Monkey branching ex-girlfriend story

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  • #746723
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    GoodKid44
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    She got a job at a strip club while you were together, if that isn’t a f~~~you to your face from her then I don’t know what a f~~~you is.

    I had a friend, who worked at a strip club, he ends up falling in love with one of the strippers that worked there LOL, he got his own place with her and her daughter.

    One day while I was at his place, his women gets up and leaves with another man, dude pulled up in his car and picked her up, she left her daughter with my friend LOL, sounds like true love don’t it.

    Laughing

    You’re not wrong. Sadly, most women who work at strip clubs, or who even bar tend, or waitress…..basically any job where they can get tips is a red flag. Most of them are into drugs/alcohol. I dj’d for years in strip clubs. 1 out of every 20 girls would actually be faithful to their man. With odds like that you mine as well start swimming with sharks with open wounds.

    After what I saw though I recommend for you blue pill men still looking to get married to avoid women working in the service industry all together. Do not do it because it will not end well. Just go mgtow, but if you can’t because you’re a pathetic simp, make sure they’ve never had a job waiting/serving food/bar/drinks…being tipped.

    Most quality women have amazing parents and they were raised with plenty of love. Just play the powerball once a week to get an understanding of what it takes, the odds it takes, to find a quality woman (banging body, good head on her shoulders, not mentally deranged etc.). Powerball lottery on the second thought is probably easier to win then finding an actual quality chick

    #746729
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    Prefer Peace to Piece
    Prefer Peace to Piece
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    lawyaman-

    First, let me say welcome. Glad you’re here.

    I’m sorry you experienced monkey branching. “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” line is all too common. I think I have heard it 4 or 5 times. It seems a woman is as faithful as her options.

    Yeah, you will hear from her again. She may not be finished with your wallet yet. Find her in contempt of court and move on. If you have too, find one of those cute paralegals (joking).

    #746730
    +3
    Lawyaman2018
    lawyaman2018
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    86

    No offence, but she is one stupid monkey. She missed the lowest branch on the tree and slammed her monkey-vag hard on the ground.

    That’s what’s so bizarre to me. I could understand it more if she’d found Mr. Moneybags to show her an even better life than I did, but for a guy who literally can’t even afford a McDonald’s burger? Unreal.

    She got a job at a strip club while you were together, if that isn’t a f~~~you to your face from her then I don’t know what a f~~~you is.

    I had a friend, who worked at a strip club, he ends up falling in love with one of the strippers that worked there LOL, he got his own place with her and her daughter.

    One day while I was at his place, his women gets up and leaves with another man, dude pulled up in his car and picked her up, she left her daughter with my friend LOL, sounds like true love don’t it.

    Laughing

    You’re not wrong. Sadly, most women who work at strip clubs, or who even bar tend, or waitress…..basically any job where they can get tips is a red flag. Most of them are into drugs/alcohol. I dj’d for years in strip clubs. 1 out of every 20 girls would actually be faithful to their man. With odds like that you mine as well start swimming with sharks with open wounds.

    After what I saw though I recommend for you blue pill men still looking to get married to avoid women working in the service industry all together. Do not do it because it will not end well. Just go mgtow, but if you can’t because you’re a pathetic simp, make sure they’ve never had a job waiting/serving food/bar/drinks…being tipped.

    Most quality women have amazing parents and they were raised with plenty of love. Just play the powerball once a week to get an understanding of what it takes, the odds it takes, to find a quality woman (banging body, good head on her shoulders, not mentally deranged etc.). Powerball lottery on the second thought is probably easier to win then finding an actual quality chick

    This is very true. And my ex did start getting involved with alcohol and drugs quite a bit in the strip club, I’m guessing that’s part of what f~~~ed with her brain.

    #746732
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    Lawyaman2018
    lawyaman2018
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    86

    lawyaman-

    First, let me say welcome. Glad you’re here.

    I’m sorry you experienced monkey branching. “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” line is all too common. I think I have heard it 4 or 5 times. It seems a woman is as faithful as her options.

    Yeah, you will hear from her again. She may not be finished with your wallet yet. Find her in contempt of court and move on. If you have too, find one of those cute paralegals (joking).

    Thank you! Good to be here, reading the comments on my post has made me feel incredibly better. It’s still amazing how quickly a girl can just move on in the blink of an eye. She’s had her chance, and blew it, so there won’t be a second chance with me. But, it would be nice to take her for another ride in the sack and show her to the door. Although, I wouldn’t touch her without a STD test first.

    #746759
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    BrainPilot
    BrainPilot
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    7640

    50 yr old MD here. I feel like I just watched a movie that I have seen over and over again. And sadly, I’ve been the starring role in it several times.

    There’s the girl in your head that you invested time, money and effort into. And then there’s the girl in your story who is a nuclear tipped torpedo that just barely missed. it went right by you and didn’t detonate, you lucky f~~~er! You don’t seem like you realize how close you just came to destruction: She did not get pregnant and demand child support in CA family court. You’re a lawyer so you know the rest of that story.

    She did not call the police and tell them you hit her. You also know how that story ends. And AS FAR AS YOU KNOW, she has not given you an STD that she picked up in the alley behind the strip club (yes, she is THAT f~~~ing stupid… she proved it with her choices). Hell, she didn’t even get loser to help her rob and trash your place while you were out of town. No slashed tires. No keyed paint job… Nothing! Read some of the stories of other men who stuck their dick in crazy and what it cost them.

    So, you played chicken with what amounts to a socio-emotional nuclear weapon and you got great sex (crazy sex always is) and you didn’t get your freedom, money, home or health taken from you. So far, you are f~~~ing killing this interaction-with-women deal…

    Except that you think you lost something valuable. That’s the girl in your head you’re disappointed about. That girl in your head is never coming back. She never really existed anyway. The other one, the train wreck… will be back.

    She left all that stuff at your place because she needs a reason to contact you again. She has your number in her phone and she will use it again.

    When?

    Girls like that DO NOT bond with only one man. NOT EVER. When a girl like the one in the story finds herself alone with no man, or even in a situation where she is getting close to having no man, there are a list of men in her phone that she will call to make contact. I don’t know where you are on that list, top or bottom, but as long as you have money, you can be damn sure YOU ARE ON THAT LIST!

    Pack all her s~~~ into a box. Before you put the lid on it, put a restraining order on top, then put the lid on. Address it to her new s~~~ hole apartment’s address and mail it one way (no return address). Block her number on your phone, then delete it. Make your social media profiles invisible to the public, and viewable only by people you individually specify. Email her family that you have moved on to a new life and ask them politely not to contact you again. Then block and delete them.

    Then, go get yourself tested for an STD, and do not ever stick your dick in crazy again. If you must, do it in another city from your home, wear a condom and don’t give crazy your real name, address or phone number…!

    Every man who’s ever been ruined by a woman underestimated her risk, and overestimated her value. Don’t make these mistakes anymore. If you need the satisfaction of seeing her regret these f~~~ed up decisions, track her down in 10 years. If she survives to 30 years old, she’ll be in a trailer park somewhere with multiple kids from multiple baby-daddies, with a chemical addiction, a body weight about 70 pounds heavier than it is now, a collection of tattoos, and a criminal record.

    I’ve seen this movie before, but it has a couple different possible endings. The Disney version of this movie ends with you driving away from the trailer park (alone) and breathing a giant sigh of relief. The Alfred Hitchc~~~ version starts with you answering the phone the next time she calls…

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #746773
    +4
    Lawyaman2018
    lawyaman2018
    Participant
    86

    50 yr old MD here. I feel like I just watched a movie that I have seen over and over again. And sadly, I’ve been the starring role in it several times.

    There’s the girl in your head that you invested time, money and effort into. And then there’s the girl in your story who is a nuclear tipped torpedo that just barely missed. it went right by you and didn’t detonate, you lucky f~~~er! You don’t seem like you realize how close you just came to destruction: She did not get pregnant and demand child support in CA family court. You’re a lawyer so you know the rest of that story.

    She did not call the police and tell them you hit her. You also know how that story ends. And AS FAR AS YOU KNOW, she has not given you an STD that she picked up in the alley behind the strip club (yes, she is THAT f~~~ing stupid… she proved it with her choices). Hell, she didn’t even get loser to help her rob and trash your place while you were out of town. No slashed tires. No keyed paint job… Nothing! Read some of the stories of other men who stuck their dick in crazy and what it cost them.

    So, you played chicken with what amounts to a socio-emotional nuclear weapon and you got great sex (crazy sex always is) and you didn’t get your freedom, money, home or health taken from you. So far, you are f~~~ing killing this interaction-with-women deal…

    Except that you think you lost something valuable. That’s the girl in your head you’re disappointed about. That girl in your head is never coming back. She never really existed anyway. The other one, the train wreck… will be back.

    She left all that stuff at your place because she needs a reason to contact you again. She has your number in her phone and she will use it again.

    When?

    Girls like that DO NOT bond with only one man. NOT EVER. When a girl like the one in the story finds herself alone with no man, or even in a situation where she is getting close to having no man, there are a list of men in her phone that she will call to make contact. I don’t know where you are on that list, top or bottom, but as long as you have money, you can be damn sure YOU ARE ON THAT LIST!

    Pack all her s~~~ into a box. Before you put the lid on it, put a restraining order on top, then put the lid on. Address it to her new s~~~ hole apartment’s address and mail it one way (no return address). Block her number on your phone, then delete it. Make your social media profiles invisible to the public, and viewable only by people you individually specify. Email her family that you have moved on to a new life and ask them politely not to contact you again. Then block and delete them.

    Then, go get yourself tested for an STD, and do not ever stick your dick in crazy again. If you must, do it in another city from your home, wear a condom and don’t give crazy your real name, address or phone number…!

    Every man who’s ever been ruined by a woman underestimated her risk, and overestimated her value. Don’t make these mistakes anymore. If you need the satisfaction of seeing her regret these f~~~ed up decisions, track her down in 10 years. If she survives to 30 years old, she’ll be in a trailer park somewhere with multiple kids from multiple baby-daddies, with a chemical addiction, a body weight about 70 pounds heavier than it is now, a collection of tattoos, and a criminal record.

    I’ve seen this movie before, but it has a couple different possible endings. The Disney version of this movie ends with you driving away from the trailer park (alone) and breathing a giant sigh of relief. The Alfred Hitchc~~~ version starts with you answering the phone the next time she calls…

    Trust me, I’ve been with lots of crazy women in my life, so I’ve personally seen how it goes. And you’re right, I was extremely lucky that I dodged a major torpedo with this girl.

    I know the girl who I had in my head is gone and never existed, hell in my head I knew that from the beginning. Which is one reason why, when she tried so hard to get so serious, I pushed against it for so long, but she slowly wore me down. Once I was 100% in, she was gone.

    And I know the same thing will happen to her and chad. His previous marriage ended because, among other things, of his cheating. Two cheaters now “in love” and wanting to get married asap, after not even 3 months now of dating. We all know how that story ends.

    For the first few weeks after the breakup, I sat around thinking this was all my fault. And don’t get me wrong, I did a lot of introspection and realized that I had made mistakes during the relationship, but never anywhere near the level of lying, cheating, etc., just more along the lines of sometimes being insensitive to her emotions and not letting my guard down sooner (though now I’m glad I didn’t). But, even her mom told me right after the breakup when she met the new boyfriend (the one and only time she met him), that it had absolutely nothing to do with anything I’d done or hadn’t done; that this chad had “infected her brain like a virus”. So I’ve stopped trying to blame myself.

    It’s officially been 20 days of complete NC today, and I plan to keep it that way. So sad how a girl with so much potential throws it all away for a loser guy.

    #746784
    +6
    Quell
    Quell
    Participant
    2538

    You’re a smart guy for quickly joining the ranks of MGTOW so soon after a breakup that substantial.

    I’m afraid to say it but there is a pretty good chance you will be back with her. She will definitely come a knockin’ in about 2-6 months when new Chad does his Chad thing and she get’s upset and leaves.

    At that point she will have nobody and will try to seek out old reliable ‘Lawyaman’ for some reconciliation and smooches.

    I’m not going to lie to you… it’s gonna suck for awhile. You are going to miss her and your old familiar life. It’s gone now and will never be the same ever again. Dating is going to suck as the women won’t be your ex. Don’t force it, in-fact don’t date for awhile. Your friends will be there for you but really don’t care as they are not connected emotionally to your situation. It’s not their fault, lean on them when necessary. You’re going to be tempted but don’t drink or do drugs heavily to escape.

    What will determine the outcome is whether you can accept her for what she truly is and ignore the familiar cries for help. It is up to you from this point forward to choose if you are going to wallow in the past or FOR REAL forget about this woman who hurt you and move on with your life.

    Easier said than done is but “One chance per girl per lifetime.”

    To help you move on I would suggest selling / or renting a new place. Your ex and you shared a lot of time in your neighborhood and condo. Your sub conscience will always be reminded of her and that era of time when you are home. It’s definitely not healthy. Physically moving really helps, in my opinion, to mentally move on. Eat well and work out when you can, it also helps to in terms of daily motivation and to relieve stress.

    Good luck man!

    #746788
    +2
    IRuleMe
    IRuleMe
    Participant

    She got a job at a strip club while you were together, if that isn’t a f~~~you to your face from her then I don’t know what a f~~~you is.

    I had a friend, who worked at a strip club, he ends up falling in love with one of the strippers that worked there LOL, he got his own place with her and her daughter.

    One day while I was at his place, his women gets up and leaves with another man, dude pulled up in his car and picked her up, she left her daughter with my friend LOL, sounds like true love don’t it.

    Laughing

    You’re not wrong. Sadly, most women who work at strip clubs, or who even bar tend, or waitress…..basically any job where they can get tips is a red flag. Most of them are into drugs/alcohol. I dj’d for years in strip clubs. 1 out of every 20 girls would actually be faithful to their man. With odds like that you mine as well start swimming with sharks with open wounds.

    After what I saw though I recommend for you blue pill men still looking to get married to avoid women working in the service industry all together. Do not do it because it will not end well. Just go mgtow, but if you can’t because you’re a pathetic simp, make sure they’ve never had a job waiting/serving food/bar/drinks…being tipped.

    Most quality women have amazing parents and they were raised with plenty of love. Just play the powerball once a week to get an understanding of what it takes, the odds it takes, to find a quality woman (banging body, good head on her shoulders, not mentally deranged etc.). Powerball lottery on the second thought is probably easier to win then finding an actual quality chick

    Even if you find her, assuming she doesn’t assf~~~ you with marriage and divorce…

    It’s officially been 20 days of complete NC today, and I plan to keep it that way. So sad how a girl with so much potential throws it all away for a loser guy.

    She never had any potential if she was willing to milk you for a free ride. To her, paying her way was your cost for f~~~ing her. She didn’t want to work, didn’t do s~~~ around the house, didn’t cook… What potential did she have? To be a master whore? Because she lived up to that potential. Imagine if you had a child with this chick! Ugh, what a mess that would have been.

    #746790
    +6
    IRuleMe
    IRuleMe
    Participant

    This is very true. And my ex did start getting involved with alcohol and drugs quite a bit in the strip club, I’m guessing that’s part of what f~~~ed with her brain.

    What f~~~ed with her brain is that she’s a woman, and incapable of operating with logic and reason. But rather, with emotion. Are you familiar with the term “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”? It’s meant to contrast the differences between men and women, but it came out as a term at the time in a way to describe women as these mysterious creatures who are hard to understand. They’re not hard to understand. They’re f~~~ing mental midgets! If they were so hard to understand, our capitalist society wouldn’t have figured them out so quickly. Women are irrational, impulsive beings who are always chasing the next emotional high. Like crack.

    Why do you think they’re called “impulse shoppers”? Because they’re attracted to something new and exciting, or on sale, and they just HAVE to have it. Men are controlled with their wallets. They buy some thing they like, but buy largely out of necessity. Women act on emotions. That’s why they will f~~~ a guy they just met at a bar and then rationalize it as “it just happened”. Bulls~~~. You got hot and bothered and let the man between your legs.

    Same deal with reality tv shows. Who do you think the primary watchers are? WOMEN. Because women love what? DRAMA. Why do you think the Kardashians are so famous? Because they have talented skill-sets in the kitchen? Fk no. Because their lives are a constant s~~~storm of drama. Part of that comes with being “new and exciting”. Chasing the high. Which is why women are more prone to monkey branch.

    Men don’t monkey branch (generally) for anything other than sex. Which is done because a man’s sexual needs are being ignored by the woman. A man works hard, doesn’t get s~~~ in the bed, feels unappreciated, so he runs to another woman.

    Women on the other hand, leave guys for money, resources, power, fame, sex, and overall excitement. They do it quite easily, and without remorse. A woman will dump her husband or boyfriend and f~~~ Brad Pitt in a minute. Without hesitation. They have no loyalty. It’s in their nature. Because, to them, it’s in their best interest. Many women have left men entirely because to them, Daddy Government gives them everything they need and doesn’t ask them to put out, or make dinner.

    Have you ever, or ever known a guy who tried to logic a woman into liking them, or being in a relationship with them? i.e qualifying themselves like “oh, we would make the perfect couple if you would just give me a chance” or “no one can love you like I could love you”? Have you ever seen them stalk women with flowers and candies, like a total mangina?… Have you ever in your life seen that work? It never works. Men try to rationalize women into loving them, and always fail miserably.

    Yet, when you’re on a date, or interacting with a woman in general, how often do the questions “so, what do you do for a living?”, or “what kind of car do you drive?”, or “how much money do you make?” come up? I bet you’re probably rolling your eyes and laughing at this point because you know exactly what I’m talking about, and know yourself precisely how many times it comes up in conversations with women. Women, esp modern day women are about extracting resources from men. That’s always been the game bro. They’re always gauging men to determine their wealth and value to see if that man is worth their time.

    In your particular case, the ex was a complete f~~~ing dumbass. Count your blessings. Ice this chick, and her family from your life permanently. Don’t talk to her, don’t call her, if she shows up, slam the f~~~ing door. Because rest assured, when she tires with this deadbeat piece of s~~~, she’ll be back, crying her alligator tears at your door telling you how much she f~~~ed up and how she wants you back. Never go back with an ex. EVER. Before long, you’ll be reminded of why you left in the first place.

    1 chance, per woman, per lifetime.

    #746799
    +3

    Anonymous
    7

    Smells fishy.

    #746801
    +4
    Verus
    Verus
    Participant
    965

    She’ll probably be back. That you are asking if she’ll be coming back in this forum AND talking to her family about her and the new guy suggests to me that you may want her back despite what you say. Given that she cheated on you I don’t think this level of caring is justified or healthy.

    You say she started working as a stripper. Then she met a loser who gave her the tingles. She has found her level. For your sake I really hope you have higher standards and do not accept the level that she wants to function on.

    #746848
    Monk
    Monk
    Participant
    16988

    Thoughts as to whether I’ll hear from her again?

    Sooner or later, she will be back.

    It might be a discreet approach through a mutual friend, or she might turn up crying on the doorstep. There may be pressure from your family, particularly the females.

    I know way better than to take her back …

    Sure? Could you step over her body lying in the gutter? Because that’s what it is going to take.

    #746894
    +4
    BrainPilot
    BrainPilot
    Participant
    7640

    The craziest girl I was ever involved with was one I’d known in high school, and then ran into years later in a different city. She had been a stripper in the interim. It screws their head up (even worse than just being female). Our story was similar to yours, except she screwed my head up pretty bad, and their was not an internet for me to seek advice at the time. I did get some good advice, though. And I followed it. Someone successfully explained to me about the strategy of maintaining the connection, and keeping me on the list. The last time she and I spoke, she was being kicked out of her place and needed a truck, a ride, and a place to live. I remember listening to this story on the phone while staring at the ceiling. I told her that my first instinct was to drive over, pick her and her stuff up and bring her back to my place. She was relieved and excited. Then I interrupted her and said that my first instinct with her had been screwing my head up for over a year and was not the best thing for me to do. She asked what the best thing was and I told her that the best thing for me was for us to hang up and not speak anymore. She asked, “for how long?” and my response was “Forever”.

    As soon as I said it, all the crazy that was in my head left me. It was like magic. There was a long period of cold, dead, awkward silence while she waited for me to qualify it or state my conditions, but I didn’t. The feeling or relief was too strong. 25 years later and I am more certain of the correctness of that decision than any other decision I ever made. It was the most red pill moment I ever had. I never lowered my standards for women that far again. It was a turning point for me. I had one of the most peaceful night’s sleep I ever had after that phone call.

    I found out years later that after we hung up, she dialed the next number on her list, and he bit. she moved in with him that day.

    If you have the insight and discipline to say “No”, it’s better to answer when she calls, and tell her “No” for the experience of it. If you’ve never turned down an attractive woman offering, I recommend it at least once in order to learn the power of that word. If you don’t think you have it in you to say “No”, the my advice is to block, delete and send the restraining order. Then try to gain that insight and discipline before the next train wreck finds you, and you start this process over again.

    For as long as you have something of value to them to take, they will continue to find you. And this process will repeat until you learn that word. I hope you are still on this forum and that we are still trading these posts when you do – partly because I want to read your post that says, “holy s~~~, how did you know?” but mainly because I like it when my negative experience saves someone else from having it…

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #746910
    +1
    DanceMyOwnWay
    DanceMyOwnWay
    Participant
    2096

    50 yr old MD here. I feel like I just watched a movie that I have seen over and over again. And sadly, I’ve been the starring role in it several times.

    There’s the girl in your head that you invested time, money and effort into. And then there’s the girl in your story who is a nuclear tipped torpedo that just barely missed. it went right by you and didn’t detonate, you lucky f~~~er! You don’t seem like you realize how close you just came to destruction: She did not get pregnant and demand child support in CA family court. You’re a lawyer so you know the rest of that story.

    She did not call the police and tell them you hit her. You also know how that story ends. And AS FAR AS YOU KNOW, she has not given you an STD that she picked up in the alley behind the strip club (yes, she is THAT f~~~ing stupid… she proved it with her choices). Hell, she didn’t even get loser to help her rob and trash your place while you were out of town. No slashed tires. No keyed paint job… Nothing! Read some of the stories of other men who stuck their dick in crazy and what it cost them.

    So, you played chicken with what amounts to a socio-emotional nuclear weapon and you got great sex (crazy sex always is) and you didn’t get your freedom, money, home or health taken from you. So far, you are f~~~ing killing this interaction-with-women deal…

    Except that you think you lost something valuable. That’s the girl in your head you’re disappointed about. That girl in your head is never coming back. She never really existed anyway. The other one, the train wreck… will be back.

    She left all that stuff at your place because she needs a reason to contact you again. She has your number in her phone and she will use it again.

    When?

    Girls like that DO NOT bond with only one man. NOT EVER. When a girl like the one in the story finds herself alone with no man, or even in a situation where she is getting close to having no man, there are a list of men in her phone that she will call to make contact. I don’t know where you are on that list, top or bottom, but as long as you have money, you can be damn sure YOU ARE ON THAT LIST!

    Pack all her s~~~ into a box. Before you put the lid on it, put a restraining order on top, then put the lid on. Address it to her new s~~~ hole apartment’s address and mail it one way (no return address). Block her number on your phone, then delete it. Make your social media profiles invisible to the public, and viewable only by people you individually specify. Email her family that you have moved on to a new life and ask them politely not to contact you again. Then block and delete them.

    Then, go get yourself tested for an STD, and do not ever stick your dick in crazy again. If you must, do it in another city from your home, wear a condom and don’t give crazy your real name, address or phone number…!

    Every man who’s ever been ruined by a woman underestimated her risk, and overestimated her value. Don’t make these mistakes anymore. If you need the satisfaction of seeing her regret these f~~~ed up decisions, track her down in 10 years. If she survives to 30 years old, she’ll be in a trailer park somewhere with multiple kids from multiple baby-daddies, with a chemical addiction, a body weight about 70 pounds heavier than it is now, a collection of tattoos, and a criminal record.

    I’ve seen this movie before, but it has a couple different possible endings. The Disney version of this movie ends with you driving away from the trailer park (alone) and breathing a giant sigh of relief. The Alfred Hitchc~~~ version starts with you answering the phone the next time she calls…

    Trust me, I’ve been with lots of crazy women in my life, so I’ve personally seen how it goes. And you’re right, I was extremely lucky that I dodged a major torpedo with this girl.

    I know the girl who I had in my head is gone and never existed, hell in my head I knew that from the beginning. Which is one reason why, when she tried so hard to get so serious, I pushed against it for so long, but she slowly wore me down. Once I was 100% in, she was gone.

    And I know the same thing will happen to her and chad. His previous marriage ended because, among other things, of his cheating. Two cheaters now “in love” and wanting to get married asap, after not even 3 months now of dating. We all know how that story ends.

    For the first few weeks after the breakup, I sat around thinking this was all my fault. And don’t get me wrong, I did a lot of introspection and realized that I had made mistakes during the relationship, but never anywhere near the level of lying, cheating, etc., just more along the lines of sometimes being insensitive to her emotions and not letting my guard down sooner (though now I’m glad I didn’t). But, even her mom told me right after the breakup when she met the new boyfriend (the one and only time she met him), that it had absolutely nothing to do with anything I’d done or hadn’t done; that this chad had “infected her brain like a virus”. So I’ve stopped trying to blame myself.

    It’s officially been 20 days of complete NC today, and I plan to keep it that way. So sad how a girl with so much potential throws it all away for a loser guy.

    You sound like you are still in blue pill world and processing with feelings. They get worse each time you take them back. And ya know Herpes and HIV are a thing with skanky cheats. Ice her permanently. And if this is a fishy post now you know how real men deal with cheating whores…

    If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

    #746958
    +3
    Twist
    Twist
    Participant

    This one is too easy. Just don’t be the Captain. Ever.

    #746966
    +2
    TheSpice
    TheSpice
    Participant
    2644

    Smells fishy.

    I’m with you. Sounds false, blue pill, or both.

    "I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
    "You know it's too late for that."

    #746969
    +4
    Oldschool
    Oldschool
    Participant
    2481

    This is very true. And my ex did start getting involved with alcohol and drugs quite a bit in the strip club, I’m guessing that’s part of what f~~~ed with her brain.

    What f~~~ed with her brain is that she’s a woman, and incapable of operating with logic and reason. But rather, with emotion. Are you familiar with the term “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”? It’s meant to contrast the differences between men and women, but it came out as a term at the time in a way to describe women as these mysterious creatures who are hard to understand. They’re not hard to understand. They’re f~~~ing mental midgets! If they were so hard to understand, our capitalist society wouldn’t have figured them out so quickly. Women are irrational, impulsive beings who are always chasing the next emotional high. Like crack.

    Why do you think they’re called “impulse shoppers”? Because they’re attracted to something new and exciting, or on sale, and they just HAVE to have it. Men are controlled with their wallets. They buy some thing they like, but buy largely out of necessity. Women act on emotions. That’s why they will f~~~ a guy they just met at a bar and then rationalize it as “it just happened”. Bulls~~~. You got hot and bothered and let the man between your legs.

    Same deal with reality tv shows. Who do you think the primary watchers are? WOMEN. Because women love what? DRAMA. Why do you think the Kardashians are so famous? Because they have talented skill-sets in the kitchen? Fk no. Because their lives are a constant s~~~storm of drama. Part of that comes with being “new and exciting”. Chasing the high. Which is why women are more prone to monkey branch.

    Men don’t monkey branch (generally) for anything other than sex. Which is done because a man’s sexual needs are being ignored by the woman. A man works hard, doesn’t get s~~~ in the bed, feels unappreciated, so he runs to another woman.

    Women on the other hand, leave guys for money, resources, power, fame, sex, and overall excitement. They do it quite easily, and without remorse. A woman will dump her husband or boyfriend and f~~~ Brad Pitt in a minute. Without hesitation. They have no loyalty. It’s in their nature. Because, to them, it’s in their best interest. Many women have left men entirely because to them, Daddy Government gives them everything they need and doesn’t ask them to put out, or make dinner.

    Have you ever, or ever known a guy who tried to logic a woman into liking them, or being in a relationship with them? i.e qualifying themselves like “oh, we would make the perfect couple if you would just give me a chance” or “no one can love you like I could love you”? Have you ever seen them stalk women with flowers and candies, like a total mangina?… Have you ever in your life seen that work? It never works. Men try to rationalize women into loving them, and always fail miserably.

    Yet, when you’re on a date, or interacting with a woman in general, how often do the questions “so, what do you do for a living?”, or “what kind of car do you drive?”, or “how much money do you make?” come up? I bet you’re probably rolling your eyes and laughing at this point because you know exactly what I’m talking about, and know yourself precisely how many times it comes up in conversations with women. Women, esp modern day women are about extracting resources from men. That’s always been the game bro. They’re always gauging men to determine their wealth and value to see if that man is worth their time.

    In your particular case, the ex was a complete f~~~ing dumbass. Count your blessings. Ice this chick, and her family from your life permanently. Don’t talk to her, don’t call her, if she shows up, slam the f~~~ing door. Because rest assured, when she tires with this deadbeat piece of s~~~, she’ll be back, crying her alligator tears at your door telling you how much she f~~~ed up and how she wants you back. Never go back with an ex. EVER. Before long, you’ll be reminded of why you left in the first place.

    1 chance, per woman, per lifetime.

    This is very true. And my ex did start getting involved with alcohol and drugs quite a bit in the strip club, I’m guessing that’s part of what f~~~ed with her brain.

    What f~~~ed with her brain is that she’s a woman, and incapable of operating with logic and reason. But rather, with emotion. Are you familiar with the term “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”? It’s meant to contrast the differences between men and women, but it came out as a term at the time in a way to describe women as these mysterious creatures who are hard to understand. They’re not hard to understand. They’re f~~~ing mental midgets! If they were so hard to understand, our capitalist society wouldn’t have figured them out so quickly. Women are irrational, impulsive beings who are always chasing the next emotional high. Like crack.

    Why do you think they’re called “impulse shoppers”? Because they’re attracted to something new and exciting, or on sale, and they just HAVE to have it. Men are controlled with their wallets. They buy some thing they like, but buy largely out of necessity. Women act on emotions. That’s why they will f~~~ a guy they just met at a bar and then rationalize it as “it just happened”. Bulls~~~. You got hot and bothered and let the man between your legs.

    Same deal with reality tv shows. Who do you think the primary watchers are? WOMEN. Because women love what? DRAMA. Why do you think the Kardashians are so famous? Because they have talented skill-sets in the kitchen? Fk no. Because their lives are a constant s~~~storm of drama. Part of that comes with being “new and exciting”. Chasing the high. Which is why women are more prone to monkey branch.

    Men don’t monkey branch (generally) for anything other than sex. Which is done because a man’s sexual needs are being ignored by the woman. A man works hard, doesn’t get s~~~ in the bed, feels unappreciated, so he runs to another woman.

    Women on the other hand, leave guys for money, resources, power, fame, sex, and overall excitement. They do it quite easily, and without remorse. A woman will dump her husband or boyfriend and f~~~ Brad Pitt in a minute. Without hesitation. They have no loyalty. It’s in their nature. Because, to them, it’s in their best interest. Many women have left men entirely because to them, Daddy Government gives them everything they need and doesn’t ask them to put out, or make dinner.

    Have you ever, or ever known a guy who tried to logic a woman into liking them, or being in a relationship with them? i.e qualifying themselves like “oh, we would make the perfect couple if you would just give me a chance” or “no one can love you like I could love you”? Have you ever seen them stalk women with flowers and candies, like a total mangina?… Have you ever in your life seen that work? It never works. Men try to rationalize women into loving them, and always fail miserably.

    Yet, when you’re on a date, or interacting with a woman in general, how often do the questions “so, what do you do for a living?”, or “what kind of car do you drive?”, or “how much money do you make?” come up? I bet you’re probably rolling your eyes and laughing at this point because you know exactly what I’m talking about, and know yourself precisely how many times it comes up in conversations with women. Women, esp modern day women are about extracting resources from men. That’s always been the game bro. They’re always gauging men to determine their wealth and value to see if that man is worth their time.

    In your particular case, the ex was a complete f~~~ing dumbass. Count your blessings. Ice this chick, and her family from your life permanently. Don’t talk to her, don’t call her, if she shows up, slam the f~~~ing door. Because rest assured, when she tires with this deadbeat piece of s~~~, she’ll be back, crying her alligator tears at your door telling you how much she f~~~ed up and how she wants you back. Never go back with an ex. EVER. Before long, you’ll be reminded of why you left in the first place.

    1 chance, per woman, per lifetime.

    This is very true. And my ex did start getting involved with alcohol and drugs quite a bit in the strip club, I’m guessing that’s part of what f~~~ed with her brain.

    What f~~~ed with her brain is that she’s a woman, and incapable of operating with logic and reason. But rather, with emotion. Are you familiar with the term “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”? It’s meant to contrast the differences between men and women, but it came out as a term at the time in a way to describe women as these mysterious creatures who are hard to understand. They’re not hard to understand. They’re f~~~ing mental midgets! If they were so hard to understand, our capitalist society wouldn’t have figured them out so quickly. Women are irrational, impulsive beings who are always chasing the next emotional high. Like crack.

    Why do you think they’re called “impulse shoppers”? Because they’re attracted to something new and exciting, or on sale, and they just HAVE to have it. Men are controlled with their wallets. They buy some thing they like, but buy largely out of necessity. Women act on emotions. That’s why they will f~~~ a guy they just met at a bar and then rationalize it as “it just happened”. Bulls~~~. You got hot and bothered and let the man between your legs.

    Same deal with reality tv shows. Who do you think the primary watchers are? WOMEN. Because women love what? DRAMA. Why do you think the Kardashians are so famous? Because they have talented skill-sets in the kitchen? Fk no. Because their lives are a constant s~~~storm of drama. Part of that comes with being “new and exciting”. Chasing the high. Which is why women are more prone to monkey branch.

    Men don’t monkey branch (generally) for anything other than sex. Which is done because a man’s sexual needs are being ignored by the woman. A man works hard, doesn’t get s~~~ in the bed, feels unappreciated, so he runs to another woman.

    Women on the other hand, leave guys for money, resources, power, fame, sex, and overall excitement. They do it quite easily, and without remorse. A woman will dump her husband or boyfriend and f~~~ Brad Pitt in a minute. Without hesitation. They have no loyalty. It’s in their nature. Because, to them, it’s in their best interest. Many women have left men entirely because to them, Daddy Government gives them everything they need and doesn’t ask them to put out, or make dinner.

    Have you ever, or ever known a guy who tried to logic a woman into liking them, or being in a relationship with them? i.e qualifying themselves like “oh, we would make the perfect couple if you would just give me a chance” or “no one can love you like I could love you”? Have you ever seen them stalk women with flowers and candies, like a total mangina?… Have you ever in your life seen that work? It never works. Men try to rationalize women into loving them, and always fail miserably.

    Yet, when you’re on a date, or interacting with a woman in general, how often do the questions “so, what do you do for a living?”, or “what kind of car do you drive?”, or “how much money do you make?” come up? I bet you’re probably rolling your eyes and laughing at this point because you know exactly what I’m talking about, and know yourself precisely how many times it comes up in conversations with women. Women, esp modern day women are about extracting resources from men. That’s always been the game bro. They’re always gauging men to determine their wealth and value to see if that man is worth their time.

    In your particular case, the ex was a complete f~~~ing dumbass. Count your blessings. Ice this chick, and her family from your life permanently. Don’t talk to her, don’t call her, if she shows up, slam the f~~~ing door. Because rest assured, when she tires with this deadbeat piece of s~~~, she’ll be back, crying her alligator tears at your door telling you how much she f~~~ed up and how she wants you back. Never go back with an ex. EVER. Before long, you’ll be reminded of why you left in the first place.

    1 chance, per woman, per lifetime.

    This is very true. And my ex did start getting involved with alcohol and drugs quite a bit in the strip club, I’m guessing that’s part of what f~~~ed with her brain.

    What f~~~ed with her brain is that she’s a woman, and incapable of operating with logic and reason. But rather, with emotion. Are you familiar with the term “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”? It’s meant to contrast the differences between men and women, but it came out as a term at the time in a way to describe women as these mysterious creatures who are hard to understand. They’re not hard to understand. They’re f~~~ing mental midgets! If they were so hard to understand, our capitalist society wouldn’t have figured them out so quickly. Women are irrational, impulsive beings who are always chasing the next emotional high. Like crack.

    Why do you think they’re called “impulse shoppers”? Because they’re attracted to something new and exciting, or on sale, and they just HAVE to have it. Men are controlled with their wallets. They buy some thing they like, but buy largely out of necessity. Women act on emotions. That’s why they will f~~~ a guy they just met at a bar and then rationalize it as “it just happened”. Bulls~~~. You got hot and bothered and let the man between your legs.

    Same deal with reality tv shows. Who do you think the primary watchers are? WOMEN. Because women love what? DRAMA. Why do you think the Kardashians are so famous? Because they have talented skill-sets in the kitchen? Fk no. Because their lives are a constant s~~~storm of drama. Part of that comes with being “new and exciting”. Chasing the high. Which is why women are more prone to monkey branch.

    Men don’t monkey branch (generally) for anything other than sex. Which is done because a man’s sexual needs are being ignored by the woman. A man works hard, doesn’t get s~~~ in the bed, feels unappreciated, so he runs to another woman.

    Women on the other hand, leave guys for money, resources, power, fame, sex, and overall excitement. They do it quite easily, and without remorse. A woman will dump her husband or boyfriend and f~~~ Brad Pitt in a minute. Without hesitation. They have no loyalty. It’s in their nature. Because, to them, it’s in their best interest. Many women have left men entirely because to them, Daddy Government gives them everything they need and doesn’t ask them to put out, or make dinner.

    Have you ever, or ever known a guy who tried to logic a woman into liking them, or being in a relationship with them? i.e qualifying themselves like “oh, we would make the perfect couple if you would just give me a chance” or “no one can love you like I could love you”? Have you ever seen them stalk women with flowers and candies, like a total mangina?… Have you ever in your life seen that work? It never works. Men try to rationalize women into loving them, and always fail miserably.

    Yet, when you’re on a date, or interacting with a woman in general, how often do the questions “so, what do you do for a living?”, or “what kind of car do you drive?”, or “how much money do you make?” come up? I bet you’re probably rolling your eyes and laughing at this point because you know exactly what I’m talking about, and know yourself precisely how many times it comes up in conversations with women. Women, esp modern day women are about extracting resources from men. That’s always been the game bro. They’re always gauging men to determine their wealth and value to see if that man is worth their time.

    In your particular case, the ex was a complete f~~~ing dumbass. Count your blessings. Ice this chick, and her family from your life permanently. Don’t talk to her, don’t call her, if she shows up, slam the f~~~ing door. Because rest assured, when she tires with this deadbeat piece of s~~~, she’ll be back, crying her alligator tears at your door telling you how much she f~~~ed up and how she wants you back. Never go back with an ex. EVER. Before long, you’ll be reminded of why you left in the first place.

    1 chance, per woman, per lifetime.

    This is very true. And my ex did start getting involved with alcohol and drugs quite a bit in the strip club, I’m guessing that’s part of what f~~~ed with her brain.

    What f~~~ed with her brain is that she’s a woman, and incapable of operating with logic and reason. But rather, with emotion. Are you familiar with the term “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”? It’s meant to contrast the differences between men and women, but it came out as a term at the time in a way to describe women as these mysterious creatures who are hard to understand. They’re not hard to understand. They’re f~~~ing mental midgets! If they were so hard to understand, our capitalist society wouldn’t have figured them out so quickly. Women are irrational, impulsive beings who are always chasing the next emotional high. Like crack.

    Why do you think they’re called “impulse shoppers”? Because they’re attracted to something new and exciting, or on sale, and they just HAVE to have it. Men are controlled with their wallets. They buy some thing they like, but buy largely out of necessity. Women act on emotions. That’s why they will f~~~ a guy they just met at a bar and then rationalize it as “it just happened”. Bulls~~~. You got hot and bothered and let the man between your legs.

    Same deal with reality tv shows. Who do you think the primary watchers are? WOMEN. Because women love what? DRAMA. Why do you think the Kardashians are so famous? Because they have talented skill-sets in the kitchen? Fk no. Because their lives are a constant s~~~storm of drama. Part of that comes with being “new and exciting”. Chasing the high. Which is why women are more prone to monkey branch.

    Men don’t monkey branch (generally) for anything other than sex. Which is done because a man’s sexual needs are being ignored by the woman. A man works hard, doesn’t get s~~~ in the bed, feels unappreciated, so he runs to another woman.

    Women on the other hand, leave guys for money, resources, power, fame, sex, and overall excitement. They do it quite easily, and without remorse. A woman will dump her husband or boyfriend and f~~~ Brad Pitt in a minute. Without hesitation. They have no loyalty. It’s in their nature. Because, to them, it’s in their best interest. Many women have left men entirely because to them, Daddy Government gives them everything they need and doesn’t ask them to put out, or make dinner.

    Have you ever, or ever known a guy who tried to logic a woman into liking them, or being in a relationship with them? i.e qualifying themselves like “oh, we would make the perfect couple if you would just give me a chance” or “no one can love you like I could love you”? Have you ever seen them stalk women with flowers and candies, like a total mangina?… Have you ever in your life seen that work? It never works. Men try to rationalize women into loving them, and always fail miserably.

    Yet, when you’re on a date, or interacting with a woman in general, how often do the questions “so, what do you do for a living?”, or “what kind of car do you drive?”, or “how much money do you make?” come up? I bet you’re probably rolling your eyes and laughing at this point because you know exactly what I’m talking about, and know yourself precisely how many times it comes up in conversations with women. Women, esp modern day women are about extracting resources from men. That’s always been the game bro. They’re always gauging men to determine their wealth and value to see if that man is worth their time.

    In your particular case, the ex was a complete f~~~ing dumbass. Count your blessings. Ice this chick, and her family from your life permanently. Don’t talk to her, don’t call her, if she shows up, slam the f~~~ing door. Because rest assured, when she tires with this deadbeat piece of s~~~, she’ll be back, crying her alligator tears at your door telling you how much she f~~~ed up and how she wants you back. Never go back with an ex. EVER. Before long, you’ll be reminded of why you left in the first place.

    1 chance, per woman, per lifetime.

    Excellent post, brilliant!

    Get a vasectomy.

    #746985
    +2
    TaxGuy
    TaxGuy
    Participant

    It seems a woman is as faithful as her options.

    Read that over and over again until it is burned into your head.

    And like Matrix said, ONE CHANCE, PER PERSON, PER LIFETIME. NO EXCEPTIONS.

    Anyone that “falls” in love like her is a narcissist. She’s a user. Keep her as far away as possible. Love isn’t a noun. You fall in a swimming pool. Love is a verb, an action. It’s a choice you make. She’s young enough that she wasn’t ready to settle down with the “right” guy, so she left for Chad. She’s going to sow her oats for a while and then look for a “right” guy later. It’s a stereotype because it’s true. She’ll be back right about the time her sexual market value is diminishing. In the mean time, she’ll be riding the c~~~ carousal.

    When she does come back, she’ll be used up. But you’ll be even more valuable. You’ll be farther along in your career, making more money, more successful than you are today. That’s when she’ll be ready for you. You’re too smart to buy a used up Kia at Mercedes prices.

    Order the good wine

    #747025
    +1
    DirtBikeMan
    DirtBikeMan
    Participant
    535

    Lawyer Man,

    Lotta wisdom here. You are obviously no dummy. But you need to start thinking a little deeper about life and what you want out of it. When you bring chaos and crazy into your home, it gets on everything.

    The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

    #747035
    +2

    Anonymous
    2

    She will most certainly be back.

    Here’s what happened: She did things in reverse. Most women want to ride the c~~~ carousel banging loser Chads while they are young, then “settle down” with a high-earning beta cuck when they know their looks are fading and they need a provider. It’s not like they have to honor their marriage vows to the beta, anyway. They can always use the court system to divorce rape him whenever they decide his usefulness has run its course and walk away with tons of cash and prizes. She, on the other hand, went about this backwards. She got a high-earning man in her early 20s, but still wanted to get her kicks banging Chads. So, she broke up with you, but, of course, she made sure to tell you that “I’ll always love you” bollocks to plant a seed that she really cares about you, when really she just wants to keep you on the shelf as a fallback option. After all, she’s not going to stay with low-earning Chad forever. She knows she’s eventually going to need a beta wallet to latch onto.

    I would bet everything I have that if she believes she has any shot with you, she will be back. Now, if you’ve totally cut her off, she might be discouraged enough that she will think it’s not worth a shot. But something tells me that the fact that you catered to her is going to make her think she still has a chance.

    If you have a high earning job, there is no reason to be in any relationship that involves cohabitation, let alone marriage. You can bang young women anytime you want. They’ll always put out for a guy they can leech off of.

    Of course, the smartest path is to stick to one-night stands to satisfy your sexual needs, and NEVER bring them back to your place. The “me too” bollocks has taken the danger to the next level. All a woman has to do is make an accusation and your life is ruined. Proceed with extreme caution.

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