My Exes leaving me depressed.

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  • #628511
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    Ogre
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    @weakman,

    First, change your name to something else. Something you aspire to, something you like, or something sarcastic like mine. There’s a back story to mine that I’ll get around to some day. Leave your old self in parentheses for a week or two to let us know you’re the same guy.

    Second, unf~~~ yourself. No drinking and no women until you are running your own show.

    Third, take a real deep look at what you posted here. It isn’t even a workable script for a movie. Nobody would go see it, and people watch s~~~ nowadays.

    Going forward, write your story so that it’s about what you are doing not about what’s being done TO you.

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

    #628593
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    TaxGuy
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    Read my tagline. It says everything you need to know.

    Order the good wine

    #628605
    Ranger One
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    Assuming it is not tuna or a troll, he needs some serious tough love.

    I mean struck with a “clue by four” until his hair falls out and you can see the wood grain etched on his bald head.

    Those women have muddled his mind. He needs to be gifted a fleshlight and a copy of “Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius.

    All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

    #628619
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    Doc
    Doc
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    I have a feeling WeakMan has bailed on us.
    If he isn’t Tuna let’s hope he comes back and let’s us know if he has taken the advice given here.

    I have my doubts tho.

    The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

    #628645
    IRuleMe
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    and have met a most wholesome woman who is mostly everything I look for in a woman. She has done me no wrong, and I have good times with her. She is awesomeness in a body.

    TUNA

    He’s either seriously blue pill (which is fixable), or this ^

    #628687
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    Aposematic
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    I haven’t cried more in a span of 1 week in a long long long long time. I have been drinking a lot more too.

    Let me start with the most sad thing, my last ex, she was by no means a good person,

    Fishy fishy fish.

    Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

    #628729
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    First, change your name to something else. Something you aspire to, something you like, or something sarcastic like mine.

    Wait, you’re not really an ogre? Damn . . .

    Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

    #628735
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    Xanthine
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    Hey, he came here, and received excellent advice. What he does next is up to him. If he chooses to ignore it (which we all know he will) it’s his life to screw up. You can’t fix stupid.

    If anything it is a powerful reminder. This is what we escaped from. This is the definition of blue pill hell.

    My life is pretty f~~~ing awesome, i dont have many depressing thoughts these days now that i am here and going my own way. It just keeps getting better and easier. But next time i feel bent outta shape because i didn’t get my special snowflake or whatever…I’ll just think about this guy. Then I’ll go right on having an awesome life. NFG.

    #628741
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    Blade
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    I am sticking with tuna . He has been on here long enough to know how we would react to this .

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #629345
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    OldBill
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    He has been on here long enough to know how we would react to this .

    Beat me to it.

    He’s been here since March of ’16, over 18 months, and he posts that?

    Something seriously wrong here. Even if his story is true, there’s little we can do to help him.

    Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

    #629353
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    IRuleMe
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    I haven’t cried more in a span of 1 week in a long long long long time. I have been drinking a lot more too.

    Let me start with the most sad thing, my last ex, she was by no means a good person,

    Fishy fishy fish.

    At best the guy is a mangina. Let him go through the type of s~~~ guys like May have gone through. THEN he can talk about “crying” for a week.

    #629356
    Blade
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    He has been on here long enough to know how we would react to this .

    Beat me to it.

    He’s been here since March of ’16, over 18 months, and he posts that?

    Something seriously wrong here. Even if his story is true, there’s little we can do to help him.

    It will be back in a month or to when it thinks we have all forgotton . Just not buying it .

    Maybe gregbo could send a zoom invite to him/it/ her

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #629519
    Hermit
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    I haven’t cried more in a span of 1 week in a long long long long time. I have been drinking a lot more too.

    Let me start with the most sad thing, my last ex, she was by no means a good person,

    Fishy fishy fish.

    At best the guy is a mangina. Let him go through the type of s~~~ guys like May have gone through. THEN he can talk about “crying” for a week.

    No f~~~in’ s~~~. This f~~ has no idea what pain is.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #629576
    WeakMan
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    Then you complain about how bad your life is. Due to the aforementioned self-destructive behavior. Then you seek attention by telling people your woes. Due to the aforementioned self-destructive behavior. Seek sympathy by adding how depressed and suicidal you are. Due to the aforementioned self-destructive behavior.
    You enter a MGTOW site using a nick like weakman and tell simp stories. See self-destructive behavior.

    I was writing that post for my own record. A diary of sorts, especially clever that I was able to jot it down when I was at my most vulnerable(drinking). I have on many occasions looked back at my posts on this website when I am collecting my thoughts. The commentary from people here is a mixed bag. Some people along with some views on this website I do not garner anything useful from(you know who you are).

    Despite the vastly negative response I got from this post, I am oddly intrigued that there was so much interest!

    True, I was depressed but I don’t believe anywhere in that post I said I was suicidal. I have never been suicidal.

    I constantly read comments about my user name. The tag ‘Weak’ means a lot to me. It is both ironic and such a juxtaposition to most of you guys. I do not have a high self-esteem but I know this about myself. I am sure you all have certain qualities about yourselves that you could work on but I wear my vulnerabilities on this site. Perhaps even though if MGTOW were a pool, and I would be but only knee deep, surely you can respect the amount of myself I have shown.

    So this is what has happened since. My ex who is pregnant called me that morning and said she will keep the baby under one condition, that I relinquish all parental rights OR she will have an abortion. After a ton of thinking and sadness, I called a lawyer and even the lawyer said “wow, this story is one of the saddest stories I have heard in a long time. However there is nothing I can do for you or any lawyer can do for you until the baby is born. In the meantime what you can do is text her back word for word the agreement she has laid before you that way there is proof that such a verbal and now written contract formed between you” and so my text went something like ‘I have thought a lot about our discussion, I will agree to your terms, I will relinquish all parental rights on the basis you agree not to have an abortion’. Therefore if she decides to still have an abortion she will be breaking our agreement and also, if she does have the baby, maybe I could fight for it in courts later saying I was under duress. I DON’T WANT THE BABY TO DIE! Worst case scenario…..I spend 13-30 years and my kid reaches out to me somehow. That is all I can hope for.

    As for ex #2, she is SAFE, FOR NOW. but she has been super super toxic to me. Showing all of her colors I knew she had. Name calling, yelling, cursing, ranting all because I am with a new girl and I told her I can’t be with her(I only came over to her because I thought she was being beaten like she said she was, but now I know her ulterior motive). ‘you choose some sl** you barely know over me!? I thought you loved me and you choose her!? Now you know if I do kill myself it will be because of YOU!” just awful things. it makes me shiver inside how mean she can be to me…WHY on earth would I be with her. I will block her today.

    So here I am after the storm, my toxic relationships of my past now firmly behind me, and the future is looking bright again. I hold out a prayer that my little one isn’t aborted today.

    I have a party tomorrow that my GF is throwing, I have lots of friends and family and I still have my health. Thanks guys for all being a part of my brief but tumultuous ‘week of hell’. I will update again if my ex messages me whether or not she decided to keep the baby and whether or not she even tells me one way or the other.

    #629728
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    Sky-O
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    I charge $150 an hour to provide counseling for situations like this.

    Payment accepted (4 hour initial minimum) via PayPal.

    #629791
    Once bitten twice shy
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    Firstly how do you know the baby is yours?

    Why do you want this child to born only to, as you put it, relinquish upon your parental responsibility?

    The world doesn’t need any more children brought into this world that have been conceived via people such as yourself. Can you not see how selfish you are, you want a child to be born because you feel bad about it being aborted yet you won’t be there to raise it or attempt to? What future does this child have? Jesus f~~~ing Christ you sound like the biggest c~~~ under the sun.

    Who wants a father like you? You expect it to come back and find you in 13-30 years time after its been poisoned by its mum, open with loving arms saying I know you tried everything and I understand and want to have a relationship with you. Are you f~~~ing seriously thinking like this?

    Do everyone a favour, let the woman have an abortion. You have absolutely no idea what it is like to be a father, to have built up a family environment only for a woman to take it away and leave you in the gutter, leaving you to fight the court system to see your children whom you’ve seen and loved everyday of your life, who love you back because they see you as dad, a dad that loves them, that has been there for them from the pico second they’ve popped out of their mums vagina and done everything for them, every single day. They see their dad struggling but there for them braving the utter bitch their mother is every f~~~ing time you pick them up/drop them off. Kids that know their dad is always there for them no matter what. That is a dad who will be loved and respected by their kids.

    You have no logic, no concept and no comprehension of what you are typing in this forum. Quit the booze, let you ex abort baby, get your act together with regards to women. I suggest taking a long break away from any form of relationship with them. I’m 13 months single and although times can be tough it is the best decision I’ve made, I cannot see myself ever getting into another relationship ever. All women have the capacity to destroy men and you read like a A* candidate for getting royally f~~~ed over so stay the f~~~ away from them for your own health.

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    TUNA

    #630127
    WeakMan
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    Firstly how do you know the baby is yours?

    Why do you want this child to born only to, as you put it, relinquish upon your parental responsibility?

    The world doesn’t need any more children brought into this world that have been conceived via people such as yourself. Can you not see how selfish you are, you want a child to be born because you feel bad about it being aborted yet you won’t be there to raise it or attempt to? What future does this child have? Jesus f~~~ing Christ you sound like the biggest c~~~ under the sun.

    Who wants a father like you? You expect it to come back and find you in 13-30 years time after its been poisoned by its mum, open with loving arms saying I know you tried everything and I understand and want to have a relationship with you. Are you f~~~ing seriously thinking like this?

    I don’t know the baby is mine.

    It’s alright if you didn’t read my post correctly, let me re-iterate, I do most certainly want to keep my parental rights AND have the baby however my ex is someone of low-caliber that she will abort UNLESS I give up my rights as a father. It’s a damned if I do, damned if I don’t scenario. I would rather the child be born than to have her abort it. So I told her I would give up my rights, but when the time comes, I will take her to court and try my best to keep my rights and be 100000% part of my child’s life.

    It is not that I don’t want to be there to raise it, it’s that she is FORCING me to not be there and raise it in order for her to keep the baby. What a situation to be put in….

    #630140
    Trapper
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    What a situation to be put in…?

    YOU STUCK YOUR DICK IN IT!

    #630240
    Once bitten twice shy
    Once bitten twice shy
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    Firstly how do you know the baby is yours?

    Why do you want this child to born only to, as you put it, relinquish upon your parental responsibility?

    The world doesn’t need any more children brought into this world that have been conceived via people such as yourself. Can you not see how selfish you are, you want a child to be born because you feel bad about it being aborted yet you won’t be there to raise it or attempt to? What future does this child have? Jesus f~~~ing Christ you sound like the biggest c~~~ under the sun.

    Who wants a father like you? You expect it to come back and find you in 13-30 years time after its been poisoned by its mum, open with loving arms saying I know you tried everything and I understand and want to have a relationship with you. Are you f~~~ing seriously thinking like this?

    I don’t know the baby is mine.

    It’s alright if you didn’t read my post correctly, let me re-iterate, I do most certainly want to keep my parental rights AND have the baby however my ex is someone of low-caliber that she will abort UNLESS I give up my rights as a father. It’s a damned if I do, damned if I don’t scenario. I would rather the child be born than to have her abort it. So I told her I would give up my rights, but when the time comes, I will take her to court and try my best to keep my rights and be 100000% part of my child’s life.

    It is not that I don’t want to be there to raise it, it’s that she is FORCING me to not be there and raise it in order for her to keep the baby. What a situation to be put in….

    Firstly how do you know the baby is yours?

    Why do you want this child to born only to, as you put it, relinquish upon your parental responsibility?

    The world doesn’t need any more children brought into this world that have been conceived via people such as yourself. Can you not see how selfish you are, you want a child to be born because you feel bad about it being aborted yet you won’t be there to raise it or attempt to? What future does this child have? Jesus f~~~ing Christ you sound like the biggest c~~~ under the sun.

    Who wants a father like you? You expect it to come back and find you in 13-30 years time after its been poisoned by its mum, open with loving arms saying I know you tried everything and I understand and want to have a relationship with you. Are you f~~~ing seriously thinking like this?

    I don’t know the baby is mine.

    It’s alright if you didn’t read my post correctly, let me re-iterate, I do most certainly want to keep my parental rights AND have the baby however my ex is someone of low-caliber that she will abort UNLESS I give up my rights as a father. It’s a damned if I do, damned if I don’t scenario. I would rather the child be born than to have her abort it. So I told her I would give up my rights, but when the time comes, I will take her to court and try my best to keep my rights and be 100000% part of my child’s life.

    It is not that I don’t want to be there to raise it, it’s that she is FORCING me to not be there and raise it in order for her to keep the baby. What a situation to be put in….

    No I completely understood what you initially wrote.

    I stand by my point you want a child from someone who wants to abort, to spite you and she’s telling you she’ll only keep it if you “temporarily pretend to relinquish your parental rights” and that to me is incredibly selfish. Bringing a child into this world by a women such as the one you are describing is a down right disgusting. The kid has no hope no matter if you think you can fight the mother in court. Mothers are automatically granted sole custody of kids 99.99% of the time. You are on the back foot if she lawyers up and she will, to have them make you look like a bad person. They’ll use the fact you’ve said you’ll relinquish your rights to fatherhood against you despite what you think. You are in for a massive reality check if you go down the path you seem to wish to.

    Personally I doubt she is pregnant at all and is probably playing games with you.

    I’ll let other people on here chime in if they want but I stand by what I’ve wrote 100%. I get it you want to be a dad, that is fine, just think about the next 18 years of your life.

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