My experience since going MGTOW.

[TBL225Participant 168]

Hello everyone,

So I’m not exactly the most active in the community. Usually, I’ll post here and there, but I figured I write an update regarding my life since going MGTOW. Maybe it’s just me feeling great about my decision or the want to help others decide on whether or not to make the move, but I figured I’d share my experience.

If anyone has read my posts regarding my previous relations~~~s, you’ll come to the conclusion that I was in need of a big fat red pill. I’m not sure how long it’s been since I’ve officially went MGTOW; however, I’ve been single coming up on two years in October. Since then, I’ve completely focused on bettering myself. The first thing I tackled was being happy and secure with myself. In order to do this, I had to come to a realization of what I really wanted. Once I came to that conclusion, I began to discover new things about myself.

I learned to do many new things that I would have never tried before. My interests and hobbies grew and by doing so I felt a better sense of who I am and what I like. I’ve also worked on getting myself in shape. I’ll say that I’m in the best shape of my my life and everyone takes notice. I knew there was a change when a buddy of mine asked, “Are you trying to get in shape to impress the ladies?”. My answer was, “No, I’m doing this for myself and it feels great!”.

Along with the above came the financial benefits. Before MGTOW, I was in a few relations~~~s that left me in quite a bit of debt. I’m happy to say that since then, I’ve completely paid off all credit card debit, will have student loans paid off at the end of this month, look forward to paying off my truck at the end of the year, and plan on purchasing a home in the beginning of 2018. Looking back, I don’t think I would have ever gotten to this point had I continued dating.

Speaking of dating, I’ve actually gone on a few since I started this journey. My main reason for doing so was pure curiosity. All of the articles, member experiences, and audio files from this place have opened my eyes. I really wanted to see if what I had learned was true and if my change was true so I decided to venture out. After two dates, I realized that AWALT is a saying for a reason. The amount of misery, secret motives, fake smiles, and everything else confirmed what I learned.

With all of that being said, I hope everyone is doing well. I’d like to thank everyone for their contributions because they have truly helped me and I’m sure they’re doing the same for many other men on this forum. If anyone has questions about some of the things I’ve learned along the way, please feel free to ask.

– TBL

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TBL225 wrote:

I’ve also worked on getting myself in shape. I’ll say that I’m in the best shape of my my life and everyone takes notice.

TBL225 wrote:

Along with the above came the financial benefits. Before MGTOW, I was in a few relations~~~s that left me in quite a bit of debt. I’m happy to say that since then, I’ve completely paid off all credit card debit, will have student loans paid off at the end of this month, look forward to paying off my truck at the end of the year, and plan on purchasing a home in the beginning of 2018

Good on Ya brother,however try to keep it on the down low – your new found success will start to attract undesirables – including Gold Diggers.
I’ve often posted about keeping ones SMV low – wearing older,looser clothes to hide your physique – driving an old vehicle and living in a modest place – when speaking with others never discuss finances or possessions and always make your life seem like the saddest country song they’ll ever hear.

Those still with you will be true friends and I bet not one will be female.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[TBL225Participant 168]

I’ve completely demolished my list of friends. I’m down to about 5 that I actually hang out with and they’ve been with me since I was a kid and in college. It’s amazing how easy it is to stop liking people when you realize they’re slaves. I keep it down low though. I’m a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy and wear appropriate clothing. I don’t really tell anyone how I’m doing. My go to line is, “Doing alright, same s~~~, different day”. The manginas I work with all ask me if I’m dating and I always give them nothing. They seem so p~~~ed that I’m doing my own thing while they wallow in their miserable relations~~~s and marriages. Excellent advice though. Those gold diggers are out in full force! The wall isn’t just the name of a Pink Floyd album, that’s for sure.

[joetechParticipant]

Congrats on your success. It’s funny how you can see through the manginas and see their jealousy. I once had a girl at work walk up to me and ask me to my face, “So, what do you do with all your money?” I laughed at her.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[TBL225Participant 168]

joetech wrote:

Congrats on your success. It’s funny how you can see through the manginas and see their jealousy. I once had a girl at work walk up to me and ask me to my face, “So, what do you do with all your money?” I laughed at her.

Love it! Wish I could have seen the reaction. It’s amazing how their blank, dead eyes light up once they figure out what you’re worth.

[AttonParticipant]

That is power of the dark side of the force.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Hey, good for you TBL! It’s funny, I was just reading an article this morning on the average net worth of families in America. They made the point that it was household net worth, so most likely single people were worth less than a two earner household. I almost laughed out loud thinking that single men are probably worth the most. At least the ones that don’t date much.

Women earn 40% of money but are responsible for 80% of the spending. The easiest way to grow your wealth is to be MGTOW.

Order the good wine

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

TBL225 wrote:

. The first thing I tackled was being happy and secure with myself. In order to do this, I had to come to a realization of what I really wanted. Once I came to that conclusion, I began to discover new things about myself.

That’s the turning point for a MGTOW. When you realize you have never met the real you because you never bothered to look.

TBL225 wrote:

I’ve completely demolished my list of friends. I’m down to about 5 that I actually hang out with and they’ve been with me since I was a kid and in college. It’s amazing how easy it is to stop liking people when you realize they’re slaves. I keep it down low though. I’m a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy and wear appropriate clothing. I don’t really tell anyone how I’m doing. My go to line is, “Doing alright, same s~~~, different day”. The manginas I work with all ask me if I’m dating and I always give them nothing. They seem so p~~~ed that I’m doing my own thing while they wallow in their miserable relations~~~s and marriages. Excellent advice though. Those gold diggers are out in full force! The wall isn’t just the name of a Pink Floyd album, that’s for sure.

Success is the best revenge, and keeping it will be the biggest challenge.

Great post. I’m glad you left the shadows long enough to share.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[TBL225Participant 168]

FrostByte wrote:

TBL225 wrote:

. The first thing I tackled was being happy and secure with myself. In order to do this, I had to come to a realization of what I really wanted. Once I came to that conclusion, I began to discover new things about myself.

That’s the turning point for a MGTOW. When you realize you have never met the real you because you never bothered to look.

TBL225 wrote:

I’ve completely demolished my list of friends. I’m down to about 5 that I actually hang out with and they’ve been with me since I was a kid and in college. It’s amazing how easy it is to stop liking people when you realize they’re slaves. I keep it down low though. I’m a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy and wear appropriate clothing. I don’t really tell anyone how I’m doing. My go to line is, “Doing alright, same s~~~, different day”. The manginas I work with all ask me if I’m dating and I always give them nothing. They seem so p~~~ed that I’m doing my own thing while they wallow in their miserable relations~~~s and marriages. Excellent advice though. Those gold diggers are out in full force! The wall isn’t just the name of a Pink Floyd album, that’s for sure.

Success is the best revenge, and keeping it will be the biggest challenge.

Great post. I’m glad you left the shadows long enough to share.

You’re absolutely right about the “real you”. I found it kind of interesting how after doing away with what I’ve been taught to be growing up that I feel more empowered and sure of who I’m becoming and who I will be. It’s an enlightening experience!

[TBL225Participant 168]

TaxGuy wrote:

Hey, good for you TBL! It’s funny, I was just reading an article this morning on the average net worth of families in America. They made the point that it was household net worth, so most likely single people were worth less than a two earner household. I almost laughed out loud thinking that single men are probably worth the most. At least the ones that don’t date much.

Women earn 40% of money but are responsible for 80% of the spending. The easiest way to grow your wealth is to be MGTOW.

I have to agree with you there. Looking back on my blue pill days, my exes spent more money than me. Not only was their spending crazy, but of course the man is expected to spend money all of the time for dinners, movies, drinks, vacations, gifts, etc. Usually it’s never reciprocated and if it is, you bought whatever it was.

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