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Ranger One 2 years, 9 months ago.
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This is like marriage counseling or Dr. Ruth at best!
NO COMMENT. Call Dr. Ruth!
LOL.
Ever throw a boomerang, and have it try to come right back to you?
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
You’re 49, dating two women, and you need advice on breaking up?
I’ve read your other thread of your cute little April Fools prank. Something’s off, that’s all I’m going to say.
Agreed !! Reading this post had the alarms going off.
Alarms going off, because I just showed that women are not the only people who can do “s~~~ tests”. I take their female behavior and turn it around on them. The Asian gf said my April Fools joke hurt her feelings. My internal response (that I didn’t say outloud) was “So the hell what? I don’t have feelings”.
I don’t have any actual love or affection towards either girlfriend. I discovered MGTOW during the time period my ex was cheating on me. I can’t remember it was during the 1st guy, 2nd guy, 3rd guy or 4th guy she was cheating with. I think perhaps the 3rd.
After the ex left, I had sort of another awakening, similar to my awakening when stuff started to click about MGTOW. I read vast amounts on love, dating, relationships, sex, etc from all the perspectives, including evolutionary biology. I found myself understanding specific behaviors of the ex that even the ex couldn’t explain when asked.
I came to the conclusion that romantic love, and most other emotions are just B.S. I got tired of being handicapped with Asperger’s Syndrome, and I simply studied what I consider to be the polar opposite of Asperger’s —- sociopaths. Sociopaths tend to achieve more than Asperger’s and I’d rather be a predator than prey.
Now I think it is amusing when some woman says she “loves” me. My internal response is “whatever the f~~~ that means” but externally I act in expected ways, to get what I want. As someone with Asperger’s, I’ve always been a bit socially awkward, which ultimately resulted in enough bad childhood experiences to turn me against most other people permanently. I can pretty much state that I am a misanthrope, thus conditioning myself into sociopathy is a step in the right direction. On a good day, I am able to resist the urge to take a baseball bat to feminazi’s face; on a bad day, I long for something more interesting to happen, like a bird flu pandemic or a nuclear war. I wouldn’t mind suffering and dying, if it meant everyone else also got to suffer and die.
You are right, something is off, but everything I said is true. What is off, is that I no longer care about other people suffering, especially women. When I see a woman crying, I feel like laughing in her face. Crying is one of only two things women do well: the other is spreading their legs open in order to extract resources for men.
If both of them died simultaneously in accidents on the same day, I’d only be annoyed at the inconvenience of having to find a replacement long-term-cum-dump.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
And for an encore, since tossing away a girlfriend is like throwing a boomerang (it tries to come back), I introduced her to the concept of how unlikely someone with Asperger’s Syndrome is at succeeding at a relationship, followed by an introduction to the term MGTOW, and what it means to me and why.
So I think the Asian gf is done. In the unlikely event that the Asian gf goes into a post-breakup, short-term stalking mode, I have found a reason to not have the white gf to drive down from Delaware tonight (she is about same distance as my oldest son who has visitation each weekend…. 40 minutes to an hour, depending on traffic).
She has a busy life, owns about 5 or 6 houses she rents, and is the stereotypical Asian “tiger Mom” raising two teenage boys, so stalking is less likely than with an overweight, desperate white woman working in Walmart. As a precaution, the next time I see the white Delaware gf, I will drive up there.
Not even sure when that visit will be; I need to fix the electric water heater and also to use my new chisel to carve a mortise into my new door, which will be a hidden entrance to my Armory/Mancave. (It will be hidden by opening into the room, and have the outside edges covered by paneling that will match what is on the door and the entire length of the wall, so there will be no sign of a door there)
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
The simple way is for her to break up with you. She’s Asian—tell her you lost your job and you have no money—she’ll dump you like a hot potato.
AWALT.
http://www.leavemeansleave.eu
The simple way is for her to break up with you. She’s Asian—tell her you lost your job and you have no money—she’ll dump you like a hot potato.
AWALT.
Well, that’s over with. Now I just have one gf. One that is 40 minutes away and more mellow. Also, one that has offered to help me paint some of the rooms in my house, to spend time with me. She also knows I never want to re-marry and is okay with that, and she has her own house.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
I agree with posters who said make her break up with you. I can tell you that I asked for two weeks of no-contact “space.” She agreed and the next day I received a text saying I don’t love and her and goodbye. Very easy.
Tell her, What the f~~~ am I going to do with a 45 yr old?
Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.
I did the breakup with the Asian girlfriend Monday, on a walk out near her place that we already planned previously. I managed to not anger her.
Later on that night, as expected, she called and wanted to see if I would re-consider. I explained in detail further & even directed her to google MGTOW and Asperger’s Syndrome. She seemed to understand.
There no calls, texts or stalking behavior Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday today, so (knock on wood) I may have defused the two-girlfriend time bomb.
Now with having just one girlfriend, time is my friend… the risk of the now ex-gf doing something bad decreases over time, and the odds the one girlfriend I have left discovering the one I let go diminishes.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
Now with having just one girlfriend, time is my friend… the risk of the now ex-gf doing something bad decreases over time,
Your delusional here. If she finds out 5 years from now she will hunt you down, at the very least to tell you current GF that you were a cheater.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
Now with having just one girlfriend, time is my friend… the risk of the now ex-gf doing something bad decreases over time,
Your delusional here. If she finds out 5 years from now she will hunt you down, at the very least to tell you current GF that you were a cheater.
Not delusional. Just assessing the mathematical probability as very low. In theory, a Furon flying saucer could hover over my house and vaporize it, but I’m not going to lose any sleep over that possibility, either.
I don’t post pictures of myself with women or what I do on Facebook, they live 40 miles apart and don’t even remotely have the same social circles.
All I have to do is for a couple months be careful about going to any area with the current gf where the local ex-gf might see me. After a couple of months, if she saw me with a woman, the most obvious explanation would be that I got a new gf.
I never turned down the local ex-gf for going on walks, going to her place, or having her come to my place, carefully scheduled the more distant gf at my place (I kept a log of visits from the local gf, so I knew the most likely days she couldn’t do anything, e.g. indoor soccer with her son on Fridays), and always had a satisfactory explanation for the times I was visiting the more distant gf at her place.
Ex-gf has no reason to believe I ever had another gf, and there is no one who knows that could tell her. Only one of my 3 kids or my parents could rat me out in theory to the current gf, and neither of my 2 boys or my parents would.
My daughter could in theory, but she is young and doesn’t possess a good sense of time in terms of WHEN thing happened, and does not know I had two gf’s. When I Skype with her next, I’ll tell her I broke up with the gf, and sometime after that, I’ll tell her I have a new gf. By the time my daughter comes for summer visitation, she’ll be used to hearing about the current gf.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
I don’t post pictures of myself with women or what I do on Facebook,
Why are you even on facebook?
F~~~ facebook.
All I have to do is for a couple months be careful about going to any area with the current gf where the local ex-gf might see me.
Why bother? That sounds like a lot of unnecessary worry and effort over nothing of consequence.
After a couple of months, if she saw me with a woman, the most obvious explanation would be that I got a new gf.
She’s your EX girlfriend. Why the f~~~ do you care what she thinks? Or what your current girlfriend thinks, for that matter.
If a woman knows you have other options, she’ll be better behaved. And if she isn’t, well then she can be your next ex.
All I have to do is for a couple months be careful about going to any area with the current gf where the local ex-gf might see me. After a couple of months, if she saw me with a woman, the most obvious explanation would be that I got a new gf.
All that conniving will back fire eventually. You can’t justify to me that being sneaky and underhanded (even to woman) is a path that will liberate you. Your not really going your own way your just reacting to fear of her way. She might find out. She might leave me. She might do something to me.. She ,she she. There is nothing sovereign here. You’re just kissing her ass in a backhanded way.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
I don’t post pictures of myself with women or what I do on Facebook,
Why are you even on facebook?
F~~~ facebook.
All I have to do is for a couple months be careful about going to any area with the current gf where the local ex-gf might see me.
Why bother? That sounds like a lot of unnecessary worry and effort over nothing of consequence.
After a couple of months, if she saw me with a woman, the most obvious explanation would be that I got a new gf.
She’s your EX girlfriend. Why the f~~~ do you care what she thinks? Or what your current girlfriend thinks, for that matter.
If a woman knows you have other options, she’ll be better behaved. And if she isn’t, well then she can be your next ex.
My daughter is on Facebook and I chat with her there sometimes, also video chat. I don’t do much with Facebook; the only thing I did was join a group in Facebook for Caucasian perennial climbing spinach. (a perennial salad vegetable vine, which I now have growing in my garden as a food source)
I don’t too much care what the ex thinks, except that it only takes a phone call for a p~~~ed off ex to ruin your life. Just a little more patience and caution on my part (I estimate 5 weeks is reasonable) and things are back to normal.
I don’t eat out often or do much locally, so it really doesn’t affect me. I spend most of my time outside of work growing food, doing stuff with the weapons, house modifications, tutoring my son in Math, playing computer games, watching movies in the theater room I created.
A little caution the few times I go out with the now only girlfriend, for a few weeks, does not surrender much of my sovereignty as is only temporary. The remaining girlfriend is not very demanding, and she is self-sufficient. Soon, I will have her helping me paint.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
That’s how the clever “non-demanding” ones start out, by not getting in your way at first. That’ll change with time most certainly.
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
All I have to do is for a couple months be careful about going to any area with the current gf where the local ex-gf might see me. After a couple of months, if she saw me with a woman, the most obvious explanation would be that I got a new gf.
All that conniving will back fire eventually. You can’t justify to me that being sneaky and underhanded (even to woman) is a path that will liberate you. Your not really going your own way your just reacting to fear of her way. She might find out. She might leave me. She might do something to me.. She ,she she. There is nothing sovereign here. You’re just kissing her ass in a backhanded way.
Well, in fairness to myself, I went on 46 first dates from June 2016 to about December 20. Only 5 of those 46 resulted in 2nd dates. So in the last few days of December, I went on 1st dates with two women, same first name. Expected 0-1 of them to want a 2nd date, based on prior experience. So, I dated in parallel. To my surprise I got 2nd dates with both. The Asian girl (local) was real chaste, the white girl (more distant) threw herself at me the 2nd date.
I didn’t want to punish the Asian girl for being more chaste, so I went on 4 more dates with both of them and the Asian girl decided she wanted me to be official boyfriend on the 6th date, despite not sleeping together, and the white gf who had slept with me on the 2nd date and so forth finally started to lean towards me being official bf. I googled dating in the Asian girl’s Vietnamese culture and found out that behavior is not unusual (more like dating in 1950s USA).
Not sure at which point I should have just bounced one of them? 2nd date? 3rd date? 4th date? The Asian gf put out on the 8th date, about when the white girl wanted to call me official bf.
Its not like I had one established gf I was dating for 6 months and then set out to cheat. I dated two women, and simply chose the one most suitable for my needs.
I’m not going to be shamed for my choices, any more than I would be shamed by some permanent-boner PUA trying to shame me if I went totally celibate.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
That’s how the clever “non-demanding” ones start out, by not getting in your way at first. That’ll change with time most certainly.
Well of course they don’t.
The thing is I’m not real fond of manipulation, and that moving the target bulls~~~ women do.
An attempt to change with time by becoming more demanding, will resulting in me breaking up with the remaining gf. It helps that she lives 40 minutes away, in her own house. I figure that buys me at least 5 years of very little pushing to move in with me, also based on her teenager’s ages.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
I don’t too much care what the ex thinks, except that it only takes a phone call for a p~~~ed off ex to ruin your life.
If you’re worried about that, beat her to the punch and get a restraining order against her. Then if she tries any s~~~ you have an existing file on her with the police to point to.
I don’t too much care what the ex thinks, except that it only takes a phone call for a p~~~ed off ex to ruin your life.
If you’re worried about that, beat her to the punch and get a restraining order against her. Then if she tries any s~~~ you have an existing file on her with the police to point to.
I’m willing to do the same kinds of s~~~-tests on women that they do to men, to suit my own purposes, but I’m not about to pre-emptively make false accusations against someone who has not made any hostile moves, nor displayed any hostile attitude or intent.
In a few weeks, I’ll be in the clear. I only dated the two women for 3 months, so going by the 1/2 rule, she should be over me in 5-6 weeks.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
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