My new outlook on relations~~~s

[dragonkidParticipant 23]

Funny thing is i care less about relationships since joining MGTOW. A girl i like tells me she can feel that if we broke up i would just casually get into bed with another girl. She can tell i am a faithful and honest guy, but at the same time I don’t give a f~~~ (IDGAF). I told her i wouldn’t care if she left me, it wouldn’t effect me, i value her blah blah blah. Stuff she says at times are red flags, but i don’t act up on them, because i simply don’t give a s~~~, i could break up with her now, and find someone else easily, the both of us know i can. It is a lovely feeling, not being trapped. She seen a previous pic of my recent ex, and knows the caliber of women i could get, it frightens her, she needs reassurance at times. I honestly like her, i wouldn’t cheat on her, and treat her with respect. I am playing the nice guy, i value her for who she is rather than what she looks like(she has a pretty face, decent body, pic below). I am making up my own rules as i go along in life, doing what i want to do, focusing on me, getting my skill sets up in life. I might in the future get married, but when is not my concern, i am just going with the flow, enjoying myself.a big brotherly hug for all you mgtow out there, it is nice to have a place what guys share same mindsets, we all just do our own thing

[HitmanParticipant]

Don’t get trapped.
Avoid making baby’s.
Continue to focus on yourself.

[joetechParticipant]

I’m glad to hear you’re making your own way. I think the longer you spend together the more secure she’ll feel in her relationship with you. I wouldn’t marry her(why hand her a ‘gun’?) I, too, am making up my own rules with my GF. She’s hard to get along with and stubborn. She’s proven that she’ll fight tooth and nail for me, as well as against me. She’s also proven her love and commitment to me many times. I love her, too, and our life together almost looks like a sit-com sometimes with a two year old, her daughter and my GF and I being entertained by the grandson. Who’s got time to dwell on the past? I have a future to dwell on and I’m starting to wonder, “When did I ever have time to work?” Keep on truckin’.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Your attitude should protect you – since you are looking after yourself. I don’t fault you at all for trying to fulfill a biological need and get with a woman. And from the looks of the picture you posted, she is the exception physically ( most today are disgusting landwhales) so I can see why you keep her around, added to that you say she is pleasant to be around. Resist the urge to get married, if it does materialize down the road. There’s nothing at all in that contract that could be of any benefit to you as a man.

[dragonkidParticipant 23]

You had me till you said you might get married in future.

in 20 years time if i find someone i like i will. I will marry a brazillian girl from a small village who values family above all else. I speak portuguese, i will marry a girl around 20-25 who wants to live abroad, when i am in the 45-50 age bracket. I will kick back in the algarve (portuguese coast), pump her full of kids, daily BBQ’s, and enjoy the new fruits in life.

[dragonkidParticipant 23]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Your attitude should protect you – since you are looking after yourself. I don’t fault you at all for trying to fulfill a biological need and get with a woman. And from the looks of the picture you posted, she is the exception physically ( most today are disgusting landwhales) so I can see why you keep her around. Resist the urge to get married, if it does materialize down the road. There’s nothing at all in that contract that could be of any benefit to you as a man.

This current woman is just chill to hang around with, she is funny, and fun to be with. I actually enjoy talking to her. Compared with my ex and the other girls i brush up on, she doesn’t do well physically, but it isn’t my concern (my recent ex below)

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

dragonkid wrote:

Redpillbible wrote:

You had me till you said you might get married in future.

in 20 years time if i find someone i like i will. I will marry a brazillian girl from a small village who values family above all else. I speak portuguese, i will marry a girl around 20-25 who wants to live abroad, when i am in the 45-50 age bracket. I will kick back in the algarve (portuguese coast), pump her full of kids, daily BBQ’s, and enjoy the new fruits in life.

Listen man not to burst your bubble but ALL women are the same from a biological standpoint,would you like to step in the ring and fight against biology? Those hypergamous cancer cells are spreaded through all of them and in order to not lift the mask they must master the art of deceit “she’s a good girl” “I like her for who she is not what she looks like”,but the reciprocity is never there. Ask yourself if she were a homeless women would you still date her? Now reverse the question if you were homeless? You are a tool to a women and if one craftsman wrench breaks you go find another one. Go Your Own Way….

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[dragonkidParticipant 23]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

dragonkid wrote:

Redpillbible wrote:

You had me till you said you might get married in future.

in 20 years time if i find someone i like i will. I will marry a brazillian girl from a small village who values family above all else. I speak portuguese, i will marry a girl around 20-25 who wants to live abroad, when i am in the 45-50 age bracket. I will kick back in the algarve (portuguese coast), pump her full of kids, daily BBQ’s, and enjoy the new fruits in life.

Listen man not to burst your bubble but ALL women are the same from a biological standpoint,would you like to step in the ring and fight against biology? Those hypergamous cancer cells are spreaded through all of them and in order to not lift the mask they must master the art of deceit “she’s a good girl” “I like her for who she is not what she looks like”,but the reciprocity is never there. Ask yourself if she were a homeless women would you still date her? Now reverse the question if you were homeless? You are a tool to a women and if one craftsman wrench breaks you go find another one. Go Your Own Way….

It is true, i am going all wrong about it with this current girl. I decided to take a bit of a step back now. But marriage in the future is something i will come to terms with. In no way am i going to get married in the next 20 years, there is no need for me to get married yet. When i am older, i would like to get married, look after my mother, have kids, and a wife. Marriage is something i will enjoy later on in life when my mother ages (she still has many years left!).

[joetechParticipant]

Get all the advice you can from your mother while she’s still around. Today there are lots of ways to keep a woman in your life without getting married. And when you have the option of working out a splitup agreement on the kitchen table, it makes things much simpler. Remember, the woman you break up with in twenty years isn’t the woman you’re sleeping with today.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

dragonkid wrote:

This current woman is just chill to hang around with, she is funny, and fun to be with.

There’s always free cheese in a trap.

Compared with my ex and the other girls i brush up on, she doesn’t do well physically, but it isn’t my concern (my recent ex below)

Which means she’s insecure in her position with you. And she’s doing her best to think of ways to secure up that position. An Oops! pregnancy will do nicely to permanently lock you to her. Eventually she will realize that (assuming she hasn’t already) and act upon it.

Keeping them insecure and wanting is all fine and good for maintaining your own freedom and sanity, but you have to make damn sure they don’t do an end-run around you and trap you anyways.

She will start to try to lock you down. She will start pushing for marriage. She will want to move in with you. And she WILL get pregnant on you, even if she has to use another man’s seed to do it. You need to be able to protect yourself legally when, not if, that happens.

You need a vasectomy and you need it right f~~~ing now. But don’t tell her. And document the f~~~ out of it.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

“In 20 years time if i find someone i like i will.”

Greetings brother. Yes you will like this fictitious women creature you have conjured up in your head. But when you STOP liking this person after you’re hitched with her, you will NOT be able to leave unscathed.

“I will marry a brazillian girl from a small village who values family above all else.”

This is where you will fall. Yes ALL women love family. It’s their wet dream to be surrounded by humans who adore them: children, neighbors, coworkers, and men. LOTS and LOTS of men. A woman’s definition of “family” is mentally different from a man’s. You are just the wallet to feed the brood and her. THAT’s their definition of family. As in animal family, because women have an animistic view on family that they cover up with cliches and flowery speech so you’ll cum inside of them. It’s sickening.

“I speak portuguese,”

Being billingual is great. So am I. But unless you speak fluent “woman” if that’s even possible, your language skills do not shield from the AWALTs.

“i will marry a girl around 20-25 who wants to live abroad, when i am in the 45-50 age bracket.”

The age bracket will not prevent a woman from treating you like s~~~. My parent’s are from one of THE most TRADITIONAL cultures on the planet. My dad did almost exactly what you described. Got married when he was 40 to my mom who has 24. TWENTY FOUR! Guess what, to this day, she still does not respect my dad even after helping her pump out 4 kids and giving her the Western lifestyle I’m sure shes ALWAYS dreamed of. Being older and rich doesn’t make women anymore obedient. Its just makes them put on a stronger act until its too f~~~ing late.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

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