My final Luke Skywalker moment…

[johnconnor777Participant 85]

Fellas,

I wanted to share with one crazy story involving a female I dated three years ago:

I met this girl, let’s call her Tania, a couple years ago in a birthday party through some friends. We connected really quick and there was no doubt a lot of chemistry, I got her number after that party and we started to date. She was a 27 year old Easter European girl, very pretty, short but a really tight package, gorgeous eyes and she was always extremely polite, very well dressed, educated and sweet. Anyway, after a few dates, she told me she was marrried for papers (greencard) a 50+ year old man and once she told me that, I basically told her I couldn’t date her anymore, that we could just be friends as paper-marriage or love marriage is still a marriage, and I don’t need all that drama/problems, plus I couldn’t live with myself keeping up with that, the secret and doing that to another man. We kept in touch as friends, but I didn’t touch her again.

Anyway, we fast forward one year and half, and she divorced her husband (once the 3 years period, in order to get the 10 year greencard, ended) and right away moved with another man, in fact she never got to live on her own a single day… obviously, she had that “deal” secured months before she got the divorce. According to her, and also through a common friend, she didn’t get a penny out of that divorce because her ex husband was smart enough to get a prenup and she can’t really push her issue because is her own interest to have an amicable relationship with her husband to keep the greencard process alive.

Fast forward to present day, and two days she asked me to get together, catching up and so forth, so we met up for dinner and after an hour of chit chat, she put “her cards on the table” and goes to tell me that she can’t stand up this man and it is going to leave him, after 14 months living together with him. I don’t know this man, but according to her he is “insufferable”, childish and control her every move… to what I said any men would do the same, because the way they started their relationship didn’t inspire a lot of trust. Being fair to her, I don’t think she is really getting “cash” out of this one either, except the free rent, free car, presents and food while she lives with him

But now comes the best part: at the end of the dinner, she tells me that she has realized that I am the one she always loved and wanted to be with and that she would like me to be the father of her kids. At this point my face is like this

and she goes to explain me that she would understand me being hesitant, that’s why she is saving money to be able to live on her own for a few months, so then we could date her living on her place, me living on my place, but of course with the idea of marriage within a few months because she is 30, want to have kids, and I am getting close to 40. Being fair to her, I really think she always have been attracted to me and she has always been a good friend over the years and cared for my life. Nevertheless, how could anyone trust her with that background? isn’t it convenient she has realized that at a moment I am single?

Thank goodness, It has been years since I took the red pill, perhaps 5 years ago, while I was still a blue pill man, I could have fallen for it, but I had a revelation and I remember that scene in the “return of the jedi”, when after chopping Darth Vader’s arm, Luke Skywalker saw his mechanical arm, just like the one he had, and realized the evil Emperor Palpatine had everything planned from the beginning for months, and was just simply looking to replace her faithful servant Vader for a younger and more powerful Jedi to be enslaved… or in this case younger, better catch man to enslave and provide for her.

What do you think folks? sometimes women can’t be the most manipulative and perverse creatures on this earth, using men no different than electricity or water? Don’t you think this is the perfect example of “Monkey Branching”? Sandman did a video about it, see below… my face at the end of the dinner was like Luke on the photo above.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Yeah, I think you pretty much nailed it.

Imagine yourself to be the guy she left the 50yr old to be with. Imagine the story she told him. “I’m in this terrible green card marriage with this old man but he’s insufferable, a real bore, and he treats me like a child. I want to be with a real man who is closer to my age and maybe some day start a family blah blah.”

Now imagine the man she will be sitting in front of a few years from now when she’s ready to swing again. “I’m with this guy I’ve known forever… we were just friends but he wanted to get married and have children and I cared for him but I never really loved him… I need a man who makes me feel like a woman again blah blah.”

Tell her you are sorry but that ship has sailed. Then get up and walk out of her life and never look back.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

Soooooo fuggin’ obvious.

“Only at the end do you realize the power of the golden vagina!”

“You failed my highness, I am an MGTOW, like my brethren before me at mgtow.com”

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I agree with the above and I think you made the correct choice. I will not criticize you for it because I believe it was an act of self defense. I had that choice to make several times and made the same one. But it is not the only choice I would have not criticized you for. For example, if you went out and got a (secret) vasectomy, agreed to a long engagement (during which time you got every single X rated fantasy you ever had completely fulfilled by this girl) and then called it off when YOU had a younger hotter woman to swing to, I would not have criticized you for that decision either. I would have considered that act just following her example.

I have been the last tree, the current tree, and the next tree. But I have also been the tree that pulled back the branch she was reaching for and let her swing on by. I think that the tree with the out-of-reach branch is probably the best one to be. That tree is the last one standing.

Like Sandman, I’ve also had almost all of my ex’s want to swing back to me at some point after the break up. My response at the time was to friend zone them.

So I would say this: You made the correct call to walk away. But if you think this girl has any ‘utility’ for you as your friend, or you think that there is any chance you may want to get vasectomy and follow the other choice some day, then friend zone her until that time comes that she can be useful to you. If you do this, I would also call it ‘correct’ because you will have treated her exactly as she has indicated what she believes to be fair in the relationship that the two of you have. Thus, you will have allowed her to achieve ‘equality’ in a relationship with a man on exactly the terms that she has determined all on her own. Though it might not be the choice of every man, no one can say that there is anything unfair about that if you choose it.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[johnconnor777Participant 85]

Thank you guys, I think Admiral Ackbar explained it perfectly…

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Yeah that’s a monkey branch. I never had the experience dating someone who was not legal but someone I know at work has. Case and point the same thing happened to him after 3 years. Now I don’t think this guy was smart enough to get a prenup. I warned him years ago on what women do and he didn’t listen to me. LOL…… Every time I see him I sort of smirk smile at him and nod my head. He was warned but didn’t listen.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

I would have told her that a deal is a deal, and she should be stuffed with quinquagenarian phallus every night.

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