Motherhood is HARD

[~BSParticipant 3266]

https://www.yahoo.com/beauty/moms-facebook-post-going-crazy-150820804.html

Saw this article in yahoo news last night, and it cracked me up.

TL:DR version – people around her in the grocery store glaring and rolling their eyes at her because she couldn’t control her spawn, who are out of control, yet she thinks she’s a “good mother” and creates a social media post for validation.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[~BSParticipant 3266]

If you can’t control your kids, they’re controlling you, and therefore you aren’t being a “good mother”. The reason you see this happening more and more in grocery stores is that most single mothers (IMO) are unfit for parenting, plain and simple.

The female provides the emotional side of parenting, the male provides the logic and reason. A single man can do a reasonable job of parenting children, women cannot. If a kid decides to throw a tantrum in the store, the female will panic and attempt to placate them by bribing them or letting them run amok, giving the kids validation for their misbehavior.

The man can approach this problem from a more logical standpoint. If you throw a tantrum, you aren’t getting s~~~, and when we get home, you will be punished.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[TwistParticipant]

xW was never a parent. She was their friend with money and a car. Got her a couple of buddies to curl up on the couch watching Glee and Criminal Minds all night, but where did that get the kids?

Pathetic.

If the law gives us no rights to our kids, MGTOW.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

I would have never gotten away with what those kids were doing in the store. If I went crazy in a store, my parents would have become equally crazy and beat my ass. Either in the store or in the car. The mom just lets her kids go crazy and makes no mention of trying to discipline them. Yes parenting is hard but don’t let your kids rule you.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Yeah , Oprah will even say motherhood is “the most difficult job on the planet”.

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From the Article……

be a little more empathetic the next time you see a parent struggling with their children in public.

True story. Today is a work day for me and I met a colleague for breakfast. In the corner were 2 loud kids, and one of them YELPED so suddenly loud, I actually said “JESUS CHRIST!!!” while I was placing my order. Then the kid did it again. About 7 years old.

I told the guy behind the counter “that’s truly the BEST birth control anywhere”.

He nearly wet himself laughing.

Empathy?? because she couldn’t control her kids??
No. Control your f~~~ing kids.

If I carried on like that when my parents took us out as kids, they would have taken us home right there out of sheer embarrassment. It NEVER happened that we raised our voices in public. They took us to the symphony when we were 5. It’s not “hard” at all.

Any kind of “tantrum” and we would have been removed from the scene immediately. Even in the car on the way somewhere, Dad said “NO RAISING YOUR VOICE IN PUBLIC” because he knew it reflects badly on the parents. We weren’t even permitted to go crazy in our own backyard!

Motherhood is as easy as spreading her legs.
POOF! She’s a “mother”. Ready or not.

The easiest jobs to GET are the easiest jobs to DO.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

Fermat wrote:

I would have never gotten away with what those kids were doing in the store. If I went crazy in a store, my parents would have become equally crazy and beat my ass. Either in the store or in the car. The mom just lets her kids go crazy and makes no mention of trying to discipline them. Yes parenting is hard but don’t let your kids rule you.

Same here. I might “get away” with some stuff while in public, but I’d be lucky to make it home before the punishment commences.

Her younger child cried nonstop and started throwing things, while her older child knocked things off the shelves before running to the freezer section and opening all the doors. Even though Brothers “stopped multiple times to compose [herself] and [her] children,” other patrons in the store just glared, clearly judging her based on her children’s behavior.

However, Brothers continued to keep her cool throughout the whole thing – that is, until she got to the register, where her children began to argue over a balloon.

“They screamed, they cried, they fought,” she wrote. “My youngest pushed buttons on the card machine while my oldest picked up candy.”

If I saw this s~~~ in the store, I’d be staring too. I was already staring incredulously at the computer screen just reading this. lol

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I think dads are better parents than mothers. I raised 3 by myself from 5th grade on up. All three graduated college, have well paying jobs. One was selected for West Point, but choose the ROTC program instead. I couldn’t afford to pay there way through collage because the divorce left so much debt. So they did it themselves. I was never their friend. Logic prevails over emotions. If I had to pick the better gender for raising kids it would be men. Society has always know this and choose to ignore it.
My proof is this.
All Single Dads raising children Solo:::
Johnny Quest
The Courtship of Eddie’s father
Bonanza
Mayberry RFD
Deputy Dog
Huckleberry Hound
Powder Puff Girls
My 3 Sons
Different strokes
Full House
Who’s the Boss
Family Affair
Make Room for Daddy
Blossom
Rifleman

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22584]

FrostByte wrote:

I think dads are better parents than mothers. I raised 3 by myself from 5th grade on up. All three graduated college, have well paying jobs. One was selected for West Point, but choose the ROTC program instead. I couldn’t afford to pay there way through collage because the divorce left so much debt. So they did it themselves. I was never their friend. Logic prevails over emotions. If I had to pick the better gender for raising kids it would be men. Society has always know this and choose to ignore it.
My proof is this.
All Single Dads raising children Solo:::
Johnny Quest
The Courtship of Eddie’s father
Bonanza
Mayberry RFD
Deputy Dog
Huckleberry Hound
Powder Puff Girls
My 3 Sons
Different strokes
Full House
Who’s the Boss
Family Affair
Make Room for Daddy
Blossom
Rifleman

You could go further. Almost every comicbook hero (both male and female) whom was not mess up in the head was raised by a strong, honorable father figure.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

You mean staring at their phone, while their kids runs wild is hard?

Note: most of them who say that are single mommies. There losers.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Faust For Science wrote:

You could go further. Almost every comicbook hero (both male and female) whom was not mess up in the head was raised by a strong, honorable father figure.

That was just off the top of my head, and I’m sure the list is massive. Point is why are all the heros also single fathers. Because we do it better, but society still gives the mothers all the rights knowing, and putting to print, that fathers are better at raising children.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

As you can tell this is a real hot button for me, since I lived it 3/4 of my entire life.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Being a GOOD mother is hard. Most women half ass it.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 5]

My dad worked as a detention officer for years .he would commonly work double shifts.but he always had time to do stuff with me and my brother . I had some great memories with him.

[raindogParticipant 313]

If I brought my dog to this woman’s house and let it tear the place up and s~~~ on her floor, would she show me much empathy? Single-dog-ownership is HARD.

"Free your mind and your ass will follow. The kingdom of heaven is within." -Funkadelic

[GrumpyParticipant]

I extend the same courtesy and empathy for single mothers as I received as a single custodial father..
NONE.
F~~~ you ladeez, you have everything handed to you and you are constantly accommodated, yet your lazy assed life is still too hard and you need emotional support fom everyone else in the world?
Motherhood is f~~~ing easy. PARENTING properly is hard. Especially with interference from f~~~ing know it all experts who don’t have kids or their off spring are totally f~~~ed up and in prison due to “new parenting techniques” mostly espoused by women
there’s your empathy

Funny how I, as a soldier, could deploy to the field and overseas for several weeks to months at a time.
I would have been thrown out of the army, if I tried to use single parenthood as an excuse, even with sole custody, and you cant even go to the corner store without demanding sympathy, empathy, or some sort of support?

I received no assistance, accommodation, support, or anything.. F~~~ YOU.
I paid FULL Price for everything myself, no discounts, no government subsidies, no child support from the egg door. I paid for everything and I did so gladly, and still managed to hold to my career obligations.
That is how you parent. I was responsible for everything, and I didn’t rely on anyone or anything, nor did i whine about how “rough” it was.

F~~~ you very much you pathetic parasitical whiny assed posers.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

My ex told my then very pretty 6 year old daughter, ” You’re pretty, you can be a social person.” A social person? A model, a prostitute?

I told my daughter , if you don’t study you better get used to saying ” Would you like fries with that?” My daughter got a full scholarship to college and is now a lawyer.

The funny thing, with automating ordering, the job that asked “Would you like fries with that?” no longer exists.

I raised my kid while working nights, doing part time remodeling and adding on to my own house. Raising kids is not hard.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I raised my son alone from 9 months up until 14. There were times when he was like 2 where he would scream in the grocery store. No reason, just want something on a shelf or something, but he couldn’t communicate so he got frustrated and screamed, loud.

As a dad alone with his child screaming in a big open supermarket I just picked him up football style and ran out of there.

Being a single parent is hard. Being the child of a single parent is harder.

That’s why you should go your own way. The chances of being a single parent, even part time, is a horrible position to put children in.

If you love children don’t bring them into this world toxic to families.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[AttonParticipant]

That woman is both a good mother and a nawalt.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

I raised my son alone from 9 months up until 14.

Old Rottweiler wrote:

I told my daughter , if you don’t study you better get used to saying ” Would you like fries with that?” My daughter got a full scholarship to college and is now a lawyer.

Grumpy wrote:

That is how you parent. I was responsible for everything, and I didn’t rely on anyone or anything, nor did i whine about how “rough” it was.

I raise a glass to you who were real parents. Fathers and dads who did the hard work and right things and stayed the course.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

Keymaster wrote:

If I carried on like that when my parents took us out as kids, they would have taken us home right there out of sheer embarrassment. It NEVER happened that we raised our voices in public. They took us to the symphony when we were 5. It’s not “hard” at all.

When I worked in retail, I often talked about that with my co-workers. If I had been taken to the store as a child and started screeching, “Mum can I have this, please please please?”, and she’d said “No” that would’ve been the end of it. Any further begging would’ve resulted in her taking me out of the store.

Have you guys seen Babe, the movie about the talking pig? Remember that scene where the little kid throws a tantrum because the dollhouse that Farmer Hogget built for her was not the one that she wanted? After all of the goddamn trouble that he went to, that’s how she reacts – and she gets away with it?!? Jesus please-us, if I had acted that way when somebody gave me a Christmas present as a kid, there would’ve been hell to pay. So it’s not that disciplining your children is hard. It’s only hard when you’re either too lazy or too cowardly to do it!

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

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