NAWALT + Conflicting Messages = AWALT

[Anonymous 11]

Phantom wrote:

Sounds like she’s chasing c~~~…

It’s just to good to be true???

I saw Titanic in a Movie Theater with my brother, and when she let go of him my brother and I started cracking up, and at the same time some girls sitting a few rows back started crying, we looked back at them hearing their cries, the movie was over and we were laughing all the way out the door.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

More proof that most women into BDSM are completely f’n mentally ill. And what a tired stereotype, “Prim proper elite school system teacher by day, kinky naughty girl at night”. OMFG, she doesn’t realize how trite that is. Gets annoyed when I make mild sexual innuendos to her in public, but then goes and discusses things 10x worse with random people at a meetup. Good lord, how does she think ANYONE will take her serious?

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 54]

A bdsm think tank.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Anonymous wrote:

A bdsm think tank.

Always wondered were the Hive held it’s secret meetings…

I should have guessed,

NO…

I should have known.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

The irony is, when I dump her eventually, I wont complain about the BDSM thing, I will only give her the omission/manipulation reason.

Its not you…its me. Works like a charm!

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

My current tactic is going to be “pump the brakes”, and make her want me more. After she told me all that bulls~~~, I played all cool and went over her house the next night and everything. But a few days later, when she was super horny and excited for me to come over for a planned hangout, I backed out saying I was sick…oh, how sad she was…and after begging me to come over the next day, when I got there she hopped on my bone faster than ever before. For the last two weeks I have been letting her build a false sense of security, to the point where she mentioned she thought I was getting the feels too much (hahahah!). Now it is time to play the push/pull game on her, after she bitched about staying in too much, I am going to last minute cancel our usual one weeknight f~~~fest this week and make her wait until the weekend. We know that females manipulate via the push/pull psychology, but it only takes a little effort to routinely turn the tables on them unknowingly.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Another observation:

While it has been a huge plus to be screwing a childless woman, there are certain parts of her maturity and behavior that never developed into an adult. This is not a problem in itself. However, when it is someone like me that raised 3 kids, there are certain attitudes that are permanently hardwired now (such as discretion and decorum). I won’t get into details, but I have to hold back saying “ugh, you would actually understand if you had ever actually raised your own children”…which I will actually eventually use to drive the stake through her heart even deeper when I dump her.

Sovereignty above all else.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I like your style KTR.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

PistolPete wrote:

I like your style KTR.

Thanks. It took me 48 years of life, 3 kids raised, and 22 years of marriage to reach this point. God I hope the young guys are learning their “craft” by reading this, damn I wish the internet existed when I was young and needed this critical info!

Sovereignty above all else.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

OTOH, I’m keeping her around for a while. No joke this girl has zero gag reflex, deep throats like a porn star. Twice as good as any other in all my years. Winning?

Sovereignty above all else.

[Jack123Participant 324]

Hi OP,

I just wrote about a very similar experience which is happening to me: /forums/topic/do-i-try-another-relationship-advice-needed

I got 30+ messages on my thread from other members telling me to run away. I replied saying that I was going to keep having fun until I got bored or she went crazy. It sounds like you have a similar mindset.

Very few men are going to run away from an invitation to ram your c~~~ in a girl’s mouth and bust your load down her throat. If you have to deal with crazy or you are bored with that then of course – run. But until such time, keep having fun OP. Good luck.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Anonymous wrote:

started crying, we looked back at them hearing their cries, the movie was over and we were laughing all the way out the door.

Sounds like a grand time!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

Prime example = Stating that she prefers to hang in and order some food instead of spending money going out. But then 4 weeks later, after I asked her multiple times to do activities, bitches about me not taking her out anywhere. When I mention the times I asked her, she bitches that I need to make the plans like a date.

This is the point where you stop giving a f~~~ about anything she says. Because if she’s only going to say something different next time, why bother even listening to her?

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

My real dilemma is whether to ditch her before x-mas,

December 24th at 4:30 PM is a good time to dump her.

Mark your calendar.

good enough to stick my dick in…but not good enough to waste time and money getting a gift for.

AWALT. Buying s~~~ for women is counterproductive.

Why not take her diamond shopping the week before Christmas? Just make damn sure you don’t actually buy anything. For bonus points, put a lump of coal in a ring box and sneak it into her stocking.

It’s the thought that counts.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

I was with a woman at one point that told me when she was married that she had never cheated on her husband. . .

But then I came to find out that during the entire marriage she had at least three different orbiters waiting. Eventually she devalued and discarded me for one of them. Like they were not just orbiting when she was married – they also orbited after she got divorced and spent over a year using me as a new and improved means of getting off. I was just as disposable (and without any empathy or remorse) as her husband was. Then systematically, she transitioned from orbiter to orbiter. Almost using them up like convenience supplies of emotional and psychological attention when needed. Then once expired, tossed away.

Anyway. Back to her claiming that she never cheated on anyone before. I guess. . . . But keeping multiple alternate c~~~s on hold is a form of cheating and she did say once that ‘oral sex really isn’t sex. . . ‘ Like in her own warped and twisted mind, she rationalized that it wasn’t really sex.

Then kept orbiters on hold with it so she could still be a ‘good girl’.

Like, what kind of FCKED UP logic and reasoning even comes up with something like that?

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Sky-O wrote:

Anyway. Back to her claiming that she never cheated on anyone before. I guess. . . . But keeping multiple alternate c~~~s on hold is a form of cheating and she did say once that ‘oral sex really isn’t sex. . . ‘ Like in her own warped and twisted mind, she rationalized that it wasn’t really sex.

Then kept orbiters on hold with it so she could still be a ‘good girl’.

Like, what kind of FCKED UP logic and reasoning even comes up with something like that?

Oh, they like to maintain that “image.” Don’t they??!

[HammerheadParticipant 362]

I was a bit puzzled until I read this reply:

Knights Templar Rising said –

“Me: Why didn’t you state this bulls~~~ in your OKstupid profile?”

DING-DING-DING!!! We have a winner!!!

[HammerheadParticipant 362]

I’m dating a younger (much…like a decade and a half) woman in her 40’s. After the fairly vanilla first couple sex sessions, she made it clear that she wanted some kinky sex. Tied her up, flogged her buns, twisted her nipples hard, pulled her hair, etc. Haven’t gotten TOO rough with her, just in case, and documented her requests with (now archived) e-mails so I can show that she asked for it, wanted it, expressed appreciation for it afterwards. Still, I’ve lost all interest in anything long-term with her other than sex and companionship. Besides, you never know whether it’s part of the act: bombing you with sex and affection in the early stages of dating, along with the sudden interest in all the (non-sexual) fascinating things that YOU do but that she’s somehow always had an interest in but never managed to do…hmm, isn’t that a lucky coincidence!

Ugh, they’re so transparent.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

I should start betting on Football games -> right on schedule I had no choice but to dump her on Friday (23rd).

Turns out she was lying about the “one more thing” that most BDSM creeps hide from everyone. Turns out she is into some sort of “Japanese Rope Bondage”. Not only that, it is something she does herself and didn’t want me involved in. She ties herself up and swings on some rack, and needs to have her bestie check in on her so that she doesn’t kill or main herself.

She lied to me weeks ago when I asked “what else is there?”. I asked multiple times over the last few weeks, to clarify what she meant by “kink lifestyle”…but she never answered.

Then on Friday she dropped the bomb on me after 10 weeks of dating. Then when I got mad that she lied to me for the last 5 weeks, she did the classic dumb c~~~ hamster move: She blamed ME, for my reaction to the last bomb a few weeks back. OMFG, what a lying manipulative sociopath. AWALT!

Sovereignty above all else.

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