My roommate and his GF are arguing about…..me

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

I’ve wrote about this before, but here is some background.

BACKGROUND:
My roommate is my best friend, but he has turned pussy whipped mangina since he started dating this young single mom. Our friendship hasn’t been as strong since they met because he lives to spend time with her, and has also betrayed by telling her my secrets. I’ve lost a lot of respect for him but we still remain friends and roommates and keep the peace. We started from rock bottom and built our life together and moved out of our moms house at the same time and rented an apartment together and started being responsible adults for the first times in our lives.

His gf is a ultra manipulative BIIIIIITCH. She broke up with him plenty of times and he still took her back. I’ve tried to be a good friend between the breakups, but even I couldn’t handle that emotional rollercoaster and his dumb decisions to keep taking her back, so I just distanced myself from both of them even more. This bitch has obviously been a mega wedge between me and my best friend.

Story:
Whenever she comes into the apartment, I don’t even acknowledge her anymore. I harbor a bit of resentment towards her, but mainly indifference and disgust. She still tries to be nice and say hi to me, but i don’t respond after all she has put me and my friend through. A couple nights ago, she said hi to me and i looked at her for 2 seconds and turned away ignoring her. She then went into my roommates room. My roommate who was behind her stopped to talk to me about my day for about 1 minute because we hadn’t seen each other all day, then he went into his room. I hear them arguing bla bla bla the usual. MY roommate has talked to me about this before and asked me to be nice and just say hi, but I told him that I straight up just don’t like her, so i’ll do as I please because i’m not her BF and don’t have to cater to everyone of her insecurities, especially seeing how I have to indirectly put up with her BS through how she affects him. He understood and I told him that I am not being obnoxious, i am just ignoring her because I want no part of it.

The next day, my roommate tells me that they broke up AGAIN (oh…really?). He says she was mad that he talked to me after ignoring her when she came in and that he didn’t do anything, called him a “coward”, said he is supposed to protect him and all of this other bulls~~~ to manipulate him, kick him in his metaphorical manhood, and guilt trip him. My roommate claims that this is the last time they break up and it is really over (yea right).

ADVICE:
I don’t want my roommate harboring any resentment towards me over this situation. He doesn’t SEEM to be and says he understands my perspective, but if you let this bitch manipulate you this long then who is to say that she can’t make you hate me. It is funny how much power I have by literally doing NOTHING which drives her insane. She is making her choose between me or her. My friend is vulnerable right now and I’ve been talking to him and the past says he is gonna get back with her for the 10th time, but he is his own man/mangina. I just want to know how I minimize any resentment he could possibly feel towards me because I feel like i’ve already kind of lost my friend, but all i want is a peaceful living situation at this point.

CLIFFS:
roommate/best friend has manipulate c~~~ GF who keeps breaking up with him and he gets back with her
I distance myself from them both and the whole situation
i ignore her when she comes into apartment
his GF calls him a coward for not “making me” respect her or say hi to her
they break up again, this time over this specific situation
I am the cause of their breakup, but not really, that’s just how the manipulative bitch spins it
I dont want my friend to have resentment towards me because of this although he doesn’t seem to have any and understands
how do i minimize resentment my friend has towards me if any?

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

I guess Mgtow is doing the divide and conquer, now…….

Your a threat to her, she’s has nothing to offer except collateral damage to your friend. Women hate single men because they can’t control them, their happy without them, which makes it a cancer to your friend, it spreads. She’s manipulated him, to divide and conquer you and your friend. The only way she can win.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

bigboy83 wrote:

I guess Mgtow is doing the divide and conquer, now…….

Your a threat to her, she’s has nothing to offer except collateral damage to your friend. Women hate single men because they can’t control them, their happy without them, which makes it a cancer to your friend, it spreads. She’s manipulated him, to divide and conquer you and your friend. The only way she can win.

and all of this I know. Such sociopathic bulls~~~. She even told my friend that she doesn’t like when he spends time with me because I’m single….. Straight from the horses mouth.

I’d be delighted if she just fell off the face of the earth at this point.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

MOVE OUT.

ANY QUESTIONS?

I’ve been planning this for sometime now, but I am not financially ready. There are a lot of details to the bigger picture, but like I said, I really don’t have much (financially/materialistically anyway) and am building my life back up after burning it to the ground and am not ready to make that move yet.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

BlackPill wrote:

since he started dating this young single mom.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Zuberi Tau wrote:

BlackPill wrote:

since he started dating this young single mom.

bruh….. I know

[FermatParticipant 3478]

BlackPill wrote:

she was mad that he talked to me after ignoring her when she came in and that he didn’t do anything, called him a “coward”, said he is supposed to protect him and all of this other bulls~~~ to manipulate him, kick him in his metaphorical manhood, and guilt trip him.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[UmbreonParticipant 152]

I’d be honest but tactful. No matter what do not stop being a friend as long as you’re still there or the bitch wins.

Does he understand what a “power play” is? Well, she sees you as a “threat” and is trying to exert force over him. You are a threat to her agenda as you’re the last non-woman he’ll listen to. She’s hoping her nookie and woman power will keep him under her boot while she breaks it off to do god knows what over and over again. That’s not respect or love.

Can you record the way she talks to/about him so he can listen to her while removed from the situation? Maybe there’s old “breakup” texts or something. If so, do it. Introducing him to women who aren’t this chick would be a good idea as it’s clear he seems to feel he “needs” a woman and it would show him that he doesn’t have to put up with her to get a woman. Yes, I know it’s counter to what MGTOW stands for, but as the saying goes “you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink.” You can plant in his head that he doesn’t need a woman, but he’s not ready to accept it from his current behavior. For now, just roll with it and try to get him distracted from the bitch and/or to see she is a bitch. You need to be nicer than she is. He’s hurt, wants affection badly (insecure?), and really needs a friend.

If she wins the next thing she’ll want after she takes you out of there is to move the kids in and have him pay the rent. Besides being a threat in her eyes you’re also in her kids’ future bedroom. There will be tons more breakups until the last of her looks have faded (a couple years of stringing your “good guy” friend along) but she won’t move out as “the kids are there”. When she can’t get laid on the side at all any more she’ll demand a very expensive marriage. After she gets her fancy society wedding she’ll cheat or turn abusive if he shows any spine at all for the rest of his life. Hell, she might even cheat just because she wants to and feels he won’t do anything under threat of the things she’ll do to him. The kids will be used as leverage against him to hurt him and keep him under control. Having nobody to turn to, serious abuse is very, VERY likely. She sounds like she already is a little abusive.

And you? You’ll need to walk away or else you’ll have to deal with this crap forever regardless of where you live as your friend will always bring it with him as long as they’re together and she won’t stop bitching until he has no friends and is a super easy target because he’ll have nowhere to go. Luckily, he can decide now to not make himself a target by walking away, blocking her phone/texts and not going back. Seriously… when will it be enough? The 11th breakup? The 12th? Ever? Be supportive of him leaving her but save up like crazy just in case he makes the mistake of keeping her.

Good luck and hang in there!

Beauty fades, dumb is forever.

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

BlackPill wrote:

My roommate is my best friend, but he has turned pussy whipped mangina since he started dating this young single mom.

You don’t date single mothers… unless the father was a firefighter and died at work… or was a soldier and got shot n killed…. I mean…. wtf….

If she just screwed some dead-beat dick, or screwed some nice guy and revealed her total utter bitchiness…. leave her in the cold man.

I dated a single mom one time, never EVER again. I’m a quick learner. Single mothers are walking disasters most of the time. I’m sorry you have to deal with that s~~~ because your friends an idiot.

Best of luck.

[RuprectParticipant 56]

My solution? Now that he is “broke up” with her again … GET HIM LAID! Make it your mission to get this guy some new ‘tang. The reason he keeps going back to this manipulative harridan is because he gets to easily dip his wick. The only way to break the spell is to have him bust a nut between another pair of sweet cheeks.

[Sessna12Participant 119]

don’t let their unhealthy relations~~~ bleed into your life.
Let your friend make his own mistakes, and live your own damn life.

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

The solution arises in the reading of the lease.

I am assuming that since you did not name the c~~~ as a room-mate, she is not on the lease and is therefore a guest.

I would advise informing your room-mate that due to the unruly nature of his guest, you cannot, in good conscience, allow her on to the premises due to the joint and severable nature of the lease that both you and him signed. The landlord could go after which ever one of you he pleased in order to pay for the costs of repair should she decided to express her bitchiness through vandalism, and that is not acceptable. I would advise having him sign an acknowledgement of the above, and threaten to with-hold rent should he fail to do so.

The joint and severable nature of this lease is to your advantage since if you skip town, the landlord will go after your room-mate to make himself whole. Were I in the position of the landlord, I would go after him since he has remained on the premises and therefore the chances of collecting more of the monies owed are higher.

I should note at this point that tenancy is ill-advised, and tenancy with room-mates doubly so. I have no idea how I ever thought that paying rent on the first of the month was anything less than financial anal rape.

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

this is all going to end badly….. vindictive bitches usually win…

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[Anonymous 5]

At least your friend understands your perspective. You have nothing good to say to her, so you say nothing. You are being incredibly mature by simply ignoring her and living your own life. Of course this drives females insane when they don’t get attention, but that is her problem and not yours. You have been doing the right thing.

I suggest you listen to the other guys here when they say you should get your friend laid. That is the best way to get rid of that c~~~ once and for all. Normally I would suggest just giving your friend the red pill speech, but he sounds like a blue piller who is not ready to change yet. So find him a new vagina to replace the old one. By the time the new vagina turns into a raging c~~~, you should be moved out by then.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Ruprect wrote:

My solution? Now that he is “broke up” with her again … GET HIM LAID! Make it your mission to get this guy some new ‘tang. The reason he keeps going back to this manipulative harridan is because he gets to easily dip his wick. The only way to break the spell is to have him bust a nut between another pair of sweet cheeks.

this. this is why women don’t like their boyfriend’s single friends. she thinks you are going to get him laid or get him to be a wingman. she knows any time spent with you is time he is not spending for her benefit. You should get the guy laid. F~~~, even when they are together you should be trying to get him laid. lol

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[theseekerParticipant 32]

te,l him MGTFO (man get the f~~~ out)

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Ruprect wrote:

My solution? Now that he is “broke up” with her again … GET HIM LAID! Make it your mission to get this guy some new ‘tang. The reason he keeps going back to this manipulative harridan is because he gets to easily dip his wick. The only way to break the spell is to have him bust a nut between another pair of sweet cheeks.

I don’t know how to hook dude up….he has plenty of game himself, but I honestly hate the way the dude is once he finds a girl he likes anyway, so i’m not gonna help with that process. He is just gonna fall the f~~~ in love all over again and turn beta bitch, and i’d rather see him depressed short-term than in another false state of happiness that is doomed for failure with his mentality mixed with the attitude of a woman

Sessna12 wrote:

don’t let their unhealthy relations~~~ bleed into your life.
Let your friend make his own mistakes, and live your own damn life.

I try not to let it, but I can’t help it. I can minimize it, but i LIVE with the dude and care for him.

Cipher Highwind wrote:

The solution arises in the reading of the lease.

I am assuming that since you did not name the c~~~ as a room-mate, she is not on the lease and is therefore a guest.

I would advise informing your room-mate that due to the unruly nature of his guest, you cannot, in good conscience, allow her on to the premises due to the joint and severable nature of the lease that both you and him signed. The landlord could go after which ever one of you he pleased in order to pay for the costs of repair should she decided to express her bitchiness through vandalism, and that is not acceptable. I would advise having him sign an acknowledgement of the above, and threaten to with-hold rent should he fail to do so.

The joint and severable nature of this lease is to your advantage since if you skip town, the landlord will go after your room-mate to make himself whole. Were I in the position of the landlord, I would go after him since he has remained on the premises and therefore the chances of collecting more of the monies owed are higher.

I should note at this point that tenancy is ill-advised, and tenancy with room-mates doubly so. I have no idea how I ever thought that paying rent on the first of the month was anything less than financial anal rape.

I’m not sure if that would be the best route to take with a friend as close as this. I’m not on the lease anyway and am in an unconventional living situation. I’m lucky to have a roof over my head as it is.

Smitty the Great One wrote:

this is all going to end badly….. vindictive bitches usually win…

thanks for the good luck!

but yea, i know.

Anonymous wrote:

At least your friend understands your perspective. You have nothing good to say to her, so you say nothing. You are being incredibly mature by simply ignoring her and living your own life. Of course this drives females insane when they don’t get attention, but that is her problem and not yours. You have been doing the right thing.

I suggest you listen to the other guys here when they say you should get your friend laid. That is the best way to get rid of that c~~~ once and for all. Normally I would suggest just giving your friend the red pill speech, but he sounds like a blue piller who is not ready to change yet. So find him a new vagina to replace the old one. By the time the new vagina turns into a raging c~~~, you should be moved out by then.

i’ve done it and even showed him some videos and he even f~~~in agreed to what was said, but still said “it’s still extreme though”. Why the f~~~ does it matter if the truth is extreme or not? saying it is “extreme” doesn’t discredit it. Blue pill logic makes me rage so f~~~in hard man.

uchibenkei wrote:

Ruprect wrote:

My solution? Now that he is “broke up” with her again … GET HIM LAID! Make it your mission to get this guy some new ‘tang. The reason he keeps going back to this manipulative harridan is because he gets to easily dip his wick. The only way to break the spell is to have him bust a nut between another pair of sweet cheeks.

this. this is why women don’t like their boyfriend’s single friends. she thinks you are going to get him laid or get him to be a wingman. she knows any time spent with you is time he is not spending for her benefit. You should get the guy laid. F~~~, even when they are together you should be trying to get him laid. lol

way too blue pill for that s~~~. He was “loyal” while she was probably f~~~ing her babies dad and still acting all flirty with other guys. talk about his nuts in her clutch.

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