No, the only people that “need” marriage are the parasitic c~~~s who don’t want to work an honest living. I’ve made it more than 20 years without getting married, and turns out I’m just fine.

More bizarre shaming tactics from women, now they’re getting so desperate they want it to sound like it’s some need we all have like needing air. No, women want a husband, men are too smart to fall for that trap, and so they try to shame you back into line. Not working bitch.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I’ve seen plenty of your posts before to know that you aren’t going to fall for this. It sounds like an Aunt or Grandmother. They don’t know the current landscape of M/F relationships. Lay it down real smooth for her. No way, no how, never, no, if you love me never bring it up again; or cut the person out of your life.

I’m almost twice your age and I will never endorse marriage to somebody my kids age again. You’re on the right path. Anybody who thinks otherwise is trying to trap you or has their head in the sand.

If it’s a female member of your family, she may not even realize the real dangers to you as a young man. The older generation seems to think that it’s the same as when they were coming up.

Be gentle, but firm on your beliefs. They don’t pay your way though, so you owe them nothing.

Peace brother, you and I seem to operate on the same schedule so I see everything you post. Stay strong and live for you.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[experiencedParticipant]

I will need to get married when women need to stay married.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[AscendedParticipant 698]

You know a business is a business.
And marriage is a very dirty one, yet legal.

Marriage is a real scam comparing to frauds on the internet. People will do anything in order for you to drop the cash they want they never earned.
Women with their shaming tactics are doing this exact thing.
They will shame you for not being allowed to be a target for them and you know it. It can’t be unobvious.

Silverstone the Second wrote:

men are too smart to fall for that trap,

No, they’re not. We are 13k+ members of men comparing to billions of men. This number is a very tiny one but it’s more than OK this way.
The men are waking up, slowly but they are. The message, that brings them closer to the truth if submitted must be passed with care and confidence.
Our part of the members, those, who do not get married will have eternal benefits of that. Those readers, who are stalking here and getting to know what keeps us aware from them may be able to develop new strategies to get us finally scammed through marriage again. Although it seems unlikely for us to get screwed over already as it is, it’s best to keep up the alert so we won’t even fall into their scopes.

"We are free to follow our own path. There are those who will take that freedom from us, and too many of you gladly give it. But it is our ability to choose – whatever you think is true – that makes us human. There is no book or teacher to give you the answers, to show you the path. Choose your own way! Do not follow me, or anyone else."

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Well guys I WANT TO GET MARRIED

TO MY SEXBOT THAT IS!!!!

The only thing women contribute to a marriage is ocasional acess to a vagina.

So i’m going to marry a sexbot, good sex whenever i want.

[WhackerGuy2030Participant 999]

Yeah, my patience has run out for that conversation. I’m not f~~~ing around with pleasantries any more. I’m not suddenly going to get my head back into my ass and agree with them. I can’t get through their head that I can still be happy even if i’m not broke, neutered, and depressed.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Yeah, I’ll get married…. when I find the right MAN. Lol

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Anonymous 3]

Funny how 18 year old women never think men need to get married, but the post wall 35 year olds do.

Have her trot out an 18 year old virgin if she’s so dead set on you getting married.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Marriage shaming from women. It goes from subtle to downright insulting. I heard this one today from a woman in my life, older family member.

“You need to get married.”

I don’t “need” s~~~ from marriage.

Funny, but I had heard this kind of talk in business negotiations, usually involving a contract or agreement that was distinctly not in my client’s interest.

“You NEED to sign this contract.”

“You NEED this partnership.”

Unless there is a truly compelling reason set firmly in business reality, this is often nothing but a cheap negotiating pressure tactic.

Sometimes it will require a firm hand to stop this kind of nonsense when the other side persists.

“No, this company does NOT need a lopsided contract where your company stands much to gain at this company’s expense.”

Strip away the word “marriage” and all the traditional and emotional baggage, and you end up with a contract no one sane would ever sign of they read it.

Marriage: a rotten deal.

Frank V.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Ogre wrote:

If it’s a female member of your family, she may not even realize the real dangers to you as a young man. The older generation seems to think that it’s the same as when they were coming up.

I definitely think this is part of the issue. You end up with a grandmother totally confused why you aren’t married, yet you look at them and they were married at 20 probably to the guy that popped them, didn’t come with any significant debt or baggage, and divorce rates of that generation were much lower than what they are today.

What am I going to do today? Marry up a 30 year old who has been around the block, probably has some STD you can’t get rid of, a kid that isn’t mine, a pile of debt, tons of emotional baggage from 10-15 years of being a cum dumpster, and won’t hesitate to divorce me and financially wreck me when she does so?

Either that or you end up with a c~~~ aunt on your case about it. Said aunt probably has a divorce under her belt where she wrecked the ex in the divorce…yet she sees nothing wrong with it because it was all his fault and he deserved it. Meanwhile all you can think when getting lectured by said aunt how you need to get married is c~~~s like her are the very reason you don’t ever want to marry.

Anonymous wrote:

Funny how 18 year old women never think men need to get married, but the post wall 35 year olds do.

Have her trot out an 18 year old virgin if she’s so dead set on you getting married.

Yup…I’ve noticed that every year older I get, it seems like less of my male peers want to or ever plan on getting married, and my female peers become more desperate for it.

I know we’ve all seen that M vs F SMV graph kicking around…it pretty much correlates directly to that. Women don’t want marriage when they are a hot 22 year old with an army of guys willing to do anything for them…but when they are bottoming out around 30 while men are peaking marriage suddenly becomes important. If they weren’t willing to submit to marriage during their peak years, why should I during mine?

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

You don’t need to do anything but take care of yourselves.

[Mu_uNSpectator 130]

“Need to get married”

LOL poor guy! xD

[experiencedParticipant]

I need to get married = I need to appropriate your “Stuff”.

Footnote:
Sidecar’s idea

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

On new year eve my aunt was asking me why im not married yet.my replied.was i like.my freedom ,then she said but.you 30 you supposes to get married i replied.dont worried.i still love my freedom ,funny thing.is she is divorced and took her ex husband to that cleaner ,he’s actually a pretty nice guy and you.know.what he told.me about that reason.they got divorces??your aunt fell.out of.love lol deep inside i wanted to tell.that guy about mgtow and all that but then again i said f~~~.it he should.it figure.it.by now

[The_Mad_PirateParticipant 1278]

My favorite tactic is to use feminist rethoric against them. Something like “Why getting married? . Modern women have been liberated, they are strong, independent and need no men for either finantial, emotional or reproductive reasons. Marriage will only be an obstacle in woman’s career”. Remember they comply with this narrative for 50 years. Saying otherwise would just make them look like f~~~ing hypocrites.

"We didn't start the fire. It was always burning. Since the world's been turning" "A world that vilifies men only breeds a generation of men that feel no empathy towards women" “In a woman’s mind , there is really no such thing as a ‘we’. In her eyes, earth allways revolves around her, not the other way around. So thinking that your needs , aspirations or desires are valid enough to be persued, or even that you are entitled achive such goals, is like asking your boss for a pay rise in your very first day at the job.”

[VarunParticipant 2981]

The_Mad_Pirate wrote:

My favorite tactic is to use feminist rethoric against them. Something like “Why getting married? . Modern women have been liberated, they are strong, independent and need no men for either finantial, emotional or reproductive reasons. Marriage will only be an obstacle in woman’s career”. Remember they comply with this narrative for 50 years. Saying otherwise would just make them look like f~~~ing hypocrites.

I use that tactic whenever I am caled upon to ‘help’ a female whenever she ‘doesn’t’ need it.

We have shared auto-rickshaws (like carpool, except its much more crappy and packed up with people to the point you can’t breathe) and ladies always get the ‘good’ seats. If a boy is sitting in one of the ‘good’ seats and there is a female passenger, he has to give up the good seat. Once it was my turn for the give-up, to a 20-something chick, and I refused to get up. The driver shouted at me, “Are you not a man?” That very second I got off the rickshaw, threw fare money at his face, and stromped off on foot to hail another rickshaw. Gotta tell, this made me very proud. I ain’t becomin’ no white knight anymore. Not giving up anything for no chick anymore.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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