My own sister…

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  • #5567
    AlexIsAfraid
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    My own sister is now a feminazi… the video of those little girls cussing she posted on her facebook.. thinking the video was great…I was immediately disgusted and disowned her.. I feel bad for my nieces.. there going to have to be brainwashed into thinking all men are rapists and the fake patriarchy is real… But I had told my sister when I disowned her “Tell my nieces they have no uncle, because if I’m concerned I have no sister” It really hits you when it’s your own blood being brainwashed… but it makes me even stronger! I sent her this big message and boom no more sister.. Have any advice guys?

    #5578
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    Dybbuk
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    Have any advice guys?

    Only advice is to see if it’s not too late to patch things up with your sister. I don’t care how offensive that video was, you don’t disown family over petty stuff like that.

    #5598
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    IggyThunders
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    Yeah. I wouldnt disown her but would let her know where I stand. I would also let her know she was just being a fool and a dupe falling for this garbage. Women seem to fall for anything that is considered “Edgy” and jibes with their own beliefs. They are for the most part lemmings. Anything that seems “cool” they latch onto. Why do you think Obama got voted in the first time? It was seen as “cool” and a big party.

    #5606
    Richard Ford
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    I would second Iggy. It is possible to stand above this and not let it be spoken in your presence but still be there when she leaves the cult.

    you might like to read the advice of groups such as the Cult Information Service. They say that cults work to isolate their members from society. Your sister is passing through a cult. Hopefully not for long.

    #5608
    нσтησσв
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    Thankfully, my sister isn’t a feminazi 🙂

    She is more on the feminist side, and i used to argue a lot with her about s~~~ like male rights and what not back when i was purple pill.
    Now i know better, and i really just don’t talk about anything really that important around her, as she doesn’t get any of it.
    So, i avoid talking about Politics, Male/Female Rights, and i try to hold off on the criticism, but i’ll let her know little things like when shes getting fatter, and i expect the same from her.
    Doing so keeps my family in a more or less good relationship.

    Best advice i can give you is that if you want to keep a good family relationship, when ever she brings up anything feministic just stop talking and walk away. Eventually she’ll learn ( hopefully ) and just never bring up that s~~~ with you.

    Family is family, so you gotta give them a little extra bit of tolerance.
    If she is talking about feminazi crap 24/7 when ever you talk with her, than i think that you should spell it out to her, “I’m sorry, but i do not share the same views as you do. For the sake of our family, i’ll refrain from talking about MRM and hope that you refrain from talking about FRM”

    I don’t know how far gone your sister is, but, if you value your family relationships, this is the best i can offer.

    On the other hand, if she’s like, “i want to castrate all men,” feminazi, than f~~~ yeah i’d disown her lol. I’d want to stay away from her and keep my junk 😛

    My Goal: To Leave Society.

    #5615
    AlexIsAfraid
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    Honestly, I think I’m going to keep my distance from her, she is a idiot she will believe anything.. and I reather not be tortured by my sister more then she already has..also it’s not so easy for me to let go of a grudge, it’s a family trait to be stubborn , my grandfather didn’t talk to my mom for 11 years because she didn’t send him a B-day card and was mad she moved, and I’m prepared to never talk to my sister ever again, and think I will go down that path.

    #5623
    Sigma London
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    I envy you guys in the “family is family” camp. Where I live there is no such thing anymore. Personally I think disowning her is a good idea. You have no obligation to your nieces and no authority so don’t feel bad. Actions have consequences and this tendency of us men to “be the better person” is part of our problem. I don’t know if you have a family worth tolerating or not, it’s your call.

    My sister went fem-nazi as well. I told her I was going to disown her. We are very close, but I felt that strongly about it. She is now sympathetic to MGTOW. I encouraged her to appropriate the feminist label after to inject some reason into the ideology, so we both won.

    #5629
    AlexIsAfraid
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    @SigmaLondon I wish I could do that with my sister, but she is as stubborn as me, we have always been at war… but now it’s off the deep end..

    #5633
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    Sigma London
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    You don’t owe her anything. She has broken a social contract and now hates you by proxy. Maybe she’ll come around in a few years.

    #5634
    Single_elgniS
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    My feminazi sister tried to get me arrested the night before my fathers funeral because she was having a faminazi spaz attack. YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN YOUR FRUSTRATIONS! I mean that man. Me and my sister (and my feminist mother) have arguments all the time. This last one has forced me to cut off all contact with my sister for about 6 months now. I understand that you feel you should gravitate towards family but sometimes the best way to forgive them, is to be HARSH to them. And the best way for you to do that right now, is to cut yourself off from them.

    I love my sister because we grew up together and had a great friendship for years. But the way I see it, if she clings to her messed up feminist ideologies, then she will only bring herself more pain. But if she reconciles with me, then there is room for me to reconnect. Sometimes the best thing to do is to do nothing at all and wait for her to come to you. Find ways to get over it or just muscle it. Your a man so bite your lip and just do what you got to do.

    #5639
    AlexIsAfraid
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    @Elgnis I agree, that’s mainly why I did it… but I am now seeing feminism as a disease that can spread to anyone’s mind… and if my sister ever tries to argue against me.. I have some choice words for her…

    @Sigman That’s how I feel about it, and I let her know that..

    The thing I’m worried about is my nieces.. I don’t want them to be brain washed into believing these false statements… The fake feminist facts are sickening… and now my little nieces are learning it… It’s just hard to take in all at once… it just made me hate feminism even more…

    It’s bad enough my sister is a whore and sleeps with a new guy every week and has my nieces  them them dad… this just honestly tops the cake… she lets them cuss as well! and the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard “Don’t You hit my kids!!!” she acted like I had punched one in the eye because I spanked my niece for saying the F-Word… She doesn’t even take care of these kids anyways, she lets them do what ever while she is sleeping, and be around intoxicated and high people…

    Honestly my nieces will end up like a more extreme version of extremists (feminazis) today if they listen to all this crap and it makes me sick….

    #5649
    TheBard
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    If she hates all men and believes all those lies like the one in the video you might be better off without her. You don’t want to always have to listen to her talk about how evil men are and women never do anything wrong every time she is around. Or be around her and and she goes off on any commercial or tv show she thinks is sexist and demands you listen and agree with her. Maybe try to educate her?

    I am lucky as my sister hates feminazi’s.

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    Hi Alexander,

    you are a lucky guy, just one sister. I had to put up with four feminazis during my childhood and boyhood, horror from the finest.

    Well, they are older than me and now in their fifty’s and I didn’t see or heard anything of them. I cancelld any contact nearly two decades ago and when I made this decision I added one point to it. If someone asks me “Do you have a brother or a sister?” I say yes, I have four older sisters.

    The reaction from most of the people is – Oh, you were the Rule of the roost or c~~~ of the walk, or the center of interest (maybe not  correct translations –> in Germany  we say  Hahn im Korb), anyway bulls~~~ comments. The best reaction I got from a guy in a bar was, You should get verdict of not guilty in all cases.

    Now the point:

    The day my parents die, I will answer the question above with NO, I am an only child.

    CHEERS!!!

     

    #6119
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    Cap285
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    It’s a shame, but I respect you for standing by your  principles. I have broken off ties with damn near all of my family because of my MGTOW beliefs, owning and carrying firearms etc.

    I have very close friends who’s kids are like nieces and nephews and it’s a shame you won’t experience that. Sometimes, you have to cut toxic people out of your life.

    Fuck this planet.
    #6124
    Keymaster
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    I’m getting there. Really close.

    Last year I flew to family twice. I get two weeks every 52 paid. I gave my valuable earned time off to my brother – for his birthday – and my Mom a second time later in the year for hers. No christmas, I made a deal. Summer is better so we can go out and do stuff.

    Gave my (blue pill disaster) brother a $350 gift which I brought from 2500 miles away. 20 minutes after I arrive at his house for a BBQ, we haven’t seen each other in almost 2 years. He says “you didn’t remember my wife’s birthday”. Yes I did. It’s around fathers day. “well you could have sent her a card”. This is the same c~~~ who got 3 baby outfits from me when I arrived from Venice, Italy. She says “these are going to be probably too scratchy”.

    Calls me up the next day and says “thanks for the gift, but It’s pretty expensive and I don’t really need it. I have 3 of them already.”

    I don’t care what I stand in line to buy you and bring on a flight.
    You will be grateful for it. Sell it on Ebay, I don’t give a s~~~.
    But if you think Im packing it in my bag and taking it home again, you’re a f~~~ing asshole.

    Last visit on Moms Birthday nobody tells me bro is coming to meet me at the airport. Nobody to greet me at the gate, so I take a $50 cab. No problem. Wasn’t even expecting a ride arriving at 10PM. MGTOW right? World travel for me as always meant make your own way. I get home, I get S~~~ for making my own way. Off the plane not 3 minutes and Im already “wrong”. it’s the only city in the world where I am always wrong. Drying my hands with the wrong towel. Washing my hands with the wrong soap. Eating too fast. You name it. I am done.

    I threw 2 weeks vacation away. F~~~ing hell.

    No more $800 flights to visit you with a $350 gift personally ON MY TIME OFF.
    You prefer to get a CARD? From now on, you get … A CARD.
    Mailed. I will be sure it doesn’t arrive before your birthday. One or two days later.


    Cutting toxic people out has been SO GRAND in every way. Cap is right on this. The girl at the corner store who said “what do you want” after I said “hello how are you” after 3 years of spending money there. My sociopathic “friend” who;s a control freak. And my fam is on the brink.

    Recently I said to Mom: “does the Lion spend Christmas with his mummy?”

    F~~~ it. Hawaii this year. 13 days. A cruise? ANYTHING but them.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #6127
    FitzBones
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    Wow, I’m so sorry that you all seem to have negative relationships with your siblings and it makes me quite grateful for my own and my interactions with them.
    I have very open relationships with them and if any of us ‘wrong’ another then its immediately brought up between the two and sorted out. We’re all very reason and logic dictated so as long as things are clear-cut and above-board then theres no issues.
    I recall numerous times with my ex who was jealous of my siblings and would craft reasons to dislike each and every one of them and try to manipulate her way between us all and made it extremely difficult for me to spend any time with them.
    Alexander, I dont feel that in my position I can really recommend either way. I’m very fortunate in my siblings and it seems you’re not quite so lucky. All I can say is that my two brothers and sisters are among my best and closest friends and I personally dont feel that blood should be easily dismissed..

    "If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

    #6132
    AlexIsAfraid
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    @keymaster Hahaha I hear yah! It seems like your brother is a little bit pussy whipped! and me and my mother get in arguements alot over these things, and my mom will often put words in my mouth “Mom did you know that over 69% of foster women molest there daughters”  Her: “SO!? I’M SURE AND I”M SURE OH THAT THERE IS MEN THAT MOLSEST TOO AND BLAH BLAH” that’s basically what it’s like and I’m begging for 18 to come as soon as possible, I’m turning 16 in two months in a half so I can finally get a job and focus on finances.. and go to college where I can study law and become a judge and fight criminal injustice, I can see it now “Hey.. if I sleep with you will you give me a lesser sentence or will you say I’m innocent?” Me: “BWAHAHAHAHAH- BWAHHAHAHA- HAHAHAHAHAHAHA” “No, get the f~~~ out.”

    @fitzbones

    I’m jealous of you for having being so close to your family, My family is not so close..
    Brother: I fought him in blood…
    Brother: took my sisters side
    Sister: used to abuse me when I was little and just got rid of her when she became a feminazi
    Other brother: My best friend and is sort of a MGTOW all though he does not identify as one or even know what it is..
    Mother: Is basically a man hater and tries to baby me and make me into a pussy (Sorry for harsh language)
    Grandma: She’s a pedophile that when was younger tried to get teens in bed with her by lying she was a teen
    Grandpa: dead, (was shot in the back of the head)
    Other grandpa: Alive but doesn’t talk to me.

    And that’s just a sliver.

    #6143
    RayBandaku
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    My story is long.  Being an Indian American and choosing to be a MGTOW is a big no no in a traditional India family from India.  I will write about it tomorrow.  See my life in my new movie trailer  http://www.theindianamericanmovie.com  click on trailer.

    #6282
    RoyDal
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    RayBandaku wrote: “See my life in my new movie trailer http://www.theindianamericanmovie.com.”

    That looks interesting. When is the release date? Be sure and keep us posted as to the movie’s progress.

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

    #6287
    Zuberi Tau
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    She’ll eventually grow out of it.

    Give it sometime.

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