My problem

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

I have some very deeply ingrained programming to follow the TradCon Blue Pill Hell even though I know better!
But in spite of numerous cases based on my personal experience that clearly demonstrated the truth of MGTOW articles..I keep looping back to trying to find that “Unicorn” (NWALT). However I am constantly disappointed that I am chasing after a mirage: something that is simply not real. And I get so many confirmations even from women themselves: that they view men as a source of money: a plow horse. Nothing more than something to be used to get them where they want to go financially.

As for “happily married” after..one of the guys ho “won the lottery” and married a very beautiful woman and had 2 kids is now finding that he is paying a very high price. And his wife (who sits on her butt at home) is basically demanding that this guy work himself to death: all for money. I got this first hand from the guy’s mother.

Still in spite of evidence that is in my face and inescapable…I keep reverting to my old ways.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I feel for you. I see a girl and think yeah I could……then I wake up and move myself away. Outta site outta mind. But since I’m still real new to this, my reptilian brain catches me off guard and I find myself flirting when it is exactly what I don’t want to do. I just keep fighting it. Like breaking a bad habit.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[HitmanParticipant]

The truth is always going to be the truth.
You already know it.
Read more here from men like me who took the chance to marry and got wallet raped by the legal system. .
The truth will always be the same. Women want money. Money is more important than anything else.
Keep swallowing the red pills and give it time. .
Rome wasn’t built in a day.
Build assets, protect them. Then you can pick and choose the women you want to f~~~.
Temporary pleasures my friend. .that’s the best case scenario. .

[Anonymous 42]

RealityBites wrote:

a plow horse. Nothing more than something to be used to get them where they want to go financially.

Look to your inner self >>>RealityBites<<<, says it all! TRADCON >>>Women<<< don’t exist! TRADCON men do exist. There inlays the blue pill, they’re still practicing a culture that no longer exists, the unicorns have been legislated out of existence.

So get with the times and kick over that MGTOW engine and go for the ride of your life!

When a mans efforts and energies are redirected into himself and no other, it’s blast off time, freedom, your life time to f~~~ off, pull the ripcord, or whatever YOU want to do!
It’s not just a new life, it’s a new dimension!

With “modern” woman:

Without “modern” woman:

[TuneoutParticipant]

I just say to myself if I want a woman and she wants my money
then I might as well get an escort-the most honest relationship a man and woman can have IMO.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[HermitParticipant 136]

RealityBites wrote:

I have some very deeply ingrained programming to follow the TradCon Blue Pill Hell even though I know better!

Just remember, every woman hits The Wall at some point of their lives. Do you really want to have granny sex for the rest of your life?

[HitmanParticipant]

RB..
We’ve been brainwashed since childhood to conform and serve women. .
Work for them and put ourselves second.
That’s all a lie .we were lied to.
You can do whatever you want to. .
Just see women for what they really are.
Vultures, waiting to pick your bones clean. ..if you let them. .

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

It is your genetic programming that you are fighting. It is very strong and you will struggle with this. But it does get better. Remember, what your dick wants is hazardous to your health and your future. Your dreams and your freedom are far more valuable than anything any woman will ever have between her legs

[Anonymous 54]

It’s hard to give up such a beautiful dream. But that’s all it is as you said. It just takes a while to shake it off. Took me 3 F~~~in marrages!!!

[Anonymous 24]

If those who have read a lot of my stuff were to guess that I did not grow up in a TradCon family, they would be right. I grew up free of religion, and even without it media was enough to make me believe that some things were truths that really were not. And that life was to be lived a certain way, when it certainly is not.

Let all of that s~~~ go, and if you are still left wanting certain things, go after it, whatever it is.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

I find myself having the same problem from time to time. Just keep remembering why you swallowed the red pill in the first place and you’ll be fine. If you really need a woman’s company just hire an escort. Sure it’s expensive but it eliminates all the time lost going out on dates and paying 3-4x more than you would for an escort, just for the slim possibility the woman you’re out on that date with might consider maybe thinking about letting you f~~~ her, then having to put up with all her crap afterward.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[ExpendableYouthParticipant 381]

Man I hear you brother. I, unlike quite a few of these posters– had never experienced marriage. I kind of remember growing up every older man would tell me “Whatever you do, don’t get married”. Now I figure to myself, well, thats just one person. LOL…but the fact many, MULTIPLE older married/divorced men would tell me this. Could they be onto something….

On a related note– guys I can honestly say none of the women I dated tried to take money from me. For the most part, they had their own which is why I was originally attracted to them. But, we all know how that goes

Don’t have a problem with it, just don’t even play the game. It’s a fix and the house always wins.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

RealityBites-

I suspect many guys here have faced this emptiness.
You can still enjoy a woman’s company. Just be sure to never marry, never cohabitate, don’t spend a lot of money on them, and keep it light.
You may find as you become more and more red pill that you want them less.

The “nice girls” can be tricky. Don’t think for a second that they are not measuring you for a saddle. My Sunday School teacher cost me a fortune. As you are around women more and more, you will want them less and less.

You can’t beat a dog for loyalty. And a fleshlight is far cheaper than any lady

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Flirting is natural, and even wishing to know a woman (not just only sexually) it’s natural.
When you’re under 25 all you need to do is:
Never sign a marriage contract.
Never start a cohabitation.
More and more relationships you’ll have, more and more you’ll realize that the cons are real.
The secret is: never grant them actual rights – no marriage contract, no cohabitation under common law.

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[Buller100Participant 2189]

RealityBites wrote:

I have some very deeply ingrained programming to follow the TradCon Blue Pill Hell even though I know better!
But in spite of numerous cases based on my personal experience that clearly demonstrated the truth of MGTOW articles..I keep looping back to trying to find that “Unicorn” (NWALT). However I am constantly disappointed that I am chasing after a mirage: something that is simply not real. And I get so many confirmations even from women themselves: that they view men as a source of money: a plow horse. Nothing more than something to be used to get them where they want to go financially.

As for “happily married” after..one of the guys ho “won the lottery” and married a very beautiful woman and had 2 kids is now finding that he is paying a very high price. And his wife (who sits on her butt at home) is basically demanding that this guy work himself to death: all for money. I got this first hand from the guy’s mother.

Still in spite of evidence that is in my face and inescapable…I keep reverting to my old ways.

I am a little older, like you I find myself thinking like a trad con.

It’s hard to unlearn like a fault in a golf swing, how I do it is I see girls , but never ever get financially tied up nor let them stay full time.

We all know deep down marriage is not nice, but losing half your money time and time again ?

When you have no money you won’t have a women, if you go through a series of divorces you won’t have money.

So better be alone with plenty of money and you can see them part time,

Part time women are the way forward…. When you hear the sense of entitlement it makes you run anyway.

[RoyDalParticipant]

foghornleghorn wrote:

It is your genetic programming that you are fighting. It is very strong and you will struggle with this. But it does get better. Remember, what your dick wants is hazardous to your health and your future. Your dreams and your freedom are far more valuable than anything any woman will ever have between her legs

Yep.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Hitman wrote:

The truth is always going to be the truth.
You already know it.
Read more here from men like me who took the chance to marry and got wallet raped by the legal system. .
The truth will always be the same. Women want money. Money is more important than anything else.
Keep swallowing the red pills and give it time. .
Rome wasn’t built in a day.
Build assets, protect them. Then you can pick and choose the women you want to f~~~.
Temporary pleasures my friend. .that’s the best case scenario. .

Nailed it , spot on bro… That needs to be the mantra, print it pin it on all your doors, read it every day it’s the position.

Fantastic,,, this needs keeping , it’s killed it.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Well there is this skeleton meditation that visualize humans as a corpse that decompose over time that will curb your desires for the opposite sex.

A corpse that is “swollen, blue and festering.”
A corpse that is “being eaten by crows, hawks, vultures, dogs, jackals or by different kinds of worms.”
A corpse that is “reduced to a skeleton together with (some) flesh and blood held in by the tendons.”
A corpse that is “reduced to a blood-besmeared skeleton without flesh but held in by the tendons.”
A corpse that is “reduced to a skeleton held in by the tendons but without flesh and not besmeared with blood.”
A corpse that is “reduced to bones gone loose, scattered in all directions.”
A corpse that is “reduced to bones, white in color like a conch.”
A corpse that is “reduced to bones more than a year old, heaped together.”
A corpse that is “reduced to bones gone rotten and become dust.”

If not there is a simple way of visualizing she eats like me, so she s~~~s, she farts, in the morning her mouth will be foul from drool, eyes, ears, nose, have s~~~. She sweats, she carry s~~~ in her intestine everywhere. It is just a pretty skin over the monster I see in my biological class.

Lizard brain will quiet down.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Anonymous 18]

foghornleghorn wrote:

It is your genetic programming that you are fighting. I

More like social conditioning. Genetic programming is to sleep with the princess, her sister, and her cute friend.

Hitman wrote:

Keep swallowing the red pills and give it time. .

There is no substitute for field i.e. real life experience.

If you are desiring a woman who is out there and can make/keep you happy, then it’s time you pack the red pills in your backpack and venture out. With a tall glass of water.

Once you find the said woman and ejaculate with her assistance proceed to cultivate that blue-pilled mangina that wants to love her. And be loved.

Listen to what he wants. Then pay attention to her actions (ignore what she says). Then come home and sit down. Take a pen and paper. Have the red-pill mindset objectively dissect her actions. The answer will be clear.

You do that enough times and slowly the blue-pilled man within you will be starved off with constant assault of hard facts and evidence. All of which goes against a concept of decent, caring, and loving women in this day and age.

The red pill man would learn to enjoy women for the momentary pleasure. The lack of neediness will also make you more desirable.

If you fail to recognize the logical fallacies in your bluepill mindset and end up being a utility- please come back and tell us how miserable you are. We love some objective learning for ourselves. Without the stress and drama, of course.

[narwhalParticipant]

Not exactly sure what you mean by falling back into your old ways.

I don’t think it’s a big problem to fantasize about unicorns, as long as you don’t try and turn it into a reality.

Ok. Then do it.

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