Monk

[Anonymous 38]

I think I’m ready to go Monk. Certainly in terms of relations~~~s, as for sex I don’t know if it’s something I can ‘swear off’, however it’s something that’s highly unlikely given my attitude to women at this point.

I can’t talk to most women without being suspicious of her motives. The smiles, the flirting, the moodiness – I trust none of it. I’ve met too many women who’ve given all sorts of signals and behaviours towards me. I’ve seen too much, and all I want to do in that moment is get away from her. To once again be in the company of genuine, sane people, whether that’s me (alone) or with someone I trust. People without motives.

I can’t turn off that analytical ability, the one which has brought me so much in life. It is innate to me. You can’t tell an intelligent being not to analyse and think deeply. True, it’s wise not to let your thoughts run away with your mind, but you can’t not notice things unless you act like some kind of mental incompetent.

So at the age of 33 I find myself yearning for nature and solitude, to be away from all this crap. I know there is some value in staying and becoming even more adept at operating among c~~~s, but I feel to carry on in the city is just delaying the inevitable.

A question for Monks. Does your mindset change in time, without female attachments (relations~~~s or sex)? Or are you more or less the same as you always were, just with the benefit of an undisturbed equilibrium?

A mountain or forest dwelling doesn’t have a motive towards/against you. Neither does a dog, nor good friends. I’m resigning from the other 99% of humanity, time will tell how that works for me.

Peace and prosperity to all MGTOW.

[Anonymous 12]

I feel the same way. Even back in the 80’s and 90’s when I was a teenager and man in my early 20’s I was seeing whores rather than seeking sex for free. I just didn’t trust them and didn’t want the bulls~~~ that came with them.

Now in my mid 40’s I don’t seek them for comfort at all anymore. The delusion is gone. I see them for what they are and I do not want to play the game anymore. I don’t want to appease their egos or try and pass their s~~~ tests. More importantly I am turned off at the thought of being physically intimate with them. The appeal is gone.

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

A question for Monks. Does your mindset change in time, without female attachments (relations~~~s or sex)? Or are you more or less the same as you always were, just with the benefit of an undisturbed equilibrium?

The mere fact of becoming a monk involves tremendous changes in the way one perceives the world. The core of a monk, his soul if you will doesn’t change but a monk knows that vices are very real. Virtues and Vices… Good vs Evil… a monk knows their existence and differences too well.. unlike the lost “souls” that refuse to admit their existence and are being tossed around by their whims.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Women never really interested me until my ex-wife chased me down to start the relationship. After that dumpster fire, they’ll never interest me again.

Let’s take your entire life, everything you ever did or will accomplish, put it in a bin, then light that bin on fire and toss it off a tall building. That’s what dating and relationships are like. The sex is the free-fall. The divorce is hitting the concrete after your skin is burned off and you can’t feel anything anymore.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Anonymous 1]

I spent quality time in the military and traveled the world blowing s~~~ up and shooting weapons. Before I hit southeast Asia I was mentored by my brothers about what to expect from women, (whores). I saw first hand that it was all about the money for them many times never really coming out and saying it, always subtly such as my mother is sick or I broke arm…I live in Mexico now and it’s exactly the same as is Thailand or Philippines. One of the things they have in common is they will emphatically proclaim they are not whores, though expect to be paid for sex. Really thats ok with me though I hate the dance.

You spend any time in crazy land and you tend reach out for what the world says is normal. I saw more than a few of my friends marry local gals because their brains couldn’t get wrapped around the idea that it’s ok to be single and f~~~ a lot of different women without commitment. I know it sounds sociopathic, but man you get your ass kicked enough you might consider being a bit more self centered.

I think women we are likely to encounter are pretty much the same. Keep in mind I’m a private investigator and can tell you when the relationship hits a snag, the angel you were married to is now plotting on how she can get what she thinks she deserves.

In spite of my caveman attitude I am lucky to have some great female friends. I am clear very early on there is no way I’m in a position to have a romantic relationship and it’s a line I draw in the sand. I don’t get stupid and have sex with them, thats reserved for others. We have fun, we drink and cut up and do things, but never, ever romance.

I think becoming monk might be like being an alcoholic. You get used to having the dopamine injections from the feeling of romance and it’s a hard habit to break. Like giving up smoking or drinking. Choose not to go monk and just like a tweaker, you’re going to give all your money away and do stupid s~~~ to get your fix. Things like call old girlfriends or join a dating site.

[Anonymous 1]

going monk is a no brainer for me. I get home close the door do whatever I want when I want. I have money and my bikes. For me the turn off is the smell. Why do they smell so bad even after the bath ?

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Going monk is like going MGTOW in the first place. Everyone does it in their own way for their own reasons, and it is likely easier for one, such as myself, who has been through a torrid divorce, than for a bloke bored of pumping and dumping who may see it as giving up sex rather than having an aversion to it.

I am monk because I find the thought of sex with diseased, entitled slags repulsive, but also because I do not want any form of a relationship with a woman to avoid a repeat of previous destructive experiences.

To answer your specific question, I’ve been monk for a couple of years now and I don’t miss sex at all and without all the hassle of finding women or dealing with their bulls~~~ I’ve found that my overall stress levels are considerably reduced and I have more time for me. My general mindset has changed in that I now care very little about what anyone else thinks of me and I find it much easier to take things or leave them without regret, guilt or angst and I can more easily recognise incoherent and biased thinking in others from as subjective a perspective as is possible.

Without the distractions of women and sex, and the general purpose of doing things for me – clarity of thought and rationalisation of the intent of others is easier to achieve.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

Anonymous wrote:

I think I’m ready to go Monk. Certainly in terms of relations~~~s, as for sex I don’t know if it’s something I can ‘swear off’, however it’s something that’s highly unlikely given my attitude to women at this point.
I can’t talk to most women without being suspicious of her motives. The smiles, the flirting, the moodiness – I trust none of it. I’ve met too many women who’ve given all sorts of signals and behaviours towards me. I’ve seen too much, and all I want to do in that moment is get away from her. To once again be in the company of genuine, sane people, whether that’s me (alone) or with someone I trust. People without motives.
I can’t turn off that analytical ability, the one which has brought me so much in life. It is innate to me. You can’t tell an intelligent being not to analyse and think deeply. True, it’s wise not to let your thoughts run away with your mind, but you can’t not notice things unless you act like some kind of mental incompetent.
So at the age of 33 I find myself yearning for nature and solitude, to be away from all this crap. I know there is some value in staying and becoming even more adept at operating among c~~~s, but I feel to carry on in the city is just delaying the inevitable.
A question for Monks. Does your mindset change in time, without female attachments (relations~~~s or sex)? Or are you more or less the same as you always were, just with the benefit of an undisturbed equilibrium?
A mountain or forest dwelling doesn’t have a motive towards/against you. Neither does a dog, nor good friends. I’m resigning from the other 99% of humanity, time will tell how that works for me.
Peace and prosperity to all MGTOW.

MGTOW who are monks like me we pretty much only use sex for what it is as a tool of gratification and nothing more, i travel abroad and since i have the Blue passport (U.S.) all the c~~~s in those 2nd and 3rd s~~~ holes don’t mind trying their chances to wrap me up (Free sex), but their chances of getting me to play slave are almost ZERO thanks to the red pill.

When i do comeback to the U.S. or another western s~~~ hole i wouldn’t try my chances. its too much s~~~ to think about and process through that it makes your dick hide all the way into your body, the anxiety of being with someone whose immature, untrustworthy, unstable and that has all the laws on their side i can’t think on a possible outcome where something positive could come from there long therm.

Being a monk can be fun!, just explore your spirituality, seek nature, go fishing, go to the forest, lose yourself because the world is a much bigger place than what you get used to staring at the four walls of your house or work.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Monk is not for everyone.

For those that can make it work, I take my hat off to them.

I envision the “nice” thing about being Monk is that you Truly Don’t NEED/WANT Anything from a Woman. That is assuming that being Monk isn’t driving you CRAZY for Sex.

Anyways, if the Monk thing doesn’t work for you, and you find yourself craving sex it doesn’t mean that you have to start dating etc.

For a reasonable amount of CASH, professional services can be had in MANY areas globally unless of course your out in the sticks somewhere.

Pay a few bucks, take care of business, and part ways. Get it out of your system, and off your mind, and get on with life.

Being Monk, would be better/safer/cheaper/easier as you can just skip all this entirely, but only YOU can see if YOU can make it work in YOUR LIFE.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 18]

When I measure a female duplicity to a man’s honour and integrity- I don’t even have to ‘think’ of being a monk. Women are just shallow creatures who might give a man some facade of depth based on how s~~~ty her situation is and how much she stands to gain by pretending to be some NAWALT.

You can’t go monk without forgoing the everyday ‘normal’ life i.e. tv, movies, mainstream whatever.

Once you get a taste of solitude the journey of MGTOW can be a sweet deal.

[Anonymous 38]

MACHO wrote:

MGTaoist wrote:

A question for Monks. Does your mindset change in time, without female attachments (relations~~~s or sex)? Or are you more or less the same as you always were, just with the benefit of an undisturbed equilibrium?

The mere fact of becoming a monk involves tremendous changes in the way one perceives the world. The core of a monk, his soul if you will doesn’t change but a monk knows that vices are very real. Virtues and Vices… Good vs Evil… a monk knows their existence and differences too well.. unlike the lost “souls” that refuse to admit their existence and are being tossed around by their whims.

Macho, a great and intriguing post. This is how I feel I’ve become. I am aware of karma at all times, sensitive to all negative influences and behaviours, keen not to harm others.

Anonymous wrote:

More importantly I am turned off at the thought of being physically intimate with them. The appeal is gone

This has been a big change for me. I believe this is because the excitement of physical intimacy with a woman is predicated on your ability to indulge in fantasy. Now that is gone, it feels repulsive.

[Anonymous 2]

The lizard brain can be strong, when you get the urge do it yourself. It’s been over 3 years for me. Yes I miss it sometimes and when I see an attractive woman it sometimes hits me to flirt or whatever. I then think of the words written here and my own expierences with them and it’s all I need to walk away. What do they offer really. 20 min of “pleasure” that you most likely have to do all the work for. F~~~ that! To each man his own though. Just be careful when you do. It’s like reaching into a box of snakes, how many times can you do it before your bitten!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

I think I’m ready to go Monk. Certainly in terms of relations~~~s, as for sex I don’t know if it’s something I can ‘swear off’, however it’s something that’s highly unlikely given my attitude to women at this point.

There really isn’t a need to consciously make an effort to “go monk”. After all, a man only needs to simply stop initiating and showing interest. Very little is going to happen when you remove interest and willingness to pursue.

You can liken women to one of those sword sharpening wheels – with a stool and a foot pedal.

As long as YOU apply the pressure and do all the work, you will see some action – and may even see some sparks! But remove your foot and what happens? NOTHING. Women are very much like a grinding wheel that way. Not really a value add, unless YOU make the effort.

And like a grinding wheel… it’s as if they are generally designed to RESPOND.

I never made any overt promise or declaration to “swear off women”. I just had better s~~~ to do. Applied the pressure and pursuit elsewhere,. Recently, I was out with a few family members and one of them asked if there was anyone special. I didn’t give her any MGTOW explanation at all. I just said…. “when I dream…. I dream of 5 sports cars. Not 5 girlfriends.” One of them laughed – hard – and knew exactly what I meant.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

The Autoblow aid gave me 10x the sexual release as any women ever as…. twas easy!!!!

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Aposematic wrote:

The Autoblow aid gave me 10x the sexual release as any women ever as…. twas easy!!!!

I was once given a fleshlight as a promotional thing – from a sales manager of a website related to Playboy. I was a developer on a dating website at the time. He walked into my office and said “The ass , pussy or mouth? Pick one. It’s Christmas.”

So I picked the pussy.
And it sat in the back corner of my place for over a year.
I completely forgot about it.

Then one day, I found it. And I thought… “what the hell”. So I tried it out.
Suddenly found myself counting the time and money I wasted on “dating”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

KM, the Autoblow + takes it to the next level: use my Galt money to buy one!

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Aposematic wrote:

The Autoblow aid gave me 10x the sexual release as any women ever as

Years ago, I came to the conclusion that as long as a man is pleasuring himself, HIS fantasies will ALWAYS go the way HE wants them to. You don’t hear many men saying that about their girlfriends or wives.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Sorry to go off topic.
Hi Crazyoldcringo. I was wondering if you could please message me (when messaging is up and running). I would please be interested in your services or referral in the future.
With thanks
Christopher

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

I had the impression you already were MONK…

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Awakened wrote:

Monk is not for everyone.
Anyways, if the Monk thing doesn’t work for you, and you find yourself craving sex it doesn’t mean that you have to start dating etc.
For a reasonable amount of CASH, professional services can be had in MANY areas globally unless of course your out in the sticks somewhere.
Pay a few bucks, take care of business, and part ways. Get it out of your system, and off your mind, and get on with life.
Being Monk, would be better/safer/cheaper/easier as you can just skip all this entirely, but only YOU can see if YOU can make it work in YOUR LIFE.

oh, and what he said too !

AWAKENED, you sure we weren’t bro’s in another lifetime??

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

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