My Grandfather Defeated

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

My Grandfather and Grandmother (on my father’s side) have been married for almost 70 years this year which in itself is a miracle in this day in age. But there is something that I just have to get off my chest about them. My Grandfather past away almost 5 months ago now from a heart attack and fall which left him in the hospital. Doctors said he would not live very long and if he did manage to survive he would be mostly brain dead.

My Grandmother is one of those bossy, demanding, and impossible to deal with type of people which just made things worse. She demanded to speak with every doctor in the f~~~ing hospital because she did not believe my grandfather was dying. As per usual with my grandmother she rubbed people the wrong way and finally the hospital said enough doctors had helped her and the diagnosis was final. So my grandmother dragged out my grandfathers suffering for months in the hospital because she did not want to be alone and also she said that my grandfather was still alive until he was not breathing anymore, then at that time she would pull the plug even though it was the machines keeping him breathing. So we had to spend months of someone at all times having to be with my grandfather in the hospital because my grandmother demanded it while she sat at home.

After months of this I finally had enough and started to rally some family members behind me in where we forced my grandmother to pull the plug. As per usual with my family it was months more of drama and anger and fighting over the smallest of details over the funeral and other things. Also on top of that I have to take care of my grandma morning and lunch 5 days a week as she she said she is not capable of taking care of herself, because grandpa did all the chores. As per usual again my grandmother would nit pick and complain about everything and everyone and demand perfection over the smallest of details. This drove the family insane and members started to drop out. My own father does not want to bother taking care of her and my aunt is exhausted beyond anything I have seen taking care of this old person.

I have a pretty thick skin but it’s pretty much gone now and I started to formulate my plan a month ago about moving out of town so I can not even be in reach to this f~~~ed up and drama filled family. I wish I was closer to my mom’s side of the family as they were all easy going people that I got along great with but they were too far from us and all dead now.

I feel very sorry for my Grandfather who had to deal with this woman all his life. I see him in earlier photos smiling and looking happy and as the time rolled on he looks defeated and sad in photos. I would be to if I had to deal with what he had to. It just goes to show you women at any age are terrible to deal with, I hope I can find someone who is not…. I however do not mind being by myself with my dog.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22522]

SolidusX, condolences for your lose. But, is this “defeated” or “freed”.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Condolences for your loss. Just as MGTOW is timeless – AWALT is too. Your granddad is at peace now – I wish you peace in your life as well. So on that note – stay clear of women as much as possible. If you can find a hot cute one to bang – no strings, raincoat on and all – have your fun. Just make sure you swallow your red pills before you play in her wicked garden.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Thanks for the well wishes, my grandfather was a real mans man unlike the garbage youth we have today, it’s too bad he had to be with that woman.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

My condolences, brother.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[the roadParticipant 3125]

RIP to your grandfather. At least he’s free from your grandmother now.

#MANOUT

[HitmanParticipant]

My condolences.
After all he did for her, she should have gratitude instead of the picky fussy demeanor you described. .
Make a plan and get away from toxic people. .
Family or not, poison is poison.

[AttonParticipant]

At least your grand father will have peace.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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