Need Help, Been in a Monk Zone But Feeling Attracted To A New Woman

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

IRuleMe wrote:

Macho wrote:

I just went back and read every single little that the OP created.. titles Unlikely created by a woman. Also from the OP’s profile ⬇

I am motivational speaker, writer, filmmaker, photographer, web designer and a spiritual teacher.

I haven’t read extensively from the topics that the OP created yet.

A “motivational speaker” and “spiritual teacher” who can’t handle getting some tuna. As if there wasn’t enough stuff “off” about this poster. “He” used to post all the time a number of years ago apparently; then just dropped off, and then mysteriously shows up years later and posts about how he’s afraid of breaking monk mode? This forum never ceases with its entertainment.

He may be a guy or he may not be, not convinced hes a guy. Regardless, I do not buy what hes saying. I think he’s fishing for genuine reactions to make whatever he or she is writing, more believable. We are being trolled for our real ideas, reactions and experiences that he/she can incorporate into their current ongoing writing project. Under the guise of asking for genuine help and genuine questions. Read what this poster has posted and tell me they arent trying to mine the guys on this sitefor their own gain.

That is my gut feel.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 54]

Yes. Home work for some project.
They could just read, and have plenty of info to write about.
But they think they have a superior witt and need to fool us.
Instead they look like fools.

In front of the whole f~~~ing planet!

Next…..

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

I appreciate you all for taking your valuable time to give me your advice, they where helpful in making my decision to stay in my monk zone.

Couple of people in this thread were questioning if I am a man or true mgtow. Please read my intro I wrote back in 2014, it was the most painful time in my life, if my intro does not convenience you then let me know what I need to do to show that I am a man and I am a MGTOW. Keymaster might still remember me when I was active on this forum before I went total monk.

To clear your dought, I am not writing any book on this subject, this is not some research for a book, it’s what I am going through right now and I needed help so I can improve myself, that’s all.

At the end of the day it does not matter how couple of you on here judge me, I know who I am, I am going my own way and I am content, peaceful and happy on my own.

I am very thankful to keymaster and mgtow.com for guiding me towards right path. Thank you so much and hope to pay it forward.

I am used to people judging me without thinking through,(If you think I write like a female then that is non of my business, its just your openion which I respect but I dont agree with your false judgement).

Some people judge quickly, it’s alright by me, I have done that in the past, the world we live in is filled with some people who judge too quickly, I don’t let that effect my happy and peaceful life.

Thank you everyone again for helping me go in the right path to stay in my monk zone.

It’s time to go back to my monk zone again and I hope to stay there for the rest of my life and never come back out of my monk zone. I have to keep trying to stay in my monk zone without giving up because I truley enjoy the monk zone without women.

Have a fantastic day.

With infinite gratitude, Ray

[Anonymous 54]

Well that was easy.
I guess she wasnt that good looking after all.
Heres the thing.

I have no reason to beleive anything a writer ever writes.

But what ever….

[Branched offParticipant 10929]

This has been a somewhat strange thread.

Any man whose b~~~~ are working properly is attracted to women. Therefore all healthy monks are challenged. Some give in to temptation, some do not. Of those who do crack some return to monastic life after a relapse, some do not.

Almost all addicts coming off a drug have re-lapses along the road to recovery. All drug addicts are tempted when they come off a drug. There is no cure for temptation. There are strategies to minimise temptation -particularly avoiding opportunities for it (why monks in all faiths need to withdraw from the world to a degree and do so even more when tempted) and contemplating the possible negative results of giving in to temptation (again a normal monastic exercise that is normally increased as temptation increases) but when a woman has got under your skin already there are no solutions. The disease must run its course. Falling in love is part of your nature.

If you have fallen for someone then all you can do is realise you are not quite your normal self and be as careful as you can be. When you are drunk it is wise not to have a car race, climb a cliff or dive into a river from height. People do but older wiser men do not because they know they are not themselves when drunk. Likewise if you have fallen in love all you can do is know that a normal healthy process has occurred in your mind that has made you very open to doing anything another person wants you to and so be careful.

There is no actual cure for natural healthy biology unless you want to mess with your own hormones and that is very unhealthy.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[Anonymous 54]

Hey, I say go ahead and f~~~ the bitch.
You only live once.

Just watch out for anal lice!

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Going monk isn’t something you’re FORCED to do. It’s a decision you make. So I don’t see what the big deal is. Why do a bunch of guys on a forum need to CONVINCE someone to STAY monk, and talk them OUT of sex? To some degree, that in itself isn’t very sovereign. Having others tell you what to do and direct your life isn’t very MGTOW. If you need to ask advice, fine but make your own decisions.

Some people take this monk stuff way too seriously. smh

[It’sallbsParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

Some people take this monk stuff way too seriously. smh

Blasphemer!

You must never question the order of MGTOW Monk we are the truly wise ones who control physical desires to maintain our sovereignty, health, wealth and safety and freedom.

Being non monk is an unecccesary risk, learn discipline and self control young man before you learn the hard way why being monk is the only sensible option.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

Why do a bunch of guys on a forum need to CONVINCE someone to STAY monk, and talk them OUT of sex?

Logic, reason, and evidence. I can’t force someone to do something, but I can persuade them with reason.

Also, the title is “need help”. Take your sanctimonious s~~~ and shove it up your ass, I’m helping a brother make a decision here.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[It’sallbsParticipant]

RayBandaku wrote:

I appreciate you all for taking your valuable time to give me your advice, they where helpful in making my decision to stay in my monk zone.

Couple of people in this thread were questioning if I am a man or true mgtow. Please read my intro I wrote back in 2014, it was the most painful time in my life, if my intro does not convenience you then let me know what I need to do to show that I am a man and I am a MGTOW. Keymaster might still remember me when I was active on this forum before I went total monk.

To clear your dought, I am not writing any book on this subject, this is not some research for a book, it’s what I am going through right now and I needed help so I can improve myself, that’s all.

At the end of the day it does not matter how couple of you on here judge me, I know who I am, I am going my own way and I am content, peaceful and happy on my own.

I am very thankful to keymaster and mgtow.com for guiding me towards right path. Thank you so much and hope to pay it forward.

I am used to people judging me without thinking through,(If you think I write like a female then that is non of my business, its just your openion which I respect but I dont agree with your false judgement).

Some people judge quickly, it’s alright by me, I have done that in the past, the world we live in is filled with some people who judge too quickly, I don’t let that effect my happy and peaceful life.

Thank you everyone again for helping me go in the right path to stay in my monk zone.

It’s time to go back to my monk zone again and I hope to stay there for the rest of my life and never come back out of my monk zone. I have to keep trying to stay in my monk zone without giving up because I truley enjoy the monk zone without women.

Have a fantastic day.

With infinite gratitude, Ray

Genre: Informal
Female = 766
Male = 751
Difference = -15; 49.5%
Verdict: Weak FEMALE

Weak emphasis could indicate European.

Genre: Formal
Female = 607
Male = 294
Difference = -313; 32.63%
Verdict: FEMALE

The number of adverbs used seems excessive as well.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 14]

It’sallbs wrote:

IRuleMe wrote:

Good grief! Some people place entirely too much importance on “monk mode”.

Monk mode is the highest level of the craft.

You must never question any of us.

🙂 There is reasoning behind why it’s called monk mode. I agree.

[Anonymous 14]

Seems to me this dude(?) had no problem initiating monk mode and maintaining it for years without seeking or feeling any need for input until now. Unless this cat is a Shaolin Master or Yoda…I smell BULLS~~~.

[BoBParticipant 823]

Yeah. I have to admit that this is dodgy. A true red-piller would be more introspective about dealing with desire. If you’ve been monk for two years, this can’t be the first time you’ve dealt with it. We have physiological reactions to attractive women. A simple plea for a show of strength from the brethren is sufficient. To ask how to stop this response tells me that this person is suspect.

Here is how I might convey the same information: “Dudes, I’ve been in monk mode for two years now. I met a chick and am starting to crack. Remind me why the f~~~ this is a bad idea.”

[IRuleMeParticipant]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

IRuleMe wrote:

Why do a bunch of guys on a forum need to CONVINCE someone to STAY monk, and talk them OUT of sex?

Logic, reason, and evidence. I can’t force someone to do something, but I can persuade them with reason.

Also, the title is “need help”. Take your sanctimonious s~~~ and shove it up your ass, I’m helping a brother make a decision here.

Decision about what? It’s not like he’s buying a car or taking out a loan. Again, for f~~~’s sake. It’s goddamn SEX. People are doing this s~~~ every day. This entire issue is being overblown. And there’s a culture here where a group of members are trying to in essence FORCE people to be a monk, even using shaming tactics to do it. I’m monk myself, but I don’t go shouting it to the heavens.

I guess I’m the only one taking a step back from this thread objectively with logic and reason who sees this thread as being utterly ridiculous in nature.

Also, f~~~ off asshat!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

IRuleMe wrote:

Why do a bunch of guys on a forum need to CONVINCE someone to STAY monk, and talk them OUT of sex?

Logic, reason, and evidence. I can’t force someone to do something, but I can persuade them with reason.

Also, the title is “need help”. Take your sanctimonious s~~~ and shove it up your ass, I’m helping a brother make a decision here.

Decision about what? It’s not like he’s buying a car or taking out a loan. Again, for f~~~’s sake. It’s goddamn SEX. People are doing this s~~~ every day. This entire issue is being overblown. And there’s a culture here where a group of members are trying to in essence FORCE people to be a monk, even using shaming tactics to do it. I’m monk myself, but I don’t go shouting it to the heavens.

I guess I’m the only one taking a step back from this thread objectively with logic and reason who sees this thread as being utterly ridiculous in nature.

Also, f~~~ off asshat!

Your the only one being a knob had mate.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[It’sallbsParticipant]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Also, the title is “need help”. Take your sanctimonious s~~~ and shove it up your ass, I’m helping a brother make a decision here.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 54]

I may never be able to have sex again..

Cause of..anal lice!

Damn you BS!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I may never be able to have sex again..

Cause of..anal lice!

Damn you BS!

Think of all the danger and risks I have just saved you from.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Couple of guys are still continue to judge me as a female by my style of writing and the way I wrote it. Tell me what you want that can prove that I am a fellow mgtow brother. Did you read my complete introduction? My intro should do the job, go read it if you need proof.

There are infinite styles of writing, how would you know? What makes you such an expert in judging my writing style.

How do you want me to prove that I am a mgtow man, should I send you some pictures with my big b~~~~ flashing or my divorce papers or should I video call you, I am just kidding.

I don’t need to prove any thing to you. I like my writing style because that’s my self expression in written words. I know I am a man going my own way, no need for me to prove myself to you or anyone.

Keymaster knows my story and was very helpful to me when I first joined in 2014, I am forever thankful to keymaster and fellow mgtow brothers who guided me during those darkest days of my life. I am much happier now in my life because of their help back then, I will be sure to pay it forward.

Thanks again to everyone who inspired me to stay in my monk zone. The decision is mine alone to choose to be in my happy and peaceful monk zone.

Have a great day.

[Anonymous 43]

is monk mode some sort of end all be all thing that we all aspire too? have been monk for 9 years, and a couple months ago i met a young woman who is breaking my frame. there is no way i can have her in my life, and there is no way she would want me. its like a daydream of something i can have. what do i do with a woman in my life, knowing what the red pill has given me.

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