My Blue Pill relationship with my 2nd girlfriend

[LucidLeoParticipant 65]

I met this girl working at a gas station around 2006 and we were friends for a good year or more before I lost my mind and decided it would be a good idea to ask her out. We hung out a lot at work and after work, and seemed to have a lot in common. I was your classic mangina and even though I didnt like smoking, I would smoke when she did so she didnt feel “odd”. She only liked 80’s rock, and only a few bands from that era and I went along and pretended I liked that as well. She was 2 years older than me, but she was the hottest girl I ever was close to, so it didnt matter to me. I joined the Navy shortly after getting into a relationship with her and left, but we still kept our relationship together.

Now she only had a small circle of friends she would hang out with, 2 lesbian girls that happened to be sisters and their mother. They were some disgusting people and when she wanted to hang out we often went to visit them. I hated it but I was a SIMP and did not have the b~~~~ to try to make any real decisions in the relationship. Looking back I realized this bitch saw she could control me and run the relationship so that is why she was with me. The few times I was able to go visit her while being in the military I saw that she was passed me and was distant emotionally. I would not be surprised if she was f~~~ing her soon to be husband during that time. Eventually I could not take how she was being and decided to break up with her. She was pretty emotionless about it and I could see she was relieved.

Now her older sister considered me a good influence on her son and she liked me, and kept tabs on me after the breakup since she felt her sister was not doing well. I find out that less than 6 months after I broke up with her sister, she f~~~ing got married to some guy that hung out with her lesbian friends. So it is obvious to me that they met while I was in the military and they were f~~~ing while I was away. Women are like this typically, no remorse or loyalty, but then against I was a SIMP, a mangina and she was moving on to a more suitable mate. I am so glad she is no longer in my life and I am better without a woman. F~~~ those blue pill days

[RoyDalParticipant]

Your tale is similar to my own. Similar to the point of distress. We have both emerged from the other side of our journey through the valley of shadows and death stronger for it. Like Mr Churchill said, “If you’re going through hell, keep going.”

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[TheGouliatParticipant 20]

That is kinda like my first relationship was going. i got the Thought of posting my own story now. YOU MADE ME DO IT!!   😛

[The_reality_factorParticipant 211]

LucidLeo wrote:

I didnt like smoking, I would smoke when she did

LucidLeo wrote:

She only liked 80’s rock, and only a few bands from that era and I went along and pretended I liked that as well

LucidLeo wrote:

I joined the Navy shortly after getting into a relationship with her and left, but we still kept our relationship together

Hi LucidLeo,

She might be the hottest women you’ve been with but, it is obvious there was nothing in common between yourselves. Further, long distance relationship just don’t work out…period. When you joined and move to the Navy, that was pretty much it – over and out, ROGER!!!

I’m sure you had multitudes of Red Flags popping up in your face ? – the lesso were one!

Unfortunately, not many men have a solid selection criteria for the women they want in their life. Further, not many people have a selection criteria for the type of people they want and should be associating with. In recent times, I’ve eliminated people out of my life that were pure energy vampires. People who take from me and give nothing back in return and people who are just not going anywhere and complain about their sad, pathetic lives…..especially their s~~~ house relationship or marriage.

A solid selection criteria (tick ALL the boxes) pretty much eliminates 90% of women. Moreover, from my experiences the more attractive the female, the more bat s~~~ crazy they are, and bulls~~~ get sprayed everywhere – they are basically immature little bitches.

Unfortunately, I’ve allow the concept of sex with a hot women to cloud my judgment of them over the decades. The have said and done some retarded things to me and I’ve been totally oblivious to it all. It was like the light were on but no one was at home. I was just thinking sex, sex, sex and sex…..my personal values, belief and integrity have been just pushed aside due to a females hotness. This is a man’s Achilles heel 😉

Sounds to me like you dodged a massive bullet with this one, thank the creator you escaped her claws and are free from her complete nonsense. Best thing out of the whole situation is that you learned something…never to be a pussy around/with women again 🙂

 

 

 

 

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