MY RED PILL MOMENT

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

I did not want to give up on believing NAWALT. Thought I had found one. Yesterday gave me an  inconvertible  sign that there are none around any longer. I had gone to the doctor with  my “loved one” to get a sperm count done a couple months after a vasectomy. The lab was closed so I got frustrated and decided to go purchase a test kit myself at the drug store – especially since I was holding a fresh sample. She went into a rant how that was a waste of money (kit was $39.00) and I should just wait until I can get another lab appointment. I told her jacking off into a specimen vial sucks enough, let alone showing up to find it was all a waste of time and then chasing down a lab who’s hours coincide with my 11 hour work days. Wouldn’t give an inch. Mean time I reminded her the vasectomy was done not only for myself – but for her so she could avoid using other birth control. Still nothing. Then I got handed more s~~~ about how I am selfish…blah blah blah. Selfish? I cut my own b~~~~ open to take the hit for birth control (I am almost 55 and don’t want any more kids). As for the 11 hour work days, I do that to support her and her 11 year old daughter (not my kid) while she works part time and drives a brand new car while I drive a 15K Kia with manual windows. She said she regretted the day she opened her computer (we met online). I asked her if she really believed that. No answer. She slept in another room last night. She is 22 years my junior by any  measure – very attractive. But its not worth it any longer. My BS receptacle is full.

 

[Anonymous 18]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

As for the 11 hour work days, I do that to support her and her 11 year old daughter (not my kid) while she works part time and drives a brand new car while I drive a 15K Kia with manual windows. She said she regretted the day she opened her computer (we met online). I asked her if she really believed that. No answer. She slept in another room last night. She is 22 years my junior by any  measure – very attractive.

Her biological instinct to look for male ‘love’ stopped partly at 22 when she had her daughter. You, my brother, are a walking wallet at this point.

She regrets the day she opened her computer. Let it sink in. There is a lot wrong with that statement. A lot. Her being thankless for you not only serving her needs but also her daughter’s is only the tip of the c~~~-berg.

Cut your losses man. Single mothers are parasites. They are the best at manipulations and portraying victimhoods.

And don’t be surprised if years down the road she blames YOU for taking all her beauty and youth and calls it rape every time you guys had sex.

Study shows men accept a bad deal if the woman is attractive. Seems to be the case in point.

http://www.businessinsider.com/men-accept-unfairness-from-pretty-women-2015-7

[RoyDalParticipant]

iLearn said it for me.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Yup pull the black and yellow eject handle. That ships going down 😕

[WolfParticipant 890]

She said she regretted the day she opened her computer?

How do you let such a harsh statement slide? If that was ever said to me, the relationship would be over immediately. She wouldn’t be sleeping in another room; she’d walking out the front door to never return.

Like iLearn said, you are a walking wallet. She is 22 years younger than you, and you’re a utility for her and her daughter. It’s time to kick her out.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

22 years younger = shameless Hypergamy

You are her wallet, and her kid’s too.  Her kid will grow up to be a horrible screech owl just like the mother, do you want two of them under your roof?

Lastly, given your age difference, she will cheat and “it’s only a matter of WHEN, not IF…”.  Sorry Bro, just laying down the truth.  You will find her banging someone else, and then she will blame you for it.

And if she has been with you long enough, and depending where you live, she could try to hit you up for child support – she won’t win but she can make you miserable.

“Single Mom’s” are as radioactive as Uranium.  They are all either psychologically damaged, or looking for “replacement dad”.  A friend of mine is divorced in his late-40’s, has his own modest house, and has been an unknowing MGTOW for about a decade now.  After several years he learned to stop dating single moms, because eventually they ALWAYS wanted to move their kids into his house – he has shot a few of them down over the years.  Now he only dates childless women, or at very least women with grown and established kids.  This guy is of mediocre intelligence, but even he has learned that all single moms are toxic or parasites in some way.

Sovereignty above all else.

[MantelarParticipant 77]

you didn’t mention whether or not you’ve married the woman.  that of course complicates things.

i’ll throw this out there.  she’s 22 years younger than you?  sounds like she needs to be reminded about the true nature of the trade-offs occuring here.  she’s settled with an older man who can easily take care of her and her child.  you’ve settled with a much younger woman like it or not in large part because she is much younger.  she gets cash and security.  you get what?  how about an attractive much younger woman who is pleasing to be with?  she needs to know that she alone is not enough – especially if she alone is being a f~~~ing bitch.  she has to act the part.  otherwise her, and especially her massive baggage in a daughter, its not worth it.

you’d be better off alone.  but lets face it, you’re not necessarily going to do that at your age.  just protect yourself, man.  she obviously thinks her awesomeness is so supreme that she rates your labor, a good portion of your income, and money from TWO men to care for her one child, and doesn’t even have to be thankful in return.  that’s someone to be wary of.  push comes to shove, if your gloves aren’t up, she’s going to rake you over the coals.

 

[WolfParticipant 890]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

And if she has been with you long enough, and depending where you live, she could try to hit you up for child support – she won’t win but she can make you miserable.

Agreed. Where I live, guys can be ordered to pay child support for a child that is not his. Therefore, letting a single mother move into your home with her kids is not a smart idea.

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

my purple pill moment, was my parent’s divorce, but my real “oh s~~~, manipulative c~~~ alert” red pill moment, was a friend of my mom’s daughter who had a kid, smoked, did drugs at some point…generally looked like hell.  im 29, she is like…22, maybe 23.

 

So, i got this really cheeky f~~~ you grin, and played beta who isn’t interested and replied(in front of her parents, my mom, her mom and dad and her gardener boyfriend):  ” Forgive me miss, i only have a one bedroom apartment, and since i don’t plan on raising someone else’s kid, since i don’t plan on working in a hospital in a sweaty kitchen, and since i don’t plan on ever sleeping with…im going to have to resoundingly decline.”

 

bitch was definitely not pleased.  My mom’s boyfriend on the other hand, was trying not to suffocate from laughing so dam hard.

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

So true, brother. Single mom=red flags galore.

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